Family: Question: 10 Points Best Answer!!! Am I being abused by my mother ??? Or am I over reacting? Plz answer!!?

Question: 10 Points Best Answer!!! Am I being abused by my mother ??? Or am I over reacting? Plz answer!!?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 01:10 PM PDT

So when my mom gets angwry , wich its often she get REALLY MAD. The earliest memory of her being violent when I was around eight she smacked me because I didn't get something for her fast enough. I didn't know what to do, I was confused and blamed myself. Since that time when I was eight shes always called me names like a b*tch, brat, worthless, that she hated me, and I was a d*ck etc. I remember last year I thought she was going to kill me I don't exactly remember what I did/ say but I remember she slammed me to the wall and began to choke me I thought I was going to die. Shes threaten to kill before. Recently started to think and I think shes been molesting me, but I don't know for sure. She grabs my boobs, butt, and vagina. I'll ask her to stop but she'll get mad and say it's normal. The only reason why I don't leave bc my brother, he'll lie for her . shes always mean to me but never him. I told my grandpa and when he confronted her she beat him too. We have a cps worker but when they investigated they said there's not prof. Last week started punching me I thought she was gonna break my arm. I wanna tell my aunt but I don't want my brother to lie or ruin his life. Is this abuse or normal, how to tell my aunt or should I wait till I'm 18?

Question: How do I tell my parents that I have mental health issues?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 12:53 PM PDT

It's very hard for me to talk to my parents about topics like this since they are not very understanding. I'd like to see a doctor and get treatment but I can't do that without my parents finding out there's something wrong. Please give me some advice and don't be mean please.

Question: Why does my mother touch herself "down there" when she is speaking to me?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 12:49 PM PDT

Ever since I was a child, whenever I spoke to mother and she would reply to me, she would scratch herself "down there I would look away and scrunch up my nose and she would ask me "What's wrong with you?" and I ask her "Why do you touch yourself like that?" and she pretends to act shocked and says "How can you say something like that? I would never do that!" She's told my dad and my brother and they all look at ME like I'M the crazy one. So ever since then, whenever I talk, she still does it, but I just ignore her. She sickens me and completely confuses me. I don't know what is wrong with her. She and I aren't really. She'll just buy me dinner and clothes and other things I need but she's always alone. She creeps me out can you see why?

Question: How do I make someone less mad at me or soften the blow of the punishment?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 12:48 PM PDT

I bought a prepaid greedot visa for 61 dollars and he found out and he doesn't like when I buy things behind his back and hes really mad. is there and way to make him not as mad and soften the blow on me

Question: Half Siblingship DNA test: Can you submit your DNA into a system to find a possible half sibling?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 12:35 PM PDT

I recently found out that I possibly have a half sibling by my father. He won t talk to me about it. All I know is that it happened about 30-40 years ago, when my father was 17 years old with a 14 year old girl. I have her name, but she has such a common name that over 100 people share in just one county. So my motive is simple: I want to connect to my possible half sibling and bring them back into the fold so to speak. Would appreciate a productive answer asap. Thanks in advance.

Question: Everyone hates me?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 12:25 PM PDT

I have no friends, despite being on a dance team with 20 other girls, because they all hate me, and I don't know why. My parents and siblings hate me, and now my grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins hate me too. I even hate me. I don't know why nobody likes me, but I am so lonely. What should I do?

Question: Is it bad for a baby to inhale a poop-type odor?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 12:14 PM PDT

I was in the car with my mom and we got some Smoothie King. My mom drank an all-vegetable smoothie and she drank literally EVERY inch of it.. A few hours later, my mom and I were driving home when all of a sudden my mom stopped the car on the highway. She had to poop. She was pooping IN THE CAR with a bunch of towels and moist napkins by her side. She cleaned up and started to drive back home but my baby sister (6 months) was next to my mom in her car seat and she was crying. It smelled BAD in the car, like having a bad poop odor. My sister was inhaling the air and I'm worried that this is unhealthy for her. Please help ASAP!

Question: Caption: This my father Khen Treng?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 11:55 AM PDT

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Question: What can I do, I'm soooo annoyed !!?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 11:52 AM PDT

So I'm in 6th year and leaving school on Friday ! I'm so sad about it and we're doing pranks and all drinking after it together as a whole year, and I was saying to my mum how upset I was cause I just don't want to leave although I'm going to! And my mum keeps saying 'you were never even at school ' and alll that!! Like yeh my attendance was kinda bad but I love school and I'm heartbroken about leaving ?? Like it's getting to me so much !! And if that's the case then why would I get a yearbook or a leavers hoodie or why would I even go to prom eh???? It's just getting to me cos I am sad about it and she's saying 'you were never here and you never went to school ! Everyone who knows you knows that' and I dno why I'm hurt.... What can I do, don't call me stupid or a idiot cause am hurt and annoyed !! What can I do ?? Am sooo annoyed !

Question: Is it so wrong to basically hate your family?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 11:52 AM PDT

Due to a sudden and unexpected illness, for the past few years I have pretty much been stuck living with my family. I went from basically living alone and doing my own thing to dealing with my Mother(as loving as She is) literally constantly moving my things on me, which in turn causes me to always be looking for sh!t which drives and makes me feel crazy and I can't stand it. I had a much nicer time and WAY less stress when not dealing with my pain in the a$$ family. Not to mention, my social life has been reduced to family parties, or hanging out with them. When I lived 600 miles away(NYC) and visited on my terms it was WAY better. At this point I'm pretty much over this sh!t. It's like being underage in High School again and being stuck doing crap your stupid Parents want you to do. Oh, and not to mention, I'm fu$&@ing 32...

Question: Do you think I have a right to get my things back?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 11:39 AM PDT

Last year, my Dad kicked me out and I had to go live at my mum's. It took a while to get my things back. However I didn't get all of it, he kept my Xbox 360, my laptop and my passport. I got my keyboard back but it had been broken by him. I haven't seen him since, my Mum has stopped him from coming near the house, she also says I can't e-mail him because she doesn't want him getting back into her life. Fair point. But I'm 17 and surely I have rights to do as I please. But it wouldn't go down well with my Mum. We tried getting the police involved but they said they couldn't do anything as it wasn't technically stolen. Is there any other way I can somehow get them back? I miss them a lot.

Question: I can't stand my son's father I want him I jail.?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 11:26 AM PDT

He doesn't send child support and has the seenext him in five years. What can I do?

Question: Too sad to eat?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 11:26 AM PDT

I'm really upset. My parents have driven me to this point where I am completely depressed. I have lost my appetite. When I see food at home I don't want to eat it because I don't want anything to do with my parents. When I go out I don't want to eat because I feel if I can't eat at home I shouldn't anywhere else. It's not even that. Idk I just feel uncomfortable eating anywhere else. I just feel uncomfortable eating in general. I went to bed the past two days without having dinner. I woke up and I tried to eat cereal but I almost threw up after taking one spoonful so I poured it down the drain. I just can't eat. I don't know what to do And I'm so depressed and angry because of my parents but I also feel this huge negativity towards the rest of my family just because they're related to my parents.

Question: What should I do about my freak body?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 11:25 AM PDT

I have flat feet, I get it from my mom. My dad has the opposite, very high arches and a nice form to his body. But my feet are flat because I was born in the US where the norm is to sit on your *** and drive everywhere instead of using your God given body. So I m 25 already and because of my lifestyle (which is beyond my control) my legs have also become ugly and disgustingly freakish. I will show a pic if possible. What should I do about my problem? Is there a solution?

Question: What is a good way to get back at my sister for hurting me? She embarrassed me in front of my friends.?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 11:17 AM PDT

My sister is 17 and quite a *****. Im 18 and had some friends over at the time. So anyway, we were at the house and I was getting hungry so I told my sister to go fix me something to eat. I have picked on her quite a bit but all I told her was to get me a sandwich. She told me to ask nicely and I called her babes and told her to get in the kitchen. And she just stood there looking at me. So I asked her if she understands English and told her to also make my friends whatever they wanted. She then tells me no and that she's tired of me treating her bad. So I got up and told her to stop being a ***** and do what I say and then she hit me in the nuts and dragged me over to the kitchen. And then she poured barbecue sauce on me and told me to make it on my own. My friends were laughing at me and then my sister told my mom about what happened so now I got my car taken away. I want to get that ***** back. She had no right to embarrass me like that. What is a good way to get her back???!!!

Question: My dad called my mom a hippo?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 11:15 AM PDT

So my parents and I went outside for a Long walk. We would pass by thin women who were jogging. And my dad just started telling my mom she looks like a hippopotamus and was like "why did I have to have a fat Wife?" My mom is on the chubby side btw, but I think my dad was still being an a$$hole. That Jerk probably hurt my mom's feelings... My mom just shrugged it off and told me she doesn't care and that she will prove him wrong one day(but I think she's still hurt deep inside). I heard my mom telling my dad she used to depressed that my dad didn't pay her the much required attention the last time, and that was why she started eating a lot. But my dad had the guts to tell her she was being stupid. Do I yell at my dad the next time he insults her weight? I don't care if he disowns me, I hate that he always yells at my Mom all the darnn time. He probably cheats with other women online, in which my mom has caught him talking to a few and they had a huge argument(I eavesdropped their convo btw).

Question: I am 14th cousin once removed to Princess Diana and we share a Gateway ancestor. Does that mean that we are related by blood and that Princess Diana and I could possibly share a small of DNA?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 11:06 AM PDT

Does this mean that we related by blood and could possibly share a small amount of DNA?

Question: Naked in front of family members?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 10:53 AM PDT

Has you ever been naked in front of family when you are in your teens.My cousin brother who visited in our home last month.He lived us for a month and in our family all of us got shocked.When he came out naked from bathroom.Behaved in a very normal way. Me,mom & dad all were shocked to watch him.He is 20 and be naked in front of my family.We all forced him to wear clothes.But he only wear briefs.But daily he roam naked for atleast 15 to 20 minutes.You thing its ok if he is doing normal not sexually?

Question: How do persuade my mormon parents to allow me to experience the media with the R, M, TVMa ect in their house. More details below?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 10:48 AM PDT

My parents tried to raise me as a Mormon (but failed). I want to be able to watch my own movies, play my own games, read my own books ect. But they don t accept me doing the R TV-MA or M rating media and they have to read the whole book first to approve it. Everything is strictly setup to what they believe is appropriate. Im currently 18 and still at school. I m old enough to handle this stuff. I respect in what they believe and that I m in their house still ( ggta follow the rules). But what really gets in the way is that about everything that is appropriate is made for younger audiences and is well, kinda dumb for me. They think that the ratings I m not aloud to experience will bring in the evil spirits. I disagree with that belief. If I play halo 4, for example, it s not going to bring the evil spirits in. How do I pursuade them to let me do these things in my free time?

Question: How do I get over the hurt and pain my mother has caused me?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 10:45 AM PDT

As a kid she alienated me from some family and as a result there were family traditions I missed out on. I usually turn this hurt inward because I am afraid to be mad at my mother but other times I am mad at my mother. She did it for reasons that were wrong. She has shared with me why and it was not anything I really needed to be protected from but she was afraid to see me criticized by a family member of hers. So now I am an adult and I see everyone some but many traditions I miss as we are overlooked. My mother has a poor relationship with her siblings. This all hurts me a lot. I never knew my father (he killed himself when my mother was pregnant with me) and so my step-father's family doesn't seem complete for me as an extended family. How do I overcome this hurt? I worry and am hurt daily by it and am angry at my mother at times and angry at myself at other times.

Question: How do I hold steady and enjoy myself despite my parents being miserable and mad I am not sadder like them, read below?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 10:34 AM PDT

Last February (2015) my 21 year old brother died suddenly of a drug overdose. He had addiction issues with prescription medicine. In August of last year my grandfather on my mother's side died of a heart attack (also sudden). So my mother and somewhat my father are a mess now one year later. I am 28 and visit from time to time. I also have my own life. I am one of five kids and I want to still enjoy life. My mother was livid with me for still visiting family other then the immediate family last Christmas. She was mad that I tried to enjoy the holidays (they went okay but not great). And now that it has been a year I am really read to move on. She is mad at me for that. My mother and somewhat my father are mad they never saw me cry over my brother's death (certainly I am sad by it). So how can I enjoy life like I want and not be caught up in having to be miserable 24/7 since my parents are? I certainly don't want to be insensitive to them as they are understandably grieving. However, I want to enjoy summer travel, Christmas, family time with cousins, and other things yet all these things anger my parents that I am doing in the wake of my brother's death. I think me celebrating Christmas last year and visiting extended family was what really angered my mother the most. My mother is furious I talk to her sister (my aunt) because she said my brother who died was reckless and chose drugs (my mother says drug addiction is not a choice). ANY ADVISE OR TIPS?

Question: I hate my mom's punk a$$ lesbian wife?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 09:57 AM PDT

I'm 15 years old & i'm a guy & I hate the fact that my madre is married to that stupid hoe! I swear every ************* time I see that biatch, I just wanna beat the **** out of her. Tbh, I don't give a **** about my mom's happiness or whatever you wanna call it. My madre divorced my dad over dumb pendejadas. My dad has anger issues, but he never abused my madre physically or verbally. My madre's gf keeps saying that she will be the best spouse my madre has ever had. I get pissed easily when she says that. I punch the wall & make holes. I don't even know why she married a woman. I'm a christian & marrying someone of the same gender is just disgusting. My madre is always saying she has never been happier. My madre even wants a child & that just pisses tf outta me. Im not gonna support my mom if she has a baby with this ugly *****. My dad made my madre just as happy as this biatch. I swear my madre is just ******* retarded when she is hanging with this puta perra culera. How can I end this nasty marriage? I keep asking my mom if I can live with my dad, but she kedps saying no.

Question: My dad always yells at me for everything that I do?!?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 09:51 AM PDT

HELP!! My dad is constantly and always yelling and screaming at me for no reason! Like a minute ago I was yelling at my brother to be quiet, and then my dad started yelling and screaming at me in the face. I wonder is my dad is strict, or he doesn't like me yelling. Help!! Any way for me and my dad to get along?! He always strict and making so much rule!!!

Question: My family is driving me crazy; how can I stay sane and centered until the end of tonight?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 08:55 AM PDT

I want to say that I've heard time and again, not to visit them- but I felt I'd do it this time because I rarely visit them anymore and it's the holiday. So please if you have advice, offer something else. I'm at my parents for the holiday and it's already a nightmare. I slept over and this morning at 7:30am, my mom is in my room while I'm sleeping and slamming drawers closed making a ton of noise -no consideration. My older sis is the focal point of attention because she has a boyfriend, she is gorgeous, at least they all tell her that. No one told me that I look gorgeous, no one recognizes my accomplishments but she is "gorgeous" so they berate me. I honestly think its because they are uncomfortable with the fact that I have accomplished more than them and for gods sake, I'm not ugly. When my sister came into the apt this morning, my mom and brother were sleeping, but she doesn't think of others so shouts HELLO to the whole apartment bc she of course is the center of attn. when I went onto the terrace to check if it was raining last night, because my grandma wanted to know, my dad "joked" don't do it! Don't jump!What kind of sick sense of humor is this? I guess my main problem is ability to hold my own in this toxic environment because I'm not happy here, and yet it's the only family I have. I'm nervous 4 2nite everyone will be all over my sis and how gorgeous she is and feel sorry 4 me because I don't look as fancy because I don't make as much money as her...yet lol.

Question: Feel like having sex with my older brother?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 08:54 AM PDT

should I have sex with my older brother? his name is Kevin and I live with him at my Dad's house now I feel like having sex with him we have our sister and brother bond so would it be weird if we did have sex? please no mean comments cause I will report them btw I'm 19 and he's 23 js okay I'm not a ******* freak like I said I will report you if you be mean or call me names don't ******* mess with me! I'm serious!!! your all reported now so **** off of me! I'm not ******* around!!!

Question: Why are my parents so stupid? They grounded me because I told my brothers friends that he cries all the time.?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 08:40 AM PDT

Shouldn't they ground my wimp brother instead? ????? He cries to get what he wants. He does whimpwr noises like a dog and ahhh huhhh ahhhh huhhhh like a toddler. He's 15!!! !!! !!!! He deserved to have all his friends know what a baby he is

Question: Was this the right thing to do?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 08:28 AM PDT

My dad always goes out on Saturdays with his girlfriend. At first it was okay because it was about once a month, but now it's every week. And my mom passed last year so I don't have another parent to do things with. I don't have a lot of friends that live close to me either. He promised we would do something together this weekend but skimped out on it again. So I stole his car keys and hid them so wouldn't be able to go.

Question: Brother is throwing his life away?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 08:27 AM PDT

He just got out of highschool last year. All he wants to do is party, go to strip clubs and have sex... He drinks and drives all the time and thinks it's funny. He always cusses at my mom and storms out of the house. He is turning into an alcoholic... At his job of he doesn't get his way he always tells his boss he'll just "******* quit" why is he like this? I hate seeing my brother ruin his life like this

Question: My mother destroys her family, how do we avoid this destroyer of the family?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 08:25 AM PDT

Question: Why is it that when a family member is in trouble from bad things they brought on themselves I want to see them more then when doing fine?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 08:25 AM PDT

I don't mean in trouble like they have cancer or are hurt but I mean in trouble like they left their spouse or said something extremely hurtful to someone or are stealing for drugs.

Question: My little sister doesn't want to hang out with me anymore?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 08:12 AM PDT

I have one sister. She's 10, I'm 15. You'd think it would be the other way around but no, I really want a relationship with her. My mom is close with all her sisters and I want us to be like that. We talk, yeah, we're friends, I guess. But she never wants to hang out. For the past week we've been talking about going to the movies (to see her favorite movie! Zootopia!) and now she's saying she doesn't want too. When I got back from going to the mall today w/ my friends, I bought her a cookie cake and instead of her asking politely or even thanking me, so got mad that I didn't give it to her fast enough. We don't even hang out that much of anything. But Mother's Day is coming up and next weekend I can't hang out with her (I already have plans) and we normally go pick out something for our mom together. She's young, so I let her pick something out to give to our mom and I pay for it. But i can't convince her to go this weekend. I try talking to her just about anything after school sometimes, but she hates when we talk, I think. What should I do? I also forgot to mention that just last week, I gave her my iPod! She wanted one so bad and now she doesn't even talk to me,

Question: Family won't let me be angry?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 07:39 AM PDT

Everyone in my family is allowed to be angry, to show anger, yet when I get even mildly peeved, I'm told to knock it off. Seriously it's weird, and really, insulting to be honest. It's like if anyone else gets upset, they get a free pass to do so. If I get mad though it's either; A. I never get to live it down. As an example I'm normally, pretty quiet, well one time I finally had enough of my sister's attitude, and told her to **** off, (which I did apologize for later.) and it's still brought up, two years later, about how totally out of line I was, even though she yells at me on a daily basis, and has physically struck me at times. B. I start to get upset, and am told to "knock it off" and "quit acting like I'm five." even though the worst I'm doing is just tensing up slightly, and speaking with a rougher voice. Kind of reaching the end of my rope, anyone have a similar experience? What did you do?

Question: My mother is a gossip. She tells me stories about people and I later learn they weren't true or unproven, so how do I know what to believe?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 07:27 AM PDT

As a kid for example she'd tell me things about people and I'd believe her and I learned more and more as a young teen they were not true or were never proven so I felt guilty I'd believed her. A lot were serious topics. Once she even said her cousin (my mother's cousin) had sexually abused his daughter and I later learned the daughter has personality disorders and made it up completely and even admitted she'd lied when she got help later. So when she comes to me with something now how do I know whether to believe and be concerned or not?

Question: Ok just turned 14 and now im with my mom she did not get me anything for birthday read story please?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 07:22 AM PDT

Ok so I turned 14 and I came from dad house to mom house and she did not get me anything for my birthday so I wanted a pair of converses and she like no I cant get them because she dont like sneakers like wtf!!! And she said I have to get a shoe with a heel on it or she not going to buy me any shoes but obviously that is not what I ****** like im so pissed off and irratated because I have to deal with this ***** controlling everything/I know my speling and grammar is bad no judgement since I dont really have time...

Question: My second cousin is a girl now but was once a guy, I am worried she will be mad if he finds out I know, what do I do?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 07:17 AM PDT

Among my worries is that I will accidentally call him by the name she had as a male (she has been female since around the time I was born). I fear more how the rest of the family will act as he is older then most the cousins so it is a secret to our generation but my mother and her cousin blabbed it to me (no idea why). So what do I do if I call her by the wrong name and-or if she finds out I knew and gossiped about it as a kid (I am 22 now and don't bring it up)?

Question: Son asking questions about his father?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 06:50 AM PDT

I was 17 when my ex (20) got me pregnant. It was my first boyfriend, he was controlling, manipulative. Would try to isolate me, throw fits when I tried to leave, block me from leaving. Went all the way and took my virginity after I said I didn t want to go that far. After 3 months of trying to leave and him crying and grabbing me, not letting me, I finally did. He turned stalker for a week and was everywhere I was. He wouldn t let me call for help when I tried calling my dad when we were both alone and I was scared, he wrestled the phone from me and wouldn t let me leave. A couple men saw and came outside to help thankfully. My parents had to call the police and set up a case number. He stopped after that. I was terrified of him, his stalker behavior, controlling, he was scary and crazy. I told him right before we broke up that I was over a week late on my period. He knew I was possibly (probably) pregnant. I told him no when he asked me, when we were broken up but he knew I hadn t had my period. Fast forward to now. My son is 8. He has a stable home, I m not a government funded family. I worked hard and have a great support system, been renting out the same house since my son was a toddler. He has my dad as his father figure. I am not as concerned with the absence of an actual father as I am with the fact that he has been asking questions and I don t know what to tell him. So far I have said that back then his father wasn t in a good place and wasn t doing good things.

Question: Why do sarcastic people love being sarcastic and yet they hate it when someone is sarcastic to them?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 06:46 AM PDT

For example my dad is so sarcastic to me when I do something wrong or ask a question he thinks is dumb and yet when I do the same thing he does then he gets all upset.

Question: How can a thirteen year old make money? Please read?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 06:41 AM PDT

Okay, well I'm saving up for a 5sos concert and my ticket plus my cousin's ticket would be around hm, let's just say about $300, so far I have like $100+ I only have 5 months until the concert and I really want to get the tickets that I want before anyone else. I also want to get me a camera which is also $200 (don't judge, I guess I just like expensive things) and for the camera, I'll only have about 3 months to get a camera (bc I'm doing something during that month that I want to film and put on YouTube) I really can't babysit because my mom thinks I'm not ready yet, My grandpa's helping me build a lemonade/snack stand, I'm already helping my mom do arts and craft and selling them but I hardly ever get any money, I can't now the lawn because well, I live in apartments and they already have people to do that, and I can sell candy but just not right now because I have school and you can get suspended or sent ISS if you're caught selling candy and stuff at school. I've tried asking my mom to pawn stuff but she said, "No, not unless you really want to pawn something." which most likely means a big ole N-O.

Question: Why are big brothers mean and yet protective when it comes to little siblings?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 06:38 AM PDT

I am a guy and i am thr youngest in my family and My brothers tell me alll the time that they don't care about me but yet they are protective of me. They are mean to me at home and they flick me really hard when I do something bad and even when I am not doing anything bad. Yet if someone tries to pick on me they get all overprotective of me. Then when it comes to dating one of my older brothers told me he doesn't care if I lose my virginity and yet he acts all overprotective when I want to date. He makes sure that I date a nice good girl and not some slut. Why do brothers say one thing but mean something different?

Question: Is this a weird reason to not like someone?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 06:31 AM PDT

My boyfriends stepbrother just got engaged to this girl. I've met her a handful of times. They share a brother who is disabled and while the parents were out of town everyone pitched in to take care of him for 2 weeks. It was primarily my boyfriend and my responsibility so we purchased the groceries etc. one night I had a giant giant 2 lbs bag of spinach that was for dinner. I look in the fridge and it's gone. I was frustrated and I knew right away it was her. The next day Im in the kitchen and so is her man (stepbrother) and she is going through the pantry and says did you buy this? So various items to which he replies no and she goes oh, AND TAKES IT! I watched her take bulbs of garlic, bread, and coffee into her purse as if it was okay.... It's just weird... So I have to and replace everything you took because you refuse to go to the market and buy it yourself??? After I saw her do that I knew she took it. We even asked the step brother about it and he even said oh yeah she needed it for something...... I can't stand her. Isn't her behavior odd and rude?

Question: Is 21 too old to live at home?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 05:39 AM PDT

I just turned 21 and I have a full time job and my own car but I feel kinda bad still living at home. I only make 1500$ a month and I don't want to work there forever but I don't know what to go to school or training for since idk what I want to do. My parents don't want me to leave ...I do pay for all of my own things like gas clothes fixing my car my car and health insurance, never even borrow money but I kinda feel like a loser? :(

Question: What would you do in this situation?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 05:38 AM PDT

My husband and I are picking my mother in law up to go to a funeral, and she doesn't eat lunch usually until late in the day. We're planning on eating somewhere at the usual time and I'm afraid she'll get mad if she doesn't want to eat. Should we just let her get mad, or not stop and stay hungry all day?

Question: My step-sister forgot to send me an email of a photo she took last weekend at my great-aunt's funeral, should I ever speak to her again?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 05:25 AM PDT

I asked her to send it to me and she forgot or didn't. I reminded her twice at the funeral reception and she didn't. She had her kids with her but she forgot. She is a lot older then me but she still didn't send it. Should I ever speak to her lazy you know what again? It was a funny picture of me and some cousins. She said she would send it and she didn't. She has two kids with her but they are good so that is not an excuse. So should I refuse to speak to her forever? I will see her next in the summer (it is my step-Dad's older daughter from his first wife). She is ugly anyway

Question: Why does anyone have a second child?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 05:17 AM PDT

I feel like only children are a million times happier. I feel like if you truly love your kid you'll keep them an only child. What kid actually wants a sibling? Most kids would rather have pets. I remember when I was a kid and I wanted a dog so bad. I have a stepbrother and he makes me sick. FINALLY we got a cat (about time) and even though I hadn't been a huge cat fan (I always liked cats I just wasn't a "cat person") I was so happy I cried and I loved her right away. On the other hand my stepbrother has been nothing but a hardship. I don't feel peaceful or even safe in my home and I never get to be alone. I feel like my mom doesn't truly love me or she would have kept me an only child. My father is absent from my life. He's alive but he just can't be a father to me like I need. I wish I had a dad in my life and it sucks that I don't but I've adjusted. My stepbrother makes my life unbearable though. I'll never forgive my mom for not keeping me an only kid. When I have a daughter I want her to grow up as an only child. We couldn't have a dog because my stepbrother is "afraid" of them (whiny brat who wants attention). The only good that ever came of him is that we finally got to have a cat (because he whined for it. He whines for something, he gets it). I wanted a dog bad, but we couldn't because he's "afraid" of dogs. I asked for a cat and the answer was hell no. If **I** was afraid of dogs (I'm not afraid of ANY dog but just hypothetically),and **he** wanted a dog, would have been told to suck it up.

Question: Any moms who's sons walked in on them rubbing?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 05:10 AM PDT

Question: My mother destroys her family, how do we avoid this destroyer of the family?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 05:08 AM PDT

Question: Do women with big blobs have motherly nurturing qualities?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 05:07 AM PDT

Question: Does my father owe me child support when he hasn't seen me for 5 years in uk?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 04:52 AM PDT

My dad has always been a bad parent so my mum stopped contact with him when I was eleven. He's never payed a penny for me and has instead spent the time travailing, drinking alcohol and having a great time. Meanwhile, my mum has struggled to get me clothes and school supplies. I'm going to sixth form soon and then university. There's no way my mum is going to afford everything I need even with my mans help, plus I want to treat my mum for once. I have seen my dad for 5 years and even before that he didn't pay child support. I know he should be paying my mum weekly or monthly because I'm in full time education but I don't know how much. That's not really a problem though. Is there any way I can get him to pay the money me and my family deserve? I live in the UK and yes my dad does have a right to pay as a parent because he brought me into this world and he shouldn't get the benefits of parenthood while my mum suffers. Also I'm 16.

Question: I wish I could be an only child. Am I a terrible person?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 04:36 AM PDT

I can't stand my stepbrother. He's not my bio sibling but it's a sibling and he ruins my life. I have no peace at home and I never feel safe. I work full time and then I dread coming home. I wish he had never been born. I just long for that delicious life I would have as an only child. Everything would have been so peaceful and I wouldn't be stressed and overwhelmed by anxiety. He leaves **** everywhere and I'm constantly worried that I'll break my neck on something. I do not feel safe. I never get alone time and everything is fights and discord. I would give anything I have to be an only child.... just me and my mom and my pets. I wish I could have a father in my life but I've adjusted to his being absent. All I want is me, my mom, and pets. I need a lot of alone time, and I don't like most people. I'm not a loner. I long to connect with a circle of friends, and I need my mom to be there for me. It's just that I like to spend time alone, it energizes me. I am not totally self centered, even though I don't want siblings I love animals. I have a cat and guinea pigs and they are like my life and I would give anything for them. A lot of people assume I'm unloving and selfish bc I don't want siblings but I'm very loving, I just don't like (most) people. I've loved animals all my life. I remember wanting a dog so bad when I was little. I always liked cats and then we got one and I realized I was a huge cat fan. I still love dogs, cats, rabbits, pigs, horses, etc. I just don't want siblings. I don't even really like most of my "friends." Just a few of them.

Question: How do I go about step by step in my thoughts? Depression started this?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 04:16 AM PDT

Yesterday started off moderately OK. my mind changed a couple of times as I went out, and then as SOON as I came back home, my father annoyed me again. Of all the thoughts that I tend to have, the thought of my parents annoying me turns up a lot. It's been like this for years. My mother was being a ***** as always. Over the last five years she's been a ***** and my dad's been an annoying ******** for as long as I can remember. As usual, my parents argued afterwards. My family put me down to the point where I kind of lost interest in my thoughts and that was probably why I couldn't sleep. I was so bored tossing and turning in bed this morning that I decided that maybe I should stop waiting for what other people say before I get inspired to think my own thoughts. But then another thought appeared as my mother mentioned how tired she was. After that I also realized how tiring this place I'm in can be. I got a little bit inspired by something my brother said, but then about five minutes later he brought up another topic that got me a little bit bored and frustrated. Then I heard some kind of inspiration, then my mother annoyed me again. I've been tired of my parents for a long time. And as usual, there's multiple thoughts going on in my head. I need new advantages for my thoughts somehow. My mind is ALL over the place. It's a miracle that I haven't taken my own life yet. What paths are there?

Question: How to convince my parents to adopt a girl?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 04:07 AM PDT

I am 13 years old and have a little brother, but I would really like to have a older sister too Sharing space is not a problem, she could get half of my room :)

Question: What to do to make my mom/sister get me a bra?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 03:59 AM PDT

So I turned 12 in 22nd March this year. My breasts are big- like really big. If there was a list of girls that had big boobs in my class, I'd probably be in 4/5th place. Now even though some girls in my class have started their puberty, their hasn't grown much. Such as one of my good friends, Miah. Her breasts are so small, you can barely even see them. Close friends of mine gossip about how one of the girl in our class named Adelyn was busty and would make fun of her (behind her, of course). One day, a tailor aunt of mine needed to make one of my dress fit for my body. Since I am really thin, it was way too loose for me. So when she measured my bust size, I saw it was '32'. I do understand that I need a bra. My big sister always tells me that I have big breasts and makes fun of me. And when I tell my mom/her (my sister) I need bra, they either ignore me or say that I don't need them. Most of the time my sister says, 'Oh, the closet and only shop that has nice bra is shut off now, where can we go?' It annoys the hell out of me. She is a flat chested girl, so she takes every chance to make fun of me. I'm really in a need of bra. But my very nice mom and sister still won't buy me one. Sometimes they tell me to go but my bras for myself. But when I try to out, they will scold me and make me sit in my room for the rest of the day. Is there any way to convince them to buy me a bra? ALSO, will my boob ever stop growing? I got my period when I was in class 4. Now I'm in 6th grade. I meant buy, not but. By the way, I was 10 when I got my first period. And like mentioned before, I'm 12 now.

Question: How do I calm down in this situation?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 03:19 AM PDT

Ok I'm hoping this doesn't sound stupid but my playstation vita (New version of vita) broke recently and I'm upset because it's my favorite.I'm a huge gamer and when one of my games break I get upset,now while my grandmother was cleaning up she lost my memory card now she won't help me find it and my dad keeps saying "you'll find it".He doesn't know how small that thing is ! How do I calm down ? She won't admit she owes me a memory card for this and the money I wasted because she lost my memory card before I could buy anything on the store I ment New version of psp

Question: Do I resemble more of my mother, grandmother or great-grandmother?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 03:03 AM PDT

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Question: My mum is always telling me I hurt her?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 02:53 AM PDT

Whatever I do my mum tells me I'm causing her pain, she always says that she's going to leave one day because she can't do it anymore and talking to me about who I should go to if anything happened to her, then she says she loves me and sorry, then she says it again. She's also hit me when she gets really angry but then cry saying it's my fault for provoking her. I've self harmed and contemplated suicide because if I'm causing her so much pain, why should she have to leave her house to get away from me. She also talks to me about divorcing my dad and who I would go with.

Question: My mother yells at me every morning because I dont say Good morning.And she does this every single day!!Is it normal?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 02:39 AM PDT

Question: Tomorrow is my birthday and no oone is caring.?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 01:13 AM PDT

Tomorrow is my birthday. And no one is caring about my birthday. No one is giving me gifts.No one is taking me out for shopping. My mom is really bad.She is telling I will not go with you because my leg is paining.You go with your father.But I don't want to go with my father.My mom is scolding me very much like all other days.I know my parents hate me.So please tell me what to do.....

Question: Are these normal conditions for living with a relative?

Posted: 23 Apr 2016 12:54 AM PDT

My mom lost her job and has been living off of unemployment. However, her unemployment ran out and now we've been evicted, which is straight up embarrassing. My mom asked some relatives if we can stay with them, and her cousin was the first to welcome us with open arms. My mom's cousin (we'll call her Becky) is taking in 4 people, plus 1 more when my younger brother comes to stay during the weekends. There's my mom, my twin and I (we're 15), and our older brother (who is 20 and a community college student). Then, my little brother is only 10. Becky lives with her 28 year old son (we'll call him Tom) who works full-time and helps her pay bills and their luxuries. Becky has a good job that allows her to own a 4-bedroom house with a small yard and a nice new car. Her's and Tom's house isn't necessarily crappy, but it isn't one of those houses you'd see in the suburbs. I guess it's what you'd expect a middle class person to live in. Basically, it's a comfortable house. Anyways, Tom is the one who does most of the cooking, cleaning, and yard work. Now that we're staying there, all that is really asked of us is that we take over some of the chores. We've been here only a week, and it seems as if we've been doing a lot. Becky works long hours, and Tom only works from 6 AM to 3 PM. We cooked dinner 3 times this week, and we've done most of the chores. It's not a huge deal, but I feel kind of exploited. Thoughts?

Question: Is this possible?

Posted: 22 Apr 2016 11:50 PM PDT

Hi. I'm almost 15. I have a shitty home life. My friend is 19. Is it possible for her to become my guardian so I could live with her? I can't be here anymore. (No, I'm not being dramatic.)

Question: My sister is horrible help?

Posted: 22 Apr 2016 11:45 PM PDT

Shes only 16 and im 18 and she always abuses me emotionally by saying im a pig,loser,have a lame bf,ugly friends shes even threaten to hit me ive talked to her but she wnt listen she even abuses r parents what should i do