as a woman would you enjoy your husband saying to you that if you felt the need to sleep with other men that it is in fact ok? also what are your opinions, men out there?

sharing my wife with other men has been a definitive no for her. so instead, I have her tell me of her past sexcapades. although she has never orgasmed with another man other than me, she has fun seeing me get off to and says she can embellish on her recounting for me a little.

will I soon be divorced because she will find better sex or from continuing to ask her? be specific please

My wife has this idea that when she wants to do something I should drop any and everything I'm doing and do what she wants. She also feels that we NEVER do anything. Money is tight with us now and some weeks we barely make it by with paying bills and just trying to keep gas in our old cars. Yesterday at work she sends me a text to say she wanted to go to the movies. She wanted to see the new Incredibles 2 movie. I'm almost 49 and she's 48. We don't have young kids anymore but she said that when our kids were younger and we bought the first Incredibles movie on DVD that she assumed I wanted to see the sequel. Honestly, I don't. I guess I've aged out of cartoon movies. But now she's upset that I seem to not want to do anything with her today. Oh, and as far as the movie goes, she had planned a night of dinner and a movie but she told me she wasn't going to pay for everything so I needed to kick in on one or the other. Thanks for spending my money without asking. She feels she doesn't have to ask me what I have planned on Sat because as her wife I should always be available for her. I actually have plans myself. My sister wants me to come to her house and put up a couple of ceiling fans. My daughter wants me to change the oil and spark plugs on her car. But the most important thing I'm working on is a woodworking project making a piggy bank for one of our granddaughters. I've been working on it a couple of weeks and had plans to do other things to it this All I'm asking here is that she not make plans for me then get upset when I already have something to do claiming "we never do anything." That's a big lie. Again, we went to the movies a couple of months ago and I was planning on taking us next weekend when the movie I wanted to see comes out. Remember, the movie from a few months ago was a movie she wanted to see. But according to her, "we never do anything together." We go out to eat every Friday night to a different restaurant, be it fast food or a sit down meal. I / we have a banquet at church next weekend that I bought tickets for us to go. My wife can come back from the beach and 2 months later she's complaining that she needs a vacation. High maintenance might be the word for it. No, she's not a planner. We went to an event at her mom's church last sunday and she got upset that it didn't go the way she thought it should go. When she wants to do something she wants it done right then.

Explain please. I have no clue why women are so insecure and gelous of a man watching porn. Can someone tell me why? I am a woman and I watch porn and I would have no issue with my hubs watching porn. Everyone except Lil Miss Grammer Police on the bottom has heartfelt or valid sounding reasons. I appreciate ur thoughts on this. I have never understood why watching tv could cause such crisis. When women watch soap operas with loads of sex seens, men don't come in blasting them for 'cheating' so its mind boggling that people equate tv to cheating. but thanks for ur input--its an interesting topic.

will I soon be divorced because she will find better sex or from continuing to ask her? be specific please

She loves me, but she can't be with me (long story). She wants to be friends, but I want more .... my feelings have gone past being just friends. The only way is cut contact. I am looking to write her a letter to say I can't be just friends, as I'm in love with her. Need advise on the best way to put it.

My fiancé and I are planning a wedding but he just dropped a bomb shell on me. I'm looking for a new job. He told me (suddenly) that he refuses to live more then 20 min from his parents. He now said he's not sure he wants to marry me. He said he's not sure I'm the one (all of a sudden) and that where my job is located will determine whether or not we get married. I have an interview it's 2 hours from where we are. I'm willing to move half way and drive an hour everyday to work. He's refusing. I'm considering ending the engagement. We haven't been engaged long and haven't set a date yet. Should I just end things?

When my bf and I first started dating things were great! He'd call me every morning on his way to work to say hi, he'd ask me if we could hang out. When I needed a hand he was always there without hesitation. Our sex life was decent. It was your typical relationship. A year in and EVERYTHING has changed. He almost NEVER calls. He refuses to stay at my house because its "too much work" for him to pack a bag to come over when he has work the next day. I'm always going to his house even though I work too. I can't count on him for anything. I've had to call other friends to help me fix things. I was in the hospital once from a car accident and he refused to come visit me because he was tired after work and he didn't feel like driving 35 min. We have sex MAYBE once a month. We recently had a talk about our relationship and he told me this is all normal and that no relationship is going to be the same as when two people first meet/start dating and that I was crazy if I thought it would be. He also told me he's given up on relationships, love, and being romantic because he's been burned so bad by his ex fiancé in the past. Is he right? Do relationships change as you've been together longer?

We live on the opposite sides of the country so of course nothing will happen. I have been married for several years with kids. She's younger and just got married a year ago. We both had marital problems with sex and both wanted it. Emotionally this one effected me because I actually liked her and she liked me. She was also better looking than me in my opinion. We both shared we are missing the physical element in our marriage. I know with having kids it's harder. But for my wife and I we don't have sex or even an emotional connection. Guess it's normal with young kids. I guess time will pass. She has sent me texts and that's probably made it worse. I don't know how to deal with this and obviously can not share it with others. I understand I am a jerk, but I really want my marriage better. After being with this girl it reminded me about my wife and I back in the day. This girl was all cuddly and I miss that.

The only one whose ever called me pretty is my mom. How typical. Boyfriends ive had in high school never really said anything about my looks. On my wedding day, my husband never once admired me in my dress or said i looked beautiful or anything. None of my family or friends did on that day, either. When I post a new profile picture on facebook ive never gotten comments or many likes. And then on Instagram i post photos with my birds and people will comment how pretty said bird is and ignore me. Meanwhile i always see my friends being told almost daily how pretty they are either in person or social media. My little sister can post things and my family will comment for her but never me. Im not trying to sound petty here but im 30 years old and never had that feeling of being sexy or attractive. It makes me sad when i remember feeling ugly on my own wedding day. How can i get myself past this stupid kind of stuff?