Family: Question: Did i make a mistake, should i feel guilty?

Question: Did i make a mistake, should i feel guilty?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 02:24 PM PDT

Last night a very close family member died. I have been in my room all day, crying and laying on my bed depressed. My girlfriend came over and she has been comforting me. We ended up making love. Shoul i feel guilty about doing that since a close family member just died?

Question: I don't think I've ever lived in peace i don't even know what peace feels like!?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 02:08 PM PDT

I lived in a family with just my mom and sister. Im the only male. First of just let me start by saying Im the one that they treat like a peasant not saying they make do chores or anything But thet treat me like Im the lowest type of life form on Earth. When i was 16 i had kidney stones. And i wont Never forget what my mom told me. "Why should my daughters be waiting for me to pay their phone bill Just cause you got Kidney stones" not to metion that My dad at that time paid for the doctor's Bill. by the way my dad and mom have been separated simce i was a baby. But ever Since Then i began to developed a Feeling of extreme Hate towards her My mom. Tp this day im still treated Like this. Its been Over 5 years! And i still get the same low amount of respect from all of them. Every morning i wake up Feeling hatred Not for God or any body But for them. Every day i wake up feeling Upset like a ******* disappointment amd i ******* hate this Dont even Know what to ******* do. And i am sick of this **** i need help Some To talk to about my problems but i have NO BODY! No one! I feel liike ****!

Question: I HATE MY MOTHER WITH A PASSION ! AND SHE'S SO STUBBORN !?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 02:07 PM PDT

once my mom makes up her mind she sticks with it and wont change it at all . I Cannot stand her she makes me hate my life im only 15 and i hate this house so much ! she makes me wanna commit Suicide. IN NO WAY AM I SPOILED OR UNGRATEFUL !

Question: Hearing thuds and yelling downstairs?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 01:58 PM PDT

Ok Sony father was abusive. I had it literally 1000x better that my sisters though. They were hit daily. Me? Whenever I needed to have a time out. That sure made me be a good three year old! Anyways, when I was 5 1/2, he died. I cried that day. A lot. So did my sisters. I m not so sure why. But we did. I had dreams of him coming back to life. I can still picture his face. The face of Brian Paul Nelson. My mom dated a man named Tim, years later. I guess you could say he was worse than my dad. I don t want to relive that. I m leaving it at that. Skip forward years later, to me sitting in my bed watching good mythical morning on YouTube. I am 11, in sixth grade. It is April 6th, 2016. The day after my best friends birthday. It is 9 am. I go down to eat some breakfast. I hear soft, harmless, fighting. I go back upstairs and let it be. A little later, around noon, I hear TONS of crashing and thuds. Too much yelling, too. It reminds me of the fights my mom and dad used to have. I m assuming it is my mom and her bf, Clyde. It stops. My sisters are both at college. I phone them. No answer. It s too quiet now. I don t want this to happen again. Please help! And don t say I m too young to be on yahoo answers bc this is serious and you know it.

Question: How to be spiteful to my sister in law?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 01:55 PM PDT

we have an odd situation...my mother in law has my 2 step kids & my sis in laws 4 kids. me & my sis in law have always been very competitive..& I have always surpassed her. well this year out of no where she get all 6 kids my mother in law has easter baskets leaving my 2 bio kids (still her nephews) out. she has never ever got my step kids anything for any event weather holiday or birthday, heck shes never even gotten her own kids anything for any event...shes always been to worried about herself...

Question: Can I get my parents arrested for shaving my mustache while I was sleeping?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 01:52 PM PDT

So I started to get hair above my lip like a month ago. I mean I had some there for like a year or two , but it was barely noticeable. But recently it got thick enough to notice. And I just let it stay there cuz I was gonna see how much it would grow. But my dad kept nagging me saying please let him show me how to shave it off. He said it looked gross and like butt fluff. My mom said it looks bad cuz I have dark hair and pale skin and I need to shave it. Well I didn't. Today I took a nap on the couch. Then later I looked in the mirror when I was washing my hands and the mustach is gone. One of them has removed it. This is assault and also what kind of parents would do that? They are both gonna wake up with no eyebrows tomorrow I swear Well if they didn't shave it then how is if gone??? It's not there And I don't even get their problem, cuz my dad let's his hair grow to a homeless man beard sometimes and he looks gross.

Question: My dad wants me to pay for a ton of stuff? What to do?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 01:49 PM PDT

He wants me to pay for anything that isnt a necessity. Im 14 years old btw. Ex. he made me pay all 200 for my bike, he makes me pay any time i want food that isnt at the house, track/basketball shoes, aau ball, earbuds, bike tires. I just dont understand why, as a family we make 180k a year, we have a nice house and cars. We arent struggling. So when i have to pay for everything when i dont have a job its bad because i cant save up for a car (which he wont pitch in for either) dont know what to tell him or do. help?

Question: How to be spiteful to my sister in law?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 01:48 PM PDT

Question: Is it wrong / weird that I don't ever want to have kids ?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 01:41 PM PDT

Okay, so, I want to be in the Army or be a Navy Seal and of course, I wouldn't be able to do that if I got pregnant, but I never want to have kids. As in not 10 years, 30 years, or 50 years. Is this wrong / weird ? My mind may change in a few years but as of right now, I don't want any but I'm already starting to change my mind a little. Is this wrong or weird ?

Question: Parents really mad and I understand why but I need help, so screwed!!!?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 01:30 PM PDT

I went out to town last week and I was an hour late back because I got on the wrong bus, it was accidental and my parents believed and forgave me, a few dAys later I went out and was 2 hours late back because I had no idea what the time was (phone confiscated) then today I went out and didn't make it clear where I was going, my parents thought I was going to go to the corner shop but I went to town and was gone for two hours, it was all genuinely accidental, how do I stop them being mad??? By the way the last occasion it was nine o'clock at night and I'm only fourteen

Question: Is it normal to go through this phase?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 01:24 PM PDT

I am 14 and live with my mother. Our rooms are separated by a closet. The other night I realized that there is a crack in the wood and I can peek into her room. Since then, I can't help but watch into her room every night after we say good night. Mom usually changes into her pajamas after coming from work. However, when she goes into her room to sleep, I noticed the first thing she does is lock the door and take off her pajamas. Then, she does things like brushing her teeth, putting on moisturizer, reading or watching TV with no clothes on, and then she goes to bed. In the morning she comes out of the room back with her pajamas. I enjoy watching her, and I worry if this is something other boys go through. In addition, I started doing the same, sleeping without clothes, and I like it. I would like to keep doing it but I worry that she may realize that I can see in her room...what do I do???

Question: How do I deal with spoiled step siblings?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 01:10 PM PDT

My dad is Dating this girl (So not exactly step) but we live with them... ANYWAYS Her kids get whatever they ask for, her boy (7) has gotten 3 tablets in the last 2 months because he broke 2 of them... At her son s bday her older daughter (Bell Lets call her(10)) complained because he got a gift from the gift store, SO MUCH that the mother bought Bell a new one.... I have tried to talk to my dad and he gets mad at me, also I have called all of the kids disrespectful after completely disobeying their mother and my father... and I got in trouble... What do I do? Also the daughter Bell eats, almost all the food in the house, she eats a whole popcorn and a bowl of cereal for a snack and makes 12 pizza rolls for dinner almost all the time and gets upset when called fat by her grandma, also she eats pizza for snacks.... MY OLDER (Biological) SISTERS PIZZA that SHE bought. The thing is, her mom tells her that she can without bringing my sister into it.

Question: How do I help my younger brother?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 12:54 PM PDT

I am a twenty-two year old male. I have a father and younger brother (16), that recently I came to visit for three weeks and there is a problem going on with my brother that my father is passing off as being a stage he will eventually get over and I do not think that is the case.Before I left, my brother was diagnosed with Schizophrenia, Depression, and mild OCD, but seeing him this past week makes me believe that he is getting worse to the point he might be a danger to himself if not watched. He had a schizophrenic episode two days ago, in which he talked in explicit detail, about breaking open his chest with a hammer and ripping out his heart because a man he sees told him to do so. Last night he started violently hitting himself on his legs and arms which has resulted in the beginning of bruising. He is home schooled because of his occasional violent outbursts or screaming and crying fits. He has no friends, never leaves the house, and tends to talk to himself or his voices quite often. He rocks back and forth most times, will start crying if you try to touch him, and has an extreme habit of pulling out plugs from walls and organizing objects in an odd fashion. About an hour ago he has another episode of something and started telling me that he wanted to die because he was trapped and lost.It hurts me to see him in this way because no more than a few years back he was a happy and healthy.How can I help him when my father won't? He needs help. It hurts to see him like this.

Question: Why do I say inappropriate things? Please help?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 12:51 PM PDT

My dad accused me of bringing up kids' names and saying pregnant like and blah blah blah, and I wasn't bringing up kids' names and saying pregnant like and blah blah blah like they do on the TV show ICarly because I don't watch ICarly, and I was talking about my teeth surgery I had last summer, not bringing up kids' names and saying pregnant like and blah blah blah. I was bringing up kids' names and saying pregnant like because Britney Spears made me do it. I don't like her for music anymore because I like LeAnn Rimes now. I feel like the only ways that can help me stop bringing up kids' names and saying pregnant like are to have my parents send me off to boarding school in Ohio or Australia (which is what I don't want to do because I would miss my family if I had went to boarding school in Ohio or Australia to help me stop bringing up kids' names and saying pregnant like), giving away my Baby One More Time CD away to a garage sale at my church this summer (which is what I want to do because I don't like Britney Spears for music anymore because I like LeAnn Rimes now), or take golf at my school to make up for it (which is what I don't want to do either because it would take a long time for my parents to come pick me up if I had taken golf at my school to make up for bringing up kids' names and saying pregnant like. Why do I say inappropriate things? Please help? Thanks.

Question: How do I talk to my boyfriend about this?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 12:33 PM PDT

Hello, My name Sage and I am a 23 year old male.I currently live with my boyfriend of five years in his flat, in Bristol.A few years back, when I was 19 I was sexually assaulted against my will by a man on the streets that I did not even know for being a homosexual and trust my luck, I ended up being HIV positive.It's been a very emotional thing for me and something that's really been weighing heavy on my shoulders for years now. I never told anyone what happened;My boyfriend doesn't know,I just let the guy go and never called for help. I never went to a therapist or someone who could help me let go of what happened and when I went to the doctor for testing, I just said I had been stupid and had one night stands with a man that didn't use protection. My boyfriend and I had sex once when I was eighteen and that was it.Recently he's been asking why I've been pushing him away when it comes to being intimate and why I've been more secluded to his touches and I think it's time he knows what happened, because it isn't fair to him that I am being this way. I just feel dirty and disgusting.Like no matter how much I try to pull myself back up and wash myself clean that guy has damaged me completely. He gave me a disease, tore me apart mentally, and made me afraid to even be touched and I know it isn't fair to my boyfriend because he is such a sweetheart and deserves the world. I thought about leaving him and just saying I wasn't faithful, but that would hurt him. So How do I tell him?

Question: Is it just me, or is my father being a bit narcissistic?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 12:26 PM PDT

Two days ago i went to the hospital for pain in my stomach, it turned out to be appendicitis, but i was told that we had caught it so early they just wanted to flush me with antibiotics and see if that worked. I called my entire family, including my dad (who lives in NC) and then proceeded to sleep for a while. I was woken up to nurses telling me they were taking me to pre-op. I freaked out (my twin sister almost died when she had this) the doctor came in, apologised that it was a surprise, but assured me that the antibiotics werent going to work. At this point they were pretty much gonna wheel me in to surgery. I had enough time to tell my mom, who i just happened to be on the phone with, to tell everyone the news, then they locked my stuff away and knocked me out. Surgery goes great, but i wake up to some angry texts from my father telling me i must not have thought he was important enough to tell, how he was there for me on the phone while my family just dumped at the hospital and that i only care about him because of insurance. (the policy is under his name, but i always take care of my co pays and stuff) He is blaming me personally and i guess thinks we were laughing about him not being there, which is completly untrue, i just dont know, am i the one to blame, or is he turning this whole thing around to be about himself? Tl;dr i went under a sudden surgery, i told my mom to tell everyone, though she didnt tell my dad, hes now blaming me and telling me i dont love him.

Question: HELP!!??!?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 12:19 PM PDT

I was jerkin' and I stroked my cock and it accidentally got black and stuff. I cummed all over my dad

Question: Why can't my school compromise just a bit?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 12:08 PM PDT

I'm a freshman in high school in Texas. I'm like NEVER in trouble at school at all (I'm actually an honors student) but today I let my friends peer pressure me into joining them in bullying a girl in the locker room during PE class, and we totally got caught. I felt bad about it as soon as I did it and I HAVE apologized. The saddest, worst part is that this is a girl that I usually go out of my way to be nice to because of how others treat her. I know it was horribly wrong and I make no excuses for my behavior I also realize I DESERVE to be in trouble. But the school isn't cutting me ANY slack even though I have a great track record. I got sent home with a form informing my mom what I did (totally fair) and that I will be getting swats tomorrow. I just think this is a gross overreaction. I've never even had detention but once! I haven't given my mom the letter yet, though I know I need to when she gets off work today. I just don't know why I can't get a little slack? I deserve to be in trouble but swats just seem soooo extreme, and I'm a total wimp about pain. Any other penalty would be fair and deserved, but they won't compromise at all! Ask me---it's legal and common here in Texas (and 17 other states---I just googled it) Anonymous---my mom did sign the form at the beginning of the year. I just didn't worry about it because I'm NEVER in trouble

Question: My mother in law is jealous of the attention her son gives me?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 11:54 AM PDT

I think my mother in law hates me because my husband and I are really close. Him and his mom aren't close and never have been and I think she's now blaming it on me. When we were kids she was never there for him, always busy with work but all of a sudden she can't stand that he pays attention to me more than to her. My husband has talked to her about it and she acted like she didn't know anything was wrong. I've tried to talk to her about it too but the same thing happened. I treat her with respect and wish she would do the same instead of trying to break up me and my husband. Any advice?

Question: Wasn't I justified in insulting my families clothes? None of them are speaking to me now?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 11:02 AM PDT

I went out with my mom and 2 brothers. One of the brothers pointed at some random woman & laughed that she was wearing knee high boots with a skirt. My mom and the other brother, joined in, laughing and calling this woman names (not to her face obviously.) I thought it was so childish and showed how vain and vapid my 2 brothers are. Like why would you even notice what this woman is wearing? So I pointed out to my mom that her floral rain coat looked like she was wandering around outside in a bath robe. To my brothers I said they shouldnt comment on other people because they just follow stupid fashion like huaraches, bomber jackets, skinny jeans and long hair on top, faded to short on the sides. All the boys their age just look like clones of each other. Woah they all exploded. They insulted me back but I just lol'd because I dress okay but it's not a hugely important thing to me. Now none of them are talking to me. Didn't they deserve it?

Question: My mom won't let me go to six flags?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 10:55 AM PDT

It's my 15th birthday. It would be me, my two friends and my sister who are 13, 14, and 16. We are all girls. My dad would drop us off and pick us up. I called my mom asking if this is okay and she just yelled at me... She wants my dad to go with us but he can't. So now I can't do anything for my birthday that I want. I'm really frustrated, she keeps saying "just go shopping" but I hate shopping and it gives me a headache. She keeps wanting me to do things SHE wants to do. Is she being unreasonable? What am I supposed to do now? My birthday is pretty much ruined. It's today.

Question: Yes, my husband?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 10:47 AM PDT

Question: Im 15 turning 16 in july and want to live with my father in MD. my mom is verbally abusive and lives in CO. do you think i d be able to?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 10:21 AM PDT

also, i have a 4 year old brother. my father isnt my biological father but has been in my life since i was two but has never adopted me. Im severely depressed in CO because i just moved from MD this past december. My mom isn't emotionally supportive at all and im having suicidal thoughts because of the things she says to me. if my dad adopted me and took my mom to court for letting me live with him, do you think the judge would favor my dad??

Question: I accidentally masturbated to my sister? Am I a sick person? Am I going to Hell?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 10:17 AM PDT

My sisters room has been getting some renovations, so she has been sleeping in my room on a mattress on the ground. I just finished my basketball practice after school and she finished her track practice. Our practices usually end around the same time, so we rode the bus together & walked home. We got home and I decided to take a nap. Then she was like,"Good idea, Im tired too." Then she took off her shirt and shoes and socks. I was like 0_0, but then she was like,"Oh, you dont mind do you? Its just really hot, the Spring season is starting." I was like,"Oh, Its not a big deal, I didnt even notice." She just had a sports bra on & short shorts. Shes really matured a lot over the years. I dont know why, but I couldnt stop starring at her, especially after she closed her eyes & fell asleep. I wasnt thinking at the time, but I started masturbating while starring at her and I eventually even came in my boxers. But directly after I regretted it and felt super guilty. Okay, I know I need to get a GF, but I just dont talk to girls often cuz Im more focused on my school grades and basketball. & Im a shy person, so I tend to avoid girls. But ever since the incident, I cant even look at my sister anymore and cant talk to her. She even asked sadly,"Why dont you ever talk to me anymore or want to hang out? Did I do something bad? :(" I just say,"Oh no, of course not, I didn't even notice I was doing that." I obviously cant tell her the truth cuz it would freak her out! What do I do? BTW, I am 15 and she is 14, if you are wondering the ages.

Question: Can I sue someone for mental anguish and defamation separately?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 10:03 AM PDT

My then 25-year-old brother has decided to exclude me from ever attending a program that he was brought to with teen siblings when parents took them there and has subsequently defamed me with lies that he does such as assaulting parents and siblings and being in trouble for doing them, having an unhealthy obsession with the sister, wanting to have sex with the mother and being unemployed. He did this to have me excluded for simply missing out due to me being employed and attending to my job. His action is one of the main causes why I had self-defamed myself as a paedophile after bottling in all the frustration and letting it rise to the point of self-defamation (self-destruction) I didn't do any of those lies. I'm not a paedophile and I have never done any of those lies. I didn't do anything to a child. He ha me permanently excluded from attending programs that inform of the latest hairstyles, dace moves and being informed of a forum that discusses the latest trends and events.

Question: Am I worried for nothing about my mom?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 09:23 AM PDT

I am divorced but my ex husband Bob and I are still friends. He was very good friends with my single mom when we were married. Any time mom needs something fixed on her house or car she calls Bob and he fixes it and does not charge her anything. She just adores him and with good reason because he helps her so much. I have moved out of town for a new job. Moms house was going to have to be tented because of termites. She did not want to pay a hotel bill for 2 nights so she asked Bob if she could stay at his house for 2 nights. When she told me what she planned to do, you know what was going through my mind. That would be just too kinky. I expressed my concern to Mom and she said "I trust Bob completely. Nothing is going to happen that I don't want to happen". That is not the answer I wanted to hear. What if she and Bob had sex, she wouldn't, she couldn't, would she? She is 44 years old and Bob is 22. I also trust Bob completely and know he would NEVER do anything with Mom she did not want him to do. My problem is I am not sure what she might want him to do. Am I worrying about nothing? If he wanted to do something with mom, he already has many opportunities and as far as I know, he did not do anything like what I am thinking.

Question: Help me do the right thing with my sister?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 09:05 AM PDT

I have a 14 year old sister Nancy that has been my best friend for my whole life. I really like her. I am a 19 year old guy. We are very close. I try to be very protective of her. She has developed into a beautiful girl. She recently ask me to tell her about boys and sex. I think it is VERY IMPORTANT that she know the facts especially about sex. I don't want her pregnant. I told her I would prefer she talk to our mom about this. She said it would be to embarrassing to talk to our mom and she wants me to educate her about these subjects. Should I tell our mom about here asking about this and ask her to talk to Nancy or should I tell Nancy the facts about her body and how to prevent pregnancy. Nancy trust me completely and feels she can talk to me about anything without embarrassment. Mom and teenage girls, PLEASE give me some advice her. I only what is best for Nancy

Question: Would you help jack?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 09:03 AM PDT

Jack could not get off his horse. Would you help jack 0ff his horse?

Question: Everytime my father comes to visit it's awful?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 08:01 AM PDT

My father is from Boston & has this strange attitude that Boston & the northeast is the best place ever. I moved down south to Alabama 7 years ago for college & now work here. Everytime my father comes to visit he is just nasty. He complains constantly about how slow everything is & how everyone is a redneck & just complains the entire time he's here. It really makes me miserable. He's always talking about why would I want to live down south etc. It just seems like everytime he comes to visit it's miserable. Any advice?

Question: Why do women become useless when they become old?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 07:47 AM PDT

Both my grandmothers decided they couldn't drive anymore when they turned 60, because they were scared of the highway. My one grandfather drove until hw was 92, the other until he died at 80. One of my grandmothers she couldn't go to the store anymore either because it was "full of blacks and Mexicans". Now my mom is 58 and has decided she can't drive at night or on the highway. She doesn't work. My dad still works fulltime or more at 62 operating a landscaping business. Why are old women so afraid? None of them worked, they all have grown up kids and mostly do nothing all day (my mom won't even vacuum anymore).

Question: Male domestic abuse.?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 07:40 AM PDT

I suffer abuse from my wife. Not physical but mental. She blackmails me, and controls me. If I disagree then she goes nuclear and also gets her family to gang up on me. She makes me eat the same meals for 3 or 4 months at a time and last week I was actually sick, and she blew up about not being grateful so I finished eating. I can't visit my family. She allows me to visit my Mother every Tuesday night and she goes with me and pretends everything's lovely (as do I) Some Tuesdays she holds me back by saying she's sick or she's just put the washing machine on. And we don't leave until around 9:30 instead of 7:30. Mim goes to bed at 10:30 so I see her for about 45 minutes!! Only guys in my position will fully understand and I expect to be abused by people who don't (get a backbone etc) I can't choose what to wear or eat or go. I must be in bed by 11:30 and when I'm not at work she gets me up at 7:00 and hands me my list of household chores. Any other guys in the same boat?

Question: Why is it that the youngest child is overprotected?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 07:17 AM PDT

I am a guy and I am the youngest child and I feel like I am overprotected in my family and I am an adult, I am 22 years old. Seriously all of my family drinks and yet when I want to no one will let me and not even my older brothers. If I want to date my girlfriend will be interrogated by everyone in my family.

Question: Pussy Pics Attached?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 07:11 AM PDT

I knew that would get your attention. So the other night i was watching television with my mother, and i asked if i could have a massage, and she said okay. She asked where on my body i was sore, and i said on my legs. She then proceeded to massage my legs, and got a little close to my dong. She said that the higher you go, the more it helps with the pain. About five minutes later, she then started kissing my neck. I resisted her attempts, and she forcfully pushed me onto the ground. I hit my head, and woke up unaware of my surroundings. I then realized i was being detained and struggled at an attempt to escape. My mom came out of the bathroom, and sat on my face. She later forced my penis into her vagina, and tried to get me hard. I dont know what acctions i should take to prevent this from happening again. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Question: How will I ever be allowed to leave the house when I m not allowed to?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 07:08 AM PDT

I m 19 and my mom won t let me drive to another state and she won t let me leave the house and I can t move out. How will I when I have to obey her rules?

Question: How do I regain my right to privacy?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 06:53 AM PDT

My teacher said that she would tell the counselor if I told her anything. He would tell my parents. My other counselor said that she would call my mother as soon as I visited her about me. I have a right to privacy and they all want to keep that right away from me. People have a right to privacy and I know when my parents need to be notified. I should be the one deciding when my parents will be notified. I don't like to tell my parents bad news,so I prefer to others in private Conversations,but they don't want me to have my right to privacy. I'm worried to talk to them because they will tell others about our discussions.

Question: Can a woman be or take the roll of a father?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 06:45 AM PDT

If so how and what makes you think it's possible If no why not and why don't you think it's possible

Question: Overly Sensitive Father, Help?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 06:09 AM PDT

Hello there, I am having a very difficult time dealing with my overly sensitive, overly attached father. His room is the living room, which everyone must walk by to get anything in the kitchen, and you must acknowledge that you see him every single time or you will hurt his feelings. He will be so distraught that you did not look at him the 13th or so time you walked by that he will sigh and sigh until you console him. I've tried telling him that I love him and if I could just get some space, and all he does is pout and not speak to you for weeks, and of course I don't want him to feel bad, so we must constantly talk to him throughout the day, as all he does is sit in that 1 spot by the hallway, trapping everyone into a constant conversation about the same things, or else. I am stressing out at work and constantly come home to my father who needs constant attention and it is extremely exhausting. I have been on a waiting list for my own place. What would you do? How would you handle this? Thanks.

Question: Did I make the right decision moving out?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 06:08 AM PDT

First, let me start this off by saying my parents and I have always had a rocky relationship. For example, on my 17th birthday my stepmom almost put my face through a mirror by grabbing me by my hair and shaking my head so close to it we knocked it off the wall. I turned 18 back in November and was originally suppose to move out then but my roommates fell through. My parents over the course of the last five months have been really controlling of my life, telling me who I can and can't talk to, ect. They tell me I'm a liar when I tell them things(for example, I went to florida for spring break and my phone got water damage and the screen was faded so I let it sit and dry out and called them from my boyfriend's phone) I got most of the water out but there is still physical things on the screen you can see. They said I was lying about my phone. I have a job, I go to school(I have a month left and plan on finishing). My boyfriend and I planned on moving into a place we just got approved to rent in two weeks anyways, but my parents have been getting worse and worse over the last few days. They told me I deserved the abuse my ex did to me(which was quite a lot) and other things along the lines that I'm a pos. So after I got out of work I packed up my things, gave them my key and left. Now I feel awful and I don't know why because my parents treat me so badly. Is this normal? Please give me some wise words of wisdom to help out here. Sorry it's so long

Question: How do I tell my mother in law to stop controlling my daughters life?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 06:06 AM PDT

I have a 1 year old baby with my boyfriend and his mom has made me mad from day 1 that my daughter was born. She takes control of every situation involving my daughter and acts like she s her mother most of the time. I can t feel like my own daughters mom when we are at their family functions because she just takes her from me. I always try to tell her nicely but she speaks spanish and just nods her head like she agrees and then continues what she is doing. Everything bothers me about her and I can t stand it anymore. For example, I can t even go to the living room without her coming in there and taking my daughter. I try to explain to my boyfriend and he doesn t say anything to his mom because he said it s my problem then I should tell her. I have tried multiple times and nothing has changed. I m about to explode and yell at her one day. I let my daughter crawl around with no socks on sometimes and she freaks out because she doesn t have socks. I m like she s fine and then she goes and grays socks. I m just tired of being stressed out and angry because of this. I didn t want to be the ***** in this situation but I think I might have to, to get my point across so she can finally listen.

Question: My mother hit me in the face....?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 06:00 AM PDT

I woke up early this morning for morning prayer....my mom went to bed late, like she does every single night, and was trying to sleep....i asked her if she could make my breakfast, and she refused, so we argued.....eventually, she slapped me in the face and started throwing stuff out of the fridge, and slamming the fridge door open and closed......then after more arguing, she left the house, saying she'll never come back.......what should i do?

Question: Why does my child freak out about being early to everything?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 05:19 AM PDT

Every morning before school is a battle. She will rush to get ready which is unnecessary because she has over an hour. She hurries, then comes into my room in a panic saying she will be late. I drive her to the bus stop which is across a very busy highway. There is no way she can walk. However, she comes in and I tell her every day she still has over 20 or 30 minutes. She comes back in nagging and even starts standing near the door yelling my name. This morning, I took her when she started nagging and explained to her that this is how early we are. She can tell time at age 11 and I said look at the clock. Then, we sat there and waited on the road in the car as I explained this is how much time you waste when you don't listen to mom. I asked her to please listen to me from now on when I say stop panicking. She still didn't see the problem and loves being early. I don't like rushing as she bosses me around to "hurry up" and it makes me anxious, help? She doesn't quite "get" that we won't be late. She missed the bus once and now panics. Showing her how early we were today was a good learning lesson since she sat there with heavy sighs because she was bored.

Question: Do your in-laws stay in your guest room over holidays?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 03:27 AM PDT

My wife's folks (mom/stepdad) or (dad/stepmom) routinely stay in our guest room...much to my dismay. They are staying for 4 nights this week for Thanksgiving, and it's driving me crazy. I can't stand to have people staying over if they aren't leaving in the morning....it's stressing me out to death...especially when I have to work this week. Am I completely overreacting? When we travel to her folk's house, we used to stay there at their home...but I can't anymore...they have a guest room with just a small double bed and I'm 6'4" and a cat and I'm allergic. I stay in a hotel room when I go up there now, or I just don't get any sleep. Do you think the in-laws think I'm a creep because I get a hotel room when I visit them (9 hour drive away)? I tallk to my married friends, and they never have their wife's parents stay over....of course most of them have parents that live closer. I don't even want to come home from work right now. Anyone else the same way, or am I a total freak? My home is supposed to be a sanctuary....now I just want to go on vacation by myself. We're having a son in January too...I just know they will stay for another 3-4 nights, and I will want to kill myself.

Question: Oldest daughter went to a party. Was the clothes she was wearing too skimpy?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 02:29 AM PDT

My oldest daughter want to a friends party over the weekend, but we didn't find out till after that she was wear very skimpy clothes. A very thin red dress, and crop top showing her stomach and black boots! Do you think this outfit was too revealing for my daughter? http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2ur1ieg&s=9#.VwTWBRMrIdU

Question: Is it my fault my dad sprained his ankle?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 02:01 AM PDT

My dad was taking my sister to work earlier. I had to grab my dog by the collar because he usually runs outside when the door opens. I grabbed his collar hard and I mean really hard. When they opened the door, he tried running out but as they reached the car, I started to lose my grip and he ran out. My dad then chased after him and when he grabbed the dog, he tripped over and sprained his ankle. He couldn't drive my sister anymore, so she took a taxi instead. I brought the dog back inside first then with the help of mum, we brought dad back inside. His sprained ankle isn't minor, it was really swollen and painful. When we brought him, he started blaming me for his sprained ankle. He said it's all my fault because if I gripped the dog's collar harder, he wouldn't have chased him and sprained his ankle. Is it my fault my dad sprained his ankle?

Question: 10 hour drive with marijuana?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 01:07 AM PDT

Okay I recently moved from Arizona back to California, but sometimes I visit Arizona to see friends. I have about half an ounce of pot inside a mason jar, I'm driving for ten hours, sober. I'll be staying at my grandpa's house and he smokes a lot of weed, but he's never told me not to smoke his stuff and he trusts me. I never touched his marijuana out of respect. I'm pretty sure he knows I smoke but we've never talked about it. Anyways I'm going on, sorry, do you know where I could put a small mason jar inside a car with a backseat and also where could I hide my pot at my grandpas. I have my own room there he doesn't go in there unless he's storing stuff in there (hardly with my grandpa nowadays, so that's why.) I have a futon bed there so I couldn't hide it under, a tv stand but I'm paranoid my dad would go through my bags. Also I have two nosy pit bulls who go through my bags when I visit, they couldn't smell that? Right? Thanks in advance!!

Question: Why am I always not good enough?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 01:05 AM PDT

I'm a twin, I'm always compared to her. All the guys ask her out, like her better than me, and she's also insta famous because she's a dancer. Everything is always about her and to make things worse we moved away from my big house for her dance career. This is coming out to be mostly about my sister, but this is where my part is. It's a cliche, because I'm the "fat" twin, the ugly twin, infamous twin, I'm just the worser twin in many ways. Honestly I've been keeping this in how I feel, and nothing I do is going to change it. She has a better body, because she dances, all the guys like her, everything I do to try to be good enough doesn't work. I'm always the least favorite I feel like. Sometimes, I think if I change myself people will like me better and I wonder why people always choose my sister over me. I know this is pathetic for me saying these things. I just don't know what to do, because I feel horrible about myself.

Question: Both mother?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 12:38 AM PDT

what is the genotype of the mother,the father and the son

Question: Why are there men who want to be parents?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 12:32 AM PDT

I can't think of many things more terrible than having a kid(s) and living the family life.

Question: Artificial insemination?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 12:30 AM PDT

I'm single and turning 28 this year. I've been having crazy baby fever. I've always wanted a baby but the right guy never came along. I think because i was so busy working and building my business. I want to have a baby in near future and was thinking about artificial insemination?? (Using a sperm donor). What do you guys think?!

Question: How do I confront my mother through a letter after all that has happened? (click link for story)?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 12:23 AM PDT

http://postimg.org/image/ivcva757p/ Thanks so much! Im 15 and a girl (just incase I cut off that part)

Question: How do I deal with a guy with a traumatic past?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 12:21 AM PDT

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months. I care about him so much and I'm always learning new horrible things about his past. It started off with his father, he was abusive and even tried killing him while he was in his mother by punching her stomach. His mother then divorced him and started struggling trying to live alone and then as a single mom. They sometimes wouldn't even be able to each that day. They moved from Virginia the same year I moved from Florida to the state we both live now. (We went to the same elementary school but I was gong through some stuff and didnt talk to anybody but he was very outgoing so we werent friends until i moved back in high school.) He then was raped by his cousins at age 6. I just recently found out about this and he had never told anybody in his life and it made me cry. His mother then remarried and they had a son. He got attached to this new father figure but sadly he cheated on his mom and they got divorced. (they still see eachother regularly and his mom and him are still friends so he is still in his life and he loves him like a father but has a hard time forgiving what he did to his mother) He then in middle school became very depressed. His past hurts him very bad still and because of that he has MAJOR trust issues and is always getting into arguments with the people closest to him. It also worries me bc he sometimes hurts his brother but every guy ive dated does this to their younger brother.

Question: I peed my pants?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 12:12 AM PDT

Okay this is gross but it's like 1am I tripped going into the bathroom and then went back to bed (corner) and I was laughing to hard and I have a weak bladder and I pissed my pants and the corner of my bed this is disgusting...What do I do? I don't want to make a lot of noise because I'm supposed to be asleep..I'm crying right now

Question: My mom always look at my penis and this is really bothering me?

Posted: 06 Apr 2016 12:02 AM PDT

my mom looks at my penis every fuc*ing time i pass around here i dont fuc*ing know why and this is really making me mad even though it's not erect at all and iam not even nude iam wearing everything what is fuc*ing wrong with this fuc*ing woman iam angery cuz she just did that now and i really feels disgusting why she fuc*ing do this is this normal ? or she is just another fuc*ing whore looking at anybody's dick even if it's her own fuc*ing child ? i'm 23 i didnt notice this before i dont remember such a thing but lately i really catch her motherfuc*ing eyes every fuc*ing time i wasnt living with my parents the past 5 years i always leave home for a while and get back i just came 6 months ago and i really want to fuc*ing leave i just gave her a disgusted look after i had eye contact with her when iam passing around just right after she checked it as always i think she should fuc*ing get it

Question: Why do people ignore me or cut me off!?

Posted: 05 Apr 2016 11:50 PM PDT

I can't stand it anymore! Every time, EVERY SINGLE TIME I try to speak, I get cut off, and most of the time I will continue my sentence, they will yell at me so harshly and cruelly to the point where I cry because they claim I interrupted THEM! No I didn't! I was the one that was interrupted, not them! THEY spoke over ME! They have the NERVE to say that it was the other way around! I am sick of it! And when I finally get the chance to speak, I will have completely forgotten what I was going to say! That makes me so frustrated, I could bite myself! They WANTED me to forget it just so they can talk all they want an I can't! It's ALL THEIR FAULT!!! I can't even calm down because I am at my wits end!

Question: I live with my dad and I m moving in with my mom I know he dsnt plan to give up custody 2 her even though I m no longer welcom what do I do?

Posted: 05 Apr 2016 11:42 PM PDT

Question: My younger brother is controlling me?

Posted: 05 Apr 2016 11:31 PM PDT

So, my brother has always (when he can) listened in on my conversations and is sometimes downstairs when I hang out with friends. I can't tell him to leave, because he wants to make sure I don't get into trouble. He thinks he is in charge of me and always does this to be on my parents side. To be their favorite, teachers pet type of thing. If I do anything "wrong", with friends he tells my parents. I'm almost 16, and he's 11. I've tried talking to them before, but my mom always encourages him to be a "spy". So I can stay out of trouble, my mom doesn't trust me. I haven't done anything bad, everyone makes mistakes. But I feel like he's controlling everything and I want it to stop. I want him to stop thinking he is in charge. To not be a tattletale and to keep out of my life. I already have parents to worry about that stuff. I don't get into his business. What do I do? Help.

Question: My sister eats everything?

Posted: 05 Apr 2016 11:29 PM PDT

ok just TODAY my parents bought food for school and what do you know i was there literly 2 hours after and she has 2 friends there 1 that uses her and one that thinks there "sisters" and they have a handful of stuff each WHILE drinking my parents coke oh and 4 hours after right now i hear a rapper of a chocolate musule bar being opened ITS ridiculous she ate a whole freakin bag of chips one after noon (the family size) and one weekend my parents got school stuff and it was gone by monday and she bitches for not having anything she drinks all the soft drink and blames it on me she crys because i accedently knocked her like i mean she screams i get in trouble. She gets away with it because she screams loud enough to make the neighbours her hear and they just want her to shut up, also lets say i want to watch a movie with my family because we have pop corn and i feel like it half the time the pop corns gone and she invites a friend over mum and dad said yes because they dont want the neighbours hearing her scream the only person that can deal with her is my nan even then shes rarely over. i complain to my parents that shes driving me insane they tell me in short to deal with it theres not a weekend that goes by where she doesn't have a friend over and every time she stuffs there faces with the only good things we have. and then she skips dinner because shes full and still get desert because guess what she will scream. i sit in my room across the house with my eye phones in and i know when she doesn't get her way. in short shes a complete ***** shes getting no where in life she has a hygiene of a 2 year old, please tell me ways to get my parents attention to this matter if not tell me ways i can think of it differently so i don't go out there and hit her one day i mean for **** sakes she 11 and acts 3.

Question: Why is everything in life so hard?

Posted: 05 Apr 2016 11:23 PM PDT

i have a problem i need help with. my dad walked out on my family 2 years ago and things have been really hard since, but i expected that... i'm just wondering is it ever going to get better? my dad left because my mom caught him cheating with his partner (He's an LAPD cop) they had a 2 month old baby together and my dad was hiding the affair for over a year. ABout a month ago my mom found out my dad had three more kids from different affairs and a marriage before her. I ask my mom if she is okay almost everyday and she replies yes she is now. she is a very strong women and i believe she is getting better. But im not. I have to deal with all this bullshit with my dad and on top of it my mom went through this stage where she drank a lot and didnt care and then she started to care again and now she just gets really angry with me... i dont know what i do most of the times but im like really over it. ANd i have a boyfriend, but he pretty much destroyed me at the begiinning of the relationship because he lied about his past and he lost my trust. Were better now but i still get really sad. I want my life to get better but i seriously dont know what to do since im not the one that ruined it in the first place. how?

Question: How to convince my father stop drinking?

Posted: 05 Apr 2016 11:21 PM PDT

Hello. I'm 15 year old girl and I live with my grandparents. My parents are divorced 5 years ago and my father has married to another woman and became a father again 4 years ago. The reason why my parents got divorced was because he was an alcoholic and he still is, it got worse since she left him. He doesn't have a job so he's always either at home or drinking...My grandmother (his mother), who grew me up and with whom I live now loves him like he's the centre of a universe. And she always pushes me to call him and ask how is his life going and stuff.. Grandma thinks that drinking much is an psychological illness and blames it on my mother. She left him and went abroad to finish studying after my birth. My grandma thinks that the only person who can save him is ME. She's always telling me to go to talk to him and even kiss him on the cheek, cry with him... I'm very quet person naturally. When I talk about something that makes me uncomfortable I immediatly cry and can't talk anymore. I love my grandparents and I desperately want to live them as long as possible. If he'll stop drinking they would be really happy and would have nothing to worry about again. He's a mommy boy so everything in his life is known to my grandma. Recently he keeps saying that he'll be dying soon. I just don't know what to do. I want my grandparents to be happy, my father to be healthy and start living a normal life. Please help me.

Question: Can you give me 5 reasons why your waifu/husbando is best?

Posted: 05 Apr 2016 11:03 PM PDT

I'll start us off. 5 reasons why DJ Khaled is best husbando: -He thinks you're smart -He thinks you're loyal -He appreciates you -He'll buy you a house -He'll buy your mama a house another one -He'll buy your whole family houses