My cousin got married this weekend. I'm engaged and getting married in the fall. I've already bought a wedding dress and have had it since right when I got engaged. My cousin got hers after mine and we ended up getting the same dress. I didn't find out until her wedding this weekend. What do I do? I don't want people to think I'm copying her because I'm not, but I LOVE my wedding dress and can only see myself getting married in that dress. Every dress I tried on didn't compare to the dress I got. Idk what to do, I really don't want it to be a topic or discussion at my wedding which I know it will be. I also don't want to piss off my cousin and make her think I copied her. What do I do? Take back my dress and settle for one I don't love?

yes, I'm aware of the whole "if you have to ask, don't" but i really love this dress and it fits me like a glove and compliments my figure in all the right ways. or i could message the bride and ask her if she is ok with it.

I am going to be wearing a bird cage veil that is going to be pinned to hell and back on my head. I worry that he will try to lift it on the wedding day and accidentally pull out some of my hair lol. Should I show him the veil :and the veil only: before the big day so he will know not to mess with it lol?