Marriage & Divorce: Question: How can I be a better wife? |
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Question: How can I be a better wife? Posted: 28 Jun 2018 07:18 PM PDT My husband says i argue and fight alot with him. If things doesnt go my way than i start crying like a cry baby. Today he joking way said i still have time to leave as we dont have any attachment or kids and we shouldnt have gotten together when we broke up 7 years ago He is tired of me. |
Posted: 28 Jun 2018 05:33 PM PDT He is the oldest grandson of the family and I am the youngest. We are the only two not to have married. He is 70 and I am 36. |
Question: Stepson won't tell me when he is hurt? Posted: 28 Jun 2018 05:03 PM PDT Stepson is a bit of a "rough and tumble" kid. He does skateboard stunts and is always getting banged up. I've noticed that he doesn't tell me when he gets hurt. This happens all the time but has been getting ridiculous. My wife is away on a business trip. Recently I got a call from his soccer coach (He's in a summer league) asking how he was doing. He apparently got a sprained ankle the coach thought was really bad. My stepson hadn't mentioned this to me. Does stepson not trust me, or is this a macho thing? What should I do about it? It makes me look bad in front of my wife and the teachers. He's 13. He didn't run on the sprained ankle but he walked on it and did yard work on it. When I dragged him to the doctor the octor confirmed it was a bad sprain |
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Question: How did you know you were ready to “settle down”? Posted: 28 Jun 2018 10:21 AM PDT Did you just feel ready to start that part of your life? I've been feeling this way when I've been thinking about were I want to be in 10 years and the only thing I really feel sure about is being with my girlfriend. We've been together for over a year and even then even never felt sure about anyone before. Is this something you just jump into? |
Posted: 28 Jun 2018 10:08 AM PDT I am in my mid 30s and the only change I have made was I started to workout. I have been gaining attraction from single and married women about 5 years younger than me. It could be at a work conference or out at a bar. These are girls who seem to be intelligent and better looking than I am. I am married so I won't do anything. Is this normal because it is really difficult at times. I do flirt back and it's flattering. Wondering why I didn't get this 10 years ago when I was single. |
Posted: 28 Jun 2018 10:02 AM PDT We've been together 5/6 years and married for 7 months. Recently she met a friend who my wife told me is a lesbian. My wife hung around with her for a week or so and then the arguments began about her not being happy, totally out of the blue. She decided married life wasn't for her anymore, she wasn't happy. My wife declared on Father's Day 2018 she wanted to split up, I moved out a week later however she has now moved this friend in full time, within days. My 2 year old son is present in the house and I've got evidence (whilst collecting my belongins) they're sharing bed, there are only two in the house - one of which was ours and the other is my sons. I'm not concerned about her having friends over to stay but certainly am against the fact she has someone in so soon, lesbian or not, especially as I've never met her, nor have our family and our son regularly comes into our room during the night. She won't listen to me and I need advice as to what I can do to stop this, it must be confusing for him. I'm on the birth certificate and we've not yet seeked any legal advice, she is the type to jump from friend to friend but not like this and it's genuinly come out of the blue with no specific reason. |
Question: Am I being unreasonable or is my husband being a chiid? Posted: 28 Jun 2018 06:45 AM PDT I recently found out that my husband has been spending at least $100/month on his online game. The funds were coming out of his separate account, which he had told me he was using to buy gas. I went ballistic because we are really struggling to pay other bills and I handle all the money. When I found out, I was so angry that I had to leave the house. I told him I was angry and going for a drive. When I returned, I tried to talk to him calmly and rationally. I told him that we both work hard and deserve to have $ of our own to spend, that sort of thing. I said that money could have gone to pay for other things that need to be taken care of...but MOSTLY what I said was that if he had just communicated this to me, we could have found a way to handle it. He is historically terrible with money, debit cards, credit cards, etc. I acknowledged that I buy things too, but the difference (to me at least) is that when I spend money on something he might think is unnecessary, it's because all the bills are paid. His response was first to scream at me because I said he "looked like" he was bored already and didn't want to talk about it. Then, as usual, he shut down completely, saying nastily, "Are you done? Are you done? Get to the point! Get to the point!" Then, again, per his playbook, he put his debit cards on the counter and said he just wasn't going to spend anything then or go anywhere and if he couldn't pay for gas to get to work, oh well. Several times over our almost 12 year marriage, I have shown him my Excel spreadsheet that contains all of our monthly expenses, due dates, amounts due, etc. He seems to get very overwhelmed/bored each time, so I stopped even talking to him about money and just take care of it on my own. I have no objection to him having his own funds to spend ...but he still acts like I'm trying to control everything when all I want is for him to communicate when he uses the joint funds and I've told him that!! |
Question: Are my parents getting divorce? Please help!!? Posted: 28 Jun 2018 02:43 AM PDT So i'm 15 years old girl, I have two younger sister and brother, and I feel like my parents are getting divorce, they have been married for like 20 years, but now they are getting in A LOT of fights, the last fight they had was like a week ago, now they are in another fight, like every time they apologize and come back togather, two weeks later (maximum) then they get in another fight, and sometimes when i talk to mom, she shades like she want divorce and tell me she can't take it anymore, so is that a sign they are really getting divorced? |
Question: Can you tell your problems to your friends? Posted: 28 Jun 2018 12:17 AM PDT I mean women tell stories about their bf to friends..... and sometimes men also... is there a drawback for this? opening up? problems like if you just hire a bad handyman for example. or u have a maid who stole from you. is it ok to share? |
Question: My wife is very mean to my dog? Posted: 27 Jun 2018 11:29 PM PDT So I just recently got married and my wife and I are newly adjusting to living together in our new house together. She is very mean towards my dog. Let's call her Sally. For instance, I told my wife that I have to run to the gym and to watch Sally. My wife agreed. When I got back I heard my wife yelling at the dog because ti was barking and she threw him in the backyard. (we have a pomeranian) I was VERY upset about this. She said she wants to keep it outside so it wont bother us and she feels I care more about the dog than her. What do I do? Were fighting now and aren't speaking sh's making me sleep downstairs until I apologize. |
Question: Wife has stopped the violence but still being selfish? Posted: 27 Jun 2018 10:45 PM PDT I'm at my wits end and ready to proceed with separation. With her AVO in place and violent history, i have enough evidence to try and get custody of my son. Just today my wife announced that she wants to go back to China for a one month holiday and travel to some middle Eastern countries. No mention of me at all. Just go with her girlfriend. Once again she wants to travel overseas without me. For nine years she strung me along with stories about wanting to travel abroad with me. But each time she suits herself and gets her girlfriends instead. Well now she has a 3 month old son. It's out first child and she doesn't seem to get an eyelid about walking out on us to go and enjoy herself. This is the last straw. I have a counselling session planned for Saturday. It will be the first time but I already feel like it's too late for me. My mind is mostly made up. I don't want to be married to someone that doesn't have the time for me and would rather suit themselves and come and go how they please. She doesn't deserve me or our child anymore. She has ruined so much and I am hurting again. I'm tired of this life and feel like telling her not to come back home. Better yet, getting custody of our son under the premise of abandonment and changing the locks to our house since it is in my name. I think I could win a custody battle. By the way, we don't hug, dont talk much, dont talk about our day, dont make plans together. We live separate lives and have for some time. I was thinking that living virtually separate lives would count towards separation under the same roof and count towards the 12 months separation rule... |
Posted: 26 Jun 2018 05:54 PM PDT Let's just say I had too much to drink and it was a fun night, but I had an issue getting him up if you know what I mean. She still had fun and I made sure I took care of her. However it was devastating to me. We have been in communication after so I think it's ok but I am embarrassed. Not sure what she thinks and I don't want to ask. Any thoughts on this? |
Question: My husband doesn’t want to go to my uncle’s (dad’s brother in laws) funeral.? Posted: 25 Jun 2018 07:00 AM PDT I have a big family and he doesn't. I don't expect him to go to every family events but during bad times i would appreciate if he could be there and be little supporative but nope. He is argung with me how he doesnt like funerals and doesnt want to go. I am like can you please show little respect? How would my dad feel that his son in law didnt come. He doesn't understand that. I asked him how would he feel if i did same thing to him. His response that's fine. I don't expect you to go. I am seriously thinking of my marriage. I feel like I dida mistake getting married to him. |
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