She always spaces out when I talk and forgets whatever I tell her. At first I thought she had a short attention span but she's not like that with her other friends and I'm sick of it.

Your opinion??

Yeah like in the early years 90s and early 2000s people settled problems with their share of punches and dirty words. People aint **** anymore. if your friend wanted to end the friendship, they wouldnt say good bye at least without a little physical action. Maybe somebody just needs to shoot my Smartass

What to do?

We have been best friends and neighbors since we were small and go to church together. But now that my parents might divorce she just disappeared. Never responding to texts or wants to hang out. Her siblings come over to play with mine but I don't see her. I come over to her house, but we dont really talk. I realized now that she has never made an effort to hang out with me. I dont have the chance to talk with her anywhere else bc she is homeschooled and I'm public schooled. Her mom is always there for my mom. But she isn't there for me.

I'm looking for an old friend of mine that lives in Australia. I can only remember their name, birthday, and the last place they lived in. The one person that did have contact with them recently deleted their account, and I can't figure another way t contact my friend.

If every woman preferred the handsome and beefy men... Would every ugly man be single and virgin and would every handsome man be polygamist? If it happened, what and how would happened with the world? How would be the politics of the ugly men and the handsome men?

My friend is in london and im in usa, it's waste of money and time in flight and I was wonder i can fit my body on a phone to visit my friend in london that my body coming out of the phone and I cant do it in real life, HELP!!!!!!

We've been friends for almost 2 years, but lately she's been saying "Im sick of you" blah. Honestly I get mad at her because the way she says things is like with an attitude, and whenever she says things to other people it's like she's nice, but the same thing she'll have an attitude with me. I almost think that she puts others needs before mine, because I'll always be there. She spent 4 days and nights worrying about some petty argument she had with our other friend, and she kept pushing me to make amends because she didn't want to lose him, and when I get mad at her, she always thinks its stupid or whatever, and blames it on us being sick of each other. Always. This year, we've always been sick of each other, or so she claims. I told her, We are going to distance each other for 2 weeks, but I know in those two weeks she'll go out with our other friends, because she's much closer to them, and for some reason the people I'm constantly surrounded with feel closer to her when she doesn't care. She already has another friend, and I've pointed it out to her that they're closer and she starts pointing out that because they're close, I'm TRYING to get closer to the other friend. For some reason She's implying that I'm only talking to them because I'm jealous. I was jealous of them getting close at first, but THAT IS NO WAY THE REASON I'M SPEAKING TO THE OTHER FRIEND. She also gets jealous if the guy friend in our group talks to me (He's gay). She also tells me on how such and such boy flirted with her, and I tell her that's just his personality, I've known them forever, and she yelled at me saying "LET ME BELIEVE SOMEONE LIKES ME OKAY?" and when I say xyz flirted with me, she constantly says, he's a big teddy bear, he does that to everybody. She's also told me when I first met her she thought i was no way pretty. (I didn't feel bad, because I thought the same too, but i didn't tell her) and now she thinks that I've always thought she was gorgeous. She also barely listens to me, until I've told her multiple times that she hasn't and she finally improved. I know I sound needy, but like I've never been this close to anyone since I can remember, and sometimes I think our friendship isn't worth all this hassle. I know she has a million people that wouldn't mind being her friend, but for me people always ask me school stuff, sometimes I dont mind but it's like if you're asking me JUST that..What should I do?

From the day I met this girl, she has been lying to me. I was 12 and she said she was 10, even though she was 8. For years she was lying to me, like once when during the summer she told me that her father was the person that sang "cheerleader". She also told me that her boyfriend (she was in 3rd grade, her bf was in the 4th grade, we all lived in the same apartment complex)had once went into her house while she was taking a shower, and he was in her room, undressed and tried urging her to take her clothes off. She told many versions of this tale to all the kids in our neighborhood and one day somone brought it up in front of him, and she said it wasn't true. She broke up with him later because he was too "sexual" . This is just 1 example of her many lies, those of which could have ruined our friendship. She also stole a total of 500 dollars from other peoples houses. She's really manipulative. Shes not nice to me but I feel like I'm too deep in our relationship to get out. What do I do?

Hey I m a 15 year old girl and I really don t know what s going on. I have lots of friends around me I just don t feel like I do, if someone says get in pairs no one will choose me sure when they realise they go oh come with us we ll be a three! I guess what I m trying to say is I m no ones first choice how the hell do I make more friends?

So my friend has been dating this guy for about 5 years now.She seems really in love with him.The thing is that he is not that cute.I give him about a 5 on a scale from 1-10.I don`t understand what she sees on that guy.She is beyond gorgeous and beautiful.Also really educated and just graduated college yesterday and there has to be her boyfriend ruining everything!I think she deserves better than him.I mean he seems like a great guy and is educated but he doesn`t deserve her.I would post a pic of him but I don`t want to risk getting caught or something.Anyways how do I tell her that her boyfriend isn`t cute enough for her?Help Btw I am not saying that he`s ugly cause I don`t believe in uglyness,but at the same time I don`t think people can be hot or cute.

Ok, this is gonna sound crazy but, last night me and my friends had a sleep over and we stayed up a long time. At about 1 or 2 am one of my friends went to bed. She told us she sometimes sleep talks and walks, but very rarely. But this was different. She closed her eyes and almost 3 minitues later she instantly started crying and saying something about her mom. Now, I've heard it's dangerous to wake a sleep talker, but my friends started taking her blanket off her and she started yelling "mom give me my blanket! I don't want to get up!!" And she did that for several minutes ( while we were historically laughing) then she completely stood up and we talked to her and she had a full conversation with us. Then we asked her about each one of us and she told us she loved us. We told her she smelled so she jumped up and ran but hit my stairs and fell. She got up and started laughing so we thought she woke up but her eyes were still closed and she was still sleeping. We started blowing on her and she made her teeth chatter and was like "brr, it's so cold" and then my friends wanted to see what would happen so they took her to the refrigerator and she thought it was the shower. Finally, we sat her down and started patting her with damp towels which didn't work and then my friend poked her in the stomach and she instantly woke up. But when we told her it was my birthday she said she went to my birthday last week?Why?So why is she doing this, how should I wake her up, how can I stop her

My friend and i are both males and we're sharing the same bed any ideas to what to do ? Or what kind of activities to do or whatever we're straight though

I'm a boy and she's a girl she's gay BTW. I told her I have pain in my kidney in my back which is just muscel strain but she's been worrying all night about me saying to go to the doctors and saying I should call an ambulance and she keeps on asking me questions about it saying is it getting whose or what's it like when I stand up etc and she keeps ringing me an texting me asking me how it is. She's like this when I say I have a migraine she fusses...why is this

My Birthday is in August and I'm a huge party with all my family and friends. But, the problem is that I only had like three to four close friends and a ton of people that I'm kind of friendly with. I just was wondering if it would be weird if I invite some of these acquaintances to my party as a way to get to know them better. I just don't want to seem like a total loner at my own party in front of my own family!

My friend is mad at me and I apologized to her. I don't know for what but I was the bigger person and apologized. She opened it. I don't know if she read it or not. But she opened it and didn't reply back to me. I don't know what else to do. Do you think my apology was good? " I don't know what exactly I did. Was it me cussing at you? If so I apologize. I was kidding and I didn't mean a single word that I said. If it's something else then please tell me. Perhaps we could talk it out and maybe what's bothering you is a mishap and untrue. I apologize for hurting you in anyway and for everything I've done and I also apologize for you having to deal with my rudeness and attitude. So please forgive me, I miss your smile lighting up my day." Btw I've apologized to her in person like a billion times and she just laughed and walked away.

My best friend is really busy with school though, so maybe that somewhat justifies the fact that he's MIA (missing in action). However, the fact that he has had next to no contact with my friend Miguel and I, does raise suspicions. I speculate that he might be doing this for 4 reasons: 1. He's made new friends who he considers to be more interesting than his current group of friends, which would be uncharacteristic of him, because he says that people at his school are very clique-based and not very personable, so he said that it'd be a waste of time for him to make friends at his school. 2. He's found a girlfriend and is enjoying that relationship so much, that he doesn't want to spend time with anyone else but her. 3. He's mad at either myself or my friend Miguel, and is not talking to us because of that. 4. He's just really busy with school and he doesn't want any outside distractions to bother him (social media, friends, etc.). Right now, I'm thinking it's most likely #4.

So, there's this guy who I think likes me and I really like him too. A lot of people are pressuring us to go out together, and I would love to; but the only problem is he's moving across the country in 8 1/2 weeks. I want to go on a few dates before he leaves, but I don't want to face the heartbreak. I honestly don't think it's worth it to date someone for a couple week and then break-up. Please help me! He's one of my best friends and I don't want to lose him!

But I make D's and I want to go to top schools :(

So I've been bestfriends with this person for around 5 years and you'd think I'd know everything about this person by now right? But I'm just starting to notice that this person is seriously racist and as a millennial I just can't respect that. Their using the N word a lot and saying kinda of racist things and hurtful things about other people to me and on social media. But is that enough to stop being friends? I want to know others opinions on this matter.

I love my housemate, I really do. She's nice, she's helpful. Frequently I will arrive home from UNI, and without greeting she will launch into an interminable narration - during which time I may leave the room to change my clothes, put in some laundry, or make a cup of coffee,she seem to be able to speak while inhaling, she's all about communicating 24/7 and doing everything together...after spending the day in school with my friends I like to go home relax and watch some TV and stay calmly in my room after a hard busy day but for her that means I'm isolated and depressed!!! I try to go out with her and do stuff that don't like just to avoid conversations about me being isolated....we have very different lifestyles...in the weekend I like to sleep till noon to make up for the sleep deprivation during the week but for her that means I'm not healthy she wants me to wake up with her at 6am in the weekend and have breakfast together!! she always talks about how unhappy she was with her former rommates because they used to spend the day in their room but now I am starting to understand that she scared them away!! please tell me what to do I can't deal with her anymore !!

My older sister and I (10 years of difference) have never been exactly the best of friends, but we've been arguing more, and it's really getting on my nerves. We have been trying to get along more lately, but now it's all going downhill. Should I just ignore her for awhile?

So there's this kid at my school and he has made me cry twice in a row after calling me fat, worthless, ugly, annoying, etc. and idek why that made me cry like all he said was "a penny is worth more than you" and stuff but anyways I need to get him back. I've tried to but what I came up with before sucked so much I actually forgot what I said 😂 Here's what he is like •Braces •Glasses •Short •acne •in algebra •poor •fake nikes •moterolla phone •has one front tooth, like his front teeth merged together Can you give me insults to say to him when he says sugar about me again? Thank you :))

I was thinking of having a graduation party in June (I don't graduate until late May) and I told my parents I only wanted to invite a few close friends and family members. However, my dad keeps going around and inviting all these people I don't know and especially people he knows I don't like because they treated me like crap and started rumors about me and all that. I just wanted maybe 5 friends and maybe 8 family members, along with my parents' friends they wanted to invite. However, I have been BEGGING my parents not to invite my ex's family because they have always treated me like crap. I recently found out that my dad has been going around and telling people about the graduation party and inviting them- even strangers! Then, he saw how upset I was getting (when I get upset I get really quiet and look down) when he was inviting a girl I don't like and he immediately said to her, "Well, you're invited unless she doesn't like you or she hates you for some reason and doesn't want you to go." Just the way he said it made me look like a brat, only because I don't think it's right to invite someone who helped spread a bunch of rumors about me and lie to people and act all fake. What am I supposed to do about this? My parents won't listen to me.

I'm 16 going on 17 in a couple of weeks and a bunch of my friends have asked me if I want to hang out during the summer but the problem is that my whole life my parents have said no to me going out with friends. It makes me feel awful since I've actually lost friends because of that and I feel like the only person at school who has never gone out with friends. They tell me it's because they care and that they have to meet my friend or their parents, but I feel like they care too much and some of my friends/their parents can't speak spanish (my parents don't speak english) or they don't have parents. People tell me all the time that I'm lucky to have both my parents but I don't feel lucky, I feel trapped. I just want to be a regular teenager and have those experiences like everyone else does.

I have tried the "befriend everyone" kind of mentality, where you just sort of try to seem positive and engaging no matter what, but I notice that then people seem to lose respect for you and start to walk all over you. I really feel drawn to this kind of personality, but I want to be like that without losing my ability to stand up for myself. Like how do you have a notably kind, friendly demeanor without becoming a doormat? How do you keep some walls up (if that makes sense) while still seeming open and friendly? Or is it even possible?

I was planning on having a graduation party in June (my school ends 2 weeks after most public schools) and my parents got all excited about it. They asked about the place, theme, activities, cake, etc. Well when they asked who I wanted to invite I told them some of my friends and some of my family and gave names. They started counting on their fingers and naming everyone off that I already said and then added, "Oh yeah, we HAVE TO invite your ex's family! They'd be so upset if they didn't get an invite!" Now before anyone goes on about how I should let them come because it's the family of the ex, not the ex themselves, let me just mention how his entire family treated me like crap, talked crap behind my back, were completely two-faced to me, and even started rumors about me to make their own kids look good. I try to avoid them as much as I can and I haven't seen them since October. I understand that my parents and them are the best of friends (even though it's obvious they take advantage of my parents, acting like they always forget their wallets for a planned dinner and stuff) and they do just about everything together, but this is supposed to be a party all about me, isn't it? I've already told my parents I don't want them to be invited but they don't care, they act like they literally HAVE TO invite these people. I'm about to just say screw it and not have a party at all but I really want one. HELP!

I texted my friend on kik and it had a faded d and right after that I texted my other friend and it had a solid black d.

Could there be a psychological reason? I don't understand why but I don't like following the crowd; I like having the ability to think independently even if it means differentiating myself from the crowd. I am one to question things a lot. Too much for my own good. Is there any reason why one would strongly dislike going with the flow with everything? I'd love to hear your opinions no matter wether or not you study psychology or not. I mean I helped my 4th year psych major uni friend write her essay and I study Art; this question is open to all. Sometimes it gets so crazy that I go against them alone and on the rare occasion realise how bad that certain descision was. Thanks in advance

I have a friend in gym class who really stinks. I dont want to be rude but she smells really really bad . When we are changing Her shoes look so clean and shiny but they smell bad. Her shorts smell like poop. And when she hugs me her armpits Stink like fish. She also lays down on my lap (When we are bored) I see white stuff in her hair ! Should i buy her something or what? Thanks :)

I had a friend back in 7th grade. We got along really well, but then she moved during the summer. Now in 8th grade, I am dating someone that she doesn't like. We were talking in our email chat, and eventually we just stopped talking. A while ago, I sent an email to try and give our friendship a chance. She replied back with this: Hi, yeah, it has been a while. I'm sorry about what happened tho. I guess I just snapped. I don't think Olivia deserves you. She's being a real jerk to Rebecca and i, and she doesn't even care. The day she came back she broke Rebecca's heart and she just walked away. Did she tell u why she was gone for so.long? Because it changed her. She has all new friends, except a few people like you. But that's it. She's "friends" with people she told me she hated last year... I've just had enough. She never really did anything for Rebecca, or me for that matter. She told us we were her best friends. We're the only reason she passed her classes last year, and now, she acts like a totally different person. You deserve better. You're sweet, and funny and kind. She's rude, dishonest, and disloyal. She told us things that she didn't even tell her sister. I was defending Olivia's best friend (ex best friend now, but its not like she cares) from Olivia. And now she hates all of her old friends. Except you and Paige. But she won't believe us when we're telling her the truth. She says she's a "BS free woman" but she isn't. I would Like to be friends again.

So ive been bestfriends with jane for over 10years! Since we were 5 and ive never trusted anyone as much as her. We ve done so much together! Gone places, helped each other through tough breakups and i literally tell her everything. Weve been through tough stuff together and she really is like a sister to me! That was until her new bestfriend (rosie) joined our friendship group. I was at the time one of the main people who said she could join became her old group ditched her. Shes one of these super clever, pretty, girls that people wanna be like (opposite of me: clumsey, bit dim) and now i just feel completely left out all the time because jane just doesnt bother to talk to me anymore :( and everytime i try to talk to jane rosie will either be stuck to her like a magnet or they both will be out together. But the thing that completely annoys the hec outta me is that rosie knows that im close to jane so she tries to rub it in my face and almost try to rival me when jane is not around!! doing things like after i told rosie what i was getting jane for her birthday she goes ahead and gets the same thing but makes it 1000 times better. Ive tried to tell jane but she just thinks im jealous?!? So i completely dont know what to do. Should i move on even though that makes ne really sad or should i confront rosie or idk. Helppppp (ps sorry for the huge amount of writing)

he all of a sudden got extra jealous because of something and started blaming me for something absurd (the specifics aren't important). i tried to leave the room because i understood how tense the situation was becoming. he is much larger than me and stood up and blocked the door while questioning for the false thing he was blaming me for. he blocked the door for what felt like a long time but was prob about a minute until moving. i was yelling for help and everything. i don't know if i should somehow anonymously report him to the police...i do not want to be involved in a court case right now i have too many things i am doing in my life. this is was so wrong for him to do, suggestions?

i have a friend who is always saying she has family problems. the problem is that we have to work as a team in school for making homeworks. but every important day. she does not show up to school. and when i try to disapprove or tell her about it, she answers me that she has family problems. this girl in school is known for being very unpunctual and and she is always late. how can i answer back when she say that.

So im 14 and best best friend (also a girl) has this instagram account that I'm not supposed to know of and she was saying in the comments stories of things that we do everyday and she said that she really likes me as more than a friend? Im straight and never thought of her as more than a friend so thats not gonna work out, but what do I do if she tells me in person that she likes me? How do I let her down easy?

Okay, so I've had my best friend since we were 10 (we´re 17 now) and we´ve told each other prett much everything, so far. Recently I found out from another friend, that she told her, she was Lesbian, yet she didn't tell me. My best friend and friend, have never been that close, they keep having arguments and such. I know I shouldn't pressure her into coming out to me, but I just feel offended that she would trust my friend, over me. Am I just being selfish? or is the feeling natural? in addition, I don´t like her, I just feel offended that she didn't choose to tell, me since we´ve always been really close and now I just feel out of the loop...

There is a girl in my class who cut her long hair and dyed it black, she is realy ******* annoying. Everytime she gets asked to come to school she goes in the bathroom and bleeds all over the floor and says her life sucks. I am friends with her parents and they give her a roof over her head and buys her what ever she wants. but she yells at them, she had half the amount of friends that i have and all her friends feel sorry for her and give her support while i am mentally ill but doctors and friends don't give a crap about me. It really pisses me off i actually want to kill her because she is a cancer to the world. :(

I have 4 bestfriends one of them already graduated early but 2 of them don't like my other friend they say they have nothing against her it's just that they find her really annoying and loud but I don't get it why I don't see her like that I think she's fun she she's there when I need someone and she's very funny. Like I said I just don't get it why they find her annoying and I don't?

I am 17, and my friend is 13....I'm a guy, she's a girl.. I rarely see her, and for awhile my mom was placing a time limit on how long I talk to her since she's so young.....but now she says I can talk all I want so long as I'm appropriate....but the last two times I saw her, she seemed like she was avoiding me and didn't want to talk to me......let me give some background.....I called her mom several times to ask if I can talk to her, and even sent a letter to their address, but later apologized and was forgiven....then, when my mom was expanding restrictions on me talking to her, saying the girls mom just didn't want to hurt my feelings, I sent a text to the girl's mom asking if she was just trying not to hurt my feelings and if she was okay with me being friends with her.....then the two times where it seemed like she was avoiding me.....what should I do? I also have autism

somebody i know online (known for a year) gets depressed whenever i tell him i don t want to roleplay with him. he seems to only be friends with me for that, but when i tell him that he threatens to kill himself. what can i do?

Right now I'm a senior in high school and I don't have any friends maybe 1 or 2 but we aren't close. No one at school ever tries talking to me or acknowledging my existence I try to smile at people and say hi but it doesn't really help. I remember it all started in 4th grade I randomly became super shy and I had no friends whatsoever and I would never talk because people never tried talking to me. I don't really know why people are like this to me. I feel so different than everyone at school i see people all around me talking to eachother in class and even other quiet people get approached and talked to but I don't. People usually just ignore me and don't bother talking to me. I don't understand. It's been this way since 4th grade. I don't think I look bad like at home I have so much confidence and think I look good but at school it's the total opposite. So why don't people ever talk to me? :( I feel so alone and it's like people around me act like I don't exist. Like in group projects everyone else will be talking to eachother but just ignore me and not even acknowledge I'm there. I'm a really nice person to?

Im a 16 year old girl (in 10th grade) I have a problem even though I really try my best to be cool and normal but I dont know why people dont take my serious! specially that im a newcommer in this school (there are other new commers too!) but still whatever happens my classmates think its me who have dont it (even though they never mentioned it to me) but i feel it :( no one wants to be friend with me its just like hi and bye , im too sensitive and im this kind of person that whatever i say no one even listens and dont care and at the end im like i wish i didnt say that i know i sound a bit weird but I couldnt explain it much better :(

My friend and I are both very pretty but people always seem to compliment her and I feel uncomfortable just standing there

Not only is she prettier than me, more talented in everything and likes rubbing it in and making a competition of it, she's a year younger than me and has the worst personality ever. She does everything to break me down, and all the other things doesn't help either. I'm very suicidal and sometimes she cares and is the best friend ever, but then sometimes she couldn't care less yet still expects me to be there for her.... She never calls so I'm the only one who actually does something for us to have contact since she lives 5 hours away, but she's the only friend I have I'm not a part of my class at all, have zero friends and she actually complains about having no friends to me when she has a few friends to spend time with at school instead of being alone all the time, and it annoys the hell out of me Plus she's taller and I hate when my mom wants to check out the height difference or take a picture of us... What the hell am I supposed to do? I can't really break contact with her either ;3;

Well I have this friend. We used to be REALLY close. But now I'm afraid to even say something she might not like bc I'm afraid she'll hit me. I've told my mom and she said to just stop being friends with her. But it's not that easy. She knows ALL of my secrets she knows I cut. She knows my crush. She knows that I'm dating him. She knows everything about me good and bad. Same with me Ik she cuts. Ik her sister hits her. Plz help!!!

Hi so this may be a dumb question to ask, but next school grade I was planning on being nicer to everyone and being more helpful. My problem is there are a lot of rude girls and boys - now don't get me wrong the world is full of them and sometimes there is nothing you can do. I'm mainly referring about the very loud mean girls in my classes. I've never lived the certain lifestyle of some people(and this qualifies for all races not just black people!)so it's a bit harder to relate to them and I don't really get intimidated as much people do because I realize we're all human but I wish I could befriend them more and get to know them. Just to clarify I mentioned that a person of any race could have lived a certain lifestyle so no person would take offence. I hope you understand!

This girl copies off everything from me even the smallest details.

Ok so I was DMing my friend on Instagram and I check back to see if he answered and I got two messages back from him but they didn't show. How come this is happening? Everything on my phone is up to date... so why is this problem? Thanks so much !!!

I've been joking around and saying "hey bestie" to everyone. So I saw my friends in the hallway and they're actually my besties so I said "hey bestie" to both of them and gave them a high five. Well Mia in front of me turned around and gave me a weird look. What's her problem?