when i confront her she always says is not true. i dont know if she is laying because she had send me to pisychiatric hospitals because of this lie. and honestly i feel that she loves me, but I think that she have a psichologic problem. somebody told me she is denaying something. what else could it be? the convivence is unbearable. how can i help she and me? because i have a bad temperament. so i alway yell and make drama, and nobody support me at home. i feel that my father is laying too. but my dad is really mean.

Ok so basically Mom just got a boyfriend I absolutely hate him so much m. He takes away time from my mom and I and now my mom and I get into more fights. I am in highschool and just wish I could turn back time to 3 months ago where it was just me and my mom. Not to mention we also moved and I found the place since I was helping my mom and I regret it now since that is how she met her current boyfriend. Not to mention there is drama at school and I have lots of friends but sometimes I feel like I don't fit in. My mom also drags me by the ears and pulls my hair and slaps me when she feels I need to be disciplined. I feel like that's child abuse, but I don't usually have any marks on me after because she usually slaps me or pulls me by the ears etc…. Also my moms boyfriend always stays over. I literally want him to leave! He is an annoying piece of ****. I guess my mom is happy but I notice she's more controlling over me now and we get into more arguments. Whenever he is around I always end up crying too. I need advice because I'm starting to get really sad and depressed. I hate my life right now and wish I could turn back the time. (Also my mom ad I were pretty close too)

so he's 10 i'm 17 we're both boys and i've babysat him every weekend for almost a year (he has busy parents i guess) and last weekend we were just watching tv sitting close to each other and he told me he loves me and he that he wanted to kiss me. i didn't know how to react at all, so i just kinda chuckled and didn't say anything.. he said he loved me again before he went to bed that night too. the day after that he told me he wanted to kiss me again and i asked him why. he again told me that he loves me so he wants to kiss me. i don't know what to do ?? i know i shouldn't but how could i tell him no ?

his name is SHREDDER He is not dead because sometimes I think I see him looking through my window in the wee hours of the morning It's good to know my pain is a mockery to you. Dad if you're reading this, please come home

When I was young kid, I used to want to go to arcades (Dave and Busters, Round 1, bowling alleys, etc.) and play games like Stacker and Barbercut non-stop. My parents were so rich they would give me over $300 to spend on arcades every weekend (we were as rich as Nicolette Gray and her family, literally!). I am now older and have completely lost interest in arcades and badly want to do other things (I became interested in traveling and old western stuff), but we are now almost broke, so now I can't pursue my new interests (yes, I was once as wealthy as Nicolette Gray, but now I'm just an average junkie). This really sucks, and I'm so mad about how I blew up so much money at the arcades over the years instead of doing many other things I could have easily done! I seriously hope Dave and Busters shuts down completely, they ruined my life! I can't tell you how angry I am about not waking up before it was too late! Why was I so attracted to these stupid arcade games?! I was being really stupid! Why didn't anyone warn me?! Yes, I didn't know my interests were going to change drastically, but I also didn't know I was going to lose the opportunity to pursue my new interests! I never thought my family would go broke after being so wealthy! I wish I could go back in time and not touch a single arcade machine!! Is it too late? Is there hope my family will get our wealth back? My life really sucks now, I can't do ANYTHING I want, unlike before!

So my grandma passed away of leukemia last month after being married with granpa for 54 years. They met when they were 16. He fought in vietnam,then he went into hardware and had a hardware store. He says he's fine but I'm not so sure about it. He's a Marine, he's tough,I never saw him cry,but I know he misses her. He never talks about her. He hasn't even mentioned her yet since her funeral. He seems happy on the outside and frequently smiles but I'm worried about him. How shall I help him?

Ok so my younger brother is 19 (legal drinking age is 18 here in Ireland btw) and I hadn't seen him for a few months but lately my son and boyfriend have been spending the weekend with my parents and my little bro still lives at home. And it seems to me that every Friday and Saturday night he is spending by himself listening to music and drinks like 12, 500 ml cans of hard cider and then a entire 350 ml bottle of whiskey straight and then passes out on the sofa. He doesn't talk much and was always quiet and kept to himself even as a child. He has a full time job as a builder and apparently he has no problems at work but does this sound like he could have or be soon have a alcohol problem? And if so how should I bring it up with him?

My father this morning wanted me to walk my dog and so i did but before that when he woke me up i was getting dressed and he called my name again to make sure i wasnt going back to sleep and i said im awake without any attitude or tone and then i walked my dog for a couple minutes and when i came back he said were gonna fight if you disrespect me again if you say "OKK!!" he likes to copy what i say and say that im a child and he said he woukd fight me so i dont know what to do im 18 years old i dont have money i could call family memebers but i dont wabt to really get tgem involved in all of this he thretened to fighf ne a week ago and i called my nana but she said if he does it again then go to a friends house but my friends dont have room for me and even if they did they would want money and i dont have a job so if someone could help me think of what to do would help me alot should i call my uncle and nana to see if i could stay there? Pls serious answers.

Alienated between ages of 8 to 15 as my Mom said there were things I could not handle that were going on in her family. I know it all now and while I would have been uncomfortable sometimes it did not warrant holding me back as there was no long term threat. My Mom says she was trying to be protective and I think she may have thought she was being protective. I'm an only child and it was on her side of the family. I was always close to my Dad's side and his now-wife (my step-mother) and her kids. I feel guilt ridden. Had I not been week the estrangement never would have happened. While some of it is my Mom's doing, some her family's, I feel some is mine. My cousins were never held back. How do I overcome the pain of being alienated by my Mom as a child from family I later became close to?

She turns 70 in April. Cousins say that would be great but could it offend others? Obviously they called her this when they were kids, not as adults. She had two twin kids (daughter and son) and a son 3 years later.

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I'm 27 and she's 30 and no matter how much effort I put into the relationship it's just returned with abuse and denial that abuse is occurring. Should I just let the relationship go? I'm the only one that makes and effort and it's been like that my whole life.

Why was my cousin born stunning, symmetrical features, small forehead, tall, skinny, looks like she could be a model, conventionally attractive, will never need surgery. Me? Big forehead, asymmetrical face, short, never have a chance as a model, chubby'ish, short, no money, parents have no money, my cousin has parents who are able to afford decent cars, big house, holidays abroad, she's popular, I have no one. People literally ask how are we related because she's stunning. On top of that my auntie and other cousin are good looking, my auntie was a model, she's too very attractive. I was given the mother with horrible genes, so thanks for that "God" because on top of all that I have horrible luck in life, my life isn't even worth living, no one replies back for interviews, I'm 19, I have no qualifications, I'm screwed and multiple suicide attempts aren't even good enough to land me in hospital, I can't even fking get that right.

I just woke up and I can't go back to sleep because my ankle hurts so bad. Saturday night while at my best friend's house I broke my ankle. My friend's mom call my dad and told him that she was taking me to the hospital. I called my dad & asked him not bring my stepmom with him because she is always and it annoys me. ( he said don't worry she coming) as soon they got to the room she started babying me. Before left the nurse gave me something for pain. We got in the car my stepmother got in the backset. ( she said like me rock you to sleep) I said no thank you I am 15 years and that's stupid. ( said it's not silly because you my daughter) the next thing I know she wrapped her arms around me and was trying to rock me to sleep she was holding me so tight that I couldn't move the pain meds kicked and I passed out. I meant is wrong that think my Stepmother is weird.

Okay, so I noticed a text coming through my girlfriends phone. I leaned over to see it was her mother and saw the words "he's a dick" under her name. Curious I opened her phone and began reading through a slew of pretty awful messages about me between her mother and her. A period of about three months. Here is the thing she never bothers to tell me about any of these things but instead pops off to her mother about me constantlntly. The worst part more than half of it is complete bullshit.. for example we took our children to an indoor pool, she dilecided to sit out by the kiddy pool where her son was playing. I was playing with him for a good 30 minutes and decided to go check on my two children in the deeper end. I asked her can you keep an eye on him she said "yes of course" She quote told her mother " I'm just ready to ******* go, he hasn't even been keeping an eye on my son knowing I wasn't getting in. He went to the other side to hang out with his kids and leave my son alone in the kiddy pool the whole time. I'm so over this bullshit. I'm at a loss for words and don't know what to make of this.. ive brought it up several times that if she doesn't agree with something she needs to speak up.. but she doesn't. She just goes and bad mouths me to her mom. Normally we are just fine.. I had no idea she had such animosity towards me. What should I do in this situation?

So basicly, we have to clean and neaten the entire kitchen plus some shelfs in the living room. We'd been instructed to wipe everything and put them back neatly. So I asked my brother to move things off one of the counter and wipe them and put them back neatly while I had a quick breakfast(he'd already eaten)and he does a piss poor shuffle and swipe of a cloth. The stains are still there and my mum is a clean freak with a bad temper. And my brother is just making excuse for his bad job. Keeps saying that it doesn't matter its done move on. So I just think whatever I'll have a better time cleaning it all by myself than arguing with him about it. So I say hey I'll clean up the kitchen, but be available for smaller jobs. I called him in 3 times and each time I had to go and drag him with him blabbering about it not being worth it. Making excuses doing as little as he could. Small stuff like putting stuff away, putting the oil in one section putting big bottles together and small bottle together and he just shuffles them in a weird order and calls it quits even when I tell him step by step and I'm tired of this. I don't want to clean everything by my self all the time I don't want to yell at him. Feels like I'm nagging. And now I've done it all I feel defeated. I'm glad cause I won't be yelled at but I'm tired. It's like there's no compromise. He just wants me to do it all. What can I do when this happens again?

That bugs the crap out of me. You don't say "the" you say "my". I've even heard, the Grandma, the uncle, the aunt.. The family.. It just doesn't make any sense. I feel as if its everyone's grandma, uncle, aunt, family, wife, husband.. It's just rude, and improper. Here's a example. I'm going to take a walk with "my wife" after church. I'm going to take a walk with "The wife" after church.

I had a bad day at school & I wanted to just be left alone. I used to cut myself which haven't done in six months. But whenever I am upset my Stepmom won't let me out of her sight, she aslo checks to see if I cut myself. She makes to talk to her when I am upset. I understand why she does all of this, but sometimes i wish she trust me.. But she has every reason not trust me.

I feel like my mom is always mad at my dad. For the past week, she's talked to me more than my dad. When she talks to me it's in her normal voice. When she talks to my dad, it's very short and she sounds annoyed. Sometimes she just ignores him all together or if she answers she won't even look at him when she talks. It started when I asked her if my dad was gonna go out of town with her this weekend and she said " I don't know, your dad doesn't know if he's working. He never knows anything," He does work in a school and it's getting real busy with state testing right now. I work at a school and things are crazy right now with testing so I get. Sometimes I feel like she thinks she's the only one that can feel stressed and work weekends or be busy with work. I don't get what her problem is and I don't know how to approach her and asking her what's wrong without offending her. I get being mad at your spouse for like a day or two... but a whole week is ridiculous to me. Like just the other day she told me of a couple out family knows and the husband is going to be put in hospice and I just think sometimes like we're all fairly healthy.... like there's some people who are living every day because they don't know when their illness is going to take them. I just think being upset for so long doesn't do any good. I don't know what to say to her or do but I don't really feel like living in a home where my mom is only gonna talk normally to 1 out of 3 people living there

So, something kind of strange happened over a month ago. A distant family member reached out to me on facebook to let me know that they are moving and going through old boxes with the death of her mother and stumbled upon some items that were handed down to her after the death of my grandparents that belong to my bloodline (fyi-this family member is not of blood family relation and only met them briefly as a child). She asked if she could send me the items (just a box of items that have no financial value but could be of some value to me personally such as an uncles war medal, etc.). I told her it was fine if she wanted to send them to me and thanked her for her graciousness. Over a month has passed, and she has not sent the items. She reached out and told me that she hasn't gotten around to it and I just told her to take her time and send them when she wants to but i WOULD like the items since i never knew my uncle and it would be nice to have them. Anyway, regardless i offered to pay for the shipping costs (she refused to take my money) but now its been about a month and a half now. Should i reach out to her again or should I just let it go?

How come some women who a new moms get to be stay at home moms, their husband looks after them and they live in a nice house, meanwhile I am a mom too and we are stuck renting an old apartment and I work at a crappy job just to prevent being on welfare? Why is life so unfair??

There are so many parents who give their daughters masculine names as their first names, but middle names? I think the parents are thoughtful enough to give their daughters feminine middle names to help back it up. Middle names that are trendy girl names like Sophia and Emily! I don't think there's any reason to be annoyed by the boy name on girl trend when traditional girl names are their middle names, so technically, a girl would have both a strong male name and a soft female name! Traditional girl names are usually used as middle names nowadays with the boy name on girl trend! Parents would never give their daughters both male names no matter how strong, tomboyish, or girly they want her to be. Because females should have something soft about their name! What do you think?

I am having bad things said behind my back by my dad's sister (my aunt) and some other people who are blind to the abuse. It isn't physical. I don't know how to stay strong for my mom, but I am her only support right now. My mom never hurt anyone, she is a beautiful person, but my dad is very controlling and rude towards her and me. He yelled at her to move the F out. He was swearing at her. And I'm a bad person because I am explaining to her that this treatment is not normal. My aunt is damaging my reputation, saying bad things about my mom. I can't stand this. Any advice? Sorry that I didn't word my sentence correctly. What I meant was that my aunt is damaging my reputation (she's spreading some negative things and lies about me to people who don't know me), and my aunt is also saying bad things about my mom behind her back. And people believe her. a Guy bein a Guy: I'm not a kid. No, my mom never had an affair. Lots of assumptions on your part.