Friends: Question: Friend and I planned a road trip to New Orleans sometime next year to visit a new group of friends we made. He is now going without me.? |
- Question: Friend and I planned a road trip to New Orleans sometime next year to visit a new group of friends we made. He is now going without me.?
- Question: I lost my only 'friends'?
- Question: Why did I collapse?
- Question: Nothing to do in life?
- Question: Friend problem?
- Question: My "BFF" is mad at me because i never play with her at recess? (Don't judge me please i really need help)?
- Question: Ate too little and feel crappy. Help?
- Question: How do i tell my best friends that I cut the word die into my skin?
- Question: How do I make friends with someone?
- Question: Is it common for people to hang out after school? I hang out with friends on the weekend sometimes but I ve never got invited after school?
- Question: Am I wrong for cancelling plans?
- Question: Did I give good advice to my ex mother in law? Your opinion please.?
- Question: How to become someone's best friend?
- Question: Do you know of women who get a job for the sole purpose of attracting a working man, then they quit their job during the relationship?
- Question: Moving out without my friend?
- Question: My kids refuse to join the army. Aren't they in the wrong?
- Question: What should I do for my sweet 16?
- Question: I'm bad at making friends?
- Question: How to stop feeling this way?
- Question: Was he wrong?
- Question: Make similar friends in a small school?
- Question: I like my old best friends new best friend?
- Question: If you could dedicate a part of your life to someone who made a difference, would you?
- Question: Would you get mad if your friend doesnt text you back?
- Question: How to have friends like in pretty little liars??
- Question: How to deal with the pain of an ended friendship?
- Question: How to confront someone who used to bully you?
- Question: My friend (let's call her sally for privacy and so nobody gets confused) and I are in a bad flight?
- Question: Is it normal that I want to bully someone at school because Im so bored and dont know what to do with my life?
- Question: Littlkids get kicked?
- Question: I send anon messages to my ex best friend and i called her fugly because she is a very mean person and a b*itch....did i do right?
- Question: Will he come back to talking to me?
- Question: 2 years back when I was in 9th grade I was happy, do u think there's a possibility I will be happy again ?
- Question: Former best friend is suicidal again - can I help?
- Question: Why can't i get mutual friends, i have 1243 friends many are family friends with the same last name?
- Question: Anyone want to chat in kik? I need a friend or 10?
- Question: The people at my gym fight for king of the cage and the okay ones make 10,000 and my friend johnny makes 20,000?
- Question: Perdonar o dejar ir a una amiga que te traiciono?
- Question: How can bare losing best friends ? how can I stay strong after all that ?
- Question: What am I doing to myself? (Regarding education results)?
- Question: Does it matter how much you spend on friend s gift?
- Question: Is it selfish to feel this way?
- Question: Why do i suck at socializing?
- Question: Friend's upskirt?
- Question: My best friend is being bullied?
- Question: I met a guy I really liked, but he was using drugs?
- Question: Plz help. I regret moving out of my moms house. Its too late now.?
- Question: Why do people make me feel like trash?
- Question: Will I ever get into a party and make friends?
- Question: What to do If your best friend lies to you?
- Question: How to move on from someone you still care about?
- Question: Why does everyone abandon me?
- Question: I have a friend who told me just look after yourself and don't worry about other people.?
- Question: Black people! White people! Would you be friends with yellow people? Or are you racist to Yellow Asians?
- Question: Roomate gets mad at me for turning the AC up by a few degrees. Freezing but I get under blankets?
- Question: Today is my birthday and i just went out with my friend and when i came back they got all defensive and mad and now im sad,what should i do?
- Question: Stuck by myself in college. Help?
- Question: Can I go the police with this?
- Question: Please ...is this hot? please answer?
- Question: Boyfriend put his raw penis in me for one second do I need a plan b pill?
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Question: I lost my only 'friends'? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 05:30 PM PDT So heres some background information, I'm 14 and when i was younger i lived in a dif neighborhood and i was really popular, i had good (real) friends who i could talk to about personal issues and who i could confide in. then i moved to this rich neighborhood and this rich school and made a group of friends. they were mean, unwelcoming, and toxic ppl. always commented on my weight (even though I'm underweight) and bullied me so bad i went a week without eating and got really sick. but since they were my only 'friends' i didn't know what to do. anyway, i called them out and had a big fight, turned out they were talking about me behind my back and they were all talking about how they shouldn't associate with me. i saw how detrimental they were to me and cut them off, but now i have 0 friends, no one to sit w at lunch, no one. what do i do??? |
Posted: 01 Oct 2017 05:29 PM PDT Ok so I was at the fair and I was getting on a ride for the second time with my friend when I felt like I was dying from how hot it was. My friend thought I was joking until I collapsed. Someone tried to wake me up and I eventually did. So my question is, why did I faint? Was it a heat stroke? |
Question: Nothing to do in life? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 05:19 PM PDT hmm i want to learn languages go swimming watch netflix and movies, go to museum, music festivals but what do i do after that... :( i have no friends (how do i find friends outside of school lol) and what do i do with friends im sad |
Posted: 01 Oct 2017 05:00 PM PDT One of my best friends is talking to another one of my friends. They made an agreement not to do anything with other people. Last night we went out to a club and she made out with another guy. I feel bad for my guy friend and I want to tell him but I don't want to hurt my best friend. What should I do? |
Posted: 01 Oct 2017 04:41 PM PDT So i have this friend and we used to play with each other every day (Even though i don't want to) But not we're in 6th grade and i have started playing with my other friend (Every day) and i actually want to but now my other friend is jealous because i never play with her..shes always like "So are you gonna play with me or your new best friend" NEW? We have been best friends! but this other one is blind and she keeps annoying me with these stupid questions even though she knows I'm playing with my other friend..also if i didn't play with my other friend then technically i would play with the other one every day?? Can someone help? idk what to say to the other one..i keep trying to talk to her and stuff but its hard and she keeps asking me that stupid stuff everyday and i can't go to a teacher about it..what can i do to get her off my back and just hang out with my other friend..? :P Now* |
Question: Ate too little and feel crappy. Help? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 04:41 PM PDT I went to an event at a vineyard today, but stayed a lot longer than I originally anticipated and ate way too little. I have work tomorrow that I can't miss. What can I do to feel better and to not have a hangover tomorrow? I go to bed in three-ish hours. |
Question: How do i tell my best friends that I cut the word die into my skin? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 04:32 PM PDT |
Question: How do I make friends with someone? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 04:06 PM PDT I m a senior in high school and I have Social Anxiety Disorder (SA). I want to make friends with a girl at my high school named Erin. We don t have any classes right now but we follow each other on Instagram and she seems like a nice person. I was going to join this organization at school where we help the special needs children bowl, a club that Erin is involved in as well. I m hoping that being involved in the club will be a great way to get to know Erin and hopefully become great friends. I need some ideas on how to approach her and get a conversation started. What are some great ways to do this that are not awkward or will make me look like a loser? Please I would really appreciate your help. I would really like to make some friends my senior year of high school, but because of my SA, I have a hard time talking to people and starting conversations and because of this have very few friends. The only luck I ve had so far with making friends is making friends with a couple of kids who are bad influences who like to smoke and do drugs, which I do not want to get involved with. I m hoping Erin and I can become friends because she seems decent and someone who would not be bad influence. |
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Question: Am I wrong for cancelling plans? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 03:18 PM PDT this week has been pretty busy for me, i'm on break from school this week but i had volleyball from 2-8 Monday tuesday and thursday, i went to a friends house and the fair on wednesday and didn't home til late, on friday i went to work and afterwards drove an hour out to go shopping at my sisters house and slept over there, on saturday i went hiking for most the day in the mountains and went to a birthday party in the evening, and today sunday is my dads birthday, now it's early evening and the party is mostly over and my good friend that i haven't seen in a while asked if i wanted to go to the fair tonight with her because we've been trying to go together all week but due to conflicting schedules it never worked out and tonight i'm free and she's free so it would be perfect and i could totally go, but i just don't want to really. like i want to go with her and hang out and the fair is really fun and i haven't seen her in a long time and i miss her so i feel bad for canceling but i just want to stay at home and relax and watch tv but i don't know why. yeah i had a busy week but shouldn't i rather party at the fair with a good friend than sit at home and watch netflix? should i have cancelled our plans to do nothing? |
Question: Did I give good advice to my ex mother in law? Your opinion please.? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 02:57 PM PDT My ex mother in law who I really liked when I was married to her daughter Ann sent me a text message asking if I could meet her for lunch. I said sure and we had lunch. At lunch she told me her other daughter Lisa's husband had ask to borrow money from her 4 times and each time she had lent him some money. He had never paid her back any of the money she had loaned him. He has now ask her for a 5th loan. She asked what I thought she should do. I told her this is a very hard situation. She should probably consider the first 4 loans a gift as there is a very low probability she will get repaid for these loans. I told her I think she should tell Lisa's husband that you will consider a new loan when he pays back the previous loans. I warned her she should expect a bad reaction from Lisa's husband and possibly from Lisa. I hope I gave her good advice. Do you think I did? |
Question: How to become someone's best friend? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 02:52 PM PDT i recent;y met 2 people through a friend. we hung out for a bit and the 2 people said they really liked me. i got introduced to them and we have been texting for a few days and i really want to be their close friend/best friend. how do i do this? we have the exact same sense of humour and get along REALLY well and i see a chance of us becoming a group |
Posted: 01 Oct 2017 02:35 PM PDT Forcing the man to take care of her after he gets so emotionally attached that he doesnt see what she is doing because he is now "in love" with said woman. Does this happen? |
Question: Moving out without my friend? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 02:16 PM PDT Me and two other friends have been renting an apartment together for about a year now. I'd like to move into a house next year and so would one of my friends. We've been looking at houses, and our other friend found out that we're still planning on living together, and now she wants to move in with us too. We love her so much, but we can NOT stand living with her. She's just not a good roommate. There have been so many times where I've just wanted to beat the crap out of her this past year because she's just been annoying me so much. I've discussed this with my friend, and neither of us wants to live with her anymore. What would you do if you were put in this situation? |
Question: My kids refuse to join the army. Aren't they in the wrong? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 02:04 PM PDT They both are against joining the army(neither want to fight, and they both said they don't want ptsd from it). I have had them both home schooled for 8 years, when they are done with home school next year I plan on kicking them out. I already feel very creepy being seen with them based on how old they are, I don't care at this point if they get hurt on the streets. I am not a "troll"(someone called me this) I am just a fed up father. I got angry that both my kids refused to walk 15 miles(5 hours twice a day) to go to town to look for work and to work 8 hours at a job. Since they refused that I ripped up the birth certificates and ssn's. Since, I do not plan on letting them go to college(my income determines that until they are 25 and I do not want to support their careers). And since I do not want to get them driving lessons, or teach them so they can find work and drive to it, the army is basically their only choice and they refuse to go. What do you think? |
Question: What should I do for my sweet 16? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 01:29 PM PDT It's in April but I don't know why I've been thinking so much about it lately. I haven't had a birthday party since I was 7, but I really wanna have one. Not anything big, just invite 8 friends or so out to dinner or something. The thing is, lots of my friends bother me if I only invited people I liked, only like 3 people would be there. Also a lot of my friends are mixed clique, like some are popular some are cringy. I'm friends with popular people because I can be outgoing, but I'm mainly quiet and awkward and that's where the cringes come in. I don't wanna be judged but I can't just not invite some of my friends? I'd love to have a huge sweet 16 and invite everyone, but I mean I couldn't even get invited to one where someone invited my whole grade, so idk how well that would work out. |
Question: I'm bad at making friends? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 01:09 PM PDT I'm really anti-social. I don't know how I did it, but last year I ended up making about 5 friends. I have a feeling my three "good friends" won't last so long. Two of them were new to the school last year and they have friends from their old schools. I'm pretty sure they would rather hang out with them than me any day. I look super quiet, but I'm actualy loud with my friends. I don't know how to interact with anyone I don't know. I've only had a "best friend" one time in my entire life and she ended up ditching me (she lives in a different county so I can't even contact her). I feel really stupid. My friend told me that if she could, she would move back to her old school. She said that we won't even remember each other after high school which is probably true, but she said that I don't really matter to her. I mean that kinda hurt. I feel stupid, because one of the new kids made more friends in 2 months than I could in the entire 2 years I've been at my middle school. I've given up on making friends. I stay quiet and class and don't speak up very often. I feel like I don't even matter to my friends actually. I think it might be true. They have other close friends and I'm not so important to them. I'm not looking to make friends. I just feel used. The two kids were looking for some friends so they wouldn't look like loners. I'm pretty sure I'm not being used, but that's how I feel sometimes. Idk, well that's my rant I guess. Sorry if I sound annoying, but I can't help it. |
Question: How to stop feeling this way? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 12:39 PM PDT I'm a 22 year old guy and I work for a really big company. There are a lot of workers, and I haven't a lot of friends and people who talk to me. But other workers look intimidating and it makes me feel weirs, how do I STOP feeling this way????? I have anxiety |
Posted: 01 Oct 2017 12:29 PM PDT So yesterday me and some girls from my cheer squad went to go see It. So it was like 20 of us. So of course if you go in as a big crowd you'll be talking. So this man yelled be quiet. I really didn't find that rude because we were talking as we walked in so we were being rude. Than after that everyone wasn't talking anymore. Than we all sat down. The man told one of the girls not sit by his wife when she was just trying to sit by One her friends. So we was watching the movies and it was scary so people was screaming. We was screaming so was a lot of other people. He told us to stop screaming but his wife was screaming too. Than my coach told them to sit by her. She told the man how is he telling them to be quiet but his wife is screaming. Tell me if he was right or wrong. I know that we were wrong for walking in talking but everything else I don't know. |
Question: Make similar friends in a small school? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 11:45 AM PDT My cousin goes to a larger school and I know and have hung out with his friends, who are fun to be with and are really similar to me and my cousin. How do I find friends like that in my smaller school where I know everyone there? |
Question: I like my old best friends new best friend? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 11:25 AM PDT My old best friend recently got a new job and she made friends with her coworker. I got jealous so I would answer her phone when she messaged her and said go away. It's been almost a year and I'm starting to like her friend but I've never talked to her and she thinks I hate her. What should I do ? |
Question: If you could dedicate a part of your life to someone who made a difference, would you? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 11:16 AM PDT If dedicating a part of your life (in a way that shows appreciation) to someone meant someone made a difference in your life... would you or would you claim to have done it all by yourself? Dedicating this question to someone who makes me realize what a friend truly is... and hoping to be that same kind of friend in return. A friend doesn't ask or expect something in return, only wishes the best for you. :) (I'm learning) |
Question: Would you get mad if your friend doesnt text you back? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 11:11 AM PDT |
Question: How to have friends like in pretty little liars?? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 11:04 AM PDT I really like the show pretty little liars and how close the friends are. One of my friends is going to be like A and text things to me and two friends as a joke . Idk. |
Question: How to deal with the pain of an ended friendship? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 10:49 AM PDT There is no way we could be friends again so that is not an option. I am not looking to make different friends right now because I just lost my friend who I was very close to. Does anyone have any advice they can share to me about dealing with this pain? Thank you. |
Question: How to confront someone who used to bully you? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 10:27 AM PDT I have class with this girl who used to push me and my friend into walls and stuff and she is totally sucking up to me now, cause she know that i remember what she did and now that i'm "popular" she is intimidated by me. But i really just want to call her out for the **** she put me through in middle school infront of the entire class cause i never got revenge and haven't spoken to her since the last time she bullied me. what should i say that will completely humiliate her, i know that confidence is key. |
Posted: 01 Oct 2017 09:35 AM PDT Ok so the reason this happened is because one of her other friends was talking about my other friend. confronted this friend and so Sally got mad because I confronted her friend for sticking up for my friend. So do I have to apologize for what I did because I don't regret or feel sorry for what I did because I dont think what I did was wrong. So how do I makeup with her?? |
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Question: Littlkids get kicked? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 08:22 AM PDT |
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Question: Will he come back to talking to me? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 08:07 AM PDT Will he come back to talking to me? Said he likes me a lot still. But says he "doesn't want to talk right now". I messaged him today to ask him if he liked the racy pic I sent. He prob did, but said "can we stop talking for now?" Before all that, he messaged me lots and called twice to apologize for being mean when I texted him |
Posted: 01 Oct 2017 07:34 AM PDT 2 years ago I was 15 in 9th grade, I had the best friend ever and we used to joke and stuff, I had a crush on a girl and she was the first girl who was actually interested in me, we used to stare at each other all the time, I used to go to bed every night thinking about her with a smile. 1 year ago when I was 16 in 10th, it was the time when things started to get ****** up. My crush lost interest in me and became lil mean, many new bullies came to school which made me take mma classes in the summer and studying was so hard but at least I had my best friend with me. Now i'm 17 in 11th grade,half of bullies in school left, my crush have forgot my existence, my best friend is now hanging with other people and I have took mma classes for 3 months and it's the 3rd week in school and I already had 2 fights which actually made few bullies leave me alone but now everytime I go to school I have lot of anger in me and waiting till someone tries to bully me so I can beat him up. Do u think is there a possibility I'll be enjoying my days again ? |
Question: Former best friend is suicidal again - can I help? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 06:35 AM PDT I used to be best friends with a girl I go to school with. A few months ago, we started fighting a lot and we broke apart. I know she has mental health problems, but she has gotten better within the last year. At least that s what I thought - she never really talked to me about it. Once, she thought I told a teacher about my concern because he had spoken in private with her, but that was because she skips class frequently and might fail. After that, she was extremely angry and called me a traitor, without even letting me explain that I had nothing to do with it. I lately found her old tumblr, which she hasn t used in a while, and she is posting again - and now she s uploaded a picture of cuts on her thigh, one of them so deep I m sure that stitches would be needed. She also expressed suicidal thoughts more than once. I still care about her, but I know I can t really talk to her about it and I m really worried! Do you have any idea what I could do? |
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Question: Anyone want to chat in kik? I need a friend or 10? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 02:01 AM PDT |
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Question: Perdonar o dejar ir a una amiga que te traiciono? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 01:43 AM PDT Ayer ocurrio un problema con mi mejor amiga...Lo que pasa es que yo y otras dos amigas mas (que ellas son mis mejores amigas) hicimos una pijamada,invitamos a mi amiga a la pijamada pero su mama no la dejo ir.Despues,mi amiga se enojo conmigo y con las demas porque subí un snap donde estabamos jugando un juego de mesa..Entonces ella sube una foto a Facebook donde dice que ahora dos niñas mas eran sus mejores amigas..Después yo le dije que porque nos había cambiado y ella solo me puso jaja y a mi amiga le mando una foto donde tenía todos sus apodos de cualquier niña como "mi baby" "mi mejor amiga" "mi niña hermosa" "mi bff" y asi,y pues a mi otra amiga le puso que porque nos había cambiado y ella le dijo que porque nosotras no le hacíamos caso y en realidad siempre estamos allí para ella,siempre les damos consejos pero ella solamente los ignora,siempre convensemos a su mama que la deje salir,y la verdad es que ella dice que nosotras siempre le damos la contraria..Porfavor ayudenme,yo y mis otras amigas no sabemoa que hacer con ella..No sabemos si dejarla ir con sus otras amigas o darle una segunda oportunidad |
Question: How can bare losing best friends ? how can I stay strong after all that ? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 12:55 AM PDT it just hurt so much and I even have suicide thought. I couldn't bare losing 1 or 2 and losing all 6 of them is a living hell. my mom(who've done a lot to raise me up since my dad died when I was young),my sister(who has been my best friend for 10 years now, she stood by me and supported my through out the depression I had.Once in my life she was everything to me.She was my mom my best friend and almost a soul mate.),my 4 bestfriends (1 girl and 3 boys). the girl got busy in her life and she doesn't have time to talk to me anymore as much as we used to do and I am totally convinced that it's no one's fault,we're still kind of close but our relationship is fading away. the 3 guy friends, one of them got into drugs and eventually he started ruining his life. I did my best to help him , to support him and to listen to him but it was useless. I did that for about 3 years but he did not appreciate it. so I stopped and let him be. now we're almost not friends anymore. my other friend just turned on me ,since his mother died 2 years ago , he has changed a lot, he has pushed me away and started ignoring me, at first I thought it was a phase but now I am totally convinced that it is not, he started a different life. my third and last best friend, I am still in touch with him right now, but I feel like our friendship is already ruined... because I fell in love with him. I was too afraid to tell him(he gave sings that he is anti-gay people). and I highly think that he is straight. my sister has just changed suddenly and turned from nice and supportive to arrogant , agressive and mean.it's probably due to the treatment that she started to take 2 years ago (she went to a psychiatrist). I had a huge argument with my mom, because she made me feel worthless. my heart was filled with hatred and anger. I know she's my mom. but I couldn't resist it. she hurt me so much. I am sorry it's long.I had to put this out of my chest. thank for reading it. p.s: I am a 20 year-old gay guy. |
Question: What am I doing to myself? (Regarding education results)? Posted: 01 Oct 2017 12:47 AM PDT So, I recently I have been speaking to a friend and have been told that I tend to get annoyed and stressed when my other friends gets lower results(even though just a point or 2) than me. And now I question myself too. So, I must say that I am not a stupid person but I am not a genius either, I am just a normal student that strives good results but it doesn't feel right to do it alone if I have friends who is by my side. Here is a history of me, I was a loner or I can't make friends whatever you call it. In whole schooling and college life. My results went from average to basically ****. And I don't know why. I never do. I try my best and I know stuff but then the results just shows otherwise. And this has been for years. I am I wondering if I am doing that so that I can have friends? It's easier to ask for help if you are dumb than if you know a bit of stuff right? I am coping quite well in university now and I was wondering if have sort of forced myself to not know stuff because of that and since I have finally made some friends, I am trying to be my normal self again and be better but at the same time bring them along to success. However, I am afraid that me pushing them to join me will make them annoyed more and someday leave because I seem to smart for them. Like I said, I am not a genius but then I am not stupid either. Does anyone even know what I am trying to say here? |
Question: Does it matter how much you spend on friend s gift? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 11:37 PM PDT For a late birthday gift I plan on buying them a game that they wanted. They don t know I m getting them a gift first of all and we ve been friends for two years. I m kind of the person that doesn t like to spend much but this friend means a lot to me. Should I get the standard game being only like 50 dollars or the the deluxe one being around 70 dollars? Would it matter, I don t want them to think I was cheap if I went for the 50 dollars one? |
Question: Is it selfish to feel this way? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 11:10 PM PDT I have a friend who does not like to make her own decisions. Whatever I do she just follows along. She has a fear of presenting in front of the class. So do I but as a biology major we have had to present at least 3 times in every class so I am used to it by now, but my friend is still very afraid and talks really really fast through her presentation (to the point where no one knows what shes saying). She also never looks up and reads off her notecards every single time. Because we are friends she automatically assumes that every time we are assigned a presentation she assumes that we are doing it together, but because she rushes through the presentation and never makes eye contact I always lose so many points. We have one coming up and to be honest I don't really want to be in the same group this time, but shes my friend and I feel like its messed up to just leave her. I've already tried talking to her about it and telling her to talk slower but she just brushes it off. Also in one of our classes we are assigned a question from the book to answer as a group and she NEVER answers when we are called on. I am tired of doing all the work. She also works 5 days a week and I dont work at the moment so I try to help her out with school work as much as i can, but i feel that it has kind of gotten out of hand. For example, we have an exam this week and we were given a study guide. She asked me to send her mine when im done because she doesnt have time to do her own. I agreed but then she told me shes going to horror nights on thursday, the day before the exam..I feel annoyed that shes asking me for my work when shes going out and having fun. Whats even more annoying is that if she ends up failing the exam she complains nonstop...obviously if she went out the night before an exam shes not going to do very well and I have to sit there and listen to her...am i a bad friend for thinking this way? |
Question: Why do i suck at socializing? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 11:05 PM PDT I have social anxiety and a couple of other mental health issues and I can never hold a conversation. The only friends I talk to is my cousin and stepbrother, mainly only my cousin. I can never say anything . When we hang out with his girlfriend, it feels weird and I can't conversaré because I'm not sure what to say. I don't really know much about sports or clothing fashion etc since I've always been inside my house playing videogames since I was a kid. I'm 20 now |
Posted: 30 Sep 2017 10:44 PM PDT My best friend is a girl n I've seen her upskirt many times before. I hvnt told her I hv cuz it's thrilling |
Question: My best friend is being bullied? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 10:29 PM PDT Okay so my best friend (we're both 14) has tourettes syndrome and gets bullied a lot for it. She's currently performing in a musical, and some of the girls who are in it with her bully her backstage. My friend has been through a lot of bullying before and so have I. I know that it affects her so much. I don't know the girls, and my friend can't cancel on the musical, how can I help her? I know I am seeing her tomorrow and I wanted to make a git basket or something just to help her get through it. What sort of things can I say or do to help her feel better? |
Question: I met a guy I really liked, but he was using drugs? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 10:11 PM PDT I'm 23. I go to one of the best schools in the country. I am really ambitious, but I'm not always the most responsible. I met a guy who worked with one of my friends. It was a turn-on we had a mutual friend, and that he had a job. We ended up staying together for 3 days straight. We were drinking a lot, and he did cocaine a few times. I've met successful people who do it, so I couldn't judge at the time. However, on Sunday he was panicking about missing work. I felt bad being there, and he spent the WHOLE day freaking out about it. Doing cocaine and drinking obviously contribute to that. My friend that works with him gets angry at ME for being with him. Long story short, after him being so upset, I find out the next weekend he did it AGAIN and missed work with a dead phone. That is crazy. I was so angry at him and my friend, too because I took it really seriously. I was very harsh with him, and I think I had every right to be. He claims to have "anxiety," but he made the choice to drink and do drugs. EVERYONE has problems and still does what they're supposed to. I cannot handle people like this. This is a big NO for me and shows he has some serious issues. I texted him a million times angry and blocked him. Then, his friend texts me to stop texting his friend and that it's sad I'm trying to "burn bridges with people that are amazing" I think there are plenty of "amazing" people out there that don't do that stuff!! Also, my friend was horrible to me and chose these great "coworkers" instead of her friend, so I decided they can say goodbye to me with that kind of sh*tty behavior. I am actually in such a good place He does have a job, and there is a good chance he will straighten out, but it's still a HUGE red flag he was capable of doing that two weekends in a row. I would not be able to hang out with him if he was doing cocaine. I'm not perfect, but I don't do that kind of stuff to people. I think it's SO wrong to tell me how amazing they are, and I have every right to set a boundary for that Where is the person in his life telling him that isn't normal, except me, the random girl he has a fling with? The other thing that angered me is that I have literally never done that before, and they act like it's my fault and casual The other thing that angered me is that his friend said that everyone has their "faults." And I told him that is absolutely not a fault or a minor mess-up It is true, I don't think he is probably a bad person, but I think he has too many issue than what I could handle or think are OK. if he liked me then he would be putting his best foot forward It's a big NO for me. His friends have even done cocaine with him, so I don't care about their opinions |
Question: Plz help. I regret moving out of my moms house. Its too late now.? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 10:07 PM PDT I had to out of desperation. It was a very abusive situation. My gf really gets on my nerves sometimes. We live together. She just talks so much random **** it brongs me down amd she gets really negative about things. I dont drink as much and am seeing my sotuation clearly. Do I just need more patience? I almost feel desperare to get out. I just blew a chance to ho house sit because I hate my mom. Im so confused. |
Question: Why do people make me feel like trash? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 09:35 PM PDT Is it the way i look? Is it the way i act when I m around them? I have friends that sometimes are nice but then sometimes they treat me like trash. I feel so hopeless, I just feel like my life is coming to and end. Idk what to do anymore :( why do they do this to me.. they call me names like "b***h" or "small d**k" etc. |
Question: Will I ever get into a party and make friends? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 09:26 PM PDT In am a transfer and feel the same as my last school. I guess I have done better in meeting people. I have some people I haven numbers with to hang at times. I have a dude I play ball with at times and went to hang at one persons house once. I have gone out once but it wasn't a party just some guys drinking. I don't know if things are getting better but I feel depressed still. I mean college is just hard not just academically, but this social BS and my mind has it rough. It is why I wonder why college is worth it to me by my parents wouldn't listen to me when I considered CC. |
Question: What to do If your best friend lies to you? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 09:23 PM PDT I love her. And I know she has a lot of issues internally that she has to work out, but Im mainly friends with her because I see the potential in her, and I love the person she is when shes not worried about everything. When we became friends she stopped hanging out with the toxic group she used to hangout with. Oftenly she tells me " I dont like any of them". So whenever I see them I just ignore them, even though I dont know them- because she doesnt like them. Well now shes talking to all of them again. And they think I hate them. I only disliked them because she said she didnt like them and now she wants to be friends with them again? Also I'm always catching her lying about things to me... shell tell me something, and when I ask the person about it they'll say "that never happened shes such a liar".Im actually a really happy person, and am trying to be helpful to everyone, but I feel like drama is always following her around now. I dont want to lose her but there's been many more times where shes lied to me, she has little respect for boys- and will have relations with like 5 at a time. She'll alter situations when other people are around to make it seem better- whilst making me look like a bad person. Shell put me in the middle of her lies sometimes too. She often leaves/ walks away from me when she sees someone she knows. I mean I really do love her, and her family has been really loving to me, but, could we possibly have grown apart? |
Question: How to move on from someone you still care about? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 09:04 PM PDT There is a man who I was close friends with last school year. I had considered us close friends and we got along really well and had a lot of fun together. He is extremely caring, charismatic, and easy to talk to for me. However, although I tried to continue talking to/hanging out with him after school ended he would always be nice and reply but he never initiated conversation and he ignored my message when I asked him to hang out. The school year has started and he still does not talk to me, I would initiate conversation but I honestly think that he is over our friendship and me as a person and instead of hurting I would just like to move on too. Even knowing this, it's difficult because I still care so deeply for him and just want to see him again. What should I do? |
Question: Why does everyone abandon me? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 08:59 PM PDT When ever I make a new friend they all ways end up saying they don't want to be friends with me anymore because I embarrass them. I cant help that I'm different from everyone else. And the only friends I have are people that just fell bad for me. It ******* hurts. |
Question: I have a friend who told me just look after yourself and don't worry about other people.? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 08:35 PM PDT Why did my friend tell me this? |
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Posted: 30 Sep 2017 08:02 PM PDT Okay I know it is much easier to get warm then to get cool. Me and my bf are fine around 70-71 degrees usually but our roomate always turns it down to 68 in the night and it makes me so cold. I do wear long pants, socks, a jacket, and get under a blanket. I usually have to sleep under a sleeping bag and a comforter to feel okay most of the nights. The roomate also has a fan in his room. Last night I turned it from 68 to 70 and he gets mad and tells me to get under a blanket and I explain to him 'look I dress warmly and I get under blankets...any way we can raise it just a few numbers? He doesn't listen...me and my bf are cold especially me so idk what to do at this point. |
Posted: 30 Sep 2017 07:45 PM PDT my family got defensive * |
Question: Stuck by myself in college. Help? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 07:42 PM PDT Hi, thanks for taking the time to read one of these silly 'my whole life has gone to shambles' kind of questions. I really appreciate your kindness and attention. Long story short, I'm now a college sophomore and I feel as if I am losing a sense of self. I find myself locking myself in my room, refusing to socialize. I don't even speak to my friends at home either, so I'm stuck in no-man's land. I have been alone for weeks now, and when I went home to see family, I had absolute 0 interest in engaging with any of them. Went the whole summer without seeing any of my old friends. I was on SSRIs, but I'm off them now, they didn't really do much. Frankly, the term 'college dropout' has a new meaning to me. What if dropping out has nothing to do with academics, but all to do with socialization? |
Question: Can I go the police with this? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 07:27 PM PDT my sister got into an argument with one of her friends a few days ago. Today she received several very long texts from a number that she doesn't know, mostly calling her childish, selfish and telling her that she can't treat her friend that way (The fight actually started because my sister was being verbally attacked and manipulated by her friend, and she had had enough). They told my sister that if she doesn't apologize to her friend she will 'have to deal with me'. I got the number and texted them that they shouldn't threaten my sister anymore. They responded with 'or what?' and when i told them they were pathetic for doing this all anonymously they told me 'its best if you don't know me so that if i do have to step up you won't know me'. They also said that they were doing all of this because they love her (my sisters friend) and won't let anyone treat her badly. I don't know this person, I don't know if they plan on doing something, I don't even know how they got my sister's phone number (I assume it was the friend, but when I confronted her about it she denied involvement). It's very creepy. Can I take this to the police, or will they think that I am over reacting? The girl my sister is fighting with is from a family with a history of violence, and her last boyfriend was a pedophile and attempted rapist. I don't know who else she might be involved with. serious answers, please. I don't need to be mocked for this, I'm actually freaked out |
Question: Please ...is this hot? please answer? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 07:08 PM PDT how would u rate the attractiveness of his face from 1-10? and how would u rate the attractiveness of his body from 1-10? please give an honest answer. Will choose a best answer..tks also please guess his age? |
Question: Boyfriend put his raw penis in me for one second do I need a plan b pill? Posted: 30 Sep 2017 06:56 PM PDT i dont want to get pregnant just wanted him to feel how it felt raw for one second cause he kept bitching about it then i put on the condom and we contuined to have sex with a condom i wiped off his dick before putting it in me so there was no pre *** unless it happened within one second of me putting it in im 5 days away from my period so i know im not fertile right now in my cycle do i still need to take a plan b pill just in case? im not on birth control btw |
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