Oggi ho lasciato il mio ragazzo perché lui ha comunciato a bloccarmi e togliere tutto dicendo che amava ancora la sua ex,dopo aver detto che era finita se ne esce che era uno scherzo, io arrabbiata lo mando a fanculo, e ricomincia sta volta dicendo che non era uno scherzo. Ci sono rimasta male, e continua a dire ancora che scherzava e che IO sto esagerando. Secondo voi?

Hey. I'm not really looking for answers that make women seem more fortunate, better or luckier than men [i.e no circumcision, being able to wear makeup/skirts without funny looks], but just some good things about being a girl. I've grown up surrounded by guys all my life - the majority of which are now gay, so I feel as though I've always heard about how great, interesting and attractive guys can be while not hearing the same for women. I think this has really affected my self esteem. In recent months, I have become more and more ashamed of being a girl because I don't feel like I can be seen in the same, great/interesting/attractive way cause Im not a male. I don't want any answers to put down men though since the closest people to me are, again, guys - I would just like some reassurance that girls can be attractive and appealing, too. Thanks.

Since 2016 I was in a toxic off and on relationship ,I was in a bad place we were together for the past 3 months but I'm done and ready to move on. The thing is,when we break up he does it by blocking me on everything and my phone number then come back in the next 6 months,and also he stalks my social media. He only wants me when it's convenient. But I really want to be with someone else and move on. We haven't talked in weeks since he left me again. But I know he'll text me and try to come back. The thing is it immature to block his phone number ? It doesn't bother me to block or not be blocked because his phone number is already deleted. But at the same time I know I should block because I know he'll come back but I'll never go back to him .

Any suggestions?

I have been dating a guy for about three months. It is long distance. I never noticed him doing this when we started dating, but recently, I've caught him watching an ex's Snapchat stories and Instagram stories. I know he's doing it purposely and not just randomly going through everyone's stories. He's only ever mentioned her once and said they dated for a little over a month - she was the girl before me. I'm probably making a big deal out of nothing, right? I mean, I never noticed him doing it early on in our relationship, but now he does. I just feel weird about it.

Is this what a man is? This is what defines a man?

Salve a tutti, due anni fa sono stata ospitata in Germania da mia zia e dopo 6 mesi sono andata a vivere finalmente da sola. È stata soltanto una volta a casa mia giusto per togliersi la curiosità di vedere come fosse il mio appartenento, da allora non si è mai più fatta viva, sempre u a scusa, sono andata sempre io da lei rovinandomi spesso la giornata, mi offende sempre sul modo di vestire, sul mio aspetto e sul modo di camminare. Mi osserva con aria strana e giudiziosa accompagnata da qualche smorfia e battutine per niente simpatiche. Anche il mio ragazzo ha smesso di accompagnarmi da lei sentendosi sempre sotto giudizio. Lo stesso comportamento ce l'hanno anche i suoi figli. Tutte le volte che vado a trovarla partr subito con il solito interrogatorio che sembra proprio se lo sia preparato a tavolino con suo marito, mi fa domande strane che sanno di critiche, su mia madre e mio fratello. Io non so come comportarmi... vorrei troncare il rapporto con loro perché non mi sento bene in loro compagnia, sono molto a disagio e diventa opprimente in quanto mi sento in dovere di farle visita avendomi permesso di rifarmi una vita in Germania. Tra l'altro anche quando le scrivo a volte mi risponde male infatti le scrivo sempre meno. Devo vivere così sentendomi sempre di doverle essere grata, senza dimenticare che si tratta di mia zia e non di un'estranea, o allontanarla definitivamente dalla mia vita? Voi cosa fareste al mio posto?

Is it wrong for your boyfriend to tell you things that'll change your mind on not leaving him? I have a man who won't let me leave the relationship. He's a good man other than the fact he has disrespected me many many times before, though he says he's trying to change that smart-alec self is still inside him and it causes arguments. He tells me that it'll be jacked up if I left him because of this or that (Anything pretty much). I don't feel the same devotion as I did before. It's hard to tell him I want a threw when he wants to do things to himself because "he loves me a lot." I feel like I'm stuck under his wing and I know if I wanted somebody else he'll want to harm that person. I understand he's in love with me but how can I tell him that I don't want to be with him without coming up with an excuse?

I 've not seen my friend for months so i texted her asking her how she is doing, but she replied a day later saying great, hope all is well with u. Is she being distant?

Ok, so I guess this is kinda weird. I don't usually talk about this stuff but today it's just being too much for me to handle. I get lonely, so easily and ALL the time. When I'm around people it'll be fine, but as soon as I leave them I'll feel like I'm being stabbed in the heart and I'll feel so sad. That is all I'll think about until I go and hang out with someone again, about how sad I am. It is so pathetic but I have NO IDEA what to do to stop it. It chews away at my mind and my heart and I'll I can think about is how lonely I am and I don't like it. Is there anything I can do to help this? Any response would be appreciated. Thanks.

My bf of 5 years thinks I "need him to make my decisions for me" and it is best for me if I move back in with him (currently doing long distance). He has been a lot more successful in life than me. He says he just "wants me to be a functional human being". I was once in a very low position years ago and failing in life in almost every aspect, but now I am doing a lot better - getting better grades, and not having to rely on him financially. We are both 23. He holds the view that it is ok to control others who cannot help themselves if it makes them better off. But his approach is quite negative rather than uplifting, and makes me feel quite low about myself. When I tell him this, he says that he doesn't make me feel bad, but rather he makes me have realizations about myself that makes me feel bad. But I don't think I am that bad; it's his words that hurt. When I tell him what I want in a partner, e.g. an empathetic one, he tells me that I don't know what I want. This frustrates me. I know that he has my best interests at heart but doesn't seem to value me as a person to listen to my views (e.g. valuing not looking down on people) without dismissing them and saying "you'll grow out of this in 2 years". I want to make better decisions for myself, e.g. stop visiting my dysfunctional family when it turns toxic every time, and have a boyfriend that encourages me to be a better person without feeling the need to impose control. What do you think? Please help.