my old group of friends are all emo and stuff and we had a big argument like a year ago coz they don't like 'cool kids' and they said Im a seelout, im not really a 'cool kid' im just not a super emo but neither where they at first. they used to look into paganism and stuff and a few of them confessed they became Satanists and ever since the argument ive nearly been killed 6 times, my pet cat got ran over, I had a family of 5 gerbils (a mum a dad and 3 kids) which all died a week after eachother, I have serious electrical problems in my house and my tvs and stuff all get the same faults where they wont turn on for periods of time.. I see 'smileys' in my head which like laughing devils, and a family member who reads a lot of paganist books said to me that its a psychic attack and it sounds like a black candle spell has been put on me...…. please only answer if you believe in this too coz I know a lot of people don't believe and therefor will tell me to get psyche help

Ok first off I'm in the 12th grade, so lately i been getting these vibes from my friends to the point that i feel left out from everything they do. They never ask me to go out places with them i always find out when they post on social media. In school i still feel left out because they be with each other and conversatee more with one another than me. And even if I'm by them they talk to each other more than me and I just leave w other ppl. Mind you before all this 2 of them weren't friends they stopped talking and when they weren't talking I was always with the other but now that they are cool again now they don't even include me into anything anymore. (My mom said she was using me until she got back cool with my other friend again) They all also have a group chat without me and I usually be in the group chat with them all the time but this time I'm thinking like why I'm not in it i feel some type of way in my head tho🤔 i told my mom all of this and she told me they are jealous of me . Also they never motivate me and stuff like my other friend does me n her can speak on life goals personal goals or w.e and the others we don't 🤷🏽‍♀️ When i tell them about what I want to be in life they take it as a joke but my other friend out of state doesn't.. & 🤔 can you give me your thoughts on what I should do . (We've all been friends since 6th-12th grade) if that matters😂 & it never been like this til now

So this former college classmate and current Facebook friend sent me this video about s&m, saying it made her think of me. She sent a laughing emoticon with the video too. I know she said the video made her think of me but it had sexual content. I find her physically attractive but she said she's not interested in dating. She seems open to hanging out as friends. Her and I got to talking about the video. She said I shouldn't be ashamed of being into s&m. She said I need to find women who enjoy it too. Her and I sometimes text on Facebook. We don't text every day but maybe two-three times a week.

I know friends come and go but there a girl name Courtney and we had been friends since 4 grade till I to had move in 9th grade I dont know it's jealousy or not. I been photography going places like riding in trail rides in Can am and ride in Sand Dunes/vacation back to where my home state/ utv desert racing that in Baja and Las Vegas/ Nyc/ riding in my grandparents airplane /the beach Anyways Facebook came along from leaving myspace but ever since Facebook we had fights up and down and I've tried apologize in past & so did she and she also some reason that I dont know why she did it but she went and apologize message to my mom and my sister saying few year go that she wasn't her self because of grandfather die at that time so i tried message with her mom no answer or open to read (switch i think Courtney made it for her mom because it look like her typing) but anyways we had a mutual friend and her name is Jessica and that we knew her as well since 4 grade & I gave her apologize too about what happened and if this has to do with Courtney and Jessica said that this doesn't have to do with Courtney & that Jessica said also she haven't talked to Courtney but Courtney told me that Jessica said she agreed with Courtney that I am annoying along with other middle school name callings so how can i get this friendship because I really want to work again, what is best way to apologize without being clingy and fake?

So ever since high school, I've noticed that girls in particular were really mean to me for no reason. They isolated me, always looked to start an argument with me and just disrespected me. I've always believed that everyone deserves kindness and I've wanted to be everyone's friend. But girls are just plain horrible to me. I've always thought that there's something wrong with me, because I cannot keep a solid friendship for more than 2 years or so and no-one bothers to see how I'm doing. I've always felt different from others. Like my new friends from uni are already isolating me and acting fake. They hate the fact that guys always talk to me and that I get asked out a lot. I hate it when people compliment me in front of them, because they don't look happy. Even with my friends who arent from uni, they are acting fake too and when we go out clubbing they don't like it when guys hit on me. It's always been like that with girls. I just want a girl who will not care about how others respond to me and support me. People (especially friends) always comment about the amount of stares & attention I get from people in the street and its annoys me because I just brush it off. One girl is even trying to speak like me, because people like the way I talk. So why are girls always mean to me and why i'm 20, but never can seem to get girls to truly like me or stay friends with me.I know I have my flaws, but surely it doesn't make sense and its getting very suspicious now, why its a trend.

I work in an office with 13 other women ages 20 through 50. We have the greatest boss ever. He is a 29 year old GREAT looking guy. We enjoy coming to work mainly because of our boss. He sees that we are well paid and never gets mad at us when we screw up. We love to joke around with him and he loves for us to do it. For example, one of us ask him if he hired us for our boob size of or IQs. He said "You have IQs"? We all had a good laugh at that. Employees from other departments that know about our actions with our boss tell us he is sexually harassing us. Is he?

On my birthday, I went to the hospital and found out that I have an ovarian cyst, that may or may not get worse. Then, I went to the store to buy myself a cake, but the store ran out. So I texted my friend (I wasn't trying to complain, I was trying to be light hearted), "When you go to the store to buy a cake, but the store runs out" and she responded with, "I honestly do not care right now, I'm going through significantly bigger problems." So I texted her how that text made me feel (harsh, lack of empathy, hurt because I considered her a friend) and instead of her acknowledging what she did, she turned the issue on me. She got really defensive, and basically told me that I lacked empathy for thinking about myself on my birthday.

Growing up on an Island in a tight-nit community wasn't always the easiest. I was left to grow up with 3 girls who's mothers had brainwashed them to make me the odd one my entire life. I was constantly left out, made fun of, spoken down to my whole childhood. They'd be my best friends at one point and then they'd be sneaking each other presents the next and having not so secretive sleepovers to make me feel left out. Now that I moved away from the Island, I've made genuine friends (I'm 16). The problem is I have urges to hit them, when we're all laughing and having fun I'll suddenly smack them across the arm or punch them in the stomach (everyone takes it as a joke). When I see anyone who is talking to my friends I immediately hate them, even if I know nothing about that person, I will despise that person. When anyone says anything that hurts my feelings (which is normally hard to do) I will become upset and won't be able to let the matter go for months, even years. If one of them is in a bad mood (and I know I will regret it deeply later) I will have the urge to say something that I know will HURT them emotionally, I will feel satisfied but then extremely guilty and regretful later. If one of them mentions having other friends I will immediately think "yeah right, as if you have other friends." I've already lost my ex best friend, partially because of this, but it's an entirely different story at the end of the day. My question is: is there anything actually wrong with me?

My ex texts me saying that I am a fake person and a fake friend and how im doing things behind his back even though we are no longer dating. He got mad that I got a new tattoo and I became friends again with my old friend whom he sees her as a fake thot. My ex doesn't want me to be surrounded with people who are doing thot things, but that doesnt mean I will do thot things.

I've been ok keeping to myself now for the past 2 years. I'm a easy guy to make friends with but I've seen so many friends **** over eachother. Friends sleeping with there friends girl when there supposed to be friends. Friends talking **** or just being a asshole. I do so much on my own and I'm fine with it. I go out to bars and talk to women on my own. I go to the gym. I go out to eat sometimes. I'm older now so I've seen alot. Most people just have one or two friends. I'm fine with a girlfriend and family.

A couple of friends of mine helped another buddy move out of his apt. As we were loading his things up, I noticed one of my friends put some of the mover's items inside of his own truck. I asked my friend in private why was he taking things that didn't belong to him? He said that the guy had borrowed several hundred dollars and hasn't paid him and it has been several months since he loaned him the money.In all honesty, the guy we were helping move has had ample time to pay him back, as we all work together and get paid very well. I still don't think it's right for him to take something that doesn't belong to him.

I am a live-in girlfriend living with some of his friends. Recently, we've been having issues with our friends (and our assigned tasks) and I'm getting frustrated. My bf says he'll try to talk things out and diffuse the situation and never does. When I confront him about it, he simply said that he's done with the complaints from all sides and he'll just have us do our own thing as an effort to 'keep the peace'. At first I was okay with this but now I'm not so content. On top of that he easily bends his will for them, complying to unfair things that he eventually vents to me later on. Because of this, we've been having more arguments often, each more heated and explosive than the next, and every time we do it has to do about our friends/roomates. I'm trying my best to stay afloat with my studies as I also work a lot of night shifts but I don't the recent atmosphere of our living space. I would personally go and try to resolve my gripes with them but they're not very likely to hear me out. I hate fighting with my bf but at the same time time I'm not content. But also I don't want to make later interactions awkward or even harm friendships over this.I just want to get by in my studies. I genuinely wish my bf can fully be in my shoes and feel my frustrations and stress but I don't know how to solve this without consequence. Any advice?

She recently became my boss after is being friends for 10 yrs. We were very close and never had any problems. There was no trust issues with one another. Now she is my boss. It took me about 6 months to really being able to accept it. We have been ok thus far in our working relationahip but it took me to initiate any conversations we have had. It has never been personal convos always professional. However now she is following me. What for? She keeps tabs on me while I am on the phone with customers. She watches me when I go yyo lunch and leave for the day after work. What is her problem? I do my work and complete before deadlines. I have never had any negatives from customers nor other coworkers. I have kept my distance from her just because I know how she is. I have always heard she had a crush on me but I ignored it because we were friends and nothing ever led me to beleive otherwise. She was very flirtatious, possessive. I am wondering what is going on with her now? Why is she watching me? When we stoppee being friends she did not even want to look my way but now that she is my boss she is focusing in so much on me.She has 4 other employees. Why is she all on me?

My elder brother who is (22), doesnt like his best friend (22) talking to me (19F) and this issue seemed to have started recently as he never had any problems with his friends talking to me as a general rule.Now his best friend is another story, hes like a brother to me, very friendly,calls me lil sister and hangs around with my brother and me at college. The problem began when one day my brother asked my opinion about " who is the most good looking guy in collg".I was just being honest with him and told him that my friends think that his best friend is kinodff cute.My brother kindoff took my comments badly and said, whats so great in him in an almost offended tone.I told him, I dont know, just heard my friends talk about him. Come to think of it, hes tallish, like 6.2,friendly,good looking and popular with women. Also, after this incident, whenever his friend talks to me, I notice my brother squirming in his seat , and can see hes not happy. First off, I dont know why hes angry that his Best friend is good looking, secondly he can always tell his buddy if he doesnt like him chatting to me.But he doesnt say that to his face.What could be happening here?

Ive known this girl from work for the past year, but recently we began talking more and more...but 3 weeks ago she admitted that she really liked me since the beginning. We began texting everyday for the entire day. She was really into me,  She even admitted that she had feelings for me from the start. We even talked about our future, We eventually became boyfriend and girlfriend but that did not last long. On Wednesday she told me that we could only remain friends because there is this guy named Adrian who has been obsessed with her for the past 2 years...... She told me that he always shows up at her house and he is always texting her, She told me we need to stay as friends because she doesnt want me to have any problems since Adrian is very violent.... I saw her at work today and she looked super awkward, soo later in the day I messaged her and her reply was "I'm dating Adrian now soo its better that you dont message me anymore."...............like what just happened????????????   She ended things with me sooo fast !!!!!!!!!

So I have a friend who I have been friends with since we were in primary school she was also a neighbour. We were really close but I always feared that she was jealous of me anyway long story short we are a group of friends and I tell them my problems and about people who have done me wrong. So I told her in the past I don't talk to my sister inlaw my husbands sister as she is toxic to my husband. This so called friend of mine purposely always bumps into her and talks to her. She is a radiographer and told me that my sis inlaw came to hav a X-ray this so called friend of mine said she can't tell me what's wrong Bu she's really ill why would u tell me this don't tell me at all and before she would never speak to my sil. . I drifted apart from this friend but today I thought I need some friends time let's meet up what can I do

I loaned my friend 20,000 so he could buy a chunk of land. My friends sister keeps calling me and asking me if my friend has paid the debt off in one large sum. I said " the contract says bi-monthly payments and not one lump sum and no money has touched your hands you are not even part of this buisness transaction so stay out of it.If i was worried about it i would call him.He has met every obligation in the contract".

Last-night my friend said to me that he can see an ''emotional connection'' between me and another friend of mine. He said that's what explains everything between you two lately.

How to stop formerly our allergies about a stunned leader?

Sorry, I know my question sounds dumb but during my past mid to late teen years of my life, I have been very socially awkward (probably still am lol who who gives 2 *****) and insecure of myself due to the fact that I was very obese, lazy and ugly af. Pretty much during my grammar school life and through out the 4 years of my high school life, I've been an outcast all my life. Now things have kinda changed as I've now lost 45-50 lbs of weight, groom, and take of my hygiene, improved my wardrobe but despite that I STILL feel that if I were to approach a girl or even a dude, I feel like it isnt going to be a good outcome. My only friends are my family members and some male co workers. So I do not talk to any females at all. I'm a 22y/o male. Yeah I know I'm weird but I gotta move on with what life brings me and what it destined to be. So my question is, will getting a girlfriend be difficult for me if I'm unable to make any friends at all? Is that something I should be concerned about? I most certain that this is not normal. Esp after all the things I did(unless they are the same as when I was obese).

I had to go to the doctor's last week to get a physical. My nurse was my mom's good friend, and she ended up staying for the testicular exam and got a good look down there. Today she and a few of my mom's other friends were over for drinks. Tbh, I was upstairs but eavesdropping on their convo because I was worried she would mention the physical. Call it paranoia. But sure enough, she eventually said something like "Oh and I saw your son's penis on Thursday" And instead of shutting it down, my mom and her other friends egged her on and were laughing hysterically. I talked to my mom after, upset, and she brushed it off like it was no big deal. I don't think I can forgive my mom or her c***t friend. What can I do to get her friend's nursing license revoked?

This is what happened with a good friend of mine. She moved to the city with her hubby where I live with my family. I helped them for three months to settle down here. Later, they kind of avoided me and my family. Very recently she got a new job and moved out of this place. Just before leaving, she texted me saying can she give a suggestion to me. Her suggestion was to watch my words before talking, as they got hurt in couple of situations. I asked for more details and she said couple of situations. I honestly never had intentions to insult them. In fact I cared them, worried for them when struggling for a job, helped every single week for groceries etc. I was deeply hurt and understood it doesn't make any sense to continue as friends and be in touch. So I blocked her in all my social media so that I can move on and stop judging and re-evaluating myself multiple times. Today she realized and started cursing me via some other app to text that I will be punished. It's very hurting to see a good friend of mine wishing me bad luck and cursing.

I am a younger boy in class. There is an older girl I did not meet before. She laughed loudly and at great length at a joke I made and asked me to repeat it to her. The joke was not funny at all. She smiled the whole time but didn't do much to add onto our conversation. My teacher butted in our conversation immediately. After that she waited for me after class to scare me. My teacher asked me if she should talk to her. After that the girl started laughing at stuff I say to other people, stuff I say that's half funny. She started butting into my conversations laughing at stuff I say, asking me to repeat it our trying to talk to me by responding to me. My teacher then keeps butting in. The girl scares me after class once I talk to her. She likes to hover around me and try to approach me with her friend and try to talk to me. My teacher asks me if I'm avoiding the girl or making special trips to walk around and avoid her. She reads into normal behavior like me walking out of class. She keeps asking me this stuff and is very persistent.

What is a marker fight??

she said our other roommate which made me upset. should i confront her about this?

I have a freind in mainstream we where freinds but we had a fight on Facebook and she told my teacher and my teacher told me off and she said you should not have a phone she said also to me that I feel like taking your phone away and keeping it I said to the teacher that its my phone and my property . She said she will be calling my patents but I my parents know the truth of what happend with my old freind on facebook

I began talking to this girl almost 3 weeks ago, and she admitted that she really liked me. We would text everyday for the entire day. She was really into me, She even admitted that she had feelings for me from the start. We eventually became boyfriend and girlfriend but that did not last long. On Wednesday she told me that we could only remain friends because there is this guy named Adrian who has been obsessed with her for the past 2 years...... She told me that he always shows up at her house and he is always texting her, She told me we need to stay as friends because she doesnt want me to have any problems since Adrian is very violent.... I saw her at work today and she looked super awkward, soo later in the day I messaged her and her reply was "I'm dating Adrian now soo its better that you dont message me anymore."...............like what just happened???????????? I feel like a piece of garbage !!!!!!