We met mid fall last year while working out. We had great conversations and he became an acquaintance. I cut my visits to the gym when I realize I was developing a crush on him. I think it might be more than a crush. I had withdrawals when I stopped communicating with him. It's been six months but he crosses my mind still. I still work out at the same gym but I changed my workout time to.avoid him (I'm married). How long will this infatuation last? I though I am pretty disciplined and have common sense but why can't I get Mr Wrong our of my head?

Okay so a couple days ago, I was at a friends party and I might've gotten too drunk. We were at a bar and I don't really know how or why, but I kissed a random guy. Of course I started to feel guilty, so I told my husband like the next day. And he's been avoiding/ignoring me ever since. I feel awful that he feels so pissed at me. I mean i didn't sleep with the man, idk who he even his. I just kissed him. Is there anything I could do so we could move on from this?

I need to know where he is. This happened while I at work and my aunt was the who saw him leave.

Hye. I am a muslim man that are madly in love with a chinese woman. We ve been together for 5 years and because of our religion, it is so hard fo us to get marry. Can anyone please tell me what to do? I really wanted to marry her. Please help

Would it be right if a married man went to a strip club even if his wife didn't know about it? This would include a married woman going to a men's strip club. Would this be in any way cheating?

I say happily single. If you can't enjoy being single and happy with yourself first you likely cannot enjoy it with a spouse. No amount of 'sharing life with someone else' or such stuff ill make it easier if you can't handle being single first. Besides, being single & having no relationship means no headaches, since you have no romantic interest.

Can someone explain the steps in order to get married in the state of Texas? I know I have to apply for a marriage license. But what's after that? Is the wedding/ceremony necessary?

Its not a law but the clerk wont allow it A man can change his first and middle name but im not sure he can change his last name, i read somewhere a man was denied changing his last name, i forget where, but the dmv wouldn't change his ladt name based on marriage like they do for a woman, maybe he needed a judge to decide i forget where this was The problem is discrimination towards men. A woman can take he husbands last name as part of marriage, a man cant, he must go througha legal process to change his name. End discrimination

I've been married four years but I recently found out that my husband cheated on me back when we were engaged with some woman he met at a bar when he was out with his friends. It was almost five years ago but I still feel betrayed and I do want to forgive him but for now I'm just upset that it even happened and that I found out about it and not even from him but his brother's wife who brought it up when I said my husband would never cheat on me and since she thought I was lying she mentioned it and then realized I never knew about it. Should I forgive him and get past this or what?

Dated a guy for years. I'm fit, younger than him and attractive. He had turned down women his own age or older that liked him, and turned down fat chicks because he said he wasn't attracted. With me he said he was attracted, but he always tried to change me. I have red hair, he doesn't like it that color, all his exes in the past and the women he looks at when we go out together, are blondes, so he wanted me to dye my hair blonde. He doesn't like the clothes I wear, he actually wants me wearing things that are more revealing... I got tired of hearing him say how hot so and so was, or him always facebook stalking his exes and women he crushes on. So I left. But why would a man treat a woman like crap that is willing to stay with him, and treat other women who don't want anything to do with him, like goddesses ? @ bonn..... I did leave him, but my question is why would he have been such a dick to the only person that paid him any attention ?

I'm afraid that I'm being emotionally abused. Anytime my husband gets angry he stands over me and screams at me telling me how I've ruined his life and how I am evil. He's told me how I'm selfish and an inconciderate little *****. Usually he us angry over something really small, or some small misunderstanding. But anytime I try to explain he just yells louder and asks "what the hell is your problem" over and over again. Even if I try to just leave the situation( like go into a different room ) he follows me and continues to yell and insult me. If I try and leave the house he takes my keys and threatens to lock me out. One time he actually pushed me out of our apartment in the middle of the night without my shoes, phone,keys,or wallet. He then locked the door and refused to let me in for about an hour. He is constantly telling me how I make him want to kill himself and that every pain he has is my fault. He gets angry over the smallest things and then blames his actions on me, saying that I made him line this so it's my fault I'm being treated this way. He isn't like this all the time and I'm not saying that I am perfect. I make mistakes too and get angry, but I have never said or done anything like this to him. But it seems to me that no mattet what this is no way to treat someone you are married to. Am I right to think this way?? Or am I just crazy?? Is this at all normal for a relationship??

my parents fight a lot There's always yelling and name calling. They've talked about divorce. My mom caught my dad doing a bunch of stuff and in a bunch of lies and my dad thinks she never loved him. They've been married for 14 years and have 4 kids together. Mom has threatened to take us and leave the house. I honestly don't care if they split, but. And this us gonna sound like a dumb question, but should I pack a bag or otherwise prepare in case she actually does make us leave with her? Any advice on the situation would be good. Thanks.

I met this guy 6 months ago and we casually talk. He lives less than a mile from me and that's how I ended up introducing myself to him. I am aware now that he is not my neighbor but he wouldn't give me a hint of what street he lives in. I don't intend to stalk him because I'm not interested in him. However, I met other men who are a little bit more open. Also, we started talking about last names. He wouldn't disclose that either when he was the one who opened it up. I was trying to be spontaneous but this guy was getting me frustrated because I could see him as a friend Should I ditch this guy? I have more luck with other men who I met in the same fashion. They have social networking accounts, were a little bit more open, and didn't hesitate telling me where they live. I feel like I was shunned esp.I felt like we connected. I guess it waa only me.

So, I've been dating my boyfriend for about 3 months now and, I guess you can say we are extremely sexually active lol. We have sex maybe 3-5 times a week. Lately I've noticed that I'm not as tight as I was before. It's not loose, it's just not as tight. I used to barely be able to fit 2 fingers and now, i can almost fit 3, which worries me a bit. If we take a break from having sex, will my vagina go back to normal? I know this is an awkward question lmao I'm just concerned.

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We split duties with kids and go out when we can. She said she is always tired. I told her she should see a doctor, but she hasn't. I have kept it in and not shown emotion, but this is hurting our marriage. Any thoughts on what I should do?

I don't discriminate, if a woman hits me I'll knock her out like I would to a man. Equal rights, equal pay, equal fist. You want to get paid and get everything else like a man, then you'll get these fist like a man if you act up.

If I ever had a kid I could not take them. I'd send $500 gift cards to Walmart is send money orders gift cards to cvs or rite aid. I love my daughter so much so I don't pay child support cause I have full custody but I pay food rent toys shoes clothes diapers . I bought her a blow up pool last week. I'd give All the money I have to my daughter. Child support would just be nice to help us.

My youngest daughter was not mine. I was renting a house from my father in law who lived next door to the house when I found out my youngest daughter was not mine and when I asked how that happened instead of an explanation I was kicked out of the house with all my things thrown out. That was 6 months ago but I still miss living with my kids I just wanted to know how it is that I was not my youngest father and why I was led to believe different and both the ex and her father threw me out instead. Should I have just kept quiet?

Is it worse than if you never have brothers or sisters? I say no. If you never gt married, you can still live happily, but never having brothers/sisters is worse because you can miss out on one of the most fulfilling relationships in life, that of a ready-made best friend who's related to you by blood. yes, not all siblings are close, but many are, and if you're an only child, you might miss out on a great relationship. Marriage is not for everyone.

Yesterday I woke up with a large, red, tender lump on the shaft of my penis. After a few hours there seemed to have been a small crater formed at the head of the lump. There was one small droplet of clear liquid that came out of the crater but that is all. I put some ointment on it and the redness and swelling went down quite a bit. When I woke up The next morning, however, there were 3 other lumps that were much smaller formed on different areas on my penis and pelvis. Again, they immediately formed small craters and scabbed up within a few hours. Putting the ointment on these lumps decreased the redness and swelling as well. Obviously I am very concerned about these lumps being genital herpes and have not been able to go to the doctor yet. I have been googling pictures of genital herpes and have yet to find a picture that looks like the lumps I have on my penis. even though I haven t found any pictures of the sores that I have I am Still convinced that these are not normal and may be herpes. I know that herpes sores tend to form in clusters and they form puss filled blisters as well. I have not formed blisters or had any significant puss come from the sores and they are individual sores that are spread out over my genitals and not clustered together. but they are very noticable and are making me very nervous about possibly having a life long disease. Can someone please give me some insight on what these lumps may be? Do these symptoms seem conducive with genital herpes?

I am muslim and in my culture, women are supoost to stay virgin until marriage or else most men don't accept them. I know it's f*cking stupid because I'm sure most muslim guys aren't virgins themselves, but they wanna f*cking judge us. I am totally against it, but my parents want me to marry a muslim. I know I am 20 years old and can make my own decisions, but it's just I lived in a very religious household and I can't dissapoint my family. I only had sex once, I kinda do regret it but I couldn't help it,I wanted to live my life because I wasn't sure I would really get married. Now I am worried, my husband will know on the first night that I've lost it. I wanna fool him, I know not all girls bleed the first time but I know he could tell a dick been inside me. Please help, what can I do? Surgery?? Is there something to be done?

I want to marry a girl , She also knows that I am already married. Is there any possible way to register our marriage. Because She wants to register it .

It feels like the world is spinning too fast and I'm going to pass out at any second. It feels like the walls are enclosing on me and like i cant breathe. There is this pain in my cheast. Is it normal?

Is sex the only point in getting married? How different is living together with kids without getting married?

He says he wanted me to be happy. He even opened the idea of swinging and threesome. I am not sure if I really up to it. However, I met a younger man at my local gym and I think I want to get to know him more. Sadly, I think we're getting more romantically linked so I stopped talking to him. However, when my hubby opened up the explore my sexuality kind of talk, my young friend popped in my head. Help! I'm lusting but don't want to hurt my man. Should I tell him about the young guy?

He cheated on me 3+ times during the pregnancy and a 6+ times 12th grade. I didn t know about any of these times until I found out I was pregnant. We ve been together since 15 we took each other s virginity. He s the only person I ve ever been with but I m not for him anymore. When I 1st found out I was pregnant he was scared & we went though a rough patch. When I was 2 months He got really drunk/high and cheated on me & recorded it on his phone. Then when we got over it he said he would Do it again. When I was 6 months he met a girl at work they sent nudes, this was all happening during the day he proposed to me. He cried & begged me to not leave said he only cares about me & our son and he doesn t want to lose us. When I was 8 months shopping for my wedding dress he met girl at six flags asked her for her # lied and said he was single again. He kept calling her trying to meet up the day before we were suppose to get married. I found out and told him I m done the weddings off and I m moving out of our house. He was crying and saying he wants me to be his wife and have his children etc. I stayed because I wanted my son to have a family. He buys me flowers again now and tells me he loves me and im beautiful. I can tell he s scared to lose me now but I feel like I can t get over it this time all the times he s messed up on me keep replaying. Idk what to do anymore he s trying so hard and he s so scared I don t want to hurt him but the more I stay the more I hurt. Please help!

I have been married for 13 years. I supported my wife while she went to college, and made sure she never wanted for anything. I was medically retired from wounds received in combat. In 13 years she has never held a job for longer than 2 weeks, and even after 7 years of college she still has not earned her Bachelors degree. Does she have a right to my Pension?

Asking for someone else.. 9 years ago (before marriage) spouse 1 got pregnant, found out Spouse 2 was using drugs.. So she moved to Texas to be with family and raise the baby here. 2 years later spouse 2 shows up, promises he's changed and wants to be apart of their lives. Spouse 1 agrees to get married; she loves her son so much and wanted him to have a happy normal life. They were married in Texas, then moved to Arizona. They were there for less than a year when spouse 2 was caught doing drugs in front of their son while spouse 1 was at work. He was arrested and has been incarcerated for the past 6 or so years and has had little to no contact with his son. Spouse 1 left him and moved back to Texas. Spouse 2 will be released in 8 months and wrote his son that he can't wait to see him.. Spouse 2 is not on the birth certificate. And has had no real relationship with his son. Spouse 1 wants to file for divorce but their situation is complicated due to his being incarcerated in another step. What steps should be taken to file? How can she ensure her sons safety? Does the father have legal rights until a possible legal paternity test is done, and then will he owe back child support? Can she file in Texas? Or file as an annulment due to his use of drugs under Texas law? Any advice will help, she truly doesn't even know where to begin; but wants more than anything to keep her son safe.

I ve met a person in class, we connected like magnets. It s not the looks, it s not the talks, it s not anything he or I said, it s just a huge connection like an energy that pulls me to him..,I v been married for 8 years and everyday feels like the first day. my hsuband it s super handsome, charismatic, fit, and funny. He has all this qualities and attributes he loves me to death... So, this new person I connect with feel the same thing I feel.. We don t even express it in words.. When we see each other at school we say hi, and we just stare into each other s eyes and smile.. And we move on to our day.. We had one study meeting and it was intensely strong.. As if we knew each other for years... We were so comfortable with each other.. I don t spend time day dreaming about him as a person.. It s truly just the energy that makes my heart pop and stomach contract. What the hell is this feeling?? Have you guys had this before? Help!! I m an awaken soul, and I know this is wrong. I don t want it.. But, my heart rate races.. I don t desire him sexually or think of him like that. It s the connection that s bothering me or the heart racing. m,m,m,jblkbk/jfykstri5rs