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- Question: Should I invite my parents to graduation?
- Question: Is my friend lying about being raped?
- Question: A friend i care about stabbed me in the back, i am conflicted with either cutting her out of my life or try to talk to her and fix things?
- Question: How do you learn to say "No" to your friends?
- Question: How do I get more comfortable with being open with people?
- Question: What do I do? I'm treated like crap. He gets mad when I cut my hair, or hang out with friends. He used to hang out with the same people.?
- Question: Me and my classmates are complete and total opposites?
- Question: I have no friends?
- Question: I have never had any friends and need help?
- Question: Does anyone have a "pen pal" anymore?
- Question: My best friend replaced me?
- Question: Is it wrong that I want to see him again?
- Question: Why do I catch strangers in public smiling at me...?
- Question: How do you tell a friend that you don t like their kid?
- Question: Some guys told me I have a problem and I m mental .They didnt know me.Then they asked me if I wanted them to bring me cocaine.What was this?
- Question: Should I resend him my fb message?
- Question: I told my best friend I loved her and she didn't talk to me. Then something else happened and she won't talk to me about it. What to do?
- Question: Need help sneaking out?
- Question: That's it I've hit the rock bottom with these people and I officially feel dirty, please come and get me?
- Question: What can I do this Sunday that would interest me and friends?
- Question: I'd like a true charismatic person to answer this, how to make people be more interested in me, to like me more, how to be charismatic?
- Question: If only you message a friend, and that friend never messages you on their own initiative?
- Question: How often is too often when texting?
- Question: I want to have a big sleepover but my friends and I are always to noisy and annoying my parents what should I do?
- Question: Could she like me?
- Question: A friend of mine has been ignoring me lately. I don't know what to do she won't talk to me she moves herself away and won't look at me.?
- Question: Feeling Left Out by Friends?
- Question: Is my friendship of 9 years worth being put down and competed against all the time?
- Question: I never really had many friends? Or true friends �� Why is that?
- Question: I'm getting to where I can't stand my best friend of 9 years anymore?
- Question: The most popular girl in school said hi to me?
- Question: My friends are doing drugs?
- Question: Should I continue the friendship?
- Question: Would you accept a second hand apology?
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| Question: Should I invite my parents to graduation? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 04:53 PM PDT |
| Question: Is my friend lying about being raped? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 04:49 PM PDT I think my friend may be a compulsive liar. She's 18. She told me she applied to Georgetown, Berkeley, Brown, University of Kansas and Iowa State. She told me she had a 4.4 gpa, and 2250 SAT. She got into all of those places except Brown. because they didn't give her enough money, she's going to the University of Kansas. Her parents are upper-middle class white family. They make probably 200k a year together. It makes no sense. We live in Ohio. THEN haha. So, she has this "boyfriend" from another school. Let's call him Nick. He's real. I've seen his Instagram. They haven't posted a single picture together. She then said that she went to prom with Nick. He posted a pic with his date, another girl. He also asked her to prom. There was a prom-posal. My friend posted a very blurry prom posal, didn't even tag him, and the same one was found on Google. Then she posted a very blurry silhouette of "them" him untagged, kissing. THEN she said they spent Spring Break together. Their spring breaks aren't even on the same time. He posted pictures with his friends in Costa Rica. Not with her. She apparently went to Florida with him. So. Apparently, she's been through a lot. She told me her neighbor raped her. He is a drug dealer, and dropped out of school. Then, she said her ex boyfriends friend raped her, and her ex didn't care. Then, she said this convicted child molester also raped her. I'm doubting if she was ever raped |
| Posted: 23 Apr 2016 04:34 PM PDT i will keep it as short as possible "but there is allot to go over" she always had issues with authority and the military but she surprised me when she told me she was joining the army. she was doing so because her schizophrenic "not an insult, she has it" girlfriend would never keep a job longer than a month and she would spend my friends money on random crap even when they were short on rent and she wanted to go to college but could not afford it obviously with her girlfriend spending her money. we agreed that we would spend time together before she left but when the day we talked about came she ignored my text asking her when she would come over, a week later she text me she was a shitty friend because she was ignoring me because her girlfriend was having one of her episodes and was angry at me for something i did not do "she has hallucinations sometimes". once again she promised to come see me and once again she lied. i wrote her and told her it really hurt me that she lied and ignored me instead of being honest because i would have understood, her response was that i was being selfish and then all she said was goodbye. i had helped pay her last months rent since they did not have enough money as well as groceries because she was living on ensure nutrition drinks. it turns out she either was kicked out or decided to leave army training. do i try to fix our friendship and give her another chance or cut my ties to her and try to move on since she is the one who burned me |
| Question: How do you learn to say "No" to your friends? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 04:32 PM PDT Whenever my friends want to go somewhere, and I don't, how do I politely say no? I'm so bad at that and I feel so guilty and terrible if I don't go with them. |
| Question: How do I get more comfortable with being open with people? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 04:31 PM PDT I've had lots of incidents with people in my life lying to me and tricking me. I've never been that social anyway, but now I've been making myself be more social on a casual level, and I love it. So now I want to try actually telling people more personal things like my interests and problems... But how do I not worry if people are being dishonest when they give advice? Or how do I trust them to not tekk other people personal things or make fun.of me? I've seen people who just tell people EVERYTHING that happens to them like it's so effortless. I don't see how they can do that. I think I need a stronger sense of self. I think I believe and trust people too much. Any help would be great. |
| Posted: 23 Apr 2016 04:24 PM PDT He's always complaining about something. He's even told me to starve myself in order to lose weight. I'd tell him that I was hungry and that I hadn't eaten in X amount of hours, and he'd be like, "it wouldn't hurt not to eat." I keep telling him if he didn't like the way I looked, he can find someone else to be with. But yet he says that he loves me and sees a future with me. How I can believe that when he's constantly criticizing my life? |
| Question: Me and my classmates are complete and total opposites? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 03:57 PM PDT Like they really know how to have fun and joke around and they think I need to be changed. I'm the kind of person who is kind and serious and really know how to be quiet and pay attention. Sometimes I think they need to tone it down a bit or even shut up completely. |
| Posted: 23 Apr 2016 03:53 PM PDT I'm not going to pull the whole "I'm depressed" BS thing for attention right now. I'm going to be honest so I expect honesty and respect in the answers. I'm 14. In the program that I'm in all year for most of the day, I'm around kids who are 16-18. I have really two friends who are guys. One of them is 16 and the other is 18. Everybody is so popular with other guys and the girls are such good friends with everybody but I always feel so uncomfortable being social with people, especially the girls. I talk to them sometimes and I feel like I'm getting better, but I don't think they would really call me a friend. I'm sort of something people bring up to laugh about and joke about, etc. Is it because I'm the youngest one here? Theres 2 or 3 14-year old girls here that I talk to a lot more than the others. I'm just curious because it's turned into anger and I feel like lashing out and throwing things across the room and breaking things because I just feel like everyone hates me. I have ADD and I'm very annoying sometimes but I'm trying to improve it. Help me? Please don't comment stupid things like "b" or "tell me about it" just to get points. I would really like some help here. |
| Question: I have never had any friends and need help? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 03:43 PM PDT I'll be 16 in less than a month and I've been homeschooled my whole life. I live an hour from downtown and I've never been involved in anything social, and consequently I have literally never had any friends. Not a single one. I have never gotten to experience simple things like hanging out with friends somewhere or just goofing around talking about life. I only leave the house once a week because I have no reason to leave the house more than that. For years now I've spent the majority of my time at home on my laptop doing nothing, and pacing around my room trying to think of something to do. So far upon digging around the internet, it seems as though my options to be social are limited in my opinion. You can "go to a real school," play sports, go to church, volunteer, or get a job. The first three options are garbage in my eyes. Volunteering is a maybe, though I can't find much volunteer work that would interest me. Getting a job I'm not so sure about at the moment, as it would be one hell of a rough transition going from my current predicament to that. Obviously, one of the first steps to this would be talking to my dad (whom I live with primarily since my parents are divorced), but I'm not sure how to approach the conversation and I don't know if there's too much point in bringing it up if I don't have an actual plan worked out. By the way, I got my learner's permit last October so I'll be able to get my driver license six months from now. With all this said, what do? |
| Question: Does anyone have a "pen pal" anymore? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 03:06 PM PDT I always thought that was cool...getting a letter was way more fun than waiting on a text! |
| Question: My best friend replaced me? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 02:47 PM PDT This is long, but i appreciate your help. My friend Harriet and I kind of were "the outcasts" at school but we were inseperable. A year after, a new girl called Julia came along and we ended befriending her after she also became an outcast. It was always the three of us so Julia didn't feel excluded. 6 months ago our school organized this six flags trip and I didn't want to go since I don't like rollercoasters but in the end went because Harriet said she would be with me all day since she was also a bit scared of rollercoasters. However, Julia loves rollercoasters and eventually convinced Harriet to go on every single roller coaster with her and I ended being their clothes hanger all day. After that they just kind of kicked it off. The girls that teased us left school and they started hanging out with the cool kids. However, everyone sees me as the weird girl and avoids contact with me. Now they've become best friends and are always telling each other secrets even when they know I see them but never want to tell me because its "private". Harriet always invites Julia over to hang out, I always find out but unless they realize I found out they are hanging out later that day they invite me, in pity. Harriet is always saying stuff like "Julia is my only normal friend". Yet, Harriet and Julia are always sweet to me when it's just the 2 of us and I don't know what to do, everyone at school resents me, I have no other friends and my mom won't let me change schools. Please help. |
| Question: Is it wrong that I want to see him again? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 02:36 PM PDT I'm in my late 20's and I met this guy online who is in his early 40's we are 13 years apart we live in different states but I met him in person for the first time in June of 2015. We were intimate when we first met in person. I was in his town a couple of weeks ago however he and I got into an argument and we didn't meet up. We have talked since then and I told him that I would be back to see him. That I would let him know when I'm in town and he said ok. I asked him if he were planning to leave anytime soon and he said he would be around. Should I go back and see him again? I saw a interview where he said he spends 90 percent of his time alone. He and I are not in a long distance relationship I just enjoy spending time with him. |
| Question: Why do I catch strangers in public smiling at me...? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 02:35 PM PDT I catch lots of people smiling at me from boys and girls in the same age group to people who are 30-40 years old. For an example i was waiting for the bus in line, i looked over and caught a man smiling at me (30+ years old) just staring and smiling right in my eyes not creepy but friendly, he stilled smiled but not widely until i got on the bus and he carried on doing what he was doing. Why??... |
| Question: How do you tell a friend that you don t like their kid? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 02:15 PM PDT I mean I like kids and I seem to get along with them well but his son is just so rude and obnoxious. And my friend doesn t do anything to properly discipline him. This kid even gets destructive and invasive to the point I don t feel comfortable. And of course the kid doesn t listen to me. |
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| Question: Should I resend him my fb message? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 02:12 PM PDT There's a shy guy in my class who I was going to talk to in person, but he didn't show today. We've spoken 2x, so I messaged him on fb so he'd be comfy talking in person. But I found fb sometimes doesn't show messages to ppl. I don't think he goes on fb often, but I'm worried he didn't get it. It's been hrs since, should I wait or send a friend request? And do I have to resend my message? |
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| Question: Need help sneaking out? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 01:59 PM PDT I have a really uneventful life and I feel like I'm slowly rotting away shut inside my tiny house. I've snuck out before but my landing from the second story onto the weeds wasn't exactly pleasant. The only exit I have is through a door in the room next to mine. I go outside onto my balcony and onto the neighbour's balcony. I dropped down from their house. What I need is a safe way to get down and back up. I can't buy an emergency ladder without my parents knowing. I'm not sneaking out to do something bad. I don't have any friends to meet up with or parties to go to. Last time I just sat down in somebody else's yard against a tree until the sun started to rise only for the sake of being outside. I would really appreciate proper answers. |
| Posted: 23 Apr 2016 01:54 PM PDT and wash me... You know this sort of cute and cutesy c*nt that took an interest in me while I was in Istanbul, over some Turkish video and Turkish men and such. So I felt the need to say something nice about her actually half cute pics she posts every so often... She arrived in the last school I will ever be working in this dump soon before I will leave...I remember her as the see no evil, hear no evil speak no evil 3 monkey' s sort of harmless little c*unt... So far not to bad, I've said kinder things to worse people, especially on FB... Well browsing through her photos I find her posing with a retired teacher I worked with for a year... You know that post when I mentioned an old teacher who used to flash her students, show them her knickers and sometimes pussy... That's her. Kids would come and complain to me how she was incredibly erratic and strict when it cam to grading, and flirted with boys and flashed them. Everyone knew it... Well this little c*unt was only posing with this uber C*unt and another little c*unt, also a cute and cutesy little three monkeys person was praising this peado b*tch saying how she has big shoes to fill now that the pedo b*itch is retired and she i teaching her subject. EW, EWWWW I feel dirty for ever being in the same room with these people, or sending her a smile emoji and a heart just now... EWWW Big shoes to fill, yes, the kids would say she would take her shoe of and play it and flash the boys her pussy and she would pick the boys that had to sit in front of her desk and watch...She was 50 ish to 60ish at the time...Hard to say with most Bosnian teacher as they all dress like prison wardens... Ewww this is my low point. I feel so dirty...Please come back tomorrow and wash me...Purify me with your se x...YUM PLEASE? p.s. I hate (apple, kiwi and banana) fruit, I need a paleo restart... |
| Question: What can I do this Sunday that would interest me and friends? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 01:46 PM PDT I'm getting rather bored and so are my friends are.. it's because we stay indoors and want to go out side.. but we don't know what to do? I have 1 more day of the weekend left.. I wanna do something exciting! Anyone have any suggestions? Please reply? <3 |
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| Question: If only you message a friend, and that friend never messages you on their own initiative? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 01:33 PM PDT is it likely that friend doesn't consider you a friend? I met a girl who's a few years older than me in a chat last September. At first she texted me, and then after that I began to text her a lot. We talked about lots of things. Then from this February on I didn't text her for a month. She asked me how I had been but i didn't reply because I was tired of one way communication ( only I texted her. She never texted me except at first). Recently i began sending messages to her again but the software I used to text didn't show she read it. Later I found her on facebook and asked her. She didn't recognize my name ( she knew my name because I let her know before), and had to ask me to remind her of what we've chatted about. Is she my friend? |
| Question: How often is too often when texting? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 01:16 PM PDT I want to be friends with this guy but I don't know how much texting I can do until it becomes excessive. I have guy friends but I like this guy, but I want to stay friends. We aren't close in class but we get along well. |
| Posted: 23 Apr 2016 01:10 PM PDT It's my birthday in few months and I would quite to have a sleepover with some friends but the trouble is we are alway really noisy and get in trouble with my parents. What should I do? |
| Posted: 23 Apr 2016 01:05 PM PDT I've known this church girl for a long time but didn't really talk to her when I was younger. We are definitely friendly with each other however now though I'd love to talk more often as I 'like' her ;) I see her in youth group once a week, as well as a camp annually, and she really seems to like like me there. Her eyes kinda sparkle and she is constantly laughing, and I sometimes catch her looking at me and we have cute eye contact haha etc however I'm still get shy when I try and have a one-on-one conversation so we mainly talk when we're in groups. We're both quite shy to start with. The thing is we rarely text and it's kinda confusing, when we do text sometimes we have a very good convo with jokes etc, she asks questions and quick responses so she seems to wanna talk to me, but other times when we text for some reason she takes ages to respond and doesn't seem that interested at all. Recently she popped up to me because my dad's just be told he's got cancer and she's been through a similar situation, so she said she'd be happy to chat when I need to about that, but apart from that she hasn't ever popped up to me. I would looove to text her more but never do because I'm afraid I might be annoying or it'll be awkward since we don't see each other that much and I don't have anything in particular to message her about. Do you think I should text her more? Do you think she could like me? Or should I leave it? Should I see if she'd like to go on a walk or something? |
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| Question: Feeling Left Out by Friends? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 12:41 PM PDT One of my friends is a liar and practically uses us, im the only one who knows. My BFF is a bit gullible so today i saw my BFF at her house and they didnt tell me. Im feling left out and i feel ike i should make new friends. what should i do? they look like their having fun and shell get mad at me if i tell her something about the liar |
| Question: Is my friendship of 9 years worth being put down and competed against all the time? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 12:30 PM PDT She always rushes to be the first one to get things done. I think it may have something to do wth the fact that she's one year older so she feels like she has to be first or something. I got a new car, so she got a new car. I got a new tattoo, so she got a new tattoo. One time I got another tattoo and she was like "geez, you need to slow down. You have more than I do." I'm getting married, and now she's rushing into it and getting married a year before I do in the same month as me and I know she's gonna regret it because she is going to have a semi-casual yet formal wedding and my fiance and I are taking our time to build up an amazing wedding. I know she's going to rub it in my face at her wedding that she's married and then once we have our wedding she's probably gonna say "I wish we would have waited". We both wanted a baby and now she is pregnant and she rubs it in subtly like I said "I haven't had my coffee today, can you tell? Lol." And she said "yeah lol I can't have a lot of coffee I'm pregnant." She will bring it up even when it's not relevant. I dread hanging out with her now and I don't even know if the friendship is worth it anymore. Opinions? |
| Question: I never really had many friends? Or true friends �� Why is that? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 12:26 PM PDT Well I was basically always a loner. Sat in lunch alone elementary to middle school and in high school. I would always see people hanging out together laughing and then I'm always alone and secluded. I don't understand why. In college I'm this way too but idc about now most adults sit alone and don't wanna be bothered. I never had friends at recess. And the friends I did have used me for money never really liked me. People just hate me and think I'm weird but I don't feel like I'm doing anything wrong I feel like everyone hates me and talks **** about me all I want is some real friends :( I just feel so lonely |
| Question: I'm getting to where I can't stand my best friend of 9 years anymore? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 12:14 PM PDT We are early 20s and we both want the same obvious things (marriage, children someday, good job, etc) but when I accomplished finding the love of my life before she did, she started rushing to get married before me. I'm getting married next October and now she just told me she's getting married this october. We both talked about wanting a baby and now she is pregnant and brings it up all the time seemingly rubbing it in my face. Whenever I accomplish something before her, she gets jealous and tries to out do me and then when she accomplishes something first she rubs it in. She ignores me when I talk about things, and turns it around to her and expects me to listen (which I do). She makes my fiance uncomfortable because we both believe she has a subtle crush on him. She admitted the other day she's jealous of us and we get "everything handed to us on a silver platter while she works her *** off). Bullshit. We work our asses off and she rushes too many things so it doesn't work out correctly. I got a new car then she got a new car, I got a new tattoo so she got a new tattoo; she always has to be equal or better. I can't stand hanging out with her anymore is this normal? |
| Question: The most popular girl in school said hi to me? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 12:12 PM PDT I'm a freshman. I've always wanted to hang out with the popular girls because they are just a fun group of friends. I have a group of 2 friends who act like they are 5 and they embarrassing. I'm usually outgoing and talk to everyone but when it comes to the Populars I don't know how to talk to them. Last year I had the most popular girl in my grade in my class. We only talked once because we had a group together. yesterday we were in lines to by a dance ticket and she was next to me. She looks at me and smiles and says "hi (my name)" I can't believe it |
| Question: My friends are doing drugs? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 12:01 PM PDT My group of friends for the last 4 years are now experimenting with cigarettes, cocaine, weed, acid, and alcohol and they do this every weekend. They rent a hotel room and do this, their parents don't care that they don't come home, as long as they know where they are. Their ages range from 17-20. I'm scared for them. And no, they're not just the stereotypical dropout losers, they're such bright minds and amazing people that support me when I'm in a bad place, some of them even tutored me and they're very genuine&kindhearted, they have jobs too, and we've been friends for awhile. I know they're old enough to make their own decisions but I feel like I'm not doing the right thing by not.... Saying anything?? I'm scared they'll overdose or get arrested. What do I do? (I'm kind of a goody 2 shoes by the way, I've never had a sip of alcohol). My mom is totally against me hanging out with people that do this, so I don't say anything. |
| Question: Should I continue the friendship? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 11:34 AM PDT P is 12, we've been friend for 3-4 years and I don't know if I even want to be her friend. She is always in trouble. She got her phone taken away for online dating, day after she got it back, she got it taken away again for using it at school. Next day, she got ISS for skipping class because she "Didn't like her teacher"!!! Theres more! .-. At teen church group, she filled out like a donation log and put Deeze Nuts; I tried to stop her but she did it; she put it in the box. She also today, we were outside and I told her not to throw the ball into the ant pile and she said "I know, I wont" and she throwed it to my brother then she threw it at the ant pile. Next, she asked for my shoes to play outside, I said I rather not do that because she is rough on shoes, she grabbed them anyway and now they are all dirty and the only pair of workout shoes I have! also, few months back we were playing with a whiteboard and she went into the bathroom, i slid the whiteboard under the door to continue playing, and when i came back she wrote on toilet paper saying shes dying and drew spider on the wall! She also lies a lot and she fake laughs and when she says something mean she does a fake laugh and says Jk. I DONT THINK I LIKE HER;-;. Ive asked her to stop, but it continues. I don't know what to do. Its gotten to the point where im waiting for her to move in a few months.. The only reason I continue is because im too nice; my mom makes me invite her; and I like talking to her online. Should I continue friendship Also, I am online schooled and she is my only friend, I used to have 2 BFFS but one of them turned on us and I kinda see her point now, I with I would've stuck with her. Its been a year, I cant apologize to that other BFF now. Also, How do I tell her I don't want to be her friend... My mom told her mom she would drive P to practice every week. Were even on the same team! Should I wait til she moves and start quit texiting |
| Question: Would you accept a second hand apology? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 11:16 AM PDT My now ex-friend and got into an argument over the phone and she said something that really ticked me off and later that day my bf called her about stuff and she apologized to him about what she said. But she didn't apologize directly to me though.... So is it the same??? Shouldn't she have at least texted me an apology instead of telling him... And 4 days later I texted her aplogizing for the things I said she ignored it... |
| Question: Is this normal to be a little depressed in middle school? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 11:06 AM PDT Hi so I'm in 8th grade in middle school. Lately I've been feeling like I'm the only one with some problems. I feel like everyone else's life is perfect like the popular girls who have lots of friends. I've been trying to convince myself that their lives are not perfect but I just can't seem to see it. How could they have problems if they are popular and have so many friends?!? I have a pretty good life like I'm not trying to be vain but I'm pretty and my family is well off so we're not poor or anything. I am insecure like everybody else and even though lots of people tell me I'm pretty (including the popular girls) I'm still insecure but that's not really the issue. The issue is how shy I am. I have a lot of acquattiences but to be honest I haven't really made one friend in all my almost 3 yrs of middle school which makes me feel so pathetic. I have one best friend really and she's a really good friend who I can tell anything to but we hang out together like ALL the time and we get tired of each other sometimes. And she can be mean sometimes . I really only hang out with my best friend at school and we just sit together at lunch together. I just feel so pathetic that I like have barely any friends and feel like nobody even likes me at school. Well thanks for reading I know this wasn't really a question but I just need someone to tell me I'm doing OK and this is normal to have problems like this in the teenage years. Thank u. |
| Question: How do i survive highschool without any friends? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 10:53 AM PDT I used to be friends with the popular group recently decided that they don t trust me and they just threw me out I go to a really small Charter School so our group was like half of the sophomore grade everyone else isn t like me and I wouldn t want to hang out with them not because they re not popular or whatever but I just they re not like me and it s going to be weird in class when we have to choose Partners or in PE because he is just all of our grade and I m going to like having no one to play with or just little stupid stuff like that and honestly I don t care what they think I just don t want to be that one girl does it talk about this girl that used to be in our group that they use to kick out and that s basically me now |
| Question: What to do in that situation? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 10:51 AM PDT The girl i love is my best friend at the moment and she hates my other best friend because of something he did to her and she wants me to stop talking to him but im close to him he's my childhood friend what would you do ? |
| Question: How do I tell my friend with anxiety to shut up? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 10:21 AM PDT Ok so I have this friend who NEVER SHUTS UP. She s a complete narcissist. Every time I talk to her all she does is talk about herself and the things she wants to talk about, whether it s just her and I or we re with a group. No one can ever talk about things they want to talk about because then she ll change the subject back to what she wants to talk about. I sit with her at lunch with like 5 other people and I know next to nothing about these people that I sit with virtually everyday for 30 minutes for months. I don t think she does it on purpose and it s not very noticeable so to say. She has a big personality and is funny, loud, and passionate, but I want to find a way to tell her that she needs to shut up sometime and not cut people off all of the time. I need to do this in the most gentle and constructive way because she also has very bad anxiety and sometimes will have to miss school because of how intense some of her panic attacks are. |
| Question: How innapropriate is this? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 10:19 AM PDT My boyfriend thinks that its okay to message my friends family and co workers when he is upset. ....he messages them to let them know I have Hpv and am a "homewrecking slut". And sends them an innapropriate picture of me. How do I deal with this? I am incomfortable everywhere I go now. At work at home or to go hang out with my friends because I am so embarrased.. |
| Question: Should I go back to see him? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 10:16 AM PDT I'm in my late 20's and I met this guy online who is in his early 40's we are 13 years apart we live in different states but I met him in person for the first time in June of 2015. We were intimate when we first met in person. I was in his town a couple of weeks ago however he and I got into an argument and we didn't meet up. We have talked since then and I told him that I would be back to see him. That I would let him know when I'm in town and he said ok. I asked him if he were planning to leave anytime soon and he said he would be around. Should I go back and see him again? I saw a interview where he said he spends 90 percent of his time alone. He and I are not in a long distance relationship I just enjoy spending time with him. |
| Question: School record in track? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 10:09 AM PDT Im in 8 grade, and i recently broke the middle school record in the 100m with 11.8. However, my teammate ran a 11.1 and is gaining national recognition. I want to feel happy for him but I cant help feeling jealous. What do i do? |
| Question: Not sure how to help her...? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 10:06 AM PDT My friend is constantly complaining about having no friends & being depressed. She's 28 & lives at home. I've thrown out so many suggestions & everything I suggest she has some "excuse" as to why that's not a good idea. I've suggested "meetups" but she doesn't wanna go alone & feels she won't make "best friends" there. I've suggested work but according to her everyone has their own lives.Ive suggested moving to a more "urban" area closer to her work but she said she will be too lonely there & refuses to move out of her parents home. She's been on Facebook frequently & is all concerned with all the quote "popular girls" from high school who are getting married/settling down buying houses etc. To me it's a little childish to worry about this nonsense. She is seeing a Psychatrist but refuses to tell him the truth about what's bothering her because she's afraid he will put her on antidepressants or diagnose her with something other than ADHD (which is her diagnosis) I'm really not sure what to do or how to help her if she won't help herself. Any suggestions on what to tell her as I'm getting a bit sick of hearing about her problems 24/7 |
| Question: How to improve social skills? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 10:04 AM PDT Growing up I was the oldest of 7 kids. Most of my brothers and sisters were babies through out my pre-teen through early teen years. Growing up my mom had a lot of health problems, and her husband worked a lot, so I had to play the part of the parent a lot. I loved helping my brothers and sisters, but my social skills declined. I didn't grow up going out with friends, or going over their houses. I'm going to be attending college this fall, how do I improve my social skills? |
| Question: What do I do to make my best friend love me? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 10:04 AM PDT Okay, I am a boy and I have a friend, that is like a brother for me, but I m not a brother for him... We are together most of the day, and he has told me I m among the others, but still he doesn t like calling me a brother or something.... What do I do? |
| Posted: 23 Apr 2016 10:03 AM PDT I've known this church girl for a long time but didn't really talk to her when I was younger. We are definitely friendly with each other however now though I'd love to talk more often as I 'like' her ;) I see her in youth group once a week, as well as a camp annually, and she really seems to like like me there. Her eyes kinda sparkle and she is constantly laughing, and I sometimes catch her looking at me and we have cute eye contact haha etc however I'm still get shy when I try and have a one-on-one conversation so we mainly talk when we're in groups. We're both quite shy to start with. The thing is we rarely text and it's kinda confusing, when we do text sometimes we have a very good convo with jokes etc, she asks questions and quick responses so she seems to wanna talk to me, but other times when we text for some reason she takes ages to respond and doesn't seem that interested at all. Recently she popped up to me because my dad's just be told he's got cancer and she's been through a similar situation, so she said she'd be happy to chat when I need to about that, but apart from that she hasn't ever popped up to me. I would looove to text her more but never do because I'm afraid I might be annoying or it'll be awkward since we don't see each other that much and I don't have anything in particular to message her about. Do you think I should text her more? Do you think she could like me? Or should I leave it? Should I see if she'd like to go on a walk or something? |
| Posted: 23 Apr 2016 09:58 AM PDT okay so this may be long, but I'm having some issues with my friends, and thank you if you read the whole thing okay, so I have anxiety, it seems as if everytime I bring it up everybody starts to laugh, I have a friend with the same thing, whenever she says she has it there all "oh are you okay" and I get panic attacks, again, they start to laugh, she has one there all over her. I have had issues with the girl there all over, it pisses me off, they literally never invite me anywhere, I have to invite them, they lie to me and say there busy when i go on my social media there all hanging out. one of them tells me she hates the girl that I hate but it seems they always hang out with each other, they are inseparable, and they completely ditched me last night, I hate two of them who always do it and plan it out. please help me, what should I do?? any help will be used |
| Question: My group mates are speaking a language I don't understand? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 09:52 AM PDT I am studying abroad and I'm doing a group work with some girls. The problem is that they keep speaking a their native language (which I barely understand) without making the effort to translate to me. I obviously felt excluded and couldn't participate in the discussions. I didn't want them to be rude and ask them to speak in english. However, they kept on coming up with ideas without telling me. I felt like they don't care about my opinion and they just wanted to do want is in their mind, so I didn't tell them my ideas. Throughout the group work (it is a filmmaking) they kept on speaking their language and I was just standing there. Anyways, my friend told me that she heard one of my group mates talking behind my back and saying that I don't deserve being in the group and I don't deserve the grades. I got pissed af because I wanted to contribute but I couldn't cause obviously I don't understand what they're saying. + I have a passion in filmmaking but they didn't let me do anything. I didn't like their ideas. Who do you think is the wrong person? |
| Question: My Friend Won't Answer? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 09:51 AM PDT So there was a litter of kittens born at my friends sisters workplace. Obviously, my friend adopted two of them. There are only like two more left. I asked if I could have one, and she was "Sure, let's walk to (sisters workplace) so I old ask my sister". We go there and my friend and her sister chat for a while, and then my firmed told me to come back tomorrow. So I go home and text her what time I should come, she read the message but didn't answe. Now it's the next day and I'm wondering should I text her again, or just wait? She didn't respond back at all. |
| Question: I got shown blog posts my flat mate made about me? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 09:42 AM PDT We move out in a month and I am glad not to be living in student halls with her any longer, she's a passive aggressive person and causes so much drama. Someone today showed me blog posts made by her, one mentioned how she hears me talking on the phone in the middle of the night keeping her awake(lies), another how I slam doors(I shut it and I do admit you can hear whenever a door is open) and the more recent one she twisted our conversation then had a rant about how my 10.00am alarm woke her up. Should I bring it up to her and tell her if she had any problem to say it to my face? I know it's a month left, but she is such a rotten person. Actually Michael I will explain further, she had a party when I had an exam the next day and I asked them to keep it down as I was studying. I further asked if they would prefer me to go to the library and they said they would leave pretty soon. She upset other flat mates by staying to early hours and when they eventually left she said not very nice things about us, despite us offering to go to the library. Her post was about that. Further in she wrote how I was selfish asking her to come in quietly when I joked and said she could make as much noise as she liked because I had half term and no more exams. The post went on to say I slammed doors all night, how would she know when she was working in a bar? My alarm was actually for a train I was catching and she went on to say unpleasant words about me. Often she has dinner parties, fills the sink up with dishes for days and when she does do them she screams at people for leaving one. Why I am sick of her? Bullying, complaining to other people and not being polite when in fact I be polite towards her with simple messages using "I understand", "please", "would you mind". And I will take your advice by saying it would be better if she spoke to me rather than rant about me. I am quite polite as other flat mates were sick of how she talked to me when I had been so nice to her. |
| Question: I NEED HELP with ideas about what to give my best friend?? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 09:17 AM PDT Okay so I live in another state right now but I see her every summer. But there is this girl she s also best friends with and I really don t like her and she doesn t like me and she s fake and everything and always tries to push me out of activities with my best friend. So I saw she literally have the same thing I was going to give her I was going to make a collage of me and my friend and get her concert tickets but the girl who doesn t like me already did that and now I don t know what to give. PLEASE HELP. Tbh I really want it to be better than the other girl who doesn t like me so please help. I don t know what to get her |
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| Question: Is it wrong that I want to see him again? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 09:16 AM PDT I'm in my late 20's and I met this guy online who is in his early 40's we are 13 years apart we live in different states but I met him in person for the first time in June of 2015. We were intimate when we first met in person. I was in his town a couple of weeks ago however he and I got into an argument and we didn't meet up. We have talked since then and I told him that I would be back to see him. That I would let him know when I'm in town and he said ok. I asked him if he were planning to leave anytime soon and he said he would be around. Should I go back and see him again? I saw a interview where he said he spends 90 percent of his time alone. He and I are not in a long distance relationship I just enjoy spending time with him. |
| Question: Helping friend with homework but now his phone is shut off? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 09:11 AM PDT Hi, I'm helping a friend with a homework assignment for him. However, I called him yesterday morning about it and then he asked me to do a favor for him (he does not have wifi at his house) by texting him, letting him know when his teacher emailed him. So when i texted back no response. Then i called two hours later and i got a message on his phone, one that happens when he did not pay the bill. I sent him an email but I am not so sure he saw that email either. Tried calling today, still the same message. He is also supposed to come over my house next week. What do I do? I can't get through to him and I can't show up at his house, basically if I do everyone speaks spanish and i wouldn't know how to communicate with them and he probably isnt home anyways |
| Question: What do I do about moving??? PLEASE ANSWER!? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 08:57 AM PDT So basically my dad got offered a job across the country, and it pays really well, so my mom wont have to work. It's in Denver, so there is many good things about it. But, I am starting high school next year, and I REALLY REALLY wanted to go through high school with my best friends. It's breaking my heart thinking about not being with them, and having to replace them with other people. I also planned on doing tennis with my best friend, but if I move neither of us will because we don't want to do it alone. Basically the moving decision is now up to me and I have so much pressure on me because part of me wants to go but part of me has to stay. If I move, my parents will be happy but me and my friends won't be. If I dont move, my parents will be upset and think I'm being selfish, (Which I'm not) but my friends and i will be happier. WHAT DO I DO????!!! |
| Posted: 23 Apr 2016 08:53 AM PDT Last Night something told me to browse around the site meetme to see if my man was on there BAM I see his profile not only the same profile pic he met me in that site with but he was liking all these 18 year olds pics and he's 25 me and him have been dating since dec of 2014 and mind y'all this is the site me and him met on and them little bitches he was thirsting after lived NEAR HIM I questioned him and he told me he deleted the app off his phone but it never deleted his account and he "doesn't know how " to do that while I deleted my account on there JUST ****** FINE and he told me he rarely gets on there that's why he ain't changed his pic AND ALSO HE PUT THAT HE'S SINGLE AND HE'S LOOKING TO MEET NEW PEOPLE GIRLS ONLY AND THAT HE LIVES ALONE WITH A FULLTIME JOB WTF!!!!!!!!!! LADIES WHAT WOULD YOU DO? and this is all recent hes been liking girls pics for months I CONFRONTED HIM AND HE CALLED ME INSANE AND SAYING HE JUST HASNT UPDATED HIS PROFILE SINCE HE MET ME A YEAR AND A HALF AGO AND WHO CARES IF HE GETS ON THERE MEETME IS "NOT A DATING SITE ITS JUST LIKE FACEBOOK" Which is a f**kin lie meetme asks you are you into women or men to meet IT IS A DATING SITE smh |
| Question: Dice probability question? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 08:53 AM PDT You and your friend stumble across a treasure buried in the valley of silence by pirates, and agree to take turns rolling a die until someone rolls a 6 and wins it. Your friend says "Neither of us is more likely to roll a 6, so it doesn't matter who rolls first- you go ahead." You, being better at math, agree and start rolling. (you care deeply for your friend, but this treasure may have a curse, and it would be best if you could spare your friend that hazard, right?) What is the probability you win the treasure? |
| Question: Atheists do you have friends ? ?? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 08:50 AM PDT |
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| Question: What to say to friend who s loved one passed away? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 08:38 AM PDT A good friend / co-workers grandma just passed away. One month ago her grand pa just passed away. And her grandma was on hospice shortly after. I just got her text. "My Grandma Bell passed away yesterday afternoon. She was surrounded by love and her last breath was very peaceful. Thank you for your prayers these past few months. 😌❤️" She has kept me update throughout this whole process. She has a very close family. Their family had been taking turn to spend time with her grandma everyday this past month. I feel she s at peace. I don t really know what to reply.. feel like I ve ran out of things to say. I want to say I m sorry and I am here for you.. I m praying for you and your family. Which I mean it but it also sound generaic and its pretty much what I ve been saying to her. Even when her grandpa passed away. Does that sound annoying and repeatative after awhile? What should I reply..? |
| Question: How to get rid of a rumour? Posted: 23 Apr 2016 08:27 AM PDT I asked someone out a year ago and I told him not to tell anyone. But of course, being a douche bag he told all of his friends and one of his really jerky friends tried to start a rumour about what I did and embarrassed me in public. I. Had a pretty good reputation beforehand and now it's tainted because of what I did when I was a silly little girl. This mistake has taught me heaps but now some people look at me weird :( if I was popular nobody would bat an eyelash but it's because I'm not everyone's surprised cos I asked out someone popular. (I don't know why I didn't even like him) And now my self esteem is so low and I have social anxiety and I just feel so helpless. If anyone has any advice on how to repair a reputation or at least how to turn back time that would be so greatly appreciated. ;) And also I actually like one of his friends but he probably thinks I'm a desperate wannabe after the rumour :( |
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