Family: Question: Bulimic Mother?

Question: Bulimic Mother?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 01:18 PM PDT

My mother has had this eating disorder for as long as I can remember. So for at least 17 years, if not more. She is 51 years old. She eats a lot of food, everyday, but she spits out half of it, and then she vomits the other half. I think the only thing she actually keeps down is candy and soda. She always complains about gaining weight (she is 140 lbs and 5'4). She has depression, anxiety, bipolar, paranoia, low thyroid and a billion other issues, if that tells you anything. She will explode in your face if you say anything slightly negative. She yells, screams, slaps you. Everything. She needs help, but she won't get it. My dad is too scared to talk to her about it, and I've already tried telling her and she won't listen to me and just yelled at me and called me a ********. She doesn't try to hide it, either. She just vomits and spits up food all the time. She even spits food into my dog's mouth, like a bird, or she'll leave it on the floor for us to clean it up.

Question: I want my mom to be happy, but I dont know how..?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 01:17 PM PDT

I'm thinking about moving away soon, i'm 18 and want to move to a bigger town to achieve my dreams. The thought about moving is great, but on the other side, I also have a sad feeling, because I need to be away from my family. Its not because they need me like a father or a provider, but I just feel like I need to be there.. My mother is not happy with her life, I know she is sad and depressed a lot, she wants a boyfriend, she's only had my father who she is divorced from, but she cant get one because my older brother is an autist and needs a lot of help and attention. I just want her to be happy, have a better life, she is a ******* therapist 24/7 for my brother, she never has any fun in her life, she wants a man and I really wish she could get one, and thats why I dont like moving away... Its not because I can help her in any way, I cant do anything actually... I want to do the right thing. For me, it would be moving to Stockholm (the bigger town), but for her, I should stay and take care..

Question: I am a 20 year old young man and I would like to have a mother that I never had can someone help me?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 01:03 PM PDT

Question: It bothers me how my brother is so lazy but I do my stuff? Help me look at this differently?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 12:53 PM PDT

He is 19 I am 25. Im back living at my moms while I get my stuff together. I am more independent than he is. It bothers me though how he doesn't do anything. My mom makes him breakfast, does his dishes, buys his food, pays his phone bill, etc. I have payed for everything myself and with social assistance since I started working at 15. She bought some food though and makes me dinners sometimes but it is still different....I mean, I know I am way more independent. But it still really bothers me and I do not know why. Truthfully I would rather be independent than be in his shoes, but it still annoys me how entitled he is. Help me please see this differently. Thanks.

Question: I do not want to invite my older sisters to my college graduation. What should I do?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 12:35 PM PDT

I am graduating from college in a few weeks.I am a 22 and my sisters are 38 and 44. I am really excited because I did not do well in high school (due to mainly emotional stress from my sisters), and now I am graduating from college with a 4.3 GPA and a double major. I want this to be a really fun, happy, nice day for me and I know if my sisters are involved it won't be. So far in my life, my sisters have ruined everything for me. Birthdays, first communion, high school graduation. The middle sister did not talk to me during my high school graduation party, and gave me dirty looks the entire night because she did not like the way the invitations I sent out looked. The oldest one threw a fit at my welcome home party (I had been studying abroad for a year.) The fit was over my dad asking her if they could switch places at the dinner table. Instead of welcoming me home and looking at pictures of my trip, she sat in the bedroom and cried and made a big deal about my elderly father asking if he could sit in the more accessible. In general, they look for really stupid reasons to be upset and start fights, and some how they always find a reason. I feel really bad not inviting them, but I want to have one happy moment for myself I have never had anything go well for me because of them. I have thought about this a lot and I feel like the best thing to do is to not invite them. How do I exclude them without drama? Also how do I get my parents to understand this?

Question: Why does my mom wrestle me down and tickle me all the time?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 12:29 PM PDT

I am her teen son. M dad does nothing about it. my not m

Question: NEED HELP TO DEAL WITH A BITCHY ELDER SISTER.....?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 12:27 PM PDT

i have a sister 2 years older than me... she is cause of quarrel between me and my mom... i would love to rebuke her on her birthday as a birthday wish on her timeline...... can't find words that she 'll never forget ..plus i want to make her realize how bitchy,pathetic,dis heart and dishonest she is.... ANY HELP PLEASE????

Question: Love My Step Sister?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 12:26 PM PDT

me and my step sister are very close she s older thsn me which makes her my big sister we both love each others a lot and I look at her as my sister and she looks at me as her real brother and i love her more than anything in the world and she feels the same way about me in my eyes she is my real sister not my step sister and our family knows we feel this way about each other their happy for us Is this normal

Question: Found descreet s e x in my dads phone history??

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 12:22 PM PDT

My dad let me use his phone to search Google. When I went to delete my history which was for out garden, I came across "Descreet sex" along with our towns name. And also "Female companionship" and out town. What should I do??? Should I tell my mom? Mention it to my dad? Ask my siblings? My dad works very early mornings and comes home after work, so I don't think he's met anyone, but sometimes he takes off early and he could do that and we wouldn't know. Any advice?

Question: If my father got my wife pregnant, would my fathers murder be justifiable?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 12:07 PM PDT

What would you think of a person who murdered his father because of it?

Question: How can I stay with a friend while my parents move outta state, but still have them have full parental custody of me?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 12:03 PM PDT

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Question: Are mothers allowed tickle their sons whenever they want?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 11:46 AM PDT

I am a teen boy and she tickles me a lot. Too often.

Question: Should I go back home?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 11:39 AM PDT

I miss my dad and friends. i am not happy here in the usa. i have my degree already and a good job. I am not happy

Question: When do chores become too much?:/?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 11:38 AM PDT

I have chores from the minute I wake up until I go to bed. I literally do everything in the house even stuff my mom should be doing. My mom doesn't believe that school can stress me out so she makes me do everything every single day cause she thinks my life is too easy 🙄

Question: I don't like old people?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 11:17 AM PDT

I just don't feel comfortable around them for some reason and they're always rude to me. I don't even really get along with my own Grandparents as it is. Am I a bad person?

Question: Im 19 years old and my family is treating me like crap?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 11:03 AM PDT

Im 19 and i have my parents and 2 sisters. I am in the middle. Ever since i started growing up I always felt like an outsider in my family. Im jist different. Im completely out going and my family is always putting me down. I am indian and the worst mistake I did was introducing my parents to my boyfriend. He is hispanic. Everytime me and my mom argue she always says you are becoming "hispanic" which is extremely racist. She says things like I will never do anything in my life. My parents have always used me for money. They told me to get a job when I was 13. Which i did. Getting payed 4 dollors an hour at a local grocery store. Then when i was 18 i was hired in walmart. I was making okay money. I alwayd payed rent..1000 dollors each month. They always asked me for money i gave it to them. Recently i got laid off after 1 year in a company and i didnt got hired until yesterday. My parents were treating me bad the whole time i couldnt pay or give them money. I just feel like my whole family uses me. Idk what to do. I feel depressed or like the black sheep in the family. They gave up on me when it comes to school. Infact they think i ahould help my older sister graduate by helping her ..by dropping her off to college everyday. Im just so sick of my family. My mom and dad have done nothing in their lives. How can i believe them when they say i wont either. Im working and going to school. I dont do drugs and dont have sex. Or drink.

Question: Is it bad me and my brother did this?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 10:55 AM PDT

So recently I've been feeling my hormones. I'm in 6th grade and he's in 9th grade. We share a room. We both can't have a bf or gf. We're the only kids in my family. When my mom and dad are at work we both do things with each other. We hug, kiss or make out. Sometimes when we're on our phones he comes onto my bed and puts his hand or hands on my buttocks. Yesterday we did something I shouldn't really tell anybody but I feel so wrong for doing it. We had unprotected anal sex. He put his penis in my anus. He was "balls-deep" in me. He occasionally was touching my thighs or breasts. I don't know if this is allowed where I live. It does feel good as I release my hormones but is it nasty?

Question: How do I control my 2 yr old brother's rude actions?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 10:46 AM PDT

I have a 2 yr old brother who has recently been pretty rude. When he does something wrong, I, of course, tell him not to do it. Then he yells back in a rude way. He hasn't been like this when he was 1. He's turned aggressive and annoying. I don't know what to do. If I leave him alone, he'll act the same way. If I punish him, he'll get even worse. Help?

Question: My MIL wants to confront me about telling her niece I was not allowed to speak to her.?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 10:34 AM PDT

Long story short my husbands cousin and I became close and my MIL didn't like it. She became very defensive when she would see us getting along and make passive aggressive comments towards us. We both noticed and we agreed that we would distance ourselves in order to avoid any drama. MIL "heard" I said I was "prohibited" from speaking to her niece and I might have said my MIL verbally attacked my husband for allowing me to speak to her niece. Thing is MIL has never spoke nicely about her niece to me. It seemed as if though she didn't want me to give her a chance or something. Very awkward and stressful situation when MIL would be around her niece she would be so nice to her. Behind her back she would speak very badly of her and the nieces mother who is MIL SIL. We are having a sit down about this today and my husband has been pulled by his mother to take sides. I told him not to take sides because he has nothing to do with this issue. Our marriage is aside from this. MIL manipulating him against me. I'm scared for our marriage. What do I do? How do I handle this? I know how silly this sounds. It's ridiculous, I know. But it means a lot to my husband if it gets resolved. Thank you.

Question: Yahoo answer community...?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 10:23 AM PDT

I asked a way to convince my dad get me a dog because he hasn't told me any valid reasons not too. I asked and i just got called Spoiled Childish F*ggot no one helped me? Can you please explain?

Question: What does it mean if a guy draw you?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 10:04 AM PDT

So this guy from different school keep drawing me. What does it mean? He seem like a nice guy

Question: Got married young and waiting 10 years to have kids?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 09:51 AM PDT

My husband and I got married when I was 18 he was 24. We decided to wait at least 10 years before we ttc. I am now 24 and he is 30. Luckily no kids yet, but we have been getting a lot of heat from family and friends about why we need to start having babies asap.. It's been stressful, I tell them not until I'm 30... And they say that's too old etc.. :(

Question: Is this fair?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 09:23 AM PDT

So state testing is up in 2 days, my mom yesterday made me get off the laptop, in the middle of the weekend, and study. Heres the problem, I got upset and cried because studying stresses me out so much and I wanted to play on my laptop; my mom started yelling at me and so I went to my desk and studied. She banned me from roblox saying that I shouldn't be crying over not playing. This makes me so angry because during the week, I had my school work finished by 2 and she could've helped me studied then, but instead she decides to sleep ALL DAY. Litterly, she gets out of bed near 2-3 and then lays down again near 6 and gets back up a few hours later, then stays up all night. She doesn't work for personal reasons. Is it fair that I have to study all weekend while my other brother gets to play video games even though he has testing too! Last time he failed the test! I am a straight A student and I behave. And she is expecting me to get high scores to get into Gifted and Talented. IM SO STRESSED OUT! ;-; I keep crying.

Question: Have you ever been to juvenile hall?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 09:22 AM PDT

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Question: Should I let my son keep his MLP figures or should I go with my husband?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 09:17 AM PDT

My son is 8, My brothers storage unit recently got destroyed by a drunk driver(the unit was the ground Level garage type) and his wife had a crate of new in box My little pony figures from the 80s. long story short, the boxes got destroyed and she decided to just let whoever wanted them to have em. My son took them and he's enjoyed playing with them ever . The problem is my husband doesn't approve of him playing with toys aimed towards girls, he has said he is afraid that it might cause him to turn gay.I'm not sure whether I should let him continue to play with them or not

Question: My younger sister always steals my stuff! Has your younger sibling eer stolen your stuff to?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 09:10 AM PDT

Me and my sister are only 1 year apart in age.(I m 17 and she is 16)Since I m on the short size-.-we have the same clothes size.She started stealing from me when I was about 14 and started my Lotia stage.I guess she did to?Thats when she started stealing from me (age 13).She never never bought her own stuff though knowing she could because I bought all my own stuff and we get the same amount of allowance for chores each week.It started pretty innocent.A pair of my high tops,Or a pink headband.Now in days it s insane.... She always taking my dresses an wearing them and then they come back months later all ragdy.All of my makeup,an jewelry and bonnets headbands... I already talked with my parents and she still won t stop.I told her if she wants something I ll bye it for her or just ask me.She never asked me anything.Its just so frustrating for me because I use MY money for my stuff and she steals it when she has her own money for her own stuff.>.< I don t want to be mean though.(I m still a Lotia haha)

Question: My mom posted a nearly naked picture of me..?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 09:05 AM PDT

I hate my mom right now.. So yesterday when i got out of the shower, i have no idea why i did it.. but i put on one of my little sisters pull ups and ran around the house pretending to like her haha, I WAS REALLY BORED my little sister thought it was funny because i was wearing exactly what she was, i played legos and stuff with her for a while. when my mom got home from work she was like what the hell are you doing? at first but then she was like this is the cutest thing I've ever seen! she ended up taking a picture of me and i didn't really think anything of it until this morning when i got on facebook and realized that she posted it and tagged me in it! the caption was like "shes still my little girl! LOL!" it doesn't sound that bad, but the picture is weird.. i could see how the idea of what she's thinking could be cute, it doesn't show anything private but it shows wayyy to much of me if i was wearing a shirt or something it would probably be different. its just stupid..3 of her old guy friends have shared it and she doesn't think thats weird. i of course untagged myself but she tagged me in it again. I've been begging her to take it down but she won't. i told her it makes me uncomfortable but she's just like whyy its so cute.is stuff like this normal? she sees no harm in it but its seriously the most embarrassing thing thats ever happened to me. im so frustrated ughhhh;aljdkflad

Question: I hate my brother so much?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 08:56 AM PDT

I can't take it with my brother anymore! He's only 13 and I don't even want to know how he'll be when he gets older because he's awful now. He's got ADD so he takes medication that makes him really agitated and aggressive (and doesn't even make a difference) Hes also extremely hyper at home, swearing at my parents, throwing things, hitting people, screaming ect. He can't sit still and has no filter! It's at the point that I know he's going to be the death of my parents because they have to yell at him so much. He's always home so I usually have to sit in my car or leave to get some quiet. He just now smashed me in the face and I now have a fat lip which is why I'm raging. I'm almost done with my junior year and I'm working every day and putting away money to be able to move out when I finish high school with a friend- just to get away from him. I get along with my parents and my two other brothers but with him I can't do it! I can't deal with the hitting and the screaming I wish he was dead!

Question: Emotionally abusive father?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 08:39 AM PDT

Since I have had a memory I can remember me and my father not getting along. Me and my father fight every single day, I m almost 18. Whe get stuck over dumb things like the tv remote and stuff. He then begins to call me names like I m useless and I will never get far in life and **** off and how can I be a human ect. He once hit me on my lower leg when we fought and it made a bruise. The other time, maybe a year or two after that he threw me with a bush of keys at my leg. It bled a little and made a big bruise. People at school asked me about it and I just made some stupid excuse up. When we fight I also call him names back , and I know I shouldn t but I can t help it. I call him fat and ugly, because he is both. I think the reason he lashes this much out at me is because I talk back.. This abusive behaviour has had a toll on me and my parents never understood why I get drunk at school dances and other occasions. I also thought about why I do irresponsible things like this. I m no therapist but is has to have something to do with his behaviour towards me. I ve asked my mom a lot of times to divorce him, I know I can t expect it from her but they don t ever love each other anymore and never sleep in the same bed . I ve asked her how she could marry someone like him but she just says she didn t know he was going to be like this.. I ve never told any of my friends this and tend to keep it that way. Can you please just help me and tell me if I m wrong?

Question: My brothers 22 and I'm 13..?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 08:34 AM PDT

My brothers 22 and I'm 13 (girl) he has the biggest room in my house where as I have the smallest, since he's older than me he doesn't have as much stuff as me literally his clothes and his bed! Where as I need to fit my clothes , bed, makeup table and since I'm in school id also like to have a desk but I can't since my room is so small, what do you think? Who should have the bigger room !

Question: I am struck living with my controlling mother and jealous sister. they have an evil eye to me, and I can't make money or keep a job.?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 08:14 AM PDT

Question: Should I leave my family?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 08:10 AM PDT

I have lived with my family all my life, it s been nothing but screaming and broken promises. When I was a kid neither of my parents seemed to care about me they didn t spend time with me, they didn t come to school events, I wasn t allowed friends. Now I have semi-independence studying far away from them, when I left I cried a little but was relieved to be away from the fighting. I stopped having birthdays when I was 10 and christmas when I was 16. I think I can safely say I was raised on bear minimum. Whenever I talk to them it s either they re in tears because they miss me, or they re accusing me I m going to abandon them, or I m not grateful. It s just getting too much but I can t help but feel guilty for leaving them. I can t tell if this is stockholme syndrome or something I m meant to be feeling.

Question: How to change my mom and I relationship? Help pleaseee?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 07:56 AM PDT

So my mom and have been going back a forth about ALOT of stuff I only go by her on the weekends because of her job..I feel she missed some important thing in my life Because her job...she s been with 3 different people in th past 4 years but each person I felt she would swim an ocean for them and only step over a puddle for me and when she did she complained how she did So much for me. We don t talk about much she just always on her phone and I m always locked up in my room I go to an all girls school and when I come from the weekend all the girls talk about what they did with their mom and I began to cry because I don t even remember laughing with my mom she s not the sensitive type of person and I think she views me as some type of weak person I am the only child which makes this even harder to understand .. it took me some time and I asked her if we can spend sometime just us and she said ok she said in two day.well Sunday is here I bet she forgot but if she didn t what do I tell her how to do being all this up to her? Because when I tell her I feel like her job comes before me she just yell and fuss and talks how she can quit her job then and we be broke so I need to know how would I even talk to her with out causing problem e ls I decided to ask if we can go to a cafe so she won t be about to yell as much thank you for the help it means so much ALL I ASK IF THE GAIN A REALTION WITH MY MOM FIR MY HIGHSCHOOLL YEARS THATS WHEN YOUR NEED HER THE MOST RIGHT?? Oh btw I m 16

Question: Oklahoma Department of Human Services? DHS Abuse Case.?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 07:11 AM PDT

I'm 16 years old and currently living in Oklahoma. For the past 7 years, I have lived in a single parent home with my mother. And my life is complete hell. My mother has an anxiety disorThis disorder causes her to become angered easily and the things she says can be extremely hurtful. Conceited b****. Selfish w****. Shut the f*** up. You're such a b****. Quit being a dumba**. You will never be pretty. She's also hit me before, but it's not a frequent thing. And I just sit there until she is done and don't let the tears fall until one of us leaves. This has been going on since she was fired for malpractice back in 2010. We've never been rich, but we've certainly never been below the poverty line. Sometimes, when it's the end of the month, there isn't much food, and in the winter we have to be extremely careful with the heater (i.e. blankets and fuzzy clothes are my best friends.). I've never had nice clothes or even a pair of pajamas. This year, I didn't have a bedroom. My entire sophomore year, I slept on the couch and the contents of my room are scattered throughout the house, since my mom threw out the mattress in hopes of completing my room renovation that same week. My mom doesn't have a job and soley collects social security checks as her income. I'm tired of living like this. I have my own job, pay for my own phone, sometimes food and clothes, and am also trying to buy a car without assistance. Is this enough to present a case to DHS for her as an unfit parent?

Question: My mother mimics me at everything.The way I speak,I laugh,I cry,the words I use.She says I m not as pretty as I think.What is it?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 06:28 AM PDT

She always yells at me and says my body needs improvements.Many times she REPEATS PHRASES EXACTLY AS I SAY THEM.What is happening?

Question: Should I help my parents?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 06:25 AM PDT

My mom and dad are fighting a lot, and it doesn't seem like it's getting better. They're last fight was really bad. I don't know what to do, should try to help?

Question: When I was younger my mother called me fat and although I was 4 years old she said that men will **** me for a burger.Was she normal?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 06:25 AM PDT

Question: My mother doesnt want me to speak to her.I am all alone and when I talk to her she calls my dad and he gets mad and he threatens to beat me.?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 06:23 AM PDT

Also my grandmother told me to stop annoying my parents or she will never speak to me again.She told me to quit uni and work somewhere just to stop being depended on them.

Question: My little brother watched my porn?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 06:18 AM PDT

Okay so I left my computer on my desk and my little brother saw it and What do I tell him?

Question: Blended family troubles aka. no parenting?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 06:17 AM PDT

I'm cringing already calling this a blended family because honestly, we're not. We're not a family of any sort, imo. My dad got married a couple of years ago. At 16, I'm his only kid. He married a woman who has two kids 12 and 9 and they're expecting a kid together now. My dads stepkids are allowed to do and say whatever they want. It doesn't matter who complains, their mom won't tell them no or correct them for bad behavior. My dad has told me that his wife has the right to parent her kids however she pleases and I can't complain about that. But here's the thing, these kids are allowed into my room, with my stuff, and get to break whatever they like, make as much mess as they like and write/draw on my walls without consequences. AND I'm the one who has to clean up after. I got a lock (with dads permission) and used to lock my door when I wasn't there. But she broke down my door and took the lock off so her kids could get inside. Then allowed them to trash it yet again and told me off for putting the lock there myself. Her daughter (12) has tried to pull clothes off me and has even kicked and hit me for trying to stop her from entering my room. Both are in trouble in school a lot for breaking stuff and their overall behavior, but their mom doesn't care. To make matters worse their grandmother (dads wife's mom) who is a nice lady actually, has said I should take them under my wing to make things better. She said by being their big sister, it might make everyone happier. I respect her opinion. But those kids are nothing to me. I cannot stand them and honestly wish they and their mom would leave (and my dad for letting this continue). I'm wondering if I should give my good and expensive stuff to my aunt to watch until I'm out of this house (two more years, two more years!!) or just keep attempting to protect them? Advice? Suggestions?

Question: I wish a new family although I have one. Is it wrong. I am afraid to tell my mom that? I feel I am the only one in the world wish new family?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 05:41 AM PDT

Question: Why does my mother mimic my expressions?She acts like me many times.Also everyone tells me I m so pretty and she says you re fine.Why?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 05:36 AM PDT

Question: I'm having a rough life now. Help?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 05:32 AM PDT

We just move to our grandma's house in the province because my mom and dad cant find anyone to take care of us because they are always working and not always present at hope. Im 13 and my younger sister is only 7. The first day that we are there I feel shy to them but everything is alright. but when the day they knew that im not the first honor last year and i dont have any honors in school, they start to feel dissapoint to me and i feel lile they start hating me. and usually they tease me about my color and about my other feautures but i think im not ugly and i dont feel ashame to have a brown color because im a filipino and my father has brown skin and my mom has white so i have a good color. and i experience some pain when i hot beaten up by my half sister and i dont tell it to my parents and i think they are just forced to take care of us. they always said that they need monthly pay so that they can take care of us. now, muly mom and dad knew that but there is problems and i saw them fighting and shouting. i think i will stay here for years but i have a simple plan that when i go to our home again for vacation this or next month i will force my mom to dont ho back there. and they dont treat me good there. i always cry and thinkibg pf suicide. help!

Question: My parents pretty much killed my passion for love and life and succes , what should I do with them ?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 05:24 AM PDT

My parents are so judgmental it's insane , they don't have respect for me , they laugh and criticise me on regular basis , they love exposing my insecurities and mistakes to other and laugh at me , never a day I was admired ever by them , Im called stupid and retarded all the time and when i get mad they act like a victim I'm working on being accepted into med school, as is studying isn't stressful enough , I got to deal with their bs all the time and that isnt bearable :(

Question: How would you feel if your child (who you weren't close to) flew nearby but didn't visit you?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 04:54 AM PDT

Let's say that you have two adult children who live far away. One visits about once a month, and he bought a plane ticket for his monthly visit but then discovered that your spouse (who he is closer to) would be gone that weekend. So instead of coming anyway, he just flew into the airport (about 90 minutes away) and flew right back, treating the day as a "mini vacation" for himself. He didn't come by. He said that since he had the ticket he might as well use it, but he had a busy work weekend and didn't have the time to come visit like he usually does. When that one comes to visit, sometimes you talk to him but sometimes you don't come out to speak to him except at dinner. You don't call or email him except for financial/business advice, and he doesn't, either.

Question: Legal rights against my stepdad?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 04:25 AM PDT

Okay so , me and my stepdad do not get along at all because he feels I m a bad influence on my half sister his daughter and my biological moms daughter. He won t even let me go to their house what legal rights do I have to see my sister and to go to their house (my moms and stepdads house) please help I m 18 !!! I will take my stepdad to court if I have to

Question: Living with an alcoholic person who won't change, what can I do?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 04:25 AM PDT

Last night the cops came to take my brother to the hospital because he came home intoxicated or you can say (possessesed). He's done this so many times, (the cops came for him so many times) and won't change his ways. He also threatening to hurt his own father and he has hit him a couple times while drunk. My parents have done so much for him, I don't even know what to say anymore. My parents will not let him go, because he is the only son. When he is drunk he pushes everyone's button, and at least EVERYONE got their chance to hit him. I don't feel bad for him. No one cares about him anymore. I'm tired of him. I'm a single parent of 2 and living with my parents until I get back on my feet. My hope is going down the drain. I really cannot afford to go on my own yet. And I cannot live with this crazy intoxicated psycho path person anymore, also its not good for my kids. PROFESSIONAL HELP doesn't help! He needs jail time to change! I'm thinking about going to the cop and tell them more about that person but I'm afraid my mom won't want to help me with my kids anymore.

Question: How do I improve my relationship with my mum?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 04:12 AM PDT

I find myself thinking how much more I like my Dad and sometimes even wishing they would divorce so I could live with just him but then I feel really bad because I don't have a proper reason to dislike her so much! She doesn't drink or do drugs or abuse me or anything like that at all. She just constantly plays the victim in every situation and complains about everything. She keeps going on and on about how ungrateful I am for what she gets me- which I totally am (like sorry I can't pay you back for everything you CHOSE to get me but it's not like I don't thank her and appreciate the stuff she gets me) She also looks just really.... lame. All the time- I don't mean her physical appearance but just the way she walks and talks to people, and I just can't handle walking down the street with her because I get embarrassed and I literally do not talk to her about ANYTHING. I want to be able to but I just feel so uncomfortable and awkward talking to her. Anyone have any suggestions what I can do to feel better about... everything, i guess?

Question: I'm not aggressive but my parents are my parents are very argumentative that is just black people Do fuss and fight my dad said white do to?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 04:04 AM PDT

Question: My parents dont like my black boyfriend.?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 03:49 AM PDT

so im Asian. my parents dont like him because their racist and hate the color. i come from a rich family to. my parents told me take if i dont break up with him by the end of the month they will kick me out, not pay for my college class and give all the property they own to my brother and i get nothing. my parents wont meet him or care about what i want to say. i just turn 19 btw. my brother dont like him either, he told me that if he see him he tell all his friend to and people to jump him. im afraid of my family and i know that they will do their worst as in do what ever they can to make my boyfriend life a living hell.

Question: If family member see you accidently naked or sami naked?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 03:47 AM PDT

How you feel if any family member see you nude by accidently? How to avoid being see nude?

Question: Embarrassing movment dad accidently see daughter?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 03:35 AM PDT

My bathroom tap was out of order so I went in may mom dad room to take a bath, it is afternoon time Dad normally not in home. After bathing I open the door to ask towel to my mom as I open the door my dad was standing..fully frontal view exposed i suddenly close. My mom & dad laughing at me. I never be nude infront of my dad after 13 Now i'm 19. It was really awkward feeling I did it. I was not expecting that dad at home.

Question: Am i in the wrong here ?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 03:32 AM PDT

i had an argument with my sister and mother . what happened was the pervious day my mum asked my sisters bf to help her with her toilet flooding and she needed someone to come over quickly to stop it but instead he sent my sister over to my mothers house instead lazyness im guessing as he does nothing . also when my mum brang it up to my sister tonight about why couldnt he of helped out instead of sending you she started to defend him and have a go at my mum saying oh hes not your slave and cant just help out when ever you want etc and just kept saying that my mum was in the wrong just for asking for some help off him ? this is where i come in and had a go at my sister saying that she needs to stop defending him for everything wrong he does and take some responsibility that he is in the wrong for once and not my mother he should of helped out no questions asked instead of sending you when you had to look after your 1 year old child. But everyones blaming me because it had nothing to do with me even though i was defending my mother as my sister was making out like its her fault and she shouldnt of asked him for help in the first place. this sounds like nothing to worry about but this has happened an uncountable amount of times and i was sick of it i absolutely hate my sister and he bf anyway but i was pissed that she was having a go at my mum even though he was in the wrong for not helping her at all . Thanks Im very bad at wording things properly and explaining myself fully but i hope you can get the picture

Question: Help with autistic brother?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 03:12 AM PDT

I have an autistic brother who is in his early 20's who still lives with my family. I love my older brother to death along with the rest of my family but he has had extremely random acts of violence lately, normally he does get angry every now and then, but not like this. He would get up out of no where at a certain time (normally 7:00-10:00 pm) and come and just hit my mother extremely hard, every time I hear her scream at him I just get very panicky and check on her to make sure she is alright. I don't know exactly why but it is ALWAYS my mom, no one else, which has got me worrying thinking that he may one day do something where my dad isn't there to help. He normally does it until my dad steps in and I'm just extremely worried that he may one day beat her or make sexual advances to her where my dad won't be there to help. Please help! I don't know what to do!

Question: My mom is a pyscho help !?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 02:31 AM PDT

Okay her phone is broken n my grandma needed to Call me today but I didn't see when she called I was At the bathroom she took my phone n saw that she Called but I didn't answer she started yellin Why didn't you answer n other ish I was like okay mom chill I didn't see it she was like no you did it on purpose she slapped me and threw a glass bottle at me like wow I'm 15 btw damn

Question: I went on a sailing and fell in love(sisterly love) with one of the watch leaders(they are some one who help us and look out for us.) Help?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 02:26 AM PDT

I went on a sailing trip and I got back yesterday.there was the skipper(captain)there was 3 watch leaders.-2 groups. I was with a female, lets call her M.now I miss her like hell and I m scared that I might not see her again. I cry every time I think of the how fun the sailing trip was then remember I might not see M again. I love her, as a sister not couple. Please help make the knot in my stomache and the ache in my heart go away.

Question: What can you do when the father doesn t want to be a dad but he s using your child because he knows that s the way to hurt you?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 01:38 AM PDT

My child s dad and I can t seem to never be able to do coparenting I feel like his still treating me the way he used to when I was with him and i honestly don t know what to do anymore, he s making me feel miserable can I go to court and get visitation taken away he doesn t want to spend time with our child he has even told me he wants to sign the right to see my kid away but he won t do it to make my life miserable I can t do this anymore I feel like I m getting depressed and I m the only person my child has I need suggestion anything you can think that could help me either get his right taken sea he s always bring my child back when is he s turn to have her so it s not like he s wanting to spend time with her I adore my child and I wanted her dad to be in her life that s one of the reason why I decided to split up bc I thought two happy families were better than one but now I feel like she has two awful families I need help!!

Question: Should I grow up and think for myself?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 01:29 AM PDT

I'm 17 and my dad is controlling me. Telling me what to be and what not to be. Tell me what to like and dislike. Etc.

Question: How do I break the cycle?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 12:42 AM PDT

As a child I was used for sexual sadisfaction, I was bullied by teachers and students on a continual basis. I was the youngest of a very poor family of five where my parents totally neglected me. When I mean poor and neglected, I mean I slept on the floor, we didn't have a toilet so there was a constant smell of urine on the floor where I slept from my father and brothers missing the bowl when going to the toilet. My mother was depressed and a very weak person emotionally. Both parents pretty much ignored me emotionally and physically. To this day in my early thirties I'm still being used by my family, my mother and my brother who sexually abused me as a child. He has me working for free at weekends and neve. appreciates the work I do. I look after my mother who's old. I live in my mothers house because I'm not strong enough to leave. My siblings let me do all the caring for my mother. My self worth is very low and I struggle to motivate myself due to mild depression. I feel paralysed and used. I had a girlfriend once who expected me to pay for everything, but I still keep in contact as she's the only one who touched me voluntarily. I've used people too in my life, so I'm not looking for sympathy. I used prostitutes once as I thought I'd never be touched by a woman. I used 13, but I've stopped now. I've been to therapy, but it doesn't give the love I crave. How do I leave/change this awful life?

Question: My daughter is scaring me?

Posted: 24 Apr 2016 12:29 AM PDT

My daughter is currently 16. As a child, she was happy, outgoing and open. All this changed when she was 8. She's not enthusiastic anymore, she never leaves home, has only three friends and hasn't dated anyone since given permission, animals love her for some reason. She was talkative but now she hardly speaks to us but talks to herself from time to time and it's as if she's having a conversation with someone. When she does speak, it's usually about how foolish human beings are or how she hates teenagers and young adults, cougars, etc...Her IQ ranks the highest (163) among all her relatives, some of which she hates. She speaks of very evil things and cruel ways of 'fixing society'. Her words are cruel but she gives to the beggars and donates to charity. She was listening to her cousin, the all-time A grader, brag about her own achievements and belittle everyone and out of nowhere, she spoke. "You're full of hot air. But look at you, you got pregnant in college. You're not even smart. You think you know it all and that's why your boyfriend got you pregnant and left. You're so full of yourself. I'll live my life to crush worthless pathetic wastes of space like you. I am not better than you but I am smarter." I was actually glad she said that, but I scolded her when I noticed the looks on everyone's faces. Her mind and the fact that her father is entrusting her with all his assets scares me. I don't know how to approach her these days. What should I do?