My boyfriend wants to get married. He talks about it a lot. He has children from his previous marriage and a lot of debt. I do not. I am not in debt and have no children of my own. He says once we are married we should combine our checking accounts however I don't really agree with this since I do not like how he spends money and also him and his ex wife should be financially supporting their children, not me. I can emotionally support and raise his kids and occasionally take them out for lunch, dinner, etc.but I feel the big financial responsibilities regarding his kids should be his and his ex wives not mine. Is it wrong for me to feel this way and want separate finances?

Been married for six months. I feel like he expects a housewife but I work a full time job.

Where can I find a divorce record online for free? There are lots of sites that say they are free, but they really aren't.

She threw her pants off, spread-legs, & yelled; "MAKE IT QUICK!!!" (another reason me & wife didn't last).

My son is 7 years old. His father and i divorced 6 years ago because he was cheating on me, was physically abusive, and was a terrible alcoholic. He is single and has no job and lives on welfare. He also has no driver's license for the past 5 years due to DUI, but has just recently started classes to get his license back now that he stopped drinking. I have moved on with my life, but my son's father has taken me to court twice to try to get joint custody, and the last time he tried to get sole physical custody of our son. The judge denied his request. It seems he is purposely trying to drag me to court as often as possible to get back at me for divorcing him. I have a great boyfriend who moved away for his job and we plan on getting married and moving my son and myself to his town. My boyfriend absolutely loves my son and is a great example for him. My ex husband is still theatening to take me back to court, yet another time, stating that I work and am almost finished with my bachelor's degree, so I have no time for my son, which is completely untrue. I have been the best example I can for my child. So do you think it is wrong of me to move my child away from his father to give him a better life? I did not add, because Yahoo didn't give me room, but I do plan on giving his father visitation time. The whole summer, spring break, Christmas vacation, and Thanksgiving vacation. If his father is willing and able to drive halfway to see his son, then I will be willing to meet him and let him have time with our son. My intent is not to completely remove him from his father's life, but to slowly give him more time with our son as I see that he has (Hopefully) improved his life.

It's been a very hard time. It's hard to know what to say, how to touch her or if i should...i know sex will take time obviously..I'm just hurting so much for her..and worried what the future holds for her/us..how this may change her/us. not being selfish just a very hard time. idk if we will ever be the same again...I'm simply devestated...idk how to handle this...

I work at a store im 19 so I'm the youngest one there she's 45 she keeps touching me she grabs my hand and pokes me in the stomach everytime she sees me she has a big smile on her face I mean I don't mind it I flirt back by poking and grabbing her I seen her husband before one time she poked me I said ima tell yo bf she laughed and said she didn't care tbh I'm cool with all the flirting she's kinda fine if she just wants sex that's perfectly fine with me

Would it bother you if you paid for almost everything and your spouse didnt because he/she has children form their previous marriage and financially struggles.

She acts like his wife does his shopping and messages him often .He says he wants me to be his wife but she s stronger than me .How can I be mistress of the house?what do you think of the situation

Would it bother you if your boyfriend/girlfriend starred at others while you were out to the point where other people would come up and talk to them and he/she was friendly back? What if you paid for a nice vacation for just the two of you and when you went to book some day trip activities at your hotel for the two of you he/she was chatting with another member of the opposite sex when you came back whom had been fighting with their spouse? Would this bother you? Would it bother you if they were fascinated with what others did for a living?

My husband's son just turned 18 last month. He pays an incredible amount of child support for his adult son because his ex-wife refuses to work and has been on welfare for 10+ years. His son has intentions on going to a community college in the fall. Does anyone know how this works in Indiana? A judge can't expect my husband to pay child support AND college expenses, right? I'm under the impression that his ex-wife must file 6 months prior to son going to college to have support extended for college expenses, but I'd imagine she would have to pay her part as well. Should my husband file if son goes to college and request child support be stopped and college expenses be paid? Or wait until son turns 19, when the order expires? My husband would much rather pay for son's school than give money to his ex. Can anyone give me some insight as to what we may expect?

We ve been dating for 7 years now and he still isn t ready for marriage. He s 25 and I m 21. I just moved in with him like 2 months ago and he always says that he wants his family to be here for that day. His mom and sister are finally approved for residency and they will be here in a month. I figured his family will family is here now, right now is a good time. But he wants his dad and brother to be here too and their residency would take 2 years or more and I don t want to wait anymore for marriage. I m not asking for a huge wedding with a glass sculpture, I was asking for a civil marriage which costs nothing compared to a big wedding. His mom and sister would be there, and for the big religious wedding, his dad and everyone else would be there. Heso teller me he doesn t believe in marriage.. why do something if u don t believe in it in the 1st place??. So it s making me think, he probably doesn t love me enough to marry me. He tellsaid me he still has a lot to do.. but we can do all of that together. I just think maybe I shouldn t waste my time if this isn t going anywhere... and I also think maybe I should just wait... but that s unfair to me. Any advice??

My soon to be ex husband and I have been separated for few years. We didn't have anything to fight over so we procrastinated to file for a divorce. Now I started using legalzoom for an unconsented divorce and one of the question asks "Are you pregnant?" I am actually currently pregnant with my new partner so I just said No to the questions since my ex will not be responsible for this child in any way. I read in some States, they will not finalize divorce until the child is born but we are in California. Can I just say "no" to the question since it's not my ex's?

but no, the mother in law is making 100% of the decisions, where we can and cant move to, she has to approve the house before we can contact the realtor about it, is this normal?

My wife and I have been arguing a lot lately, mostly over my working late and not being here as much as I'd like to be. We have 2 daughters, 11 and 13. We constantly fight over this same topic, but, even worse in my view, is, she has no issue arguing in front of our girls and going off. Me personally, I mean, if we're going to argue, I ask them to leave the room and then she and I keep our voices down. I remind her a lot that I'd love to be home more, but my workload makes it very hard and I hope to have it ease up soon. I've tried to make things up to her with jewelry, but, in return I get, " No buying your way out." Been married since we were 19 and it's just hard to go to bed angry most nights. I'll try going for a hug or kiss goodnight, but, it's hardly reciprocated. Any ways we can fix this?

When she and I moved into our new home, she agreed to let the den be my man-cave. My retreat. I know how my wife is, and know how she likes to leave her stuff cluttered around everywhere, but I gave her the benefit of a doubt. Well, despite trusting her word, the den is now covered with piles of clean clothes that need to be folded and put away. When I come home from work, I just go to my office because it's the only place in the house that isn't a disaster. She has sciatica, and I offer to help, but she refuses to let me fold clothes without helping me, and she's never in the mood to help me. I really don't know what to do. It's not the first time I have talked to her about situations like this, and she knows how uncomfortable I am in sloppy areas. Yet, she still expects me to hang out in the den with it looking like a pig pen. I shouldn't have to keep bringing this stuff up to her This is a recent development with the clothes being in the den. They used to stay piled on the bed until bedtime, in which they would get tossed in a corner. But now the "party" has moved to the den. I don't disapprove of using the den to fold clothes, but I don't like the fact that they stay there from day to day

My husband and I have been going through a lot in our 4 years of being together. We got married in September of last year and things are already seeming to fall apart. A month after getting married, I found out he was talking to another woman, and kept talking to her for a couple weeks. It was beyond a "friend" situation. Her name in his phone for her was "beautiful" talked to her in Spanish, and said things to her such as "I wish I was coming home to you and not my wife". I was heartbroken and angry. It came down to making him delete, block, and going threw his phone to make sure her name and number wasn t anywhere. I know I shouldn t do this but I have checked his phone since. He has been talking to other girls and putting their names as guys names. We don t have sex hardly ever, don t kiss or hug each other, nothing.. We fight all the time and I hate feeling like I am not good enough.. I finally broke down yesterday telling him I knew what he has been doing, and that he can go do what ne needs to do, but stop dragging me along for fun. Either man up, be faithful, try and put effort into our marriage or get out. I have done all I can do but I don t understand why he can t straight up tell me what s going on or why he will avoid everything when I bring it up.. He just says "I m assuming things" ... I want us to work but I am so close to my breaking point and just going to file for divorce.. What should I do...

I got married young. My husband cheated on me with multiple women. We do not have any children together (thank God) we are now officially divorced as of this year! I see a lot of my friends with their first engagement & wedding. It makes me kinda sad. I have not started dating yet as I just need some time to process things. I can't help but feel like I missed out by wasting 10 years on an a-s hole! I'm worried that it may be very hard for me to date now at 27. I feel like most men at my age will be either in a serious relationship already, engaged, or married! I also feel like I may get judged because I am 27 & divorved & often times that comes with a certain type of "stigma" I also think about my "wedding" I had a big wedding with my first marriage & feel like now I can't have a big "second" wedding & that family may judge. Also, being 27 I had planned to have kids very soon & I worry now about having children in my 30's because I hear it's much harder to get pregnant. Any advice out there? I'm a bit depressed

We both started dating each other at the age of 20. After 6 years I proposed to her. We have been married for 1year now. Today she dropped the "I want a baby" line. The thing is I just got done my masters degree a year ago and I finally get to try new hobbies that I always wanted too. I started martial arts and have been doing it for a year now. I'm scared I won't be able to workout, and do my hobbies anymore. I told her this and she said we'll talk more later. Will having a baby get in the way of my hobbies?

As you all know my wife's son (not my child) failed out of college his first year, got his girlfriend pregnant on purpose (they had a miscarriage), ruined his cousin's car (his grandparents put a new motor in it and gave it right back to him, doesn't have a job (cause mommy doesn't want him to walk a mile down the road). He's currently back in school though working on an associates degree in graphic design but I'm fed up with him. The more I talk to him the more momma runs interference and he's never going to grow up. He's been with his girlfriend all week and not doing his chores at home cause he turned 20 yesterday and his gf's parents took him out to eat and to an NBA game. He'll leave school and go spend every waking minute down to her house. I told my wife that he needs to not do that cause no one wants to come home everyday and see their daughter or son's gf or bf always in their house until late hours of the night. I told her that I was tired of him not doing his chores. He needs a job but she's not stressing the importance to him to get one. I found out that mommy has been paying his tuition thus cause our bills to get behind. I asked her for the gf's phone number cause I needed to talk to her since talking to him isn't working and now she wants to throw up in my face about my daughter who's in college. I told her that the two kids are now being looked at differently based on certain situations. I told her that since he flunked out of college he now has to be held to a different standard than my daughter who is doing well in her first year. Taking part time classes to work on an associates degree is in no comparison to taking a full course load away on a campus. She doesn't see it this way. To her school is school whether you are at a major university or at a local community college. Am I wrong here? Why won't she make her son get a job and cut the apron strings? I'm trying to teach responsibility with him. I guess he's got it too good. He's driving someone else's car scott free. Mommy and girlfriend are putting gas in it. His gf's parents are taking him out to eat and to NBA games simply because he turned 20 but they don't have a problem with their daughter footing the bills for all their dates. As a man, am I looking at this all wrong? I'd want to have my own money and not mooch off everyone else.

I have my own problems in working through in therapy but I have a question about gym husband. My husband and I got in an argument last night where I went off on him for not doing the dishes the last couple of days and he said he was so tired but was laying in bed playing with his phone while he heard me start doing the dishes. So it made me extremely angry. Admittedly I didn't handle things like I should. I said some hurtful things in the moment from being stressed and then I finished up my rant by getting on my tiptoes and getting in his face. After that he got mad and just said "I'll do the dishes but you have to leave me alone" and then he went past me and put our door as he VERY lightly and slowly pushed me into our room so I would leave him alone and stop getting so mad at him. The pushing didn't hurt at all and I didn't feel scared, just angry about the whole situation. Was the pushing abuse even though it was really light and slow and it didn't hurt? HE DIDN'T MOVE ME. The amount of force he used could be compared to moving me, BUT I wasn't in his way!! He was slowly pushing me back into our room because he wanted me to leave him alone. Do you still think it wasn't abuse on his part?

I've been with husband 4 year, married exactly 1 year. I have always known he is an angry, stressed out person, but I have loved him anyway because even with all the bad, he is a wonderful person in many, many ways. I have my problems too, I have developed depression over the past few years, and have always had anxiety, and I can have a temper as well. I try to work on myself every day to be better (being successful in it or not is a different story) but I try. I go out of my way for my husband to do things I think will make him happy, or hopefully make him realize he is loved so much. He has been happy in the past, and isnt now, I feel it must be my fault to some degree. I try to cheer him up all the time, and he just comes back at me with negativity. I feel like I'm walking on egg shells all the time, and my stomach is in a knot in his presence MOST of the time. He gets mad at everything and says his life is awful almost every day (a lot of it is career related). Today is our first wedding anniversary, and instead of saying happy anniversary, he got mad about his favorite podcast not working, and left for work without a kind word to me. He DID give me balloons and flowers for my birthday a few days ago, and I was deeply touched, but it would have been nice to have a kiss this morning and a happy anniversary. I need advice because I am depressed all the time because I want him to be happy, and he just isn't and I do not know what to do.

You are in your 20s and female. Consider it may be about more than sex. I am quite pretty. I won't see him often to be frank.

wife told me that she had a lot of male friends with benefits, when younger (20-30s) we are 40 now. i know its my ego and it means nothing now - but i did have a quick "twinge" when i heard it, wanted to know if any married dudes had this experience??

I'm torn. I briefly dated a man when I was a young teenager, and he moved across the us with his family, we reconnected years later (about 3 years ago) and I had already married someone else, he said that he still had feelings for me after all these years, and I never stopped thinking about him. We recently went to go see a movie after work and we were the only ones there, we had such chemistry, and the banter was insane. We understand each other, and I know we would be compatible. On the other hand I have a stable and strained relationship with the man I married, he calls me names when he gets upset and is just an asshole at times. I think that I could be happy with my childhood boyfriend, but I'm afraid to leave my husband and have things not work out with my ex. I'm afraid of the instability. I know m y ex has feelings for me, but I keep him at arms distance, because I know if things could work out, I wouldn't want to start them in a messy cheating situation. I don't know what to do. Since hanging out with my ex, I can't stop thinking about him, and wishing my husband and I had chemistry like that. Sexually I married a man who knows me like no other man has ever, and that's also something I'm afraid to lose.. I just don't know what to do.

My husband is physically abusive. I'm at a point where I can't take anymore and wanna leave but it ain't as simple as that. I come from a very strong Christian family that doesn't believe in divorcing and my mom has told me to stay lest I embarrass the family in the church. For my kids I really have tried to work out things with him but he does have a very bad temper and beats the crap out of me for the simplest things as not making dinner in time. My family will disown me if I leave and my kids will be taken away, cos I don't have a job. I am so broken. I got no life. I don't know what to do.

going to wife's college reunion - which should be fun because since she's been to mine. told her it will be cool to meet some of her college friends, she said "won't be many female friends" i said ok thats cool - " just a lot of guy friends". I said we all did the friends & FWB in college its cool - she got lil unfortable, why? should i have reacted differently?

My ex wife has full custody of our child and we are filling out dissolution papers. It has a section where we choose who is claiming the child on taxes every year. It says we can either do it every other year (her one year me the next) or one of us could claim all years, but at the end it says "as long as said parent is current in child support for that year. Well she isn't paying child support so does that mean the judge will mandate she pay child support if she claims him every year? I want her to claim all years because the child will be with her the most and she will need it. We live in Ohio

I mean where do these guys usually hang out and what type of women are they attracted to? I'd really wanna date one but i imagine they have very high standards. I am a brunette, seagreen eyes, 5'8 tall, 115 lbs so I'm fairly good-looking myself

We're young. I'm 20 he's 23. We got married on a march 20th - things were not flowers and rainbows to begin with but we love each other very much. We are expecting a baby girl in July. My husband already had a 4 year old from a previous marriage. It seems like our marriage is crumbling down because of my husbands financial situation. We are both struggling, but I am positive and am keeping faith that everything will work out well. My husband has a shitty job that doesn't even guarantee 40 hour a week. We were living together before we got married, so I knew he wasn't making the most anyway. My husband has to pay 400 in child support + bills, and pretty soon our new born is going to be an even bigger expense due to daycare. It's all getting to him and he's going on constant depressed mode. I can't even talk to him, about anything! He doesn't smile, doesn't show affection. And I know it's all because of our financial situation. How can I motivate him to seek better employment? He has labor skills but it's only in moving. He doesn't want to start at $10 because he gets paid $14 now. This whole pregnancy I have been stressed out. Plus, his son is 4 and about to enter pre school... I think his child support should go down at least to 200 a month. Before our daughter starts daycare. He's pushing me away, when I try to help I don't see his motivation. I see him breaking. Someone please advise me on what to do... Thanks

Need to know divorce date of Lawrence Edwin hayman of Denton md

i live in calfornia, can i marry anyone older than me after i turn 18?

I saw Men who can't or don't want to marry their girlfriend, want to be in contact with her for any reason. Why don't they marry her in first place or let her go to her life? Do they have mental illness? Are they selfish? Don't they think about others feeling? Or you think other reason?

He knows about a situation at home I'm going through. He wanted to get me a place I could stay rent free. I would have chosen the place it would've been a 2 bedroom apt.

So lets say a man and a woman are married for 2 years. The man loves the woman a lot, and would do anything for her. When she asks to go out, he takes her out and buys her everything she wants. He cares about her deeply. What if the woman, one day, started to cheat with one of the mans best friend? And when her husband asks: whyd you do it, she says because his friends p3nis was bigger, leaving with a giggle. And that was the only reason, and she says that shes been doing it a lot. What if then, her husband gets mad and starts to beat her up, making her bleed profusely and almost hospitalizing her. Who here is in the wrong and why?