It's my junior prom and one of my really close friends is a twin. We were planning to go to prom with another friend group so there would be a ton of people to talk to. My friend's brother basically set up a limo though with his friends. My friend is in it, and about half of my friend group is because they are going with her brother's friends. Should I be hurt? She said her brother made the limo but I would have thought my friend would have wanted me in her limo...? Is she not really my friend?

There's a guy that I'm talking to but we haven't told anyone yet. I told not to tell anyone about us until we become serious. The other day on campus, him and I and my other friend were just hanging out talking. My friend and I began cracking jokes on each other. The guy who I'm talking to just sat there and laughed. As we were leaving going to class, my friend asked if the guy and I were going to hug or kiss before class. I kinda waited to see if the guy wanted to, but he kept saying no he's good. I wouldn't mind him giving me a hug in front of people since we are talking. He texted me later that night asking for a picture of me and how he wanted my friend to go away. I was upset that he didn't even want to give me a hug. Most guys who really like a girl would've gave them a hug or some type of acknowledgement in front of people, even if she says keep it on the low. Am I overreacting or should I just cut him off for good???

Ok. So I'm 14 and in 8th grade. I'm also a girl. So yesterday I was getting tired of this good being mean then acing like it was ok. So I basically confronted her. I said "leave me alone. You hurt my feelings all the time and acting like it was ok. Don't talk to me anymore." So she got upset and staterd crying. I felt guilty but stood my ground. So that night I got a text from my ex bff in elementary school. She said "you better stop being a ******* botch to Sara or your gonna catch these tomorrow and you better ******* apologize". Ok one thing to know about me. I'm not a fighter I like to keep the peace and it's not my nature. Well I'm not gonna apologize. So then the next my "friend" came up to me and said "apologize to Sara right effing now" I said "why" she said "cuz your a ******* *****" well my ex buff and Sara were laughing and grinning. I didn't say anything. So I sat down. Then started to bawl. Not cuz I was scared cuz I was embarrassed I cry when I get yelled at. Tunes out Sara twisted my words and said I said all this stuff now she wants these girls to fight me. My other friends took of for me. And I have some friends that can fight. Like slot of people were on my side. But the fighters aren't in my class. I still have lots of friends. But it hurts they turned on me so quick. Sara brought them into it. I'm so embarrassed that I cried like a pussy what should I do?

I play on a laccrosse team with people in my grade and th grade above me. I didn't know any of them very well before the season. I have been making an effort to become friends with the girls in my grade this season. It's not like I don't have friends at all, I have a group of friends, but none of them play and it gets lonely being on he field alone for 10 hours a week (the person I already knew is injured now and has not been able to play for 4 weeks). I thought that we were beginning to become better friends, but the girls I want to be friends with are becoming their own social circle all day long and not just in laccrosse practice, making it even harder for me to get in. I thought that I had made a lot of progress, but today I learned that they have a group chat for the people on our team in my grade and did not put me or my hurt friend on it, and for some reason that really upsets me. These girls are really nice to everyone, I just don't think that they know that I want to become better friends with them. We are at the point where I can non-awkwardly carry out a brief conversation with each other about something other than school or the weather, but we don't hang out or text. I was wondering if there is any way I could change this??? Thank you so so much for reading this, I just would really like to get to know these people better and have more fun playing his sport! Sorry this post is so long!

So my best friend and I have been planning on this concert for a while now because it's the only rave that allows 16 year olds but she can't go anymore due to her getting grounded. I now have no one to go with but even if I do, it wouldn't be as much fun As going w my best friend:( we are total ravers and idk anyone who is so in sync w me but her :((( but i really want to go but i'm scared i wont have fun and going alone is just not N option for me. What do I do?

I've been a practicing naturist since I was 12. It's not sexual, and I do it to feel more in tune with my body, as well as to accept my body. I'm moving into a dorm at the beginning of this fall, but I do not want to give up something that's so ingrained. Is there a gentle way to bring it up to a potential roommate without sounding incredibly creepy? I've found someone really tolerable for a roommate, so I don't want to lose them, but I know I won't be comfortable having to give up practicing being naked.

We've been friends for nearly 2 years and he says he doesn't understand me.

Right now I'm a senior in high school and I don't have any friends maybe 1 or 2 but we aren't close. No one at school ever tries talking to me or acknowledging my existence I try to smile at people and say hi but it doesn't really help. I remember it all started in 4th grade I randomly became super shy and I had no friends whatsoever and I would never talk because people never tried talking to me. I don't really know why people are like this to me. I feel so different than everyone at school i see people all around me talking to eachother in class and even other quiet people get approached and talked to but I don't. People usually just ignore me and don't bother talking to me. I don't understand. It's been this way since 4th grade. I don't think I look bad like at home I have so much confidence and think I look good but at school it's the total opposite. So why don't people ever talk to me? :(

So there's this girl, I wouldn't really call her my friend, more like just someone I know. And I've noticed that she gets really jealous when my best friend comes and talks to me instead of her, etc. She's also close to my best friend so I think she thinks that I'm stealing her from her which is pretty immature in my opinion. What I should I do???

A girl i like and pretty sure she likes me to invited me to her game yesterday. I went and her ex of 2 years was there. She told me before that their relationship with him is unhealthy. He graduated and at school she wants to hold my hand and wants me to walk her to class. I was shocked to see him there and even more shocked that she left with him. She never texts me first but when we text, we actually have a conversation. I didnt talk to her at all today to be mysterious and what not, but would she think that im being submissive because of yesterday?

What to tell him? I know he was really close to his dad and i don't know what to tell him. Thank you

Whenever I see this girl she whispers that I'm ugly. I know that it is directed towards me because I'm the person closest to her. She says it under her breath so that no one else knows but me. When I tell people they don't believe me. It is making me crazy.

Whenver I see this girl she acts really catty around me. For an example whenever I see her she has this really fake smile and voice and she shows off about her life in front of me. Also she asks me questions that make me feel uncomfortable answering and she reminds me of my insecurities by saying things indirectly so that I will only know that it was meant to bother me. So what should I do?

I'm a freshman in college and I only have one friend bc I've had a hard time making friends this year. So I was gonna hang out with her and all of her guy friends that I've been hanging out with as well, and she just told me our plans are cancelled, and she went over to hang out with them without me, and when I asked if we were still on for dinner sheep said maybe and now she won't even respond and I have really bad depression and this isn't helping bc I've spent so many Friday nights alone and I don't want to spend another one alone and I just want to cry. Like, I was looking forward to us all hanging out, and now that I don't have that to look forward to, and I know they're hanging out without me, I just feel way more depressed than I should. I don't know what to do. I'm trying not to let it bother me, but it really does. I'm on the verge of tears, so advice would be appreciated. Btw this is literally like the first time she did this so its not like a toxic friendship I need to get out of.

I never say a bad word about anybody, I'm 17 years old and don't have a friend to ring me up and ask what am I up too this weekend, so I just do college work consistently. At college everyoneis with their own fiends so I have no-one to talk to beacsue I transferred from another college a few months ago. At lunchtimes I go into the college toilets and sit in the cubical for an hour. I'm alone with just my thoughts and looking at doodles on the doodle on the door and I say dream into a world where I have friends. I don't know how to make friends. I've tried, but people will try and avoid me if I do or give me the cold shoulder. Probably because the seem I'm trying too hard and things get to awkward. I really hate myself for not being outgoing. I'm so angry I cut myself . I don't understand why I am so bad at talking to people and making friends with people. I want to sleep and not wake up. I don't understand why it is so hard to gain a social life in society. I'm not a rude person and I respect everyone regardless. I'm kind to people which makes me feel happy. But I have no friends because I'm too much of a freak. I don't want to get out of bed. I hope to die soon so I won't have to live a boreing life any longer. I don't know what's wrong with me, I have no motivation to continue life. All I want is a friend I can talk to a be happy with. My parents don't care about. I have never met my dad. Everyone else I hear have cool dads which help them with their problems; I don't

Every single time we hang out I end up paying for things. When we go to the movies, out to eat, etc. even if she was the one that did the inviting. Even for my birthday, she invited me out to eat and I actually paid for myself lol which I guess is better than paying for both of us but still. I've always grown up with the notion that whoever invites pays. Now I invited her to go watch a movie for her birthday and she also invited her mother. I really love my friend but I feel this is getting out of hand. I do make more money than her an hour but I don't get as many hours AND she has help from her boyfriend who also works and they live together. I live alone. So technically she has more money than me. They're always buying new TVs, furniture etc and I don't even do that. I'm trying to save up money for school and other things and hanging out with her is getting expensive. How can I maneuver around this entire situation?

I would like to meet new people online. If you have instagram or kik then just put your user for me to message u :) @yasmin I can't. I don't have a way to.

There is a guy that I've been talking to he knows that sometimes I look at his Pandora. And that I like 80's music I noticed today he created a 80's love song station. I wondering if he did that because he knows I look at his page. Edit

So my friend called me during school, I'm homeschooled. So I do school til really late in the day and get up late. We tried to make plans, my parents always complain about driving and back to back sleepovers. Since we had one last weekend, I was a little scared to ask. When I asked them, they sounded like they were okay with it but needed to talk first. They wanted to go out to dinner tonight, so they thought that would interfere. But I thought since there's no driving,what should be the problem? I told them we could stay home alone and you guys could go out. Her mom would drop her off and everything would be fine. Her mom would also pick her up. So I tried to give my reasons and points to why they should say yes, they talk about it and my parents say no. At first I thought they both would say yes because they sounded fine with it. Oh, was I wrong! My sister is having a sleepover tonight, but they agreed to that because it's helping them with her dance. She does dance so she can sleepover at the dorms with dance friends. But sill, it's extremely unfair. Also, I DIDN'T SEE ANYONE THIS WEEK BUT MY FAMILY, SO THAT'S ALSO WHAT I'M DOING THIS WEEKEND. I'm honestly extremely upset and disappointed because I never ask for back to back sleepovers and I got let down. I honestly did think they would say yes. This weekend is going to be the most shittiest one ever!! Not only that, they are forcing me to go to dinner. I'm really annoyed and need a break from them. What should I do? Help.

I'm into a guy in my class. He stares when I'm not looking and looks at me then away when I'm looking at the student next to him. I thought he was shy until he started talking in class more. He'll talk to guys and girls but not me. For weeks we didn't talk but opened doors for each other and said thanks / welcome lol. It was always a coincidence he was opening doors for me, or I was opening for him. Today was the first time he had a big grin and said hi when we passed in the hallway door, I smiled hi too. Why won't he talk to me more?

My best friend and I are really close and I love hanging with her and we feel that we get each other really well so i dont want to end this friendship But since the start, she has ALWAYS been late to our meetings, we hang out at least 2-3 times a week (we are in high school) and we usually after school around 5 meet up at Starbucks once a week. Now keep in mind, neither of us have cars yet but we both have parents with cars. Anyways, I live about 5 minutes from the Starbucks we meet at and she lives about 10, and everytime we plan 5 or 5:30, she shows up 15-20 and once even 2 hours late. Like I understand that you have things to do, but I do too! She always says "Oh my cousin's family came over i have to spend time with them" like.. okay? I have my own things to do too? And like she said "Hey i have to go to mosque later tomorrow (No school today) so can I come over at 10 and leave at 4" and I was like "yeah it's cool my mom said it's fine" and my mom was actually leaving at 10 to NASA because we have some relatives over and so I told her to wake me up so I could clean my room and shower and be ready to hang out with her. So I'm in 6 AP classes and I would sleep in if I didn't have school but I woke up early to clean my room because it gets messy during the week, I dust, fold and hang clothes and vacuum and then shower and eat some fruit for breakfast. I text her phone (Actually her mom's phone they took hers for having a boyfriend) and I sent 15 messages asking if she's gonna come over, and no response until about 3:30. And she's like "oh sorry" blah blah and I'm like whatever okay i don't really care it's fine But I'm so hungry now, my relatives are from India so my mom hasn't really cooked, she's been taking them out to try Italian and Mexican and different cuisines so we have nothing to actually cook with, and I told my mom "I'm going out with my friend and we'll probably get chipotle so no need to keep anything for me to eat" and so she left. And I've been sitting here doing homework on my day off, thinking that I could be at NASA right now and not wasting my break day doing homework, I have a debate tournament tomorrow from 6 AM to 6 PM and then I have to go teach kids at my temple, which is more exhausting than you would think, but anyways I really could have been enjoying today since AP exams are soon but nope, my friend had to cancel plans without even telling me. I'm not in the wrong am i? sorry for the length of this, I am mad

We are both in High School. We met this year and became friends. But I developed a pretty big crush on him, and it started influencing the way I acted around him. I started following him to his classes, going to sit with him and his friends in the morning, staring at him in class, and saying weird things to him. He didn't like this and he told me. But I was so crazy over him, that the more he resisted, the harder I pushed him, until one day he basically said "I've had enough, we're not friends anymore". I didn't have the courage to tell him what was really going on, so I just said a bunch of things like "I just wanted to be your friend" or I'd get angry and try and turn it around on him. So I gave him some space, and then two days ago I came out to him and told him what was really going on. He was very understanding, but did say that it bothered him that I liked him. When I asked him about being friends again, he said "I don't think we can be. Not cause I hate you, just because if we were friends again, everything that's happened thus far would come to mind, and I don't want that". So what should I do now? Do you think there's any chance of saving the friendship? Do you think that giving him some space and time to think might work? Or should I just move on and use this as a lesson of life?

Well I'll start off by saying I had a great group of friends in school plenty of banter then we finished school and continued the banter and we all went to uni in different places, some dropped out, started again etc you know the deal. One day I noticed only two of my mates of 6 remain in the group and one of the boys hangs out with a new group and we don't go out as much any more there's just me john and Dean. John and Dean have girlfriends so when we're out I end up with other people but they ain't my boys and it hurts. I distracted myself from this horrible fact by training hard and studying hard, a new me, but then I self consciously distanced myself from the boys and my social skills dropped significantly and I don't know what to do Im tired all the time, space out a lot, I'm constantly thinking of how to better myself but end up hopping from hobby to hobby, have no friends, no communication skills, no idea where my life's heading and have built a false imaginary world in which everyone loves me where in reality I don't exist in other people's lives and I'm sad and lonely and asking people on the Internet what to do because. Hopefully it'll help so people on the Internet any advice for this geezer, I'm 20 by the way should be but ain't enjoying life

Ok, so I have been really close with my friend for a good 2 years but a few months ago she started hanging out with a bad crowd, and I was and still am really worried about her. Don't get me wrong, she is really nice and calm person, she had actual interests and talents and she was against smoking but since shebstarted hanging out with that crowd she has been starting to go to parties, she carries a vape, weed and cigarettes in her school backpack and she smokes with that crowd. I have tried to talk to her, but she just keeps saying that she loved smoking and she can do whatever that comes in her mind. Obviously I can't push her into anything, but I am worried about her health and the fact that it has started to affect her as a person- she talks about smoking 24/7, she even smokes at school, and its just sad for me to watch it. Also, her brother is a stoner and he hooks her up whenever she needs to, which makes the situation even more confusing. What do I do?

I was born and raised in a small town where everyone knows each other. I always struggled to make friends, I hardly had any friends. People always labeled me as awkward, unsocial, antisocial, lonely. A few years ago, I decided to move out and move into a big city with millions of people. Today, I have tons of friends. I have so many people that I have things in common with, things to talk about, things to do. I'm always around friends, and I always have someone to spend time with. An old friend from my small town told me that he's happy to see that I finally "improved my social skills". The thing is, I don't think I've changed at all. In this big city, there are simple many people I have things in common with, unlike in my old small town. The difference is that back in my old town, I was always trying to adapt and fit in, think, talk, and do what everyone else did. And still, no one liked me. Here in the big city, I don't try at all. I'm always myself, yet people seem to accept me just the way I am. Have I improved my social skills, or am I still basically the same person?

I've been thinking about going to Young Life recently. It sounds really fun and like a great way to make new friends. Im a little apprehensive and nervous to go because I don't really know anyone there. I am a shy person but I do talk to people and make conversation. I've heard Young Life is very welcoming, wether you're a Christian or not. I am a Christian, but I'm just nervous that I won't make many friends and that I'll just be there by myself. I guess what I'm asking is if young life is fun and worth the time to go. Is it a good way to make new friends? Thank you!

I don't see why he would do that because earlier he put usee to post pictures with his friends and suddenly he is flanked by girls. Shouldn't he respect me enough to not do that even.of we had a quarrel?

Im in my mid late 20's and currently have no friends at all. I wish I did. I'm wondering is it because I'm ugly that i have friends and no one wants to talk to me?

I met very close friend this freshman year and she also made a friend with another girl in our grade. We share the same art class and we are together every other day. However, that friend of her's has been very negative towards me and makes comments that diminish my confidence. She takes jokes way to far and she just seems very angry with me. I have been very irrritated lately with her, and i don't really care if she meant it as a joke anymore. Any advice? Sorry for the rant. What Advice do you have on friendships and their friendships?

My mind goes blank after 'How are you'. What am I supposed to say, talk about the weather

Please don't say when u feel ready. We were friends a couple years ago but drifted apart. She's pretty chill but she is more popular than me so we might have different interests and attitudes. That's all I'm worried about.

I met very close friend this freshman year and she also made a friend with another girl in our grade. We share the same art class and we are together every other day. However, that friend of her's has been very negative towards me and makes comments that diminish my confidence. She takes jokes way to far and she just seems very angry with me. I have been very irrritated lately with her, and i don't really care if she meant it as a joke anymore. Any advice? Sorry for the rant.

To make a long story short, I had a close friend for years. She told me a lot of personal things. She was going through a very bad time (won't go into details) and went to rehab. All of a sudden she started completely ignoring me. I tried to ask if she was OK and be caring.. and she blocked me. Obviously I'm letting it go and not contacting her but it's crazy to me.

Ok so this is gonna get confusing but just go along with it... Ok so last year I was taking the school bus home from school and one of the boys in my form came up to me and took a pic of me and posted it on sc I overreacted big time and reported him to the pastoral...😂 But then not long after I started crushing on him for a few months and he found out. Now I'm in year 8 and I don't fancy him anymore. However since this incident I feel like us two have gotten closer and have become friends.and he still thinks I like him. He even talks about it all the time and he's told his mates and now everyone knows. Now this is the confusing part...he ALWAYS stares into my eyes, I can see him from the corner of my eye doing so and when I look into his he doesn't look away or blink! He just keeps on staring. It creeps me out because it makes me feel a little queasy and his eyes are a bright blue colour, almost...hypnotising. This may sound like he fancys me but I KNOW FOR A FACT HE LOVES SOMEONE ELSE... Srsly u have to trust me on that one. Also he notices when I'm upset, he doesn't say anything but he looks at me worryingly, this is weird because I don't look upset when I am upset but somehow he knows when I'm sad?. Also, I know we're friends but sometimes I upset him on purpose to see if he cares about me and he looks a little sad and confused. Sorry this was so long but please please answer this because I am really confused and I need an answer and some advice. Thanks xx

Im so tired of my so called friends from back home. Now i moved to a new place and i want to start over but i cant get myself to go to the teen center to meet new people. What can help me motivate myself to go?

He says fuc*ing lord. Good one

I was at a party and the host asked me to drive June home because she was too drunk to drive. I was not drinking. I said sure and I drove June home. She was barely able to walk to her house she was so drunk. I got her to her bed and she grabbed me and said, "You can not leave until I f— you". June is a world class beauty. She could be Miss anything she wanted to be. The bragging rights would have been great if I had sex with her. It was very hard for me to turn down sex especially with a beautiful girl but I did. I could not bring myself to have sex with someone that drunk. I wonder if when she is sober she will be mad or happy with me or even remember me. All the guys that I told what happened say I am an complete idiot for not having sex with her. What do you think? Was I an idiot? I think I would like to date her when she is sober. How should I approach her for a date?

I am a 25 year old single guy that works in an office. One of my coworkers is a single mom who is a good friend of mine. She has a 15 year old daughter who I know. One afternoon she asked me to do her a big favor. She unexpectedly had to work late. She had reservations at a local restaurant for her daughter's birthday party and the daughter's friends would be there. She ask me to pick up her daughter at her home and take her to the restaurant and stay with her until she got there from work. I did what she asked. The next day I got an email from the daughter that said thanks for making her birthday party the BEST DAY OF HER LIFE. She said "My friends at the party are jealous to the max that I had a hot sexy date bring me to the party. My first thought was to email her back saying I was NOT her date and hot and sexy are not words I wanted to hear from a 15 year old girl. (Do 15 year old girls really know what hot and sexy means?) However after giving it more thought I am not sure I should do that. I don't want to embarrass her or cause her any problems but I don't want to have ANYTHING to do romantically with a 15 year old girl. Perhaps that is the way 15 years old girls talk now. Is it? If it gives her some joy from thinking I was her date, perhaps I should just let her think that and hope I NEVER see her again. What do you think I should do if anything?

My ex husband and I are still friends but my girl friends seem to think they need to protect me because of our divorce. They call me and ask if it is OK with me if they date my ex husband. I tell them he is my EX husband and who he dates is none of my business. I don't care who he dates or doesn't date. Even my ex husband will call me sometimes and ask if it is OK if he dates my friends. I tell him the same thing. I don't care who he dates. He is an adult and can date anyone he wants. My girl friends always ask me if it would be uncomfortable if they invited him and me to the same party. I always tell them we are still friends and I have no problem being at the same party as my ex husband and he does not have a problem being at the same party as I am. Aren't my friends trying to be too protective of me? Is it that hard to believe that ex spouses can be friends?

She thinks she's better than everyone else. Literally. She is competitive and she wants to look better than everyone. If someone is thinner or more beautiful she says crap about them or if someone in thefamily is doing good and getting attention then she gets all full of attitude and sh*t. I'm sick of her. Is it wrong to cut her out of my life for a while? We constantly have talks about this but lies to me. I'm just done. She goes back to her attention seeking self.

I hang with friends 2 years and they almost never invite me anywhere, but we always go outside at the same time and day, and I can see that I am not bothering or annoying anyone. Now I heard they are throwing party , and I don t know should I just ask them about the party or not. They even invite my friends that lives in different city and not me .

I haven't talked to this guy I met at an old job of mine for a long time. A few summers ago I got a retail job and he basically trained me, though he wasn't a supervisor and we were both just associates. We became ok friends, though we didn't hang out beyond work. I did have a crush on him and I think he might've too but after like four months I quit and found another job. We are facebook friends though,but I feel awkward wanting to start up a conversation with him after so much time has gone by. We literally haven't talked since I was working where we met, which has been like three years now.

So i was at the gym tonight and i went on the treadmill and there was an exercise floor in front of the treadmill equipment and i saw a girl exercising on a machine in front of me and then she turned around and I *think* she noticed me and she got up. So something inside of me told me to approach her to let her know i wasn't checking her out. So i approached her and told her that i wasn't checking her out and she is free to go back exercising and she gave me a weird expression and said "Um...i'm already done with my workout there. I didn't move because I thought you were checking me out..." And i wasn't convinced so i told her again i would move somewhere else to make her feel more comfortable. and she gave me a baffled expression and didn't say anything and walked away. I wanted to tell her again but part of me felt embarrassed as it is. So i just left without working out. Did i weird her out?

I am a junior in college and one of my best friends is graduating so I have been trying to hang out with her more and today I told her that I would miss her a lot. Is that too clingy or pathetic?

(I'm not going to be using real names.) Sam: Crazy ex- friend that i met a year ago. Ana: Friend i met 4 years ago. Brianna: Friend i met 6 years ago. Yahaira: friend i met 7 years ago. So, long story short, Sam lied about how none of my friends liked me and talked bad about me. She apologized. I gave her a last chance. She blew it by telling other girls (who i dont even know) that i told their sisters secrets about them. I got angry. She realized i was angry but didn't apologize. The next day, she got Ana and Yahaira and made them walk away from me and ditch me. She apologized. I did not accept her apology for obvious reasons. The next day, she still hung out by us at our lunch table. The rest of my friends don't know about how Sam did all these stuff but Yahaira, thinks im a horrible person because Sam made her believe so. At this point, Brianna believes me bc i have proof (screenshots) i want to show Yahaira and Ana, but they HATE drama and they won't believe me since this has happened to me before alot. I cannot hang out with my friends anymore except Brianna. What do? I am also sorry for not making sense because English is not my first language. I will answer questions if you have some.

There is a guy that I've been talking to he knows that sometimes I look at his Pandora. And that I like 80's music I noticed today he created a 80's love song station. I wondering if he did that because he knows I look at his page

My friend Trevor is a complete douche bag with his view of girls.Most guys are probably like this, but it just felt wrong, especially what Trevor nearly did to his girlfriend Megan. Story goes Trevor wanted sex with Megan for the first time, but she wasn't into it. He kept coming on to her and each time was refused. Trevor got super pissed. One night I learned Trevor and some of our friends planned ambush Megan and bought a box of condoms and some kind of pill? IDK. They even asked me to join (I'm a guy). I turned them down. Things were getting bad and I went to tell Megan what they likely planned for her. She ended up dumping him completely and cut off all contact. Okay, end of story. Well now Trevor hates my guts because I ruined his scheme, and because Megan and I are like best friends. She wanted to hang out and eventually it turned to friendship. But how can she be comfortable hanging around a guy after what nearly happened. To Megan, I did the sweetest thing warning her and really wanted to get to know me because I'm nice to her. Sadly Trevor beat me up and thinks I stole Megan away. But we're just friends. Did I do something wrong?

So I'm in the IB program. There's this girl that's really short and gets good grades. I am nothing but nice to her but she always tries to one up me. For example I'll be taking to my friend about how I got an A on my essay and she'll be like "That essay was easy. It doesn't matter." I don't usually get good grades so when I do I like to tell my friends to get encouragement and acknowledgement. But she always has to put me down. And for some reason I always need her approval. Idk why. Even when she says stupid things like "Gypsy is a way of life, not a race" or "Bernie Sanders is irrelevant" and I correct her she still gives me crap. I can't win! What to do?!

I am just curious what other people consider a best friend and if they have one. When I say best friend I mean one particular friend out of a bunch of friends you consider to have the best relationship with and vise versa. I would consider I best friendship to be a mutual agreement. I think that in order for someone to be deemed a "best friend" they too have to feel the same way. I ask because I thought I had a best friend until recently. I considered us to have had a way stronger friendship between us than his other friends. I now know the feeling is not mutual and I should've known that, but I tried to tell myself otherwise all these years. I'm not in love with the guy and I totally understand putting a girlfriend in front of best friend so I don't consider the two to be the same. I have no one that considers me a best friend and while I have plenty of friends I just cherish the type of friendship between two people that is considered a stronger bond than with others. So with that said does anyone have a true best friend relationship with someone?

I think I should explain the educational system in my country first. So, at the start of the year you're assigned with a group of about 30 people and you have all your classes with them. Some are better at studying, some are not-people aren't divided by learning levels. So, in my class there's this girl. I don't think she understands how annoying she is, but she acts like hot sh*t when she's not even cold p*iss. Since you are stuck with a certain group of people for the whole year, we have a group chat. And some of us wanted to skip a class. So the girl I was talking about before literally pulled out the God card and said "I'm not going to be unfaithful to God (!!!!) and lie to teachers that you didn't know that we had a class. I hope she rips off your heads for that" Naturally, everyone got pissed and asked her if she didn't do that. It's not the first time she does that, and some guys in my class asked her to climb the f*ck down from her high horse and be a part of the group. When she still insisted on telling on the people that wanted to skip, sh*t went down. So there were swears, there were names, people were literally begging her to not act like that and be decent until the year ends so we can all split our ways. I didn't join the drama at all, I was just reading it and thinking "yooo" to myself honestly. Well, she did what she said she'll do and today I saw her leaving the counsellors office? I'm a lil scared, is the whole thing considered bullying or not?

I know a girl I got very close to, she's like my best friend and I love her company and spending time with her, i didn't want to start liking her more personally but I do and I know I can't be with her because she is talking to someone and I was talking to her sister about a yr ago, I told her how I felt about her and she started asking me a bunch of questions like how long did I know, what made me interested and don't I think it would be weird because of her sister and said she didn't see me that way unfortunately....... my question is how can I get over her without having to risk losing the friendship ?? Please, it's eating me inside, I hated that I was talking to her sister and didn't know her first and now I actually feel heartbroken that I won't ever have a chance with her but I don't want to lose or change the friendship either