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Question: How do i explain to my hubby that his “jokes” bother me? Posted: 09 Jun 2018 02:15 PM PDT To make a long story short he has a bad habit of making jokes ans hes always been that way and i dont mind. We have had alot of things happen in the past and try to keep it that way. Today he tried joking around saying that he can understand now why *mentioned a certain females name* liked his arms back then. The female he mentioned was a lady he talked to behind my back and send intimate pictures back and forth. Although he did not have sex wih her I consider this cheating. I got mad and brung up some things from the past and right there he said i cant take a joke and that im trying to take his little confidence away. How can i get him to realize that its not the joke hes saying but the person he keeps mentioning that bothers the most |
Question: I was told. “You’re going to hear from my lawyer”? Posted: 09 Jun 2018 12:26 PM PDT |
Question: I feel so much anger towards my Mother, is this wrong? Posted: 09 Jun 2018 10:12 AM PDT So bascally, in 2016 when I was 14 years old, my Mom told my dad that I wasn't his biological daughter and told me he wasn't my Dad. This was 2 years ago, it took time to forgive her and I thought I had but lately I've felt so much anger (and some hatred) towards her. She's a good Mom... But I have suffered a lot in my life, especially in the past two years and to me it feels like so much of that has been because of her. In 2016, she started doing meth, that was the worst year of my life. She no longer does it though. My mom and my family moved to another country in 2012, that country became my home. It was the place where all my best memories were made, then last year, my dad decided to move back to our homeland and despite the fact that he mentally and physically abuses her, my mom followed him. This forced me to move too. Away from everything that ever meant something to me. Now my dad has a new girlfriend and myself, my mom and my 5 younger siblings are living in a family member living room because she lost our house because she spent all the rent money at the casino. She wont enrol me in school because we move around so much, I can't get a job because we move around so much... I've been out of school since August last year. I love my Mom... But lately I've been thinking about all of these things and sometimes I cant even look at her without feeling some form of anger.. It's draining me.. Am I wrong for feeling this way towards my own mother? |
Question: I get anxiety in my Long Distant Relationship, why? Posted: 08 Jun 2018 11:47 PM PDT Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a bit and we are long distance. I, recently, have been getting extreme anxiety when he doesn t text back like what s normal for him. I mean, I feel like there are some justifications. Let me explain. Well, we ve been through a lot and there are things we ve gone throught that sucks, i.e.: he left me for a person, he came back to me, stayed friends with that person and didn t tell me until 3 months later. That took a lot of my trust. He s not the cheating type, but what really is the cheating type? Well, anyways, then one day, he gave me a panick attack by not warning me that he won t be able to talk. So, hours later, I was panicking. Then, he started hanging out with an old friend again and that friend instantly(the day they started talking again) wanted to spend the night, come over when nobody was home, etc. Then the person he left me for asked if he wanted to meet his family in a different state?? Then, I started finding out stuff I never knew about him. So, I told him about how I felt with these things and he understood and did something about it but.. am I justified? I feel guilty and paranoid when he hangs out with people. Like.. is it normal to feel this way? Or..? |
Question: Overly strict dad, is this normal? Posted: 08 Jun 2018 11:27 PM PDT My dad is in the army for 20 years.... Are all those rules necessary? I know for a fact none of my friends have any of these rules.... I feel like my dad wants me to not have a life... I'm 16 •There will be no crying or whining for any reason or a reason will be issued to you. •The food provided in this house will be eaten without complaint, if you don't like it take a knee, face out and drink some water. •If you don't dress age-appropriately, your "new" clothes will consist of my old (altered-especially-for-you) fatigues. •There will be zero tolerance when it comes to disrespect, so think about it before you give me a reason •You getting an education isn't open for discussion … ever. If your grades aren't satisfactory, remedial action will soon follow •If I didn't give you an attitude when you were born then you will not have one. •Know that God gave me patience, but only so much. •Remember it can always be worse, don't make me prove it. •I don't drink alcohol, smoke or do drugs, so guess what? Hello?! You don't either. •Plan of action: if there's anything you disagree with on this form, keep it to yourself until you move out. •While being yelled at, basically any reaction is forbidden. Crying will lead to "I'll give you something to cry about"-type reactions, anger and accidental smiling were obviously out as well. •"yes." "Yes what?" "Yes, sir." My father would run me through this refrain every time I failed to say that final magic word "Sir". |
Question: Co worker being lazy? Posted: 08 Jun 2018 08:37 PM PDT I work in a department store at a cosmetic counter. There's 3 of us that work there and the past couple nights one co worker and I have been closing together. Our duties before we close is to make sure the counter is dusted and wiped down, we vacuum the floor around us, we refill the water and alcohol, take the makeup brushes to the back and wash them, organize all the product back in their place, put out more tissues and cotton balls, etc. My co worker was flirting the whole night with some guy and didn't help me do anything. I had to do everything myself and I said to her "hey want to give me a hand?" And she said sure but then would just go back to the guy. Yesterday night we closed together too and instead of flirting she went to the break room and never came back except to just close the register but that's it. I had to clean everything myself. I hate to sound grouchy but it frustrates me that she doesn't want to help me when she clearly isn't doing anything. I've told her this but she gets defensive and says she had a headache that night and that's why she had to run to the break room (which I doubt because she seemed fine all day) What do you recommend I do? |
Question: How can I find out if my father had other children? Posted: 08 Jun 2018 08:07 PM PDT |
Question: Was it ok to slap my sister in a situation like this? What should I do? Posted: 08 Jun 2018 02:03 PM PDT Last night my dad called me at 3 am and told me he has no idea where my sister is and she probably ran out So I want looking for her all over town,I assumed I knew where she was... I found her at a friends party totally drunk to the point she couldn't walk or talk straight, I told her to get in the car Her body doesn't react well with alcohol she can have one sip of beer and she is in out,I'm a guy and I'm 24 and I barely drink so to see her in that situation was insane. Thought of yelling at her and I saw that there was no point,I called my dad told him everything is ok,I was way too embarrassed to tell him she was drunk not even thinking about bringing her back home,she stayed at my place. When she woke up we set down and I just looked at her and asked"what going on?" She had nothing to say"no seriously what the hell want through your mind last night?Do you think I'm gonna be there to save you every time you **** up?NO! I'm way too easy on you!can you even imagine what would have happened if I would've brought you home last night?you'd prob be dead!You're 16 come on going out drinking?" Instead of saying thank you she started being a brat " i didn't ask you to come!you're not dad!You're nobody you can't tell me what to do! I'm gonna do whatever I want,you know what **** off!" At that point I got so annoyed that I slapped her on the cheek,she started crying,an hour later I dropped her back home and didn't even come in. Was I wrong in a situation like this should I apologize? |
Posted: 07 Jun 2018 02:36 PM PDT I wheeled my husband of 30 years into the hospital for lab tests. I was running out to the car for a minute when he approached me. Too creepy for hospital setting, IMHO. |
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