I am in my friends bridal shower. Her bridesmaid planned the bachelorette party for this upcoming weekend a month ago. I love about 45mins-hour away from the event; and all the rest live 6 hours away. They rented a hotel room in downtown, and we are doing a cycle saloon thing. Staying the night, then the following day going out. The hotel and the bike thing are a total of $234.00. A person. I am the only one with a baby, he's 5 months old. My sitter cancelled for this Friday's events. So I will not be able to make it. However the whole bridal party wants me to pay for the hotel and cycle thing still for the first night. Which totals $136.00. When I won't be staying there, doing the cycle thing, or even attending that day. Do I have to pay? Or do they need to split the cost between them for that day?

My fiance and I are getting married and we want to start trying to have a baby right away. I am wondering if I should wait until after our week long honeymoon to stop my birth control, then that will cause to me start my period, then we can start trying OR if I should stop my birth control to where I have my period right before the wedding and then while we are away on our honeymoon, we would technically be unprotected. My concern is if by chance I did get pregnant on my honeymoon, I wouldnt know right away obviously and I would be drinking while on the honeymoon.

I have social anxiety. Social situations make me very uncomfortable, especially weddings. So I would much rather stay home. The thing is it's my cousin's wedding and it's kinda expected from me to be there. Most of the family is going. Except my father who doesn't really care.

This is what I have so far, I m not good with typing or spelling well though. I would deeply appreciate some help. My partner and I have been talking about marriage and I think I m going to formally propose and give my vows. You are more important to me than anything, more valuable than any gem, beautifulier than any painting. I love you with my whole soul. I promise to put you first over anything in my life. You know me better than anyone else and still love me even when I m mean or moody. I appreciate you more than words can express. You are my best friend, my lover, my partner in crime, my whole world. I wish to remain by your side for the rest of my life, every moment I spend with you is priceless. You make me feel like the luckiest man alive, you ve given me a new view of the world and I never want to be without you. I never knew everyday could be funner than the last. You make everyday a new exciting adventure that I m so glad to be apart of. I vow to be loyal and honest. I promise to never betray you or your trust. I swear I will treat you with respect. I will always show you compassion and empathy. I will cheer beside you, cry next to you, and hold you tightly for the rest of my life. So please (name) will you take me to be your life partner, and do me the honor of marrying me? Pls help