I'm 22, married and have a 2 year old... My dream my whole life was to travel a few places I've always wanted to see and go to college and be an artist or join law enforcement, enjoy life a bit while I was at it. But then I met my husband and everything happened so quickly... We got pregnant, he doesn't want me to work (because he doesn't want me to deal with that kind of stress per his words) every time I applied or even mention applying for college he told me to wait, he doesn't want me to do law enforcement because he doesn't believe I could handle it due to my personality ( I believe there is good in people if you give them the chance, he believes EVERYONE is...well...on drugs or stupid) but I just feel like I want to do more with my life than be a stay at home mom and do the same thing every day till I die... Is that selfish? Is it too late? And yes I know that having a child and getting married young was my decision and you reap what you sow... (Also things happened in that order) I just want to know others thoughts on what I'm feeling, and just to clarify I will never consider leaving my child and husband on their own just to make myself happy.

Me and my wife are having a baby boy in September I love rubbing her belly and kissing it. Most nights I even sleep on it. Is that normal ?

My child's fathers girlfriend lives a few hours away, and they went to go see her. She helped him pick out seashells for me, and they made put it into, and had my kid paint the glass with light see through colors. I was really upset when I found out she helped my child. I was also upset my kids father took him by her, but my friend said I'm being bitter, and she sees it as a good jester, and she is trying to be his friend, and be nice and considerate of me. Am I being bitter? What do you think?

I'm 29 and my husband is 32. We have young kids and I'm a SAHM. I'm biracial and he's an annoying typical white man. He works long hours and when he comes home he messes up the house leaving doors open and he wants attention. I'm tired all day taking care of the house and kids while he works. I am so bored these days. Just being at home not meeting people except my husband is a shame. Am tired all the time as well. I have really been thinking about a divorce because he annoys me so much but we have young kids and I'm pregnant and due in a couple of weeks. He'll be having leave after tomorrow and he's going to have a barbaque with his friends. He will expect me to cook and I doubt he will even clean up after himself. I will be more annoyed with him home all the time. He always wants to talk about his job and I pretend to listen even if I think who cares. I mean he can never do anything right and always annoys me. What do I do?

Concerned wife who believes my husband is always staring at another woman he's known and have to be around for 4 yrs. She's in her 40's. Maybe it nothing but just curious.

Will you be picking seven wild flowers, put them under your pillow and dream of your future husband/wife?

My husband refuses to go to a marriage counselor with me. We have a lot of issues 1. He is very selfish and but his needs and his friends before me 2. Doesnt help out much with our newborn 3. Doesnt want to take me out on dates. If we go on a date i have to plan it and a lot of times pay. (He makes enough to take me on dates ..he used to take me before we got married but rather use his money on $200 shoes, his school, clothes etc) 4. I recently discovered he has a dating profile and refuses to delete in. He says its hard for him to stop going on those sites 5. I dont feel appreciated. I cook, clean, pay majority of bills, take care of the baby and he never says thank u or lends a hand. 6. Never buys gifts for holidays or birthdays but is always expecting a gift on those days 7. When i mention problems he says he will change. Ill ask him what he will do to change and he just says " i dont know" 8. Many times when i bring up issues we are having he says he doesnt want to talk, tries to ignore the problem or is silent for days. It is very hard talking to him and he acts like he cant express himself 9. He never texts me during the day. He used to do that before we got married but if i text him asking hows his day going i may or may not get a reply.

My wife is a mother of our 2 little kids. She is always in Mom mode. She's a great Mom! Our life is all about the kids and we are doing the same thing everyday. We don't give each other attention or anything. So when I get attention from other women I love it and it shows me how much I miss it. I feel like she wants is always in Mom mode and I guess it is up to me to get her out of it whenever I can. I am getting tired of doing the same thing everyday. I don't want to be that couple that eats dinner and doesn't talk. I also don't want to stray away. How can I approach this and is there any success stories?

I have a friend who I used to travel with so much, but he got married last year and he tells me he can't travel anymore because his wife won't let him. Then I have another friend who's wife jumped on a cruise without checking with him, and she said "I'm going, I don't need to ask you" I personally love to travel, and I cannot imagine that getting a wife means I can no longer travel just because she said so