So I made a fake Instagram account of my 7th grade English teacher and now we're in 10th grade and I used a picture of her from her google account and followed everyone as her and commented stuff like "who are the people in the photos?" And liked their posts and everyone thought it was creepy and one girl said her parents are going to report the teacher to the school? I deleted the account, but could the police get involved and track me?

I'm 14 and my mom and dad are separated and I see my mom on the weekends, since my dad won me over. But living with him was torture. Not only did he abuse drugs, he took it out on me for separating up the relationship between mom and dad. He never hit me until I turned 12. So I was raking the leaves because he told me to. So as I was doing it he came out yelling in his robe saying "your doing it wrong! " he took the rake and forcefully raked the leaves. He ended up actually snapping the rake in parts. I got a little pissed in my moody teen stage and accidentally cursed saying "f*cking idiot" I guess I said it to loud cause he yelled saying that he could make me sleep outside if he wanted. I ignored him and I was about to walk away but he grabbed my shirt collar and started spitting. I was actually really angry. Like I've never been as angry in my life. Now he does this thing where he knocks me in the head with his knuckles. and her kept doing it. He kept screaming and knuckling me in the head, and then I snapped. I grabbed his hand to stop him from knuckling me and punched him in the stomach. Then my mood swings acted up. I went from sad from knowing I punched my father and we my from happy. He went back inside without saying anything and I thought he was going to grab something to beat me, but he never did. I stayed outside until 7 and I went back inside. He was watching tv. He's still not talking to me. Should I say sorry?

So my boyfriends dad is pretty much a free loader. He just wont get his life together, always looking for a hand out, constantly asking for money, and tries to live a high end life with no money. Typically I stay out of it because that is his life choice, and not my business However now that he is separated from his wife, he is now trying to make my boyfriend fill his ex -wife's previous role. My boyfriend is in college and he is paying is own way through school, yet his dad always pulls the "family card"on him to make him give him money and other things. he is legit taking things too far. I know it is hard for someone to not help their own Dad but his dad has crossed the line so much that now I'm getting angry. My boyfriend sees the problem but is having a problem saying No because That's his dad (i get it). I just need some advice to give to my boyfriends that will encourage him set some healthy boundaries.

My cousin hasn't been here over 13 years and when she comes back, everyone loves her. All the attention is on her. I'm older than her, but because her dad and her grandpa are the oldest in their own generation of our family, she's considered older than me especially being her dad's first born child. We have clans around here which we inherit through our dads and because I'm related to her through my mom, we're in two different clans. Her clan is a high chiefly clan whereas mine is just a chiefly clan. I know most are unfamiliar with this system but her clan is superior to mine due to them being high chiefs. That's another reason why I feel this way towards her. Bcuz she's f**king beautiful, everyone's pays more attention to her even though she's quiet and keeps to herself, my own family puts her over me because of her dad and grandpa being the oldest among us and the people around here respect her more because of her clan. I had all the attention and love until she came back. And then it shifted to her... my own friends are asking me about her telling me to invite her to come with us. Which I wont cause my uncles are really protective of her so if she comes, they'll get our older guy cousins to come with us like chaperones. it's like she's a f**king princess. I care about her, but it's not fair. She gets all this bcuz of her dad's side of the fam.. not bcuz of who she is.

My dad sister and his niece (my cousin) have told me many times in the past that I'm basically nor smart. I'm in college and i want to be a nurse. They've told me nursing is really hard am I sure I want to do that. They said I should just do something easier. My cousin on many occasions have belittled me. She does that to alot of people even the younger kids in the family. I hate when people tell me I can't do anything outer I'm dumb. My aunt had a prejudice against me because the guy she's been dating left get to date my mom. My parents are divorced and my aunt isn't married to the guy. So that created a big problemin the family and they still don't talk to each other. This incident happened 5 years ago. The guy is douche and he left my mom anyways and my aunt took him back. He's rich. So since I resemble my mom she probably wants nothing to do with me. She changed since this incident. I don't want them completely out of my life i feel like that's wrong so what should i do. I've just been thinking to move away and transfer schools forgot to mention i live with my dad so i don't have to take loans to live on campus. My mom lives out of state, i don't really like the state or colleges there I'd rather stay in the state where my dad lives but i need my space and privacy. My dad's family also likes to have parties like every month which isn't my thing for some occasions I'm forced to attend.

I am a 16 year old girl who constantly gets pestered by my annoying mother, who does nothing but nag me even when I do the right thing. I much prefer my dad, who is very laid back and punishes me in more reasonable ways when I actually DO something bad (which is rare). I'm getting sick of my mom, and she kicked me out of the house a few days ago just because I have a boyfriend. She never told me she wouldn't tolerate me dating, so this came out of the blue. When I look in the window, I constantly see my mom and dad yell at each other nonstop, and I'm getting sick of that, too. I've decided to start trying to get my parents to divorce, since I don't want to see my mom again and that they'd likely be much happier apart, because they obviously hate each other now. Any advice?

Everything that comes out of her mouth is a smart response and I want to pop her in the mouth. I'm 10 years older than her and she needs to respect me.

THIS ISN T FAKE....I am 22 years old and I still live with my family so I can support them since my step dad isn t no help. Today I was taking a shower and I always put towels under the door because I always felt like someone was watching me. And turned out my feelings were right. I was about to hop in the shower at midnight (my mom was at work and the kids were sleeping already), right when I was about to get in, I saw the towels moving to the side under the door. And when I came out I felt like he was looking through the little holes that the bathroom have because I kept hearing banging.. Me and my siblings noticed those holes months ago and thought those holes were because the people the used to live here had pictures there. This happened before and I thought it was our dog moving the towels last year but it wasn t since we don t have that dog in here anymore. WHO knows how long this creep been doing this to me. ESPECIALLY THE GUY THAT I SAW AS A FATHER FIGURE. I want to tell my mom when she comes back but they already have issues with each other and I feel like it s going to stress her out more than she is and he might hit her if she confronts because he has been threatening her recently when they argue and my baby sister will cry if she finds out that her dad can t be here.I feel like I ll ruin things if I say something or if I keep it in it s going to **** with my mental health and I can t leave my family here with this guy when he treats them like ****. What can I do?

People say it is not for me to take sides but it is cheating we are talking about, not two sided issues between them. This is right vs. wrong and not opinions.

I am an adult but I know it will cause a conflict. My Mom doesn't like doing her families' Christmas gathering. I feel it is what makes Christmas even if there is no formal gathering and I just make individual visits with my grandmother. My grandmother will likely tell me to go with my parents and not worry about the others. Yet, I hate the thought of having to go to the beach for Christmas with just the immediate family. The beach is two hours away. I might go the week after Christmas still. So how do I stay home while not causing a big conflict with my parents and grandmother? I am 31 so an adult living on my own yet the inner child in me hates conflict. I am also worried the extended family will overlook inviting us thinking I am with my parents and three sisters.

I still see them a little but they often overlook inviting me and this hurts more then anything. Meant to say make up to them for my parents, not tot hem

I am a single parent and my mother helps me immensely with my daughter. I am very appreciative of her help and i would not be able to enjoy many activities such as going out to the gym or working if it wernt for my mothers help. Tuesdays and Wednesdays are my days with my daughter. Usually on wednesday night's i put my daughter to bed then go to the gym for an hour or two. Sometimes my daughter wakes up in the middle of the night while im gone and my mother helps me. My mother will almost always allow my daughter to fall asleep in her presence(usually my moms room while my mom watches tv) instead of helping my daughter fall asleep in my daughters bed then my mom leaving so that she is alone again. I ask my mom to please not do that and she tells me that i am ungrateful. So my question is, am i ungrateful? I appreciate her help but am only worried for my daughter so i do not understand.

I am 15 years old and I live my dad. He is girlfriend is 70 she doesn't look 70 and. My grandparents are giving me a hard time about it my grandmother is trying to pay me to break them up but my dad is happy and girlfriend is really nice. My grandmother said that I am awful daughter and granddaughter because I do as she says and break them up. My grandparents thinks it weird that my Dad is dating a 70 year old woman.

I am 16 years old. I feel bad for hurting my stepmom's feelings but I hate Red Velvet Cake it makes me gag. I don't hate my Stepmom she just gets on my nerves. She is always sticking her nose in my business and I have never said anything about her going through my stuff, reading my text messages. She hates my my boyfriend for some reason and won't let go out with him anymore. Last I lost my temper because she wanted to me a stupid cake that I hate. I got grounded for being disrespectful. But I will apologize to her later today. Star of Darkness I am not asking for you opinion so please don't comment I don't care for your rudeness.

I was born quite attractive, really nice, but was bullied almost everyday, I became depressed, mean, ugly because I thought my looks were the problem and I tried to alter it. I was never smart in school and was really lazy because of depression. My parents, aunts and uncle treat my sister so nice and be mean to me because she's prettier and is now done school and working. My boyfriend doesn't seems to love me as much and I love him and I dont trust him but he's really good looking and smart so I don't want to break up. Also, he's the only source for me to get away from my family. My friends when we hang out in groups of three, will team up and be mean to me. My mom will talk **** about me infront of me and my dad (idk if it's a scheme to get my dad to hate me). I tried to get plastic surgery but it made me look worst. I'm in a community college for nursing but there's so much work I dont want to do it and i might fail and i dont think im smart enough to do it. I always feel shitty and insecure about myself, and I get jealous easily. i also lost my grandma and she was the only person who really loved me and supported me

The dad is 56 & the daughter is 26

I don't mean to complain but it's stressful I was yanked out of public school when the 3rd child was born To "be more helpful in the family" which I was ok with till I ended up changing diapers and pulling kid duty which was ok until about 1 year ago where I started watching feeding and cleaning the house 24/7 why balancing online school I have virtually no friends and no time . Whenever I bring this up I my mom she shuts me down telling me how it's my fault how nothing I do is to benefit the family. So I've just stopped going to her. My dads nice but always at work and doesn't have time to help my situation It's not like my mom has a job I mean she had 8 kids 1 is 21 and hates her guts and joined the military my sister doesn't even talk to us anymore she moved out when she was 18 my older sister distant me says. I do nothing and my younger sister just 3 years younger hates my guts. I would feel pity on her but I didn't decide to have right kids I didn't decide to be born And because of this I have lost interest in dating getting married or anything that eventually could lead to me having a child just because of how afraid I am of being im this position be it a rational fear or not. Well thx for reading my rant I feel horrible about righting it but is this right? Should I be living lime this? I'm so sorry about the spelling and grammar I wrote this fast I have to get back to studying....

It is not a moral thing but just cause we liked the husband she cheated on. I kind of feel bad for her even though I don't know her anymore since being shunned for a mistake must be painful.

He has spent years letting his family down.

My bother is 24...t's just me and my mom since my dad passed away when I was young. I have two other brothers but the one lives far away and the other is in college. I really want him to move back out he tries to be my dad and he's not. My mom and I argue a lot but I always win and now my brothers trying to act like he's in charge of me. What should I do?

in my of this year my parents had locked me in home and were starving me. I asked my sister to talk to my father to stop and she literally said shut up cops showed up when I was locked home and my father was supposed to be at duty and he came home lord knows to do what but they were in on something. he fought and screamed and told them I'm mental and need to be locked up in a asylum ( who's real father does this to their daughter after treating her like a patient all her life ) cops somehow handled the situation and I heard my father ask them where I'm going to be after as I was walking out. I was taken to safety and my father showed up at the shelter too with some pills forcing me to take them . ive basically disowned my whole family and i havent seen them since 6 months and they are sending harsssing texts and calls and requests non stop just as if they saw me yesterday and are ignoring my requests to be alone. I feel broken down as a person because o feel like I have no self worth when they ignored me when i would respectfully ask tgem to let me move out. now I don't want them while lord knows what disease they caught being rabid like that and attacking me and trying to talk to me to attack me and are not stopping and are so open about getting a hold of me. I try to marry and im 26 and all guys do is either question me why I'm not going to them or aren't interested in meeting even though I could be anyones live in wife please help me and tell me what I should do

So I have nothing against mentally ill people but my cousin doesn't always have the best judgment when it comes to people. She's 23 and gay and she and this other girl have been talking anyways this girl has really bad depression and said she also has bipolar type 2... she also has said she will herr Voices in her head as well .. she seems like a nice girl but all over the place I'm just worried for my cousin cuz she's dealt with people like this before and I'm just scared of her going down .. idk. I know she's a grown adult but idk what to think. I'm just afraid I don't want her having to take care of anyone. Cuz she's been there before

I own a house with my brother and his girlfriend is always there. She hangs around all day while my brother is at work. I go to my moms for the day, because I cant stand being around. Soon, I think I'm going to get fed up and tell her to just go home if my brother isnt home. There is no reason for you to hang around all day. I told my brother that her being around all day bothers me. He was upset, but said he understands, but he keeps letting her hang around. This is tearing mine and my brother apart. Should I just move out or should I tell both of them how mad it makes me. I absolutely hate her, to the point I feel like shooting her in the face.

Even on the weekend my parents tell me when to go to bed.... It's so frustrating.... I have three older brothers who are quite older and my parents never told them when to go to bed

Lets say a 28 year old guy has a 30 year old sister. Is it normal if she doesn't feel comfortable hugging him? Also, my dad finds it weird that my sister and I don't kiss each other goodbye. My sister isn't comfortable doing it. I'd kiss her on the cheek to be nice but I don't.

What can parents do while the children are growing up to increase the chances that their children will maintain a relationship for the long run? Is all of this a result of upbringing or is it based on individual personalities they are born with? Have you done certain things to promote closeness among your children for the long run? if so what? I guess what I am trying to ask is, how detrimental is parental involvement for children in developing a good relationship among their kids? How do you balance letting them become close as siblings on their own and facilitating as parents to "ensure" they are close even when they are older? While the kids are growing up, Is it best to let the kids dictate their relationships with siblings or should the parents really take charge to "ensure" it.

My mom and her dad (my grandpa) live together. My mom s brother died Aug 17 . My aunt has a new BF of 3 months. She said she is coming from CA to AZ for thanksgiving and said she may take new BF. Seems very weird. The bf is replacing my uncle.....

My mother has multiple issues such as Bipolar and depression. Shes very controlling to the point I cant even go out and skate. For YEARS now shes threatened that she'll kick me out. She's done it to my brother. Im 18, Still in school, never had a job ( Due to her being a control freak ), and dealing with my own issues. I have a place to go to but he's still working on his new house. Says I need to pay my share to live with him. She's said after 6 months she's gonna kick me out. I have a tiny dog Chug ( Look up ) and he has 2 pitbulls which Im ok with but you never know. He knows she verbally abuses me but not how far it goes. My question is what should I do? It feels my options are few to none.

My grandfather is currently in hospital and he s not going to last much longer, I hardly know him, only saw him a handful of times and he hardly paid any attention to us, only threw us money when we talked to him. Now that he s on his death bed the whole family are upset and organizing a funeral..but I m not upset and don t feel a need to go, just want to work, feel guilty for not being upset. Afraid that even if I go I wouldn t really care about what s going on

My stepson Mike is in the Boy Scouts. He really enjoys being in the Boy Scouts. He often tells his dad and me how much fun it is and how he likes the scout master. His dad is telling him he does not want him in the Scouts. The problem is the Scout Master is my former husband. I don't think this is fair to his son Mike. It is totally normal for scouts to like their Scout Master. I ask Mike if the Scout Master ever mentions me and he told me NO. Should I try to talk some sense into my husband that scouts are a good experience for HIS son or maybe tell Mike to NEVER mention his Scout Master to his dad. All advice would be greatly appreciated.