I had PTSD even before Abdul raped me for 22 hours a day while everyone round me found it amusing. I wish you'd come back.

It seems like the less ambition a guy at a younger age has, the more younger women like him. Young women seem to like dumb and fun guys rather than guys with a good head on their shoulders with morals and ambition, guys who end up starting huge companies and changing the world or becoming doctors or scientists. Instead they like guys who end up being gas station clerks or mcdonalds fry cooks the most They would rather date a guy who plays video games all the time and smokes weed in his free time than a guy who runs his own company and is computer programming the next facebook in his free time

Ok so both of them in different occasions this last week came up to me talking about how they have doubts about their marriage,the part that was quite amazing is that both unclearly indicated they like me,as if I am the reason of the doubt,I am rarely if ever shocked but this was quite shocking,I told them to speak to each other and knowing them they probably won't,is there anything I should be doing,I am not sure what to do she is wonderful and so is he and I have known them since childhood and wish them both nothing but the bestest.

I am a huge PC gamer. My wife doesn't play any games just spends a lot of time on facebook. I really want her to get to know me better, since we live in 2 different countries. I want to buy her laptop. You think she'll agree? She's not really that type of girl, but you think she will like to play PUBG?

I'm a 30 year old male and decided to never marry and I'm happy. Think this is a good thing?

Let's say your wife, husband or girlfriend or boyfriend .. can you change them for your mom if they wanted you too change them ?

He dumped me. Been saying for a while he doesn't want to talk, but that's not the reason y he dumped me. I was messaging him and he said if I didn't stop he'd block me. I didn't stop and he blocked me. Hours later, he unblocked me and texts me "are you done?" Why unblock? I asked him and he didn't answer

My brother asked "are you the maximum? And Veronica is ugly" he's only 12. Did he really believe that I was very beautiful since he said that

Long story short. My husband and I separated when I was just a few weeks pregnant. He s in the Army... I went home for the holidays and was supposed to come back to where he was stationed but he decided to tell me that he wanted a divorce instead. The reason that I went home was because he beat me and I wasn t coming back until he got help. He told me that he couldn t file for divorce until after I had the baby and I don t have the money to file. During the duration of the pregnancy he kept telling me that he didn t want a divorce... he even said that after I had our daughter a few months ago but just recently I found out that he has had several mistresses and there is even one living with him in the house that both of our names are on. I even have pictures and videos of them in the bed that I picked out and all over the house that I decorated. It makes me sick to my stomach and now I ve gone into a terrible case of depression while I was already being diagnosed with postpartum depression. When I found out his words were "So, I only got you pregnant." You can only imagine the damage that this has done to me. I tried to see if we can go the cheaper route and file for divorce online but he won t sign the papers. Him and his mistress are threatening full custody of my daughter. I m not an unfit mother and I ve gotten all of her milk and necessities for 9 months up to present time all by myself. He hasn t done a damn thing. What can I do?

We were together 5 years engaged for 3 things went downhill from so much arguing and we split up we have a child together who is 3 how do I get her back? I haven't reacted negative knowing she has a bf should I just move on ?

well i don't know what to say,... well to keep it plain and simple iv'e been noticing her acting strangely the past some months and didn't want to believe any suspicion until i finally noticed an email that the bastards been using to communicate with her, i don't know how this a hole looks but is there a way or website i can use to find social his act-ivy associated with his email (such as Facebook, Instagram, twitter ect?) im gonna give them a surprise of a life time.

My MIL has done disturbing things over the years and this is just something I cannot get past. It's straining my marriage for obvious reasons & I'm curious at what other women would do. It was my sons nap time. After argueing with my MIL about whether it was time for his nap or not i took my son to my room. Shut the door behind me and placed him in his crib while i showered. I kept watching the door but didn't lock it since it's common sense to stay out right? I finished my shower. Feeling relieved that I was just paranoid I went to check on my son. HE WAS GONE. I immediately went to the front room where of course she had him. I asked "why did you take him I told you it was time for his nap?" She replied "oh I thought I heard him choking and I didn't want him to die of sids" She does manipulative crap like this all the time but here's the thing. WHEN did she do it? I was watching the door the whole time pretty much. Then I remembered. When rinsing my hair I put my head under the water of the shower head. That was the ONLY time I looked away. Now I ask you how could she of known when the coast was clear and I was looking away 2go & grab my baby if she hadn't been watching me shower?? Another instance she came into our bedroom while my husband and I were not clothed just waking up & took him also?? As a wife how would you react towards your husband since he is the key to truly stopping this? My husband just looks shocked & says he's embarrassed and doesn't know what to say

My wife has cheated on me 4 times in the last year. First with my friend of 8 years, then with a neighbor, then with her coworker, and lastly with one of my family members. I'm a doctor, I work a lot and I will attempt that I don't make enough time for her but I try my best. I even took 2 weeks off in December so I could take her and my boys to Europe. Then last week she told me she slept with a family member of mine and that was the last straw. I told her to pack her things and leave and when she refused, I did it for her. I was so upset I didn't know what to do. We've been together for almost 9 years and have twin boys together age 15. They weren't aware of what my wife has been doing until last week. My wife has been calling for days trying to get me to take her back. I don't want to but I still love her but not as much to take her back. How do I handle this?

The LV shooters gf said she hadn't a clue. I believe her, but I do know that many couples don't really have real conversations with their partners. Going out to dinner and sitting quietly next to a person is not a conversation. Talking about trivial entertainment gossip isn't one either. So do you share YOU verbally with your partner and do they to you?

In casual convos he mentions how this girl at work or from his old school was really hot. O how certain celebrities are hot. Heck he even met up with a girl from school and he told me before the lunch how she was the hottest woman in the grade and still looks good etc. I saw a photo and confirmed to him that yeah shes pretty sexy. Lmao. I'm sorry what the flip is wrong with me.

How do you divorce someone who refuses to get a divorce? My husband and I have been together for 5 years, however, it's just gone. We barely talk, sex is non existent. He controls all of our money, including mine. Simply, I have no feelings for him anymore. We got married rather hastily, and since then, I regret it. He's became more controlling, stopped being the guy I married.... so. How do I divorce someone who refuses to get a divorce, because he doesn't believe in it?

When we first met, we talked about our dreams to invest in real estate and my dream to start a business of my own (with him if he wants). I hated the run down house he lived in and wanted a nicer house. He didn't like the new house but ought it anyway. I have also started my own candle business and we own a few rental properties. It is my dream not to work for someone else. He lost his job in 2008 and has not looked for a new one, working odd jobs here and there, blaming me for all our financial problems, saying we could have stayed at the old house and had a simple life and called me a princess for wanted him to do repairs on new properties and for me wanting to open a store to sell candles (a store he "volunteered" to paint - blaming me for his "extra" work"). He doesn't think any of our problems are because "he doesn't want to get a new job". He had a job when we bought the house and all, then, after he lost the job, he decided he didn't have to work because I am the one that wanted all this not him, so, the bills are all mine. Basically, I thought we would both work and invest in real estate, get to a point where if we both saved, neither of us would work and we could retire early. Now, we are in debt $40k on credit cards because he refuses to work. He decided to up and quit his job, not work and mooch off of me then blame me for everything, saying I cause him more work and we could have had the simple life and him not working has nothing to do with our problems? He says he shouldn't have to at for a house he doesn't like nor ever wanted. He is also holding me back from getting the store going, because of all our debt, I cant invest in the store and he says "I told you not to do it" like it's my fault? He thinks he is pulling his weight by doing a the few needed repairs, mowing the lawn and painting the store? Basically, seems like he wants no responsibility or maybe he truly feels overwhelmed? I am asking...what exactly do I do? leave him? Do you think he is "using" me or truly feels overwhelmed?

1.What if you and your husband are messing around with yalls buddy's and gets one of them pregnant. (When you and your husband have kids together) 2.if you and your husband have kids but he's never home because he's get some from his buddy. 3.yea sure have the Wild colleges (before your married and still in college ) 4.me personal I don't like to share my men or anything that's mine. What's y'all take/ understanding on being a married swinger?

I have PTSD from past abuse and unfaithfulness at the hands of my current husband which was a boyfriend at that time. Now years later, we agreed to try to move on and have just married. I still find myself struggling with the ptsd and with feeling like i am alone. i told my husband today that i do not feel as though i have ANY emotional support from anyone. He insists that he has been doing his best. I tell him how is he doing his best when i try to talk about my feelings he changes the subject. He says its because it will end in an argument but still says he is on my side. Today i needed proof as to how he could believe he is on my side and i am not alone. The picture is what he responded with. Is him being faithful showing that i have no reason to feel alone or as if he "has my back"? this is the link with the text : https://ibb.co/eQkStw the abuse came from HIM. not a past boyfriend. But he has changed

I dont want her back i just want her to regret it Is it just moving on with your life and basically acting like she doesn't effect me? Not giving her any attention? we also have a child together.

My husband found out I was sending naked Snapchat pictures to other guys even though I locked my phone and he flew into a rage and now he wants to trade my smartphone for a boring flip phone so I won't do this to him but I would rather keep my smartphone instead. He is very conservative and dresses modestly and wouldn't do the same thing I'm doing because he is obsessively in love with me though this is an arranged marriage as to why I have been doing this. It's restrictive and isolating so I decided to rebel though it caused him even more anger.

ive been married for 8yrs to my husband I have 2kids from my previous relationship. our marriage isnt legal we just had a small cermony at our chruch we never turned our marriage license in to the courts due to money issues. that was 7yrs ago I`m the caretaker of the whole family my husband dont want to help with anything around the house I cook, clean, pay the bills, etc.. all he does is play the game watch football & have family & friends over all day long. I`m very overwhelmed with the amount of dusties and responsibilties I have to take on alone. I have talked to him he still does nothing he feels like the days I dont feel like cooking he buys fast food that is him doing his part I think he`s a sorry excuse for a husband. the only income he gets is ssi which goes to his mom who is his payee she takes a portion of the money then gives the rest to him. when she works and has a husband. I`m ready to leave him for good. he dont want to communicate, compromise, or support me emotionally. I can talk to him about something he dont give me feed back or comfort me he is so mean should I leave

She found pictures of other women. He has been getting pictures of other women and his wife found them. I'm assuming it was a freak out, spur of the moment kind of fight but apparently she might be taking the kids away from him. I really want to talk to him and I have. But what can I do and say to him to be productive and actually try to help him?

So if you saw my previous question yesterday I was struggling with what to do. I have had some insight. 1) The other man and I realized it was an emotional affair more than physical, as I called him and cut all ties forever and he was completely kind and patient and ended on good terms. 2) I am now going to therapy and seeking spiritual guidance through the church to cleanse my soul since I fully regret my actions. 3) I called my fiance crying asking for forgiveness telling him I cheated, emotionally I wanted the other man, and physically. My fiance immediately only comforted me and said we can come back from anything and that he does not have to know anything. Only that I regret it and that it meant nothing to me. SO now I am feeling more at peace. But also I am a very moralistic person and still feel guilty about sleeping with the other man. Though my fiance said he cares more about the emotional side and he knows this, and that I directly said "I cheated" and he still did not want to know anything I did not want to share. At this point I think the best thing is to not tell. I know I am never going to do this again, I know I am going to devote my life to making our marriage be amazing, and I know that if I ever needed to tell him, I would and everything would be ok. But for now, I think I do not need to tell, only find a way to recover from my guilt. What do you guys think?

We are expecting a child and he wants to teach our child his dialect but doesnt want me to learn it. Ive tried googling info on his language and there isnt much info on it. It isnt spoken by many and he told me he didnt want me to learn it. Why wouldnt he want me to learn it and how can i learn it anyway. I dont want to be sitting around his family all the time and not knowing wjat they are saying when he is speaking his dialect

We work together and she decided to add a bunch of our co-workers. They are just friends at work we never hang out with these people, but when she makes her snapchat stories of our house and our child and just us it's available for everyone to see. I asked her not to add these people because I don't want them invited into our life. I don't care for my co-workers to have a glimpse into my house and pictures of my 7 month old. She said they are her friends and she can do what she wants. I deleted these people off her phone and i'm assuming she added them back because she put a password on her phone now. I just think it's weird that we are inviting co-workers into our life.

We have two kids together under 5. My kids have met this girl and my oldest son says "daddy's friend is really nice." We have been married for about 6 years. He is 38 and I'm 34. My oldest son said daddy kept asking the girl if she wants to have a baby. I think I saw text messages from him to her. He calls this woman "my baby." The woman told my husband that she isn't ready to have any children. I did a social media search and she's childless and like 6 years younger than me. I would go far to say I'm better looking than her. He has asked the girl in a text message how many kids does she want to have and what kind of names she likes. The woman text back that she isn't ready to have kids and asked him why does he have baby fever? We already have children. I figure she's his mistress. My husband asked to separate plus he moved out. I saw my husband's browser history and he was searching up baby names. He even searched up what it's like to have a daughter. I thought we'd be together for ever. I really want to beat this woman up. She knows he has a wife and kids. Why would he want his mistress to have his first daughter? He told me he didn't want anymore kids!!