I always see in videos, all of the women taking turns in giving blow jobs to the male stripper and in some cases they have sex with the bride to be. Is this true or all fake.

My brother asked me to be his best man at his wedding and I said yes, but now I want to back out. Before you say, " That's your brother you have to do it." Well we got in an argument last year that ended up with my wife and I being kicked out, we didn't talk for a few months, some pretty hurtful words were exchanged between us. As Im planning the bachelor party Im slowly thinking how I don't want to go and how now Im regretting saying yes. The other groomsmen that are coming, we all used to be a close circle but some of them, all of them I haven't talked to in almost 2 years. I cut a lot of the ties because I was sick of them. I sort of started talking again but they all hang out and I never get invited to do things with them, ever. Why would I want to spend a few days with them?