She has three journals she writes in. Every night after the kids go to sleep, she writes and writes and writes. Sometimes it drives me crazy because she keeps writing and doesn't tell me about it. First off, I told her she doesn't go to school. She was upset and starting tearing out the pages. Next, she started typing in her laptop that I gifted her. I asked her, what are you writing now?! She just closed the laptop and hasn't used it for months. Then she write again in another journal she has. I opened it once and it had dates in there like a diary. Stuff written down about my brother's wife (her cousin). How she hates the way her cousin doesn't change the baby's diaper and how she feels bad that she yells at her brother in law (my brother). That's about all I remember. I told her she should stop writing **** and throw those things away. She's a mom, she doesn't need them. Her place is in the kitchen and laundry room, not the laptop, not the journal! She still won't understand. And she is a libra. I understand that libras always want whatever they want and they never finish what hey start. By the way, we are both 25.. It's not a trolling question. I just can't say names because she uses the same website. And I honestly don't know what to tell her..

I m just looking for some opinions from people who do not know either of us and therefore might be more impartial. I m trying to be as fair and reasonable as I can with this but it s really tough. First of all, my husband is a wonderful person. He has never cheated on me, hit me, or done anything on purpose to hurt me. I know that he loves me. The problem is that he has major anxiety issues that he refuses to acknowledge even exist, let alone try to work on. These are issues that started becoming prevalent when he was in middle school (according to his mother) and have gotten progressively worse and worse as time goes by. He has become an alcoholic largely because of these issues (he started drinking at age sixteen) and that has also gotten progressively worse as time goes on. My love for him will always be there, but after twelve and a half years together I don t know if I have the will to keep trying to battle his demons, especially since, again, he won t even admit that they exist. Please people of the internet, I need your advice.

My parents are pressuring me into marriage with a girl I don't know. They are so eager to have grandkids you'd think they were dying soon. My question is: will i lose interest in the many girls who've given me the "approach me already" stare? Or are my parents aware of my popularity and want to make me happier by at least cheating on a wife I don't love?

I was at a model audition and he kept making remarks about me and teasing me. I thought he was being mean at first but he later revealed its his sense of humor. There was another model there that he didn't do the stuff he was doing to me with. Was he more attracted to me than her? He took every opportunity to say something/Jab.

He was just staring at me when I was getting food at his house. No smile just staring. I said hi and he said he back but just kept staring. He's very bright and seems pretty engaged when I speak to others around him. He giggled to himself when I was walking towards him. I corrected his mom about something a little before he was staring in the kitchen. I'm 22 and he's 23

My girlfriend has a 5 year old son with her ex and he is now married after he broke up with her he moved on. Me and my ex have been together a year and I believe she loves me but her ex doesn't want her around just the boy. He never returns her calls unless its about his son. He eventold her when we first got together to stop ccontacting him so much. I don't understand because he is a very active father and I want to marry her but the way her ex Is towards her worries me that theres something I don't know. Is this a red flag?

I wake up knowing that my girl has been ****** by many men, some one night stands and some few month flings. Am I the sucker for dating her? She new that eventually she'd find someone loved her but it didn't matter, she gave herself night after night as a *** bucket to other men. They and her get the last laugh. Why is it that women think it's ok to be used as a whore and then present themselves to a hard working, loving person who would do anything for them and somehow it be ok? I guess I've never been able to separate sex and love. Maybe it's because of my upbringing or maybe I think something is lost when you treat an action as close as sex as something meaningless. The action that will create my kids, to her was just a fun time with a stranger.

Any opinions ?

I've always wondered what that thing is called. Why do people put it in front of their houses for?

I would imagine marriage would be very boring.

So my husband and I have been married for 20 years and his ex has been remarried for 21. We've never been friends. Never enemies either...just no reason to talk to each other except on occasion. After all these years she's been hunting me down on social media, sending me private messages telling me how awesome I am and for the past two weeks, multiple messages telling me she loves me. Ignoring her has not stopped it. What in the world could she possibly want from me? It's weird!!!

are there no good men, because we ladies like to be treated like crap?

If a couple had a child then got married after the child was already born, do they have to file a dissolution with children or can it be a dissolution without children since technically the child was conceived and born before the couple got married?

I want to start off with background info. I am 25 yrs old with 2 kids my, my boyfriend is 38 yrs old with 2 kids as well. I love those girls and am excited we are planning to move in as a family in a couple months. He always tells me he knows I'm the one and that he wants to marry me. The issue however is the marriage part. I can't seem to accept the fact he's been married 3 times before me. I can understand his 1st and 2nd marriages one was when he was young the other was obligation from unplanned pregnancy (except the getting her pregnant again part especually since she was an unfit mother to their first) however his 3rd which was 2 years ago upsets me. When we met he told me they were FRIENDS they got married to help her financially since she was sick and they were friends. As time passed she came up again and he told me a different story. He says she didnt care about him or his kids and was unfaithful. I reminded him about what he previously told me and he says yes I did marry her to help her. He explains how they were friends but were sleeping together and went to Vegas and eloped. That story conflicts but explains a lot which causes me to feel unsure of accepting his marriage proposal? I know he loves me and is a good man but I've never been married so being his 4th wife makes me feel unimportant. I don't feel special.Moving our families together makes me so happy. I feel embarrassed asking my traditional family for advice they would question my judgement. Help please.

I lost my wedding band, should I tell my wife about it? Here how it happened! Am working with my ring, so during movement around the place where I was working by dos not wanted to cut my finger with my ring, so had to keep it save somewhere in my pocket, but had so much stuff in there got mixed with everything, when I pull out my car keys! Started searching for it.. So I don t remember when it felt out my pocket. Or might be at home?? What you people recommend?

what's the solution? We always argue about this.

Yes I've heard there are a lot of people that are married and dont have sex at all and are okay with it, search it up

To make a long story short, we have been married for 6 years and we have 2 beautiful kids together. I was a stay at home mom most of the marriage so I did most of child rearing and cleaning which wasn t a problem. What was a problem was he didn t do much with the kids, I did all of the finances, yard work, vehicle maintenance and everything else. He only went to work, came homeand played video games for 12+ hours a day. I asked him on several occasions to help more and by help out I meant cut the grass and take out the trash. He never did it. I started working again and it was the same thing. I was working on top of everything else I had to do at home. I pushed for counseling and he went a few times but stopped going. A few months ago he decided he was done and wanted out of the marriage. I asked why and he said he felt like a failure and I was trying to change him too much. I only asked him to help me more around the house and with our kids and work on his anger (he has a horrible temper). He s not willing to work on our marriage at all. We re living separate and all the things I asked him to work on he ll have to do anyways now that I m not there to do it so I don t understand. He said he still loves me but he doesn t think he can make me happy. Most people will tell me I need to let go but I love this man and I take my marriage vows very seriously. He s not seeing anyone else. His work schedule is nuts so he doesn t have time to.

As the title says, she has been cheating on me with a midget...My co-worker taken some snap shots when they were in the restaurant. She works very long hours, well I think I know why? Some nights, she does not come home and I tell her "Why" and she said she is busy with her friend doing some stuff. I put a tracker in her car and the data shows she goes to this house on daily basis. So I know that is not her friend house as I know all of her friends. I tired talking to her and telling her that is everything okay? any problems? Issues? We can talk about it together. She is very strange and aggressive and I cannot accept that. She did ask me to transfer few properties into her name but I am not stupid. In the end, she will be enjoying her life with a midjit with using my money once houses are sold. What the best way of Payback? I am ready for a divorce.

I'm bored at work, and could use your stories to cheer me up.

Let's get this out in the air. I love her. And I don't have space in my heart to love another person but my ex and I are close and we've become best friend's and it just developed rapidly and right now our friendship has been going on for close to 10 months. I've been really the only one who's been by her side through the past 3/4 of year where everything hit her so hard and she might not have gotten through it without me. She loves me too. I just hope that it betters our chances at love and reunion and one day hopefully marriage. I'm 36 and she's 30, so we're not young and dumb anymore.

I will be moving cross country soon as we are getting married in the summer. Being stationed in the desert in Cali, I am afraid I will have trouble finding a job. I make very good money where I am now. He brought up getting a prenup. If I give everything away, leave my family behind, and then lose my financial stability and he decides to leave.. I'll be stuck without the finances to return back home to the other side of the country. Any thoughts?

My husband comes from a family where his parents don't really love each other. They fight unlike my parents who love each other. My husband loves me but has a hard time showing it. He will say "I love you" just not every day. He struggles with love because he never grew up with that example. I show him love every day all the time. I say it all the time too. What should I do about his situation?

He wont let me use medication to kill my labeto. I dont want to masterbate and I hate rejection. Cheating isn t an option and i just am tired of him not wanting me. He doesn t want to take meds. Help me plz

I am wanting to get a second savings account seperate from mine and my wife's bank without her knowledge. Since she is the one who pays bill, and does all of our monthly budgets, I want to have money on the side so I can actually suprise her with a gift, instead of her knowing I got something. My primary concern however is if she did find out, that she would think it was money being saved for me to leave her, which is far from being the case. Should I do this? Or find another method?

Comes to you and says..we're not makin enough money here. We don't have anything in savings or retirement, this isn't going to work. (there aren't any luxury items to cut out) What is your response?