It was a picture of a bride and groom downloaded on his IPad. It was from the Internet. :0 We're both twenty and we are currently working on earning our degrees in college. It seems odd he would download this kind of picture but I know marriage is something he plans to do. He told my mom and me that he is working hard in school to provide for a family in the future. He also said he was going to wait for me. He wants to make sure he has a career for him to be able to provide for me in the future...but it's still weird he would download something like this. Also, we are involved in a church that encourages couples to marry, and many marry really young. I don't agree with getting married before being educated. Do men look at pictures of married couples on their wedding day? Please no hate comments. I'm just surprised this would be in his gallery section.

I thought I could go up and grab the mic right before the first dance and propose. Good idea?

The girl is very religious and it's apparent in her behavior. She was engaged in the past about four years ago but she said nothing major happened between them even though I asked several times. She said Kissing and touching and she felt very guilty about it and cried a few times when describing it. But she never went into more details. I believed her. A week before marriage she brings up the topic of past judgments and she asks me not to judge her for her past but for her future actions. I was surprised she would say that, I could feel she was hiding something. I kept digging till she confessed that she went to third base with her ex-fiancé. She apologized for lying, she said she's glad she cleared her conscious but I was furious. Why would she hide it for this long??! Who could lie for this long about something so big?! Is it something that can be forgiven?

The wedding is early July, it is a traditional church ceremony followed by an evening reception at a stately home. I think it will be quite a posh affair as the bride is from a wealthy family from the middle east, and I don't know much about their customs so while I'd prefer to wear a shortish dress I don't want to offend anyone. What sort of dress would be suitable to wear for both the ceremony and reception? I know not to wear white, but other than that I don't have a clue! My budget would be up to £100. Any advice would be great! Thanks.

I am planning on getting married soon but my mother isn't going to be there so I wanted to sign papers at the courthouse and have the wedding at the church next year when my mother can afford to come. In that way we can save more and have a beautiful wedding; My fiance however has been discussing plans with his mother who doesnt agree and wants us to marry in the church with his family there. The problem is If we do that then my mother would not be able to attend and I would love for her to be there since no other family members would be present. I spoke to my fiance about it but he wants what his mom wants....am I wrong or being selfish?

Attended my cousin's wedding and a mutual cousin came in wearing a dirty tee shirt, old jeans and worn out tennis shoes. Now I am not the fashion police but there was something wrong if this guy could not even try to make a modicum of effort to look appropriate. Seemed disrespectful to the couple and a real insult. They spent a good deal of time, energy and money to make their wedding look beautiful and then this guest... Would they be in their rights to tell him to go home and change or if he did not want to then to just stay home? Or what if the parents of the bride told him that? I was just a guest myself so thought it was not my place to say anything but I can tell you I would be sorely tempted if it were my wedding. If he hated dressing up so much then he should have simply sent his regrets. What would you do?

Can you get married on the top of the Empire State Building? Like a private ceremony on the roof of the Empire State Building?

She's been engaged for 4 1/2 years. She sent out invitations almost 4 years ago and since then, has changed the date after everyone RSVP'd numerous times. Something always seemed to come up, but I always got the feeling she and her fiancé just didn't have the money to pay for everything, as well as maybe one genuine emergency. Now it looks like it will actually be going ahead next month. The only thing is, I won't be in the country at the time. I booked the vacation because she told me they wouldn't be setting a date this year and then changed her mind only a few weeks ago. She's counting my RSVP from years ago as yes I will be there and got upset when I told her about me not being here. Our mom is also furious. She said I should cancel and lose the money to make my sister happy. So I was just wondering what others think? Should I cancel my plans and disappoint my kids and lose a lot of money or miss the wedding?

I have 3 bridesmaids and 3 flower girls. I have one friend that isn't a bridesmaid and I really want to include her somehow. I don't want her to hand out programs or something like that. I already have someone running the guestbook.. so where can I put her?

I always wondered how rare is it for weddings to be cancelled? Would this be a big inconvenience if your wedding or big event you had planned got cancelled where everyone was looking forward to your special day?

Hi all! I'm not engaged, but I know I met the one and eventually I'll start planning my own wedding... I haven't been at many weddings in my life, since, for example, I'm the oldest of all my cousins (by 7-15 years), and my closest friends are still single, so... I've just been invited to a few extended family and coworkers weddings. Therefore, when it comes to weddings, I don't know a lot. I was wondering... if... for example, I'm planning my wedding and finalized my wedding guests list... it will of course include my parents and siblings... as well as my "fiance's" family... (we're both very close with our families). Let's assume his brother is the best man and they still are roommates by the time the wedding invitations are sent out... it's safe to assume that the brother IS going... and of course we assume the brother's girlfriend will be his plus one... I don't see the necessity to print an invitation for them... same goes with our parents I guess... I don't know... this is probably a silly question, but like I said... I know much about weddings..... is a formal invitation still required in those cases I mentioned (parents and siblings plus their beaus)?

I feel bad only spending 20$ on a gift but I'm not rich and feel like spending that amount to travel to a wedding is already a lot. Am I being cheap?