Can anyone comment on how common this type of relationship arrangement is?.... Boyfriend or Husband - works M to F from 8a to 5p who has never worked 24hr shift work before with a Girlfriend or Wife - works 24hr shifts with all Male co workers and requires they sleep in bunk/dorm rooms on standby for the last 9 hours of each shift. Anyone have experience with this?

I am good Russian-American, devout Orthodox Christian, and a great husband of 20 years. Romantic, raising my wifes daughter from another marriage as my own, giving her another daughter, allowing her to be a stay at home mom who goes on shopping and spa sprees, develops her hobbies and passions, cook for them all, take them on vacations, never abuse them, have never cheated, or so on. Now all that I want is some consideration for my feelings and her to do something for me. However, my wife does not want to compromise and tells me to stop talking about this, go to therapy, or get a girlfriend on the side! These are the only four things that I ask for: 1) that she join Christian Nymphos with me so that we can express ourselves and have adult fun at swinging party with other devout christians. 2) that she shave her pubic hair and anal hair which I find to be repulsive and have put up with over 20 years even without cheating. she said she shouldn't have to because we are Russian but I keep telling her we live in America now and its the current year with most shaving. 3) That she allows herself to be gang3banged by groups of black studs or tyrones as I like to call them so that I can be humiliated. 4) that she walk up and down stairs with their juices still in her dripping down her thighs for me and telling me about it after. Is this really unreasonable? I love my wife, don't want a divorce or to betray her by cheating. I only ask for these things and do anything for her. I feel really unloved and neglected. This makes me feel like Jesus has betrayed me. What should I do? Who is right? do you think my wife doesn't love me anymore?

Her husband can't peform good so she said she liked me because I'm Latino.. I want to be in a relationship with her but she has kids and a man.. what do I do ?

I spent much of my life away from my father but we were always in-touch. When I was 20, I began seeing a man and fell for him. I had to move away and married someone else... Me and my firmer lover still communicate on a friendship level. I finally met my dad a year into my marriage in person and he bears stroking personality resemblance to the lover I left behind. I still want my dad to be my dad as he has akwats been but he keeps saying such titles are unnecessary and wants to be PEERS... Why?!?!? All three men are important to be in my life and I have found myself becoming closer to my dad lately who had helped me deal with highly-sensitive personal issues that I have never mentioned to my husband and I'm just so puzzled. Please help! Why are things like this?

My great grandfather remarried over 30 years ago. It's possible he was never actually divorced, as there are no divorce records. Now he and his other children (with this second "wife") are trying to deny my grandmother her portion of his inheritance when he dies. Is this even legal? Are his other children even eligible for any inheritance seeing as they are considered "illegitimate?" Thank you in advance

My husband is having an affair with a married woman. I found out. He said he never stop loving me, he doesn't love that woman, just because she's so good in bed that makes him cannot leave her . He said that woman pleases him anyway he wants in bed while I'm just like a pillow. I checked his phone. he texts her everyday to chat and begs her to make love with him but she refuses, she said she just want to be friend with him, she wants to stop the affair. Did I do something wrong, what should I do now. Thanks for help.

It was a one time thing while I was out of town. The other girl is also married. We have texted a little bit afterwards as there was a connection, but it has died down now. This is something I have never even done to a gf in the past. Totally my fault tho. I cannot tell my wife because it is not fair to her and the kids. I just need to learn from it. I am going to go see a therapist for help. As this was a week ago, I am assuming it will start getting better after time? Any thoughts as it's all I think about? The other girl and I follow each other on Instagram too so maybe that needs to stop?

My ex-wife has been refusing to let me see my little girl. When the divorce went through she told the judge she did not want me to pay child support. Now that her husband is cheating on her and wants a divorce she is taking it out on me by claiming she can take me back for child support, which is difficult as I am caring for my grandmother, as well as not letting me see my daughter.