Going to a wedding. Im a male. I'm not wearing a suit. I just want a blue button shirt with a tie and some nice grey dress pants for 60 bucks. If you know something like give me a link to it plz!

I am trying to get an custom made chinese qipao dress and I recently found an tailor in my city that makes these dresses. I tried calling them today and the lady only speaks in chinese and when I asked her if she could speak english she said a bunch of stuff in chinese and then hung up on me. I am vietnamese so I do not know how to speak in chinese. I am trying to get this dress made for my wedding. What should I do now since she only speaks chinese ??

I married recently, in a town far from my family. Everyone came, I was happy. But they came for a holiday. I worked like a dog, every morning up at 06:00, crying as I shower, going to bed in the early hours of the morning with a sore back and tired feet. I worked the entire wedding week, right up until setting my own tables. Everyone was too busy site seeing... knowing there was work. I woudn't be so upset if I didnt help at their own weddings.... but i did. So I expected the same kind of support. The day after the wedding I fell horribly sick, meaning the entire honeymoon I was ill. I still cry about it. I still avoid them. I have ugly thoughts of them... I really dont like my extended fam that much anymore.