Around 6 months ago, they would be nice to me in the xbox parties and I usually wouldn't get roasted, at least not like I do now. They call me school schooter because I have a swooped haircut, acne, and I don't listen to rap so they joke that I listen to papa roach and ****. They think this because I would sing "Last Resort" in parties and they thought it was hilarious for a while. Eventually, they made fun of me for knowing all the words (I know them because I grew up listening to the radio) and they made fun of me for it, even though they know most of the words too. I listen to classic rock and pop rock as well, but they altered that to be death metal and weird **** I dont even listen to. Everytime I join a party now they groan and tell me to live. Im pretty sure theyre kidding, but its not funny to me anymore. They are nice to me at school and a little awkward but I have a good time. Im tired of these jokes. I cant tell if Im taking it too deep or if theyre actually being rude. I got mad when they excluded me from GTA because I always want to play it and they are rarely up for it. They dont laugh as much as they used to when I make jokes and ****. One kid in our group gets roasted WAY more than me, but they always include him in games. I cant really see finding new friends as an option because its a pretty big group and everyone else at my school knows the school shooter joke too and they wont stop making them. I tried going along with it, being quiet, and defending myself *Read after discription* but its no use. They always say the same ****. How they treat me in real life makes me question if theyre joking on xbox. What do you think?

I don t really have a lot of friends I really only have one really good friend and she has a bf and is expecting so now I really don t have many people as much as I ve tried to befriend some of my coworkers we just don t have much in common cause some are older and have kids others are with bfs so I m the only single one and I started school but I m just shy to even start a convo with someone even when I do I can t keep the conversation going and I just feel awkward it sucks cause I really want to just get out there but I m to timid . any advice?

I'm in my early 30s, and even by my late 20s I noticed: People are BORING! Meaning: they HATE trying anything new outside of their comfort zone. It's just nature: Avoid danger. No one wants to risk looking foolish, by trying something they might not like or be good at. Also: older people are more closeminded, cuz they've tried new things in the past and it didn't work out. thoughts??

Have you ever been in this situation: My friend Sam has told me I'm "FUN" for sure, and he likes me but he can't stop ridiculing me too: my tastes, my interests. It's like he thinks I'm this BIG GEEK and cool person at the same time, and he wants it both ways: for me to be "fun", but for him to make fun of too. What would you do in my situation?

I'm a junior in high school age 17 and ever since I was 11 I've gone to this small private religious school and more or less had the same group of friends. I've made some new friends at school over the years, for instance transfer students or the boyfriends/girlfriends of my other friends, but I think that's because I was an enviroment where I was surrounded by friends Whenever I"m in a new situation, I'm extremely quiet and not at all like myself. I can talk to people one on one, but otherwise when thrown into a new social situation I am the quiet awkward one, whereas at school I've always been the loud, funny, outgoing one I'm scared because I started at a new job about a month ago where this happened. I thought things would get better but they didn't. I work after school almost everday and I'm not friends with any of my co-workers, not because I don't get along with them but because I'm so antisocial at work. Anyway, my point is I'm going to college the year after next and I'm scared that I'm not going to be able to make new friends. And even if I go to the state university where all my friends and my sister and her girlfriend are all at, I would eventually have to move away, start my own life, get a job none of them worked at, and that thought just terrifies me. Can any of y'all give me help/advice or relate to this?

My friend is disabled (she walks with crutches) and she's always asking me to help her out, which is okay, but she's taking it too far, and is using me. She had an assistant, but now says that I'm her assistant, which is extremely annoying, as I'm busy myself (I'm a senior). I have classes, but she won't even consider anything before asking for help. How do I tell her that I'm tired of her ****, and can't help her anymore. I wouldn't mind losing her as a friend, because she's not even that great. She might even go to the same university as me. Please help me! I keep telling myself that I will say no but when she asks I just can't do anything about it because I don't wanna be mean :/

like she always says hi to black people and most of her friends are black and she voted for obama twice. what's the deal? this bich really annoys me.

They refuse to know two reasons why they insult and hurt bad people for revenge.

I need to befriend this girl for research purposes but we have no classes together so I need a casual way to become her friend

I am a 25 years old guy, and I barely have friends, so I wanna know if there's a place where I can go by myself to socialize or have fun by myself, just to go out of my house. I hate to come home from a long day of work to play video games or use the Internet until bed time, to then wake up and go to school, then work, then back home to do the same thing, I wanna break the circle, I'm going nuts, I have nobody to talk or to expand my time with, I know people, but they're not the kind of people I can call and tell 'em, "Hey, let's go anywhere" they're just people I know, I don't call them "friends" I've tried also to get a girlfriend, someone to expend my time with, but in the end, girls always end up rejecting me and offering me no more than their "friendship" and since I have dignity, I just stop talking to them and let that die there, I don't talk to them anymore. So I've just given up on that, I can't force anyone to be with me. I live by myself, I rent a room to some Mexicans who happen never to be home, and when they are, they're sleeping, or *******. I have my own car, I have my own money, I have no kids, so I really don't see what's wrong with me. Is there any place I could go by myself and have fun, something that's not a bar, because if I'm gonna drink, I'm not driving. I live in Tampa Bay, a pretty populated area, if that matters.

I was sitting with my friends in my first period talking and out of nowhere one of them (Sam, he s a guy) he s opens his mouth to say something but he s like no nevermind." Looking at me I was genuinely curious. I was like "say it" and everyone joined in "say it say it" And he finally said it " I don t know I feel like you think you re better than everyone." He made a gesture to me. This was obviously unexpected it was pretty random. All I could say back was like " but I don t think that I m better than everyone, maybe cause I m a bit passive aggressive but I do it jokingly." Another guy that sits to next to me he s like "but (my name) is so nice!" Well after he said that Sam just shrugged it off. Me and Sam actually joke back at eachother throwing shade and talking about boys and stuff so this just made me feel bad. I don t know, I m very self conscious about myself so this made my self esteem lower. Advice?

Like, the other day, I was at this party with a few aquaintances, and we all got a little drunk and one of the guys, started to hug me and pat me on my back, and his hand went lower and lower ... And, well, when we were alone, I sorta mentioned this to another friend, a guy, in a joke (as in: "Oh, God, he's so drunk, he's always patting me on my back and his hand is getting closer and closer to my butt."). And, eventually, the guy actually did pat my butt and I sorta just pushed his hand a bit higher, so he started patting my back again. Basically, was I rude to this guy? I mean, I kinda feel bad and really uncomfortable now, and I know I'll have to see him again. And should I be embarrased by blabing about this to my friend?

My best friend of 18 years used to be overweight in our pre-teen early teen years but is now skinny and svelte. Along with her new body came all kinds of attention and worship from guys we went to school with. I was slim in high school and now I'm overweight (we kinda switched roles). I am very happy for her and feel motivated myself but......................... We went out a couple weeks ago and she loves taking pictures now..me..I've tried to hide my weight gain from old classmates by removing myself from social media and refusing ANY opportunities to be tagged in pictures..She knows how I feel about my weight..I hate it!!! and Im ashamed of it because I used to be the "Hot girl" I specifically told her not the post the pics she took and told her which ones were ok to post..I logged into my old account cause I had this feeling and low and behold she posted this big colorful collage of our night out!!!!!!!!!!! I could tell from the low number of likes and comments ppl were shocked at my weight gain.While I've had health issues that caused it im healthy now and ready to get svelte..Am I wrong for being upset with her for posting the pics when I asked not to? She knew I felt very bad about my weight and didnt feel I looked good..so why not listen and just post the pic I approved?

I am a 20 years old male, someone who i know pointed it out, i mean almost all girls that i know trust me very well, and they share a lot of their secrets with me, pretty much like they talk to their girl friends i was thinking if it is healthy and good for me to have this kind of relationship ? i don't care about the friendzone thing, i was just wondering where these kind of relationships could lead ?

Can a weird person make friends?

My ex wife Lisa emailed me that she was getting married again. I congratulated her and sent her a nice wedding gift. I got a thank you note from her and it said her mother Pam wanted a gift like it and she ask me where I got it. I always liked Pam when I was married to her daughter so I bought an identical give and sent it to Pam. Pam was thrilled to get the gift and offered to pay me for it. I told her the gift was my repayment for all the nice things she had done for me when I was married to her daughter. Pam said at least let me take you to diner as a way to show her appreciation for the gift. I agreed and had a nice meal with Pam. Then the unexpected happen. Lisa emailed me and told me not to go on another date with her mom. She said that is really a kinky thing for me to do. I am not sure how I should respond to Lisa or even if I should respond to her. Should I forward this email to Pam, or explain to Lisa it WAS NOT A DATE or just forget about it. YOUR ADVICE PLEASE.

He says he doesn't believe in feet and that everything happens with toys. What do?

this person makes me so nervous to the point where i cant go up and talk to them first or even text them first even tho i really want to. just thinking about them makes me anxious. iv never felt this way about a girl before (im a girl btw) and i think it may be a crush even tho im straight and shes the only girl iv felt this way about. shes one of my closest friends but she gets mad sometimes that shes the one always starting the conversations. she means alot to me and i dont know what to do like iv told her i get nervous around her but she thinks it cause of my anxiety (i obviously wont tell her the crush thing). any advice??

A friend is having a gathering at her house with at least 12 people. She called to confirmed if I was going and I've said yes because she's sensitive and I didn't want to hurt her feelings. But I wish I would have been honest with myself and told her "no" since I really don't want to go to her house. My husband, my son and a couple of his friends had plans to go see Jungle Book at the same time my friend's dinner will be. What should I do? Should I keep my promise and go to the dinner even though I really don't want to go or should I just apologize to my friend and spend time with my husband, my son and his friends as what I really want to do? Your advise is appreciated.

Well this year im finally graduating from high school. It was 2 years of hell and my last 2 were the best. It just hit me that im finally leaving and im going to miss some of my junior friends....i really never believe i was going to cry but tears come out when i think about it. Did you ever cry? Felt bad? By the way college is also a small problem.....maybe ill be attending one an hour away from my friends.

So I m in high school and I have an older car and this kid wanted a ride and I didn t give him one and so he for some reason put his backpack on top of my car and when he took it off there is a big scratch on it. I noticed it later, and I m pretty sure he caused it. How should I deal with this problem? Thanks for any advise.

I tried everything. My mom wont budge. I got facebook last year but never used it after a week. My mom found out and told me to delete the app. I did but the other month i went on to approve a friend request so my friend could help me with candy crush. My mom was looking through my emails today and saw facebook spams. So she went into my account and went into the history stuff. She saw the one thing on March 6th and blew up. She made me delete snapchat. I know that may sound stupid but its life changing when you have a 216 day streak with your friend. She put on parental restrictions so I can never download it again without her permission. My mom doesnt listen when i try to talk to her. She doesnt care how sorry i am. She doesnt care about anything I try to do. I really need help. What can i possibly do to get my life back and get my mom to forgive me? Please I need suggestions.

I honestly don't believe in revenge but I do feel its a natural feeling to do something in-spite of somebody that wouldn't see the light in you. So do you ever feel "ill show them"

My mom has a friend that she wanted to exchange email with so she convinced Betty to buy a computer. Mom wanted me to teach Betty how to us the computer so I agreed to do it. I went to Betty's home for an hour on Saturday for several weeks. Betty's husband was with us the whole time I was training Betty. Betty told me her husband John was very jealous of her and other men. When Betty briefly went to answer the phone, John asked me if I was "fooling around" with his wife. I told him he was with me the whole time I was there. I knew at that moment this was my last training session. I was not coming back to that house as I had no idea what John might do. I did not hear from either one of them again for several months. Then my mom told me they were getting a divorce. Then I got an invitation to a "He's gone, good riddance" party at Betty's home. I decided to go. At the party, one of the guests told me I was the cause of the divorce. I asked her how that was possible. She explained that Betty used the computer to track what web sites John had been accessing and found he was on several web sites for finding women to date. He had also been posting stuff on porn sites. She said that if she had not know how to use a computer they would still be married. I told her I did not teach Betty to trace web sites from the computer. She must have learned by her self. Am I responsible for their marriage break up?

I work in an office with 12 other women. A employee from another department Mindy was transferred to our department. To say she was beautiful would be an understatement. She was gorgeous. If there ever was a trophy girlfriend/wife she would be it. At first we all did not like her as we thought our boss Bob, a 29 year old single guy would give her all the choice assignments. That didn't happen. He treated her just like the rest of us. No better and no worse. We also started to like her as she was such a nice person. One day we had a staff meeting and Mindy was not there. We asked Bob if he noticed that Mindy was beautiful. He said all my employees were beautiful. WOW, he is good. Someone ask him if he would like to date Mindy. He said he was not allowed to date anyone that worked for him. He said, can you imagine the gossip that would start if I dated someone that worked for me. Another one of us, Linda asked Bob if he would date her if she did not work for him. He said "We have a date the first day you don't work for me". All of us are wondering the same thing. Is it possible for a single guy can resist dating such a beautiful woman? Could they be dating in secret? What do you think about what our boss is saying. Is he a good boss or a bad boss?

a few minutes ago my friend snap texted me that her mom just passed away of cancer and i said how i am always here for her, etc. i just don't know what else i can do. in school do i send her the classwork, or not? also she sent many snapchats of her smiling with her family but i can't imagine what she is feeling inside. also my mom was good friends with her mom but i don't think she knows yet so should i tell her when she gets home and how please help

So I've known this church girl for like all my life but tbh didn't really talk to her when I was younger. We are definitely friendly with each other however now though I'd love to talk more often as I like like her ;) Now I see her in youth group once a week, as well as a camp for a week annually, and she really seems to like like me there. Her eyes kinda sparkle and she is constantly laughing, and I sometimes catch her looking at me and we have cute eye contact haha etc however I'm still get shy when I try and have a one-on-one conversation so we mainly talk when we're in groups. We're both quite shy to start with. The thing is we rarely text and it's kinda confusing, when we do text sometimes we have a very good convo with jokes etc, she asks questions and quick responses so she seems to wanna talk to me, but other times when we text for some reason she takes ages to respond and doesn't seem that interested at all. Recently she popped up to me because my dad's just be told he's got cancer and she's been through a similar situation, so she said she'd be happy to chat when I need to about that, but apart from that she hasn't ever popped up to me. I would looove to text her more but never do because I'm afraid I might be annoying or it'll be awkward since we don't see each other that much and I don't have anything in particular to message her about. Do you think I should text her more? Do you think she could like me? Or should I leave it

So back in January I told my friend i would babysit for her because she was going on vacation. Well the day came and i got this really bad headache and i threw up, twice. This lead me to decided that i really should get a sub-even though it was last minute. Well my friend was on a plane so i couldn t call her, so i just texted the parents explaining the situation, making sure it was clear they knew my friend didn t know i was getting a sub. well the family said okay, but the sub i ended up getting is a person my friend doesn t like too much. she did her job, and she did it for service hours so the parents didnt even have to pay. well the kids didnt like her too much, but whatver. i never told my friend any of this went down, i sort of chose not too. well tofay she babysat for the family again (this is like the 10th time since my friend did it) and she asked me about it. i told her the truth, but she never responded. is what i did that bad? how mad should my friend be?

I am 15 and my friend is 16. we have always been close since we were 5 years old. today, she just told me that her mom passed away. she had cancer so they knew it would be coming but today i just got the news. i told her i am always here for her and if she never needs anything here i am. she says she is ok. i know the last thing she wants is everyone going to her offering help she is only 16 and i assume it is very overwhelming and i can't even imagine being in that situation. please help and give some advice what else i can do for them she's with her family right now and i keep getting smiling snapchats with her and her younger family but i just can't imagine what is going on inside her head i really don't know what to do tomorrow we have the same class together obviously she will not be at school. do i text her the work, tell her what went on? sorry last update my mom and her mom were great friends and i don't think my mom knows yet but i don't know if i should tell her or not i am going to tell my mom i just don't know how to say it me and my mom are not that close and i don't want to be the bearer of bad news

So I'm 14 and in 8th grade. And not a fighter at all. I'm weak af. I'm 5;3. So I told this girl to leave me alone and and that she so rude to me and acts like it's ok. So she started to cry and went to her friends which I thought were mine to. Well they wanna fight me. But they are pretty short. So anyways they kept telling me how I was gonna catch there hands and blah blah. Well the next day they went up with me and were cussing me out. I did the stupidest thing ever. I cried. WTF IS WRONG WOTH ME. They started to laugh at me. And the girl that got them to try to fight me was smiling. She twisted my words and made me seem the jerk. Well I got my friends (and one is a real good fighter and she's like one of my bffs) they all had my back. I have lots of friends. But i want to fight that girl Monday. But I'm scared they are gonna jump in. So how do I fight good. And win. And I'm scared I'll get intoruble cuz tenichally ill be starting the fight. So yes peace and love

Soo we've been classmates for 10 years now and since second year he is bullying me... its not bullying now, but its just irritating. I cant move to different place in school, he would just follow me, and he doesnt ever stop. Teachers are always on his side. He comes, insults everyone and when someone insults him, he goes to janitor. One kid got kicked out of school because of him. Im really sick of his retarded acting and i dont know what to do. I dont really have a problem being kicked out but that wont do anything to him, i want him to realise what damage he is doing to me and everyone else. What do i do?

Everywhere i go, no matter what job or school for college im at people are jealous if me, and dislike me. Girls always like me, but guys always end up teaming up like gossiping girls and laugh at me and talk about me behind my back when this stuff happen in Highschool and Middle school i only haf a select few of friends and if some one laughed or thought they could diss me i would be throwing punches and that made them stop hating well never in my presence, but now that im in my 20's i can't fight these bullies because its a college and work setting, but if its always about girls liking me and i don't even talk to the girls they even like, why are they still mad ? And sometimes those guys try talking to me to be my friend but they were insulting me days ago and think ill befriend a fake? Hell no what can i do ? I just live life and ignore them but i wish i could just go and shut them up and all there little snickers, but the girls smile at me and always talk to me and stand by me and those guys hate that lol i swear they're half gay

Maybe I don't understand because I don't have friends, but on tv, in cartoons, and irl friends are always so touchy. Not in a perverted way or anything, but just in a way where they're kinda close. They hold hands, or rest their hand on the other person's shoulder. They lay on each other and are just really touchy, and it's not just firls, it's everyone. I personally don't like touchy people, which might be why I don't have friends? I dunno, is it just a thing they do without noticing, or what?

Last night, my friend and I were in an argument and she said that I couldn't see the big picture. Is she calling me stupid because I am focused on the details and not the overall situation, so my logic is flawed or inaccurate? Someone please give me a basic answer as to what she is calling me.

I'm a straight female college student and I share a 2 bedroom apartment with my gay male friend. One of our straight male friends is going to crash with us for a few days before he can move into his apartment. The only place he will be able to sleep though is in the living room on the floor. Unless I offer to let him sleep in bed with me. I'm not sure what to do. He can't sleep on the couch because we only have a love seat and a chair, and he can't sleep with my roommate cause my roommates boyfriend will be staying over also. I really don't mind sharing with him I just don't want him to think it means more than it does. What do you guys think?

At my school kids always stay after school because they have a playground and woods behind my school and lots of kids just hang out there. My best friend starting being friends with this boy and after school she always hangs out with him instead of me and she used to hang out with me. They always play this ratchet freaking game where they throw ice down each other's shirts. One time she didn't even say good bye to me or walk home with me cause he wanted to walk home with her. She says she doesn't even like him. How do I get my best friend back ?

I'm chubby. I'm not fat but I'm chubby, yes, I should lose weight but it doesn't look ugly or anything. We were joking with my best friend of 10 years (we're 27 now), and we were joking about something and I was joking about how predictable her reactions were. One thing after another and she told me that I should look at myself. I laughed because I thought it was part of joke/sarcasm. But she said "You should be already crying about it, not laughing". It all happened online since we live in different countries. I was really hurt in the end and blocked her for a while because she obviously knew she said a bad thing (I know her behaviour pattern) but never apologized for it. She removed me from her friends list on facebook after that. Was I wrong? Was she wrong? Even if she wants me to be healthy is it a way to say it? I'm sorry. We just solved it. Everything's okay now. Thank you everyone for your comments:)

I'm 16. I've known this friend of mine, he was my best friend, since I was 10. We live close so it was easy to spend all our time together and it was really fun. But he grew up into a really angry, constantly complaining and negative person, pretending to be sad and depressed. At one point, almost 3 months ago, I just couldn't spend my time with him anymore, it has started to effect me very negatively, I've lost all of my nerves and patience because I just kept tolerating what is not right. We got into a fight as he threw boxes at me, and we haven't spoken. I thought it was over. About a month and a half ago, I got a message from him saying he wants to hang out again. I explained, POLITELY, why I do not wish to have further close contact with him, and that it's not because I found new friends, but because it has become unbearable to be with such negative energy. That conversation was online, and it ended in sadness on both side and accepting from both of us that it is over. And ever since then, I have been haunted by that friendship. I have nightmares, dreams, I mistake other people's names, I remember it a few times in a day, and I can't help as much as I want to but to believe I've been too harsh too fast. Now, even though there are so many things I hate about him, I still have this connection and I think...I think...that I want to fix it. The thing is that I do not want to get a negative response and I just know I'll get it, even though in the end he will take me back. I believed that what I was doing at the time was right, and maybe it is, but what if it isn't? What if I should ''remaster'' this friendship? From your pov, what do you think I should do?

There's a couple people that talk to me at school, but they all have their own friend group and I don't. Its seems like it's always been this way besides one or two friends I had years ago in middle school, but I'm no longer in contact with those people. It just seems like people only talk to me if the people in their friend group aren't around, and as soon as they show up, they leave me behind for their real friends. Am I alone in this?

I'm not in a sorority but I was wondering if I became friends with Sorority girls that maybe they'd invite me to a frat party and if they did would i be weird bc I'm not in their whole clique?

Me and 3 other friends brought penny boards to this forest and we thought it would be safe if we just hid the penny boards and left them at the entrance of the forest (I know that was very dumb and we should have been more careful), when we came back we realized that 3 out of 4 of the penny boards were gone and we knew someone must have stolen them because we set 3 next to each other in one area and one in another area which was the one that wasn t stolen. We walked around the neighborhood and asked if anyone saw someone with 3 penny boards and no one knew. We have no clue who could have done it. Mine was a real customized penny board that costed about $120 and my friends costed around $60. What do I do?

I m so tired of everything. I have no friends so it s really embarrassing when we have free time and I m just standing there alone while everyone s playing. The sad thing is I m actually extroverted and I do want to go to party s or hang out with boys. But I don t have the friends or anything. When I try to talk to people I just can t. I figure everything I m going to say but I m scared of just talking. I don t know why. I stay in my room all the time so you would think I m introverted but I m staying inside because I don t want to embarrass myself or be a burden to anyone. If I make one little mistake then I instantly feel like everyone hates me. I m scared of going. I already have enough things to deal with with my family and stuff but school just makes everything worse. I want to disappear. What s wrong with me? Im actually pretty funny but I pretend that I m OK but I m dying inside. What do I do?

I'm not a loner anymore. I got past that point. I feel like loners are like that because they can't find friends or something. I'm alone because i like it!! Believe it or not. Being with people is very annoying to me. Especially loud people. Also, i have been known to get physical with annoying people. So i think that's the best way for them to stay out of hospitals. And for me to stay out of jail!!

I'm a 19 year old girl who studies hard and does nothing else. Always when I meet new people I think they're good but they always turn out to be shittty people and for some reason hate me. I don't get life. Thanks

There is a guy that I've been talking to he knows that sometimes I look at his Pandora. And that I like 80's music I noticed today he created a 80's love song station. I wondering if he did that because he knows I look at his page.

My friends (and practically almost every kid in my town) are going to camps in summer and they started to sign up for them... I've never gone to a camp before (I'm 13 almost 14) and my best friends asked me if i want to go to a camp where most of the kids are going... I asked my father but he said that it's too expensive for just a week (about 180 euros)... My friends always tell me that the camp is amazing and a great experience but i told them that I can't go (even if i want to) and they asked me why...i wanted to tell them that it's too expensive but I'm too embarrassed to say it... I honestly want to go but I don't want to give a hard time to my dad...my dad asked me if i want to but i said that I don't want to go anymore... There's also another camp that is also for a week but is cheaper (50 euros) and i think a friend of mine will come too but I'm not sure if should go to a camp because I'm too shy and I don't know how camps are... What should i do?

Recently my best friend (I'm a guy and she's a girl) got a new boyfriend. They've been dating for around three months now. I can't help but feel like my bestfriend thinks of me as a "decoration" in her life now. It's apparent that she prioritizes him or me a lot (it's understandable to an extent). When she's with him, she won't be on her phone; when she's with me, she's constantly checking her phone, texting him, etc. When we text at night, her texts get shorter and shorter and she takes longer and longer to text back, when we used to have great conversations late at night. When she does text me like she used to, or ask to go to dinner or hang out, I feel like she's doing that because her boyfriend isn't available. She's a great person, so I don't want to assume that she's doing that, but I can't help it.

So I've known this church girl for like all my life but tbh didn't really talk to her when I was younger. We are definitely friendly with each other however now though I'd love to talk more often as I like like her ;) Now I see her in youth group once a week, as well as a camp for a week annually, and she really seems to like like me there. Her eyes kinda sparkle and she is constantly laughing, and I sometimes catch her looking at me and we have cute eye contact haha etc however I'm still get shy when I try and have a one-on-one conversation so we mainly talk when we're in groups. We're both quite shy to start with. The thing is we rarely text and it's kinda confusing, when we do text sometimes we have a very good convo with jokes etc, she asks questions and quick responses so she seems to wanna talk to me, but other times when we text for some reason she takes ages to respond and doesn't seem that interested at all. Recently she popped up to me because my dad's just be told he's got cancer and she's been through a similar situation, so she said she'd be happy to chat when I need to about that, but apart from that she hasn't ever popped up to me. I would looove to text her more but never do because I'm afraid I might be annoying or it'll be awkward since we don't see each other that much and I don't have anything in particular to message her about. Do you think I should text her more? Do you think she could like me? Or should I leave i

I told this guy I was coming to see him in July but then I told him that I may not be able to wait that long. So that I'll just let him know when I'm in town and he said ok. Does that mean he's ok with me coming to see him? I'm actually going to try to go see him in June.

I am doing a last minute sleepover with my best friend. At 2am when I wanted to go to sleep, I sort of had to pee. I had to pee a little bit, but I decided to wait because I never pee in my bed. So I went to sleep and woke up at 5 when I decided to go to the bathroom. When I pulled my pants down, they were wet so I smelled them. I went back to her room to check how big the spot was and it's fairly small. I put perfume on me and her bed. What do I do, before she wakes up I need to decide... How do I fix this? Do I just leave it? Do I tell her? I don't know.

Hi! I was on a school tour and around me on the bus were some people i dont hang out with. We got a long fine and had a bitta fun. I was wondering how i actually become friends with them now? (They are girls and im a boy) Im not looking to ditch my current friends either

Every girl I meet, has a sense of 'coolness'. They seem to all have a large circle of friends. They seem to think that talking to them is an important honorable thing. Uh its hard to describe it but they get everyone to think that if they allow you to talk to them its like you winning a million dollars. They are very cruel to people if they don't like them back. If you are not in their circle of friends they are extremely cold to you. Some of these girls would be friends with me over the principle of them thinking about cheating on their husband but then when they reconsider they will do something like passive aggressive get guys to bully me when I try to talk to her. what should I do?

My best friend is really popular and there are two main high schools. There's this girl two grades above mine (she's a senior) and I have always been jealous of her and envied her. It was my dream to be her friend. She goes to the other school and my best friend went to that prom and hung out with all of the popular girls that hate everyone but people like them. Why do only popular girls like other popular girls and they give ***** looks to people that aren't?

Ok, this has happened several times now and I really don't get it. So I make friends and we usually get fairly close. We get into a fight later on. And we aren't friends anymore cause they don't want to have anything to do with me after the argument. Yet these friends have gotten into fights with other friends many times over and they still end up being friends. Why is it that ALWAYS after 1 fight it's a done deal? Could it be that I fight too extremely? Depending on the fight it'll often end up that I either rage and make a super personal remark or attempt suicide to force the other person to think differently.

It hasn't always been like this my begginer days where fun now kinda sucks off of 4 hits my hands and legs start shaking and feel Shivery I can't Focus when ever I pass the pice to someone it almost drops i pass it awkwardly I know that I'm showing bad body language and uncomfortable as hell my cousin offered me a glass of water I drank it i didn't feel any better I feel extremely uncomfortable I keep moving too get my self comfortable but nothing works my friends just tell me I'm a pussy I'm just like okay I'd beat your *** if I was sober because I'm a boxer but I can't function well while high my other cousin was talking to me like he was doctor phill asking questions tell me to loosen up my friend told me he feels energetic while high I don't see how that works I can't Hang so just stop but all my friends are blazing my cousins and aunt are stoners they offer me but I don't want to turn down I want to turn up I honestly prefer drinking I'm perfectly fine sober just being high just ***** me up can anybody help me I thought weed can relax me like the old days that's gone now fellow stoners do you have any advice

Have a toxic "friend" (note the quotes around friend) who I have known for 14-15 years now. Our friendship was pretty healthy at the start and we were quite nice to one another; however, as she was going through a difficult breakup a few years down the road, our friendship started to take an emotional toll on me. I was sympathetic and spent most of my free time listening to her expressing her troubles, for weeks on end, ignoring almost everything else except work/sleep, but at one point was called "selfish". Unfortunately, from that time onwards, I saw her not-so-nice side frequently come out: she got stressed easily, misdirected her anger towards her friends, expected constant/regular attention and frequently started or contributed to a lot of drama at many gatherings, often over things nobody else got worked up about. I kept trying to make excuses for her, thinking "oh, she's going through a hard time, or is just having a bad day", which was a mistake on my part, but I tried to see the best in her. After putting up with that for years, I finally had to distance myself from her for my own sanity (and told her so). This same behavior has alienated many others from her over time too, sadly but not surprisingly. Anyway even though I have seen her mean/dramatic side way too often, and have its ugly head reared towards myself and others, I know she is capable of being quite nice and we did have some good times many many years ago. We still manage to be cordial towards one another at group gatherings (we have mutual friends). While she has been nice in the recent past, our so-called friendship has been too much of an emotional roller-coaster over the years for me and has been very emotionally draining on me. She suggested that perhaps we can catch up sometime on a more personal level, to which I did not respond. I am torn because I tried to see the best in her in spite of how she behaved and treated myself and others, and to her credit she has been nice/drama--free recently. At the same time I do not wish to get sucked into the same cycle of allowing her to be mean and mistreat me again over time, as she has done this many many times in the past. If she follows up on wanting to meet up, how would I nicely but firmly tell her that I am okay seeing her in group gatherings but don't feel comfortable to pursue a personal friendship with her anymore? I don't want to be a b**** but at the same don't want to be a doormat/pushover/people-pleaser anymore.

I'm in school still and I'm so lonely..I have no one to hang out with..I'm an outcast there's no excitement in my life. I just read and watch movies I'm an average teen. And I'm tired of it.. I'm probably over thinking since its 2 am but still my life is boring and kids use me for my homework and **** but still... I want something to happen in my life I wanna be different and unique..Now I'm rambling but any tips? As far as I know I just wanna be me just me I don't need friends or anyone but how do I stop this lonely feeling?