Ok I met this drop dead beautiful lady that is a friend of our family. She is married and has children. I watched this one video where 3 guys are raping her and she is crying and trying to get free. I thought to myself "I would love to do that to her." Now I have this single friend that I met at a church group and I watched that same video and thought to myself "I couldn't do that to her." The church group friend is also drop dead beautiful. Now why do I have such a bad fantasy over the married friend but not the single friend? do have normal sex fantasies over the single one.

my daughter passed away in a car accident and the state awarded me full custody of my grandchildren ages 5.9 and 13 their father never really has been in their lives I got a court order through the mail few months back him requesting dna on my gran babies cause he wanted visitation rights I was okay with that cause it its important for them to have their father in their life he wanted my grandson to skype with him when he got off the bus so he could ask how their day had went but the skype messages are very harsh hes always telling them to pack their bags hes coming to get what is his that I only want them to collect money telling them their mother died cause she was a sinner and how he will kill himself it goes on and on my son thinks I should keep copies of these text messages but I don't know how to without a camera is there a easier way .

Hi. I've been with my husband since I was 18 I'm 27 now we have 3 kids one on the way... And ive been thinking heavily on going to my family's for the summer just me and the kids.. I love my husband but I when he's around it's nothing but stress. I am a good wife I do what a wife is supposed to do even while 8 months pregnant. I fend to the home,kids,yard, pets. And him he doesn't have to do anything really. I surve his food drinks smokes run his shower get his clothes ready for work or anything. What ever he wants/needs I go and get it for him. I'm also tires of struggling. He won't leave his brothers job to get one with better pay so we can afford things we need because he says he can miss work days and not worry about getting fired. I told him I wanted to go to my family for a while but he won't pay for it.. I don't work cause he won't watch our kids for me to work nights.... Should I leave after I have the baby and rake a break from him or should I stay? I have to find out why I'm nor happy around him or with him it's just worry is he gonna yell at me or the kids or is he gonna fuss at me OE the kids or complain to me and yell and slam things around ?? I don't wanna worry any more.

When I comforted her about it she said she still wants to be married and she loves me she also said divorce isn't an option we have only been together a month and 10 days my feelings are hurt I want to kill myself but I know I shouldn't I saw these things in her diary what do I do

We both work long hours in full time jobs. I also study at university. So my plate is quite full. But in the four years we have been married, we have struggled to find time to go out together. Now we are trying to have a child but I sometimes wonder about the lost opportunities for us to travel overseas. We are getting older and just reached our early 30s. So we think now is the best time to have kids. But when I see the media and Facebook posts from friends who are going out a lot and seemingly living very close, connected lives it makes me question my relationship. Especially as the only time we really come together is just to sleep of an evening. We definitely don't share any activities or go out on dates. I sometimes wonder if I'm making the right decision for us to try getting pregnant now. Especially when the connection between us is not one of much fun. We don't share much in common except a commitment to each other and willingness to make the marriage work. There's a missing link of shared travels and connections. We never went on weekends away, camping, exploring etc. In fact, my wife is usually the one to express little interest in these small getaways. She just wants to keep working in her real estate job and making money. I understand because we have debts and commitment to our property which is nearly finished being built. Chances are I might be about to land a better paying job with a normal 38hr week. The extra time has me wondering if we could travel. It's a bit ironic because about 5 years ago I really wanted kids. I was 25 and we had been together for 2 years. But now that we are more established and about to move into our first home and settle down, I kind of have mixed feelings. I still look forward to becoming a father before I get too old. It's just that I am trying to focus on having a decent career to provide for a family. And I'm also thinking about how we will go travelling later on. Basically I'm thinking about what life will look like when we move into our new home and start to settle. It's then that I think we will be better positioned to really enjoy life a bit more. Obviously we won't have that time for a couple of years if we are busy raising a child. Hence my thoughts about what life is going to look like. I don't always want to be busy with work and raising children. I'd like a bit of romance and one on one getaway with my wife. Time for us to explore while we are younger. Not waiting until our 40s or 50s after the kids have grown up.

Ok so lately Me and my husband have been swamped I'm 8 months pregnant and working full time. He works doubles sometimes but we always make it a point to talk and cuddle. He's very touchy feely even when he's tired. Today he only worked a 3 hour shift. Came home said hey went in the bathroom for almost an hour then went into another room scrolling on his phone then avoids me in another room for another 2 hours and counting. He says he just needs alone time but we always say goodbye in the morning he just left out, and always at least not ignore one another and tell each other in advance we need space so the other won't feel strange. But I feel so weird. This was supposed to be out date weekend

So, my spouse flew home and in the midst wrote a post on FB that reads, "Home Sweet Home". I feel it is a bit insentitive to me considering we've been married 3 years and live together in a house. I feel a bit shocked that he would be writing these things and recieveing many likes for it considering I am here alone waiting for him to return after his two week trip. Am I overreacting? He shouldnt have written that..I feel sad

Consider the fact that they are unseparable on the campaign trail and holding hands while thousands of people are cheering and your husband is saying how brilliant this woman is, would you be annoyed just a little? I know that I would!!!

We have been married over 20 yrs and have two sons together. A yr ago he took a new job over 2 hours from home so he stays in a motel for 4 nights a week up by his job and then comes home fri-sun every week. We have sex almost every weekend when he's home so it's not like sex stopped. Last night I just found out that he is having an affair with a 24 yr old woman he works with. He's been texting her and sleeping with her. I am in absolute shock. I just never would've expected this. I've known for less than 12 hours so I haven't thought everything through but I know I want couples counseling. I don't want to leave. But I just don't understand, how could he have sex with a 24 yr old? They've talked on the phone for over an hour on numerous occasions and they text often, (all in secret, I didn't know) so I don't even know if it's strictly sexual. What if he has feelings for her? Is that possible? I don't know if the 24 yr old knows he's married so I don't want to hate her, regardless if she knew, my husband is still in the wrong. I know I need to address my issues w. my husband because hating the woman won't help me get over this.

We live in NY state and have joint legal custody of our child. My ex Is moving 45 minutes away and wants to enroll our child in a new school. This school is not a great school and does not offer the physical therapy our child needs. The school she currently attends does, and is a much higher rated school. My ex is not moving for a job, she doesn t work, she is just moving because she wants to. Not only will schools be affected by the move, so will my visitation. What makes it worse, is she told me they are moving next week! What can I do? Yes I am in the process of lawyering up. But do I stand a chance on getting my daughter to stay in the school best suited for her? I live in the school district. Is it possible I could get custody of her?

Since alien day was a couple days ago, I watched all of the movies on my day off after I took care of all the house crap. Well he get upset with me and starts yelling how I'm supposed to watch crap like mean girls and the choice. I'm sitting there thinking what the **** is the choice. Anyway I tried talking to him about this and all he said was Im a woman and I'm not supposed to like movies like aliens or predator.

My ex husband of 6 months and I just got our divorce trial completed 5 days ago. I was awarded primary custody of our 2 year old son. My fiance and I have been together for 2 years and my ex and I have been separated for 2 1/2 years. The decree is expected any day to be signed but I just learned that my fiance and I are expecting! I had no idea before the trial...what happens? Are the orders still in effect, what can he do?

If things don't work out my husband and I will divorce. He spoke to me many times he's very unhappy about everything that I do. The way I dress/look/cook/clean anything. We both work. i work from 7 or 8 to 5pm, he works different hours because he's a personal trainer. So every day he is waking up at 4:30 or 5am. and coming home different hours like 5 or 6 or 8 it's not a set schedule. I do the cleaning, the cooking, I'm working too. we have no kids but 1 cat & 1 dog.. i feed them and walk the dog. I'm tired and stressed I feel there's no me time. I watch what he wants to watch I have no time to do anything and sit down . only me time is in the shower. I have no time to do my hair. He sleeps like 10:30pm and gets upset if I don't sleep with him because I will wake him if i come to bed late!! how can i do everything? I come home I'm not perfect I want to dress comfortably but he calls me a clown. My cooking isn't great but I'm trying. I'm only 24 he's 30. I just don't know where is the time for me to pack healthy lunch when he wakes at 430. make healthy food for his lifestyle when i come back too from work. and on top of that I need to go workout 3x a week because I'm trying to better myself be active as he is. I'm 5'2" 125lbs but I'm too skinny-fat he says I need more muscle more fit. I want to make him happy. i wake with him at 4:30 and made him breakfast many times to go and i go back to sleep. just the other day telling me my face looks bad I have dark circles I look like a person who has HIV..WTF.. i tend on him hand and foot and soon as he arrives, and I have to cook something before we sleep and clean up the mess make sure the dishes are put away because if I don't I'll be called lazy by him. Hess a very clean neat freak. I love him but I can't be that perfect girl who works and keeps an amazing house in place and cooks him amazing food and on top of that look like a model. I want him to be happy I just don't know how to plan what to do. to make our life's more easier I don't want a divorce, i don't want him to cheat. I'm trying to make a list of lunches I can prepack that's healthy for him. will all my weekend consists of waking up cooking early and evening consist of cooking dinners for the whole week/cleaning? He always compares me & thinks the grass is greener on the other side.. telling me girls my age are different and are cooking better or being more active with their lifes. like how can i do that. How? i get home at 6.walk pet training @7. come back 8:15 at home.then cook/clean and sleep and repeat.

If a family member tried to hook you up for marriage with a person they know. But both of you are free to accept or decline the other.

she wants you to support her and pay all the bills, while she lays back and watches oprah all day?

I never want to be married, I never want friends. I want to be alone and enjoy the beauty of life without anyone beside me.

He said he will leave me if I dont stop because my "**** arent all that" (I have big fake boobs" he has great qualities but hes constantly criticizing me, I dont believe in divorce but him putting me down is wearing me out. we had a bad start to our relationship-him cheating etc and after a while of having access to his fb/phone I quit checking this year because it was making me paranoid. So even though he probably has nothing to hide if I ever express an insecurity I get blasted. Last time it was im divorcing you, im tired of your **** etc. Then yesterday he said im taking advantage of him because I was mad he hadnt replied to a text for two hours at work and he said again im mommying him and i knew where he was and he was busy. Whose right in this whole thing? Im so stressed im not thinking clearly.

I know this isn t the place to whine and cry about stuff but I have no place to go. I have a husband but all he tells me is ignore it or don t listen to it.. My family is the same way. I know I m still young and basically newly married but I can t get over the fear of having a kid I m only 22 years old. I ve only been married for 5 months but what kills me is how everyone constantly nags on when I m having kids. It s on a daily basis. "Oh you need to have kids they are such a blessing!" " You re married now, it s about time you start having kids!" Etc. I ve got several reasons at to why I m so scared, don t get me wrong I want 3 but I just can t get over the fear. 1. Finding out I m pregnant 2. Giving birth 3. Would any of my family be happy? Or would they be disappointed in me? 4. Would I be a good mother? 5. I won t ever have money for a kid 6. I don t want my child to look like me.. I hate the way I look and I don t want my child to hate itself for looking like it s hideous mother. 7. I have no motherly instincts. A baby cries I don t have a clue in what to do. 8. I don t have the patience 9. I m scared my patience won t be there and I ll hurt my kid 10. I m constantly depressed and don t want to do anything much less deal with a child. Stuff like this plus 100 more things go through my mind. I don t know what to do anymore I m so lost as to what to do and I don t wanna go to a psychiatrist and him tell me that I have to take 30 plus medications. I m not dealing with that.

I just don t know what to do anymore. My wife and I are both 24, and just recently married. Less than a year. We have had a crazy first year of marriage, and I ve done things I never thought I would or could....and I just wish I could start over again. But I can t, and I m trying to move past it. Maybe that s part of it....but I have always struggled with what I assume is depression. I am just so down and sad and worried all the time. Some times I feel like laying down and not taking to anyone and sometimes I wish I would just fall asleep and never wake up. I ve had legitimate suicidal thoughts in the past few week, even though I know I would never act on them, it really freaks me out that they are even there. My wife gets down and depressed when I do, I do when she does, and it just becomes a vicious cycle. I m starting a new job because I lost my old one, we ve been tight in cash since before we ve gotten married, etc....things are just crazy and have always been that way. I love my wife more than words can explain and I would and will do anything to try my best to make her happy and make sure she is safe and loved. I just feel like I fail so often.... She says that s it s okay and that we ll figure it out, and I want to believe her, but I just can t stop being so depressed. Even just tonight I tried my best to not get depressed and even told her that I wouldn t, and I did anyway.....she said she gives up on me. I am so scared that she hates me and hates living with me.

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I have my cartilage, 3 piercings on each ear, my nose, and my belly button. I really want my nipples pierced, but I am scared of the pain. If anyone could give me some advice or their opinion, that would be greatly appreciated :)