I went to court last week with my mom ( I'm 20 btw ) and I seen this girl that used to like me ( she not good looking to be honest ). Well they called me up cause i was there for jay walking and went i walked out the courtroom i saw her and they didnt call her. she was smiling. It ruined my day and week.

I'm in highschool and I just witnessed my mother die this morning. I was there staring her right in the eyes,trying to do CPR as the paramedic talked me through it over the phone while they raced to my house. She was dead before they showed up,but they still tried to bring her back for 40 minutes. This was an insane experience for me and I don't know what to do now. I don't have ANY friends that I can go to for support,and I can't talk with my father or brother cause they're handling it worse than I am. I have so much I just wanna get off my chest,but nobody to talk to. Sitting here is torture for me cause I just keep seeing her face as she took her last breath. I've gotta get up do something,but there's nothing to do. I have no car to go anywhere. There's no work around the house to do or anything. I feel trapped inside my head right now.

I m in a really bad way with these idiots both offline and online.... They are sapping the life right out of me... People are so f*cking annoying. They ear nice amounts of money by being idiots, and they have the audacity to mock that Ted Cruz doppelganger lady for filing her and bf doing it for ten thousand bucks...Aw yah she's the freak...Please John come back...I can't stand this anymore... At least when I'm with you I get to spend time with guy who somehow absorbed the intelligence of at a billion of inhabitants of this sad place...So I have no time to be depressed I keep thinking I better impress this guy or he will be gone...

Say this were your life what would you do to fix it? You were used to being on top of the world and your life was stable and successful. But then: You lost your job and your business failed and you are nearly penniless. Even though the bills keep rolling in and some are heading to collections. But your not willing to claim bankrupt because of those consequences. You cannot find a job, despite your degree. Small town and limited opportunity. But you don't have the money to move. You're in a relationship and have a beautiful son. But that relationship is rocky, and you fear it falling apart. For if it does your heart would be broken, but worse you can't support yourself let alone most importantly your son. And his family would use this to keep you from having him full-time, which you could never handle. It seems everything is falling apart and you are overwhelmed and don't know how/or where to start to fix it. So, depression is sitting in and your paralyzed by it and what to do to overcome all of this. There is no quick fix and that's what you need. Been there, what'd you do to change it all? Or what would you do?

Hello there is a big problem in my relationship there's a guy that loves my girlfriend.. And he said he will do anything to get her. I asked my GF if she likes him she said no she would never have with him anything and she does not love him she loves me but I kinda don't belive her and she constantly calls with him I know it because I spyed her phone and she deleted history of phone calls. I asked her why do you call him she replayed her sister called me.. I said what did she wants? She said I should not care its her secret so I said okay but today the call came from him and I heard she said I can't call you right now I am with my boyfriend.. But I didn't say her I heard so I need help I think she may be having something with him please help me.. Thank you for your reply

so I went to pakistan to get married from usa. and everything was going wrong. so didn't have a good experience most of that was due to my cousins not helping me out and telling me which place is good and where i could save money. anyways so my cousin is now getting married and she picked a good bridal salon and everything so i messaged her saying that she could've told me about that and I wouldve saved money and salon i went to was horrible etc. she was like i went to that salon before it was okay its not my fault ur experience was bad. then i was u know jst forget it you could've told me about things anyways hope u didn't take it personally i was just saying u couldve told me about places. and she was like its fine i know ur messed up stupid girl. and I was like i can't believe im talking to this girl about this. how do i make myself forget her bs. I just feel like slapping her I have an exam today and i can not concentrate and i keep thinking of things she kept saying

Él dice q no está seguro si le gusto o no ... Por q sufrió mucho con su anterior amor y ahora tiene que pensarlo bien antes de empezar algo juntos .... Pero ahora no sé qué hacer puesto que esto me afecta .. Él dice q quiere conocerme más .. Y lo único q pienso yo , es q me él tiene la respuesta y q no me lo quiere decir por miedo a hacerme sentir mal ... Pero él sigue repitiendo que quiere conocerme más ... No se q hacer

I was walking at the hallway & i saw the girl I like there & I was looking at her but then I look away then when we pass by again I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend then In class I was looking at her & she caught me looking but I look away then she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop later I saw her at the back of the class & was looking at me but then later left class early

Okay, so I am one of those people that literally never have yelled at someone or ever been in a fight. Whenever there is a controversy I avoid it, and if I am arguing with a friend of mine I will literally take the blame or give tell him he is right, simply to avoid a fight or something like that. I feel like I am trying too hard to make other people happy and I do not think about myself enough. What is wrong with me?

I've went from being on top of the world to crawling along the bottom of it now. I don't even know how to start climbing back up.I lost my job and my business failed.I have had credit cards going into collections. Can't seem to find any job around where I live. I have relationship issues with my fiancé with whom we have a son. If something should happen, I have no way of supporting me or most important my son. Any suggestions, or personal stories of triumph amid these or similar circumstances?

1. Have you ever experienced any type of abuse (physical, sexual, emotional, or verbal ) 2. Explain the abuse 3. What age did you started getting abuse? 4. Did you get into any type of violent situations or trouble with others ? 5. If so do you think your childhood abuse had something to do with it ?

My mom left me in Ukraine: I apparently wasn t appreciative enough of her. I am myself depressed and am 12 years old. My mother is a physically and emotionally abusive alcoholic who has over the top self esteem. It s so high because she picks from mine well picked from mine constantly. Now mines non existent and I am always thinking I am s worthless mistake. Me and my mom are us citizens who moved from Ukraine to the us 6 years ago. A week ago we both came back and my mom left to Dubai with her boyfriend who she stupidly supports. She promised to pick me up but she never did and sais she is never coming back for me. I am naive and need a master plan to get out of here. I can have someone pick me up from the airport, and she would let me back in. Problem is flights one way are 3500 dollars, 1+ days is 2700. I may be able to get a fraction of this money if even. I have recordings of her yelling at me and emotionally abusing me. I also have videos of her domestic abuse with her boyfriend. The recordings include her admitting to an open alcohol contained in the car. California law is against that I believe. Also I have pictures of slap marks and her boyfriend is on my side and so I her whole family. That s a good thing. I guess? Also her friends know she is a loud alcoholic. As well, she pulled me out of school and said she won t tell them anything, is that an offense? She doesn t care if I go to school or not... I m missing 1.5 last months of 7th grade. Email available at reques

Like i cant even see what he likes or comments on facebook and i have marked him see first on facebook but still i cant see any of his tagged photos whereas his friends like his tagged pics, should i ask him about it or will i look creepy ?

So I had a crush on this guy, and I finally had the guts to tell one of my friend. When I told her she instantly says that my crush also have the same feeling for me. Tonight, out of nowhere, he chat me! This is not the first time he chat me, but this is the first time he actually put effort to keep the conversation going (I'm really quiet & awkward in class, and most people told me I look angry most of the time so most people usually afraid to talk/chat me). I felt really happy until I think to myself "What if he didn't like me anymore when we talk in person?". I'm REALLY quiet and I got told boring by someone before. I talk normally in chat because it gave me times to think and doesn't causes me so many anxiety. I also afraid I won't get along with his friends. Ever since that chat I somehow also think low of myself. I look myself in the mirror and suddenly think "What if he thinks I'm ugly in normal clothing?" "What if he suddenly think I'm ugly in some angle" and lot more of absurd thought like that. I can't stop these thoughts and it really give me bad anxiety. Any advice? Sorry it's too lonng!

I'm starting to wonder because I've seen something like "PSY disliked school and bothered some of his classmates, although he also sometimes made them laugh." on a Wikipedia article. So, have some musicians bothered some of their classmates when they were students at school? a) yes b) no When you answer, can you give me an explanation?

Back story: I m 24 & he s 28. We have the same group of friends. We were each other s longest relationship. Ok so my ex and I previously dated 2013-2015 and then we split for legitament reasons. Come Oct 2015 our group of friends make an annual beach trip. Right before we left he requested me back on Facebook & then he initiated contact. We talked some to make sure it wouldn t be awkward because we were riding down to the beach in the same car. Since that point, it was all history. We waited until Feb 2016 to make things official so we could take our time and get to know each other again and really do it right. Well this past March he signed up for the Army Reserves & would be leaving for boot camp in May. I was super excited for him. I noticed about the time he signed up he became more distant from me and we didn t really see each other...which I thought was weird until I remembered how much we had going on. I graduate college this month, he leaves, he s working on his house so he can put it on the market, I quit my job, I m starting a Summer internship, and then I won t have a job after this summer. So we had a lot of stress. Well last Sunday he broke up with me claiming he "lost feelings" a few weeks ago. Which.... I don't believe. The way he was acting around me would show differently..he still acted lovingly towards me..I also saw that most guys break up with their SO before boot camp for some reason. I was upset for about 2 days and then I pulled myself together because something in my gut tells me we aren't done with one another, yet again. Well we went to church last night & he had my gps in his car. I asked for it back a he talked for a bit. Then as I was leaving his whole family walked up and we all stood around talking and laughing. before I walked off he gave me this gift certificate for the shooting range to use because we went together a few weeks ago. What gives? I feel like he's confused and maybe he broke up because he'll be gone the entire Summer? A lot of men call off their relationship before leaving for boot camp.

Is there a way to win her away from her husband

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months now, I've gotten real close with his close friends and whatnot, it's just his family I'm not very social with, especially his mom, I'm just a very shy person, I especially don't want to say the wrong things to them. The other factor would be that I rarely see his mom anyway, she's never home. She always complains to my bf about the house being messy, so I took the time to clean the house. So she doesn't come home to complaining. I was in the other room when my boyfriend told her that I cleaned the house. And she said " why are strangers cleaning my house.." ? I was very offended that she called me that. Im just wondering if that means she's hates me or is she right to have called me a stranger in her eyes?

It seems everytime I'm sitting at a Doctors office or other places. People will feel the need to sit next to me and strike up a conversation about their personal problems. I'm an easy going guy but some of their problems are of the T.M.I. kind. I'm not rude to them and try to help but it's kind of weird, Last week while i was waiting on my wife at the Doctors office. A man I'd say late 20's told me his wife just left him for another woman. I just mostly listened to him. but again i was thinking man W.T.H was that about, I just mostly listen and don't share to much information with them,

Okay so, im 16 now. when i was barely 14 years old i was hanging out with my best friend, who was the same age, and we were hanging out with these 3 other guys who we just met and they were all 18+. when they asked us how old we were we lied and said we were 15, just to seem cooler lol. and later when my friends mom had to go home one of the guys, Ej, asked me if i wanted to go in his house and watch a movie, i said sure. i was naive~ we were watching the movie Ted, and about 10 minutes in he started asking me questions that i didnt even know what they meant like "has your cherry ever been popped?" and if i was a virgin, which i was, he asked if i ever made out with someone then i said no, and he started making out with me. and also tried putting his hand down my pants and i said no but i dont think he took me seriously because of how shy and quiet i was. i was way too nervous to say stop so he eventually was inside me. and i dont remember every detail but i remember while he was doing it one of the other guys was outside of the window throwing rocks and yelling at him that he knew what he was doing and that i was too young. but he just closed the window and kept going. ~we were in an upstairs apartment. also he did wear a condon, i remember him putting it on. afterwards he went into the bathroom and i just left and walked home. sorry if this is way too long and discriptive but the only reason im not sure is i feel like i didnt try to stop it hard enough.

Hay un chico de mi instituto que sé que le gusto, me lo dijo, hablamos mucho por chat, se me acerca muy cariñoso y todo pero tengo una duda, siempre que estamos con mi amiga también conversando le presta más atención a ella, agarra su celular, revisa su mochila, también lo hace conmigo pero más le presta atención a ella, aveces le encontré que se le queda viendo, ella obvio sabe que yo le gusto a él y él le ayuda a ella a estar con otro chico pero no entiendo porque esa diferencia, parece que le gusta también a ella o estoy equivocada?

Ok so I was at school and i spoken of Braedan aka my crush and he just basically told evrryone in our friend circle (4 people )what the talk was but as a joke we all know what it was but what makes me mad is he said it in front of these most third graders and i know their gonna tell their friends and this isn't the first sex joke he has done he did another and then out principle had to come in and like talk to sepeartly and email our parents so I'm and side note:I was video chatting and i found out this girl in the circle also liked him,anyway so he is my crush and I don't want to cause trouble so my question is so I use this as dirt and tell I have a crush in him or tell the teacher to save myself

Okay so my best friend, we ll call her Jesse (15), recently told me that she had sex with her brother in law (27), we can call him Adam. So Jesse and Adam have apparently been getting very close over the past few months and she even says she loves him. They ve been texting and hanging out all the time, along with Jesse s sister, we can call her Stacy (age unknown). I was talking to Jesse and trying to understand why she s doing what she s doing, and she explained that Adam told her about something called "polyamorous". Jesse is now saying that she has always felt close to Stacy and she loves her as more than a sister. Apparently Stacy and Adam have talked about bringing in a third person to the relationship, making it a polyamorous relationship, and Jesse s name has even come up as a possible "third". As Jesse s friend, I m trying to support her, but I also can t completely wrap my head around the situation. Some of my concerns include the 12 year age gap, Stacy and Jesse together is incest, and if Adam is lying about the whole "talking to Stacy about polyamory" thing, then this could ruin their marriage and Jesse s relationship with her sister. Not to mention the legal issues. This is really only skimming the surface, but any and all advice for helping my friend is appreciated. Thank you.

So yea I knew this guy online.he is from the other country. He showed his cat pic .I said that I am afraid of cat .he says that he won't let his cat to go near me (umm, how am I suppose to meet his cat?- ok, maybe he is joking) then I told him that I am having stomach ache - he say he will bring water for me? Huh?) However, he seems really nice though- he love animal and he listen to me well.he say he cares about me- my state of beauty won't affect his liking towards me Is it fine if I stay in contact with him?

I hit on this guy at work and he told me he was married. then one day he pulls me aside and tells me how his wife cheated on him several times and even had a child with another man. yet he stayed with her mostly because of his faith and relationship with God... i don t know what to do. I feel like why would he open himself up fully to me if he wants nothing from me? I think he s afraid to jump into anything serious also and doesn t want to give me less than I deserve. but I also feel like he s too hard on himself ... I just want to get to know him and help him have a good time , as FRIENDS. I wouldn t want to cross any lines while he s still married .... what should I do?)???

I ve been watching shows and reading the articles about people living double lives and how it affects other people.

I m 16 and I m in highschool, my parents are uber protective-- don t allow me to attend sleep overs or hang out past 7. I have my first party on Friday night after moving to the US and I m afraid I m not going to make friends if I don t hang out with the few friends I have made. It s not a crazy party we re just going to watch a movie and it starts at 7-11:30. Their excuse is that they never allowed my older sister to go past 11 during her senior year, so why should they let me. I always have my phone on me and am super responsible. I can t bring them to make terms with my social life?

I like one guy after sooooooo long so so so so so long... i liked him so much and wanted him so bad but he didn't feel the same. I just feel so broken, is it true? Im destined to be this way?

First off the reason I am jealous of him is that he always outdid me in everything since we were kids. Being 5 yrs older than me, he was mom's favorite too. WE had a family get together and it happened to be April Fools Day. I was in charge of making the dessert, so knowing that my older brother is allergic to chocolate, I made a cake with cocoa in it except that I masked it so well with other flavors that no one would have guessed it was there. It was sort of meant as a joke, and I only intended him to have one taste before I told him, but I secretly I entertained what it would be like if he dropped dead of anaphylactic shock. Of course I wasn't going to let it happen. But as luck would have it he took about three bites before he could taste the chocolate, I was like, "April Fools!" And looked at me like I had shot him and walked out of the room without saying a word. Later my SIL told me he got sick and could have died. Now both he and my SIL are keeping me at arms length. I didn't think my April Fools joke would be taken so seriously that it made enemies in the family. Please help. Also, I do love my brother and just to say that the childhood jealous feeling wasn't carried when I made the cake. I just thought it would be a good joke, but maybe it did play a small part in why I chose that particular "joke" I also played a joke on my uncle and my dad involving a whoopee cushion and no one got mad.

I was walking at the hallway & i saw the girl I like there & I was looking at her but then I look away then when we pass by again I turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend then In class I was looking at her & she caught me looking but I look away then she went over to talk to her friend & I was looking at her but then I stop later I saw her at the back of the class & was looking at me but then later left class early

My boss cheated on his wife several times and I bought a phone for him too. I will regret it for the rest of my life! I want to tell his wife because I don t work for him anymore. I worked for him for 25 years and all I got was 4 weeks of vacation!

I m turning 20 this year, I ve failed at least 2 classes my 2nd at a university, and my only friend of mine basically told me that I m not **** to him... I don t know how to make friends, people arent attracted to me.. Like I don t think this life thing is for me to be honest... I don t know what to do with my life and I m feeling extremely hopeless. What should I do?

I took nudes (about 5) and I was completely naked. I sent them to one boy and btw i got caught and i learned my lesson. Everyone at school is saying im a s.lutt but am i? ive never had sex or kissed anyone, and this is the first time. I mean first time sending nudes.

Is there any point?

My ex has moved on she has a new bf who she says she loves, the way she texted me and later abruptly ended the coversation tells me her man is around now, she then proceeds to text me and tells me how she cant believe we are parents and cant believe things between us fell apart. She expressed that she is sad we broke under pressure of children and claims she is happy. While i learned to take what she says for what it is, why is she doing this?

Okay, so just a warning this might get long. I know how you guys love to play therapist though so that may not be a bother. Anyway, I have a friend. His name is Ty. We've been such great friends since 4th grade, mostly due to our mutual interest in various science fiction movies, such as star wars. We lost contact in 6th grade when we both graduated (our elementary school let out at 6th grade not 5th), but I was glad to see we didn't skip a beat when we reconnected when we were sophomores. We both go to the same college now and he seems very distant lately. I understand that he has some new friends now, but I can't emphasize enough how close we were. I know his mother like I know my own, maybe even more. He doesn't respond to my text, my calls, and he stopped visiting me. (He lives in a dorm, I rented an apartment.) When I told him that I felt used and unappreciated, he just said "Yeah, I'm sorry, I've just been really busy lately." Even though I know for a fact he has more leisure time than he needs. I really, really don't want our friendship to end. I don't have many friends at all, and I really do not want more. Please, any help is welcomed. Well, any HELPFUL help is welcomed. Thanks :)

I ve tried stripping for the past 3 years but never did it as my main source of income but now I m very unhappy in college and I keep going in circles of what to major. What I truly want to do it flip houses and open bar so I m planning on moving out my parents to work and travel with my cousin who is also a dancer. Working a few years as a damcer i can save enough for a business and enough to buy property to flip or possibly rent out. I normally would keep it a secret but I will be gone for weeks at a time so I kind of have to tell her what I m doing? How can I break the news to her and her not be heartbroken. Has anyone else been through this?

Dating her for 1 year 2 months. My birthday's next week. My grandma and mum both have cancer. My girlfriend is now my ex after I found out she was cheating on me with 5 other guys... What do I do?

My younger sister is getting married this weekend. I was not asked to be a bridesmaid in her wedding, but my husband and I RSVPd months ago, and I'm supposed to help my mom and sister with various things the day before and the day of, along with do my sister's hair and makeup. Meanwhile, my brother-in-law died two days ago in an accident. My husband and I flew out to his hometown, where I am currently helping out where I can while preparations for the funeral take place. The problem? The funeral is scheduled for the same time, the same day as my sister's wedding, as that's the day and time that most of his relatives are able to make it. The wedding and the funeral are across the country, so attending both isn't an option. My sister and I are close, so I really want to be at her wedding, but my husband says that since I am his wife, I need to be there to support him during this time. I was not close to his brother, and due to the fact that he lived overseas for a few months, I only met him a few times. If I were to go to my sister's wedding, I'd fly out Friday night, and then fly back to my husband's hometown Sunday morning. Again, I'm there with his family now and will be after the wedding, but attending my sister's wedding is very important to me. My family understands why my husband can't be there, but his family is expecting me to stay. Should I stay with my husband and his family and go to my brother-in-law's funeral, or should I go to my sister's wedding?

I've gotten an insult today,that my head looks like pumpkin and to put my head out of their way and i've been even called a guy.I'm pretty confident and to be honest I'm not ugly.I get compliments.I just ignored that group of boys that sat behind me who were throwing insults at me.Have i done well?what should i do in future? I almost cried.

I'm 22 I moved to Philly and just started a new life. Ive been through the maxium amount of emotional abuse from toXic family. Anyhow, I am finally moving on with my life after being what everyone want me to be. However, I have my moments where I worry about what everyone is thinking. Maybe because I experience extremed bullying in my own household. I know I always had a lot of fear of looking bad growing up. However, there are a group of girls I know and most of them didn't like me. But were "fake" friends. However when I waS 17 I done a lot of silly things and everybody thought I waS mentally slow and spreader rumors. And even my own family said I waS. For a while I questioned myself and waS afraid that I really had problems. But now at 22... I know those things were silly and even funny. But for some reason it's weighing heavy. What if everyone think I have a problem. I have new friends and I feel what if my family or people tries to tell my new friends these silly things about me. I feel guilty that my new friends even like me. I love thousands of mile from them and haven't seen my family or those old friends in 5-7 years.. What would you do?

He and I weren't friends! He didn't even accept my friend request and acted like I was invisible in highschool. Now that I walked into this store he turned around and just stared till we met eye and I just glanced at him and kept going about my business and he kept staring...why?