My best friend and I are both females and we are 20. When we are alone we cuddle and she will put her hand on my stomach underneath my shirt or will hold my hand. She will lay on top of me and when we talk we will be close like nose to nose. She stares at my eyes and lips and we will kiss eachother but it's only a peck. I asked her what this means and she is straight and says she likes guys she just thinks I'm pretty and she likes my body. We dont do anything sexual besides a boob grab or she rubs my thighs and grabs my butt. She always says if she was gay we would be dating by now but she loves me so much. What does this mean?

I used to have a crush on my best friend Zack. I ended up telling him and he liked me back. But, he ended up getting a girlfriend from a different school. Awhile later, I asked him about her. He seemed confused, as if he never had one. I stopped liking him for awhile, but I like him again now. How do tell him? Btw were both in 7th grade, on the same bus, live near each other, and have each others phone number.

Me and this friend had sexual relations and we parted on bad terms. He then is sent to jail. Then he got out of jail. and Today his friend dropped by visit me and we had a drink and talked? I messaged my friend who had just got out of jail and asked him how he was doing, He then asked me how I was doing and mentioned that his friend had mentioned seeing me. So then messaged him back and said oh yeah I saw him and we had a drink and brief chit chat. And he did not messaged me back although it shows that he read my message. Do you think he feels some type of way?

I had this friend last course in college and i want to keep in touch cause we drifted apart since the course ended, and theres this book i really love that i saw her reading so do you think if she saw me reading it she'd comment on it and take the bait or would she just stay quite? Lmao ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.02

This past Friday I went on a trip with my besfriend Tyler and his girlfriend. Tyler's girlfriend invited her friend Selena, so the 4 of us drove 2hrs to the beach and we had lots of fun. I felt like I had a connection with Selena but apperantly she has a boyfriend. On the way back Selena fell asleep on my shoulder, and since that day I cant stop thinking about her. Apperantly Selena told Tyler that I seem like a great guy and that we should all hangout again soon. She even asked for my snapchat, and I've been wanting to message her but I dont want to look disrespectful or desperate since she has a boyfriend. Any advice please?????? Like I cant get her out of my head

I cut off a friend of mine do to the fact that he's in a bad crowd with extremely bad connections. My fear is he is gonna show up one day to my house. I never truly cut him off, I just blocked him on all social media and don't have his number so he can't get in contact. The chances are unlikely, but I'm a bit nervous if he chose to show up one day.

My housemate can't cook to save her life. I've already shared my food with her twice and there's no sign of reciprocation- we went shopping today and she bought fruit, bread and chocolate. she doesn't even buy food to make a meal. I was just cooking and she came in the kitchen to watch... A bit random/awkward. We're both upstairs right now while I left it in the oven to bake. I feel obligated to share with her now... thoughts?!

This girl started laughing at my jokes and finding ways to talk to me. Found any way she could to start a conversation. Then she started getting red while talking to me and couldn't stand still hid her face not looking at me. Well she stares at me in class with her head raised and eyebrows lowered touching her face, her lips or biting her nails. While talking at the end of a conversation she's still staring into my eyes and smiling and when I look away she's still staring at me. I have cracked a joke and she sat there in silence staring into my eyes and when I look away she's still staring at me. She did it around her friends. One smiles looking at me. And when we have this eye contact her friend giggles uncomfortably. ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04

Me and this friend had sexual relations and we parted on bad terms. He then is sent to jail. Then he got out of jail. and Today his friend dropped by visit me and we had a drink and talked? I messaged my friend who had just got out of jail and asked him how he was doing, He then asked me how I was doing and mentioned that his friend had mentioned seeing me. So then messaged him back and said oh yeah I saw him and we had a drink and brief chit chat. And he did not messaged me back although it shows that he read my message. Do you think he feels some type of way?

This guy I go to school with was tailgating me so I brake checked him. Then I message him when I get home saying nothing personal I do that whenever I'm being tailgated. Well then he said don't do that learn to drive the law would be on my side if we had a collision. Then next time he's behind me I notice he's an excessive distance away so the next day I say "Hey I notice you were quite a distance away from me when you were behind me yesterday". ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04

Sooo, I met this girl, and we ve been talking for awhile, SO nice, and really funny! She has alot of other friends besides me, they ve wanted to meet me but I sense they re kinda bitchy, so I stay away... She s not though... she seems so genuine.. these past few days she s been messaging me less.. Maybe past... ehhh, 3ish days, oddly enough and always says shes doing something else now If I want to video chat.. I mean maybe she is... its hard to tell.. still a few odd details... hmmm, but ANYWAYS, I had been sending her posts in pms on IG, and her name was gone, when I looked it up I couldn t find it either... SO, I asked her about it, she said, "hmm, thats odd, my name is @________" Still nothing. I dropped the conversation..... I looked on my other IG account and sure enough yep, when I looked her up I found her account I know she blocked me but shes, despite being a little less active, acting like nothing s wrong, I want to bring it up, but I m not sure how, since its not like there any obvious reasonings, and I dont want her to get all offended, or somehow turn it around on me, since, again theres no obvious reasonings I can point to... I dont want to be rude either... hmmm *UPDATE, lol, just so you don't get this confused, i'm a girl to, were friends. This isn't a situation where I'm a creepy guy or some **** XD

My ex best friend messaged me on instagram in Febuary and I started talking to her again... the reason she is my ex best friend is because of how I supposedly 'treated her', she told all her friend's and they ended up hating me, she told her boyfriend and he ended up hating me too. She even basically blamed me for her bf breaking up with her.. I don't know if this whole thing is a good idea. My mom even says it's not and even though I am 19 and an adult, my moms words still mean something to me.. I just don't know because part of me wants to start over and the other part knows things are going to eventually fall apart! She was so angry about me she even said things that were untrue because 'she was angry' and she was pissed off at me for saying things that were true.. she talked about how she was so mad at me she wanted to beat me up and how one lift and slam to the ground would shatter my bones, her ex bf said if I tried to fight her he'd get involved.. I even asked her ex bfs sister to tell him to leave me alone and she got pissed at me because I treated someone she cares about like **** apparently but she didnt defend me when he joked about killing me.. she even said its like I 'use' her to get guys, like I'm so ugly I couldn't get a boyfriend without her. Or she was mad her exes tried to go after me but what girl wants to be second pick? If I stop talking to her, I am worried she will tell everyone un true stuff about me again

There's this girl who lived in my college dorm last year. You could kind of say we're friends, but we're not really that close. Anyway, on Friday she posted a photo of herself on a tropical beach somewhere and smiling (she was wearing a diving suit, not a bikini). I commented "Where is this?," she answers "Bermuda," and then I say "Beautiful. Oh, and nice background." All the other comments on the photo were her friends complimenting her and telling her the pick was awesome. I'm just now realizing what I said might've been kind of creepy. Was it?

I have a boy best friend who used to be my boyfriend but we decided it would be best if we just stayed best friends so it wouldn t ruin our friendship and I m wondering what is some things that are fun that I can do with both of my best friends.

I have amazing friends that I have known for many years and we have been by each others side through thick and thin. The memories we do share I will always appreciate. But a few of my friends I am starting to feel like we have nothing in common. One of them in particular I went to high school with. She went to law school and is a very capable woman. But I am realizing more and more how selfish and self centered she is. The other day I spend 3 hours shopping and lunching with her. It was exhausting for me. It was all about her. She is so spoiled talking about the things her parents give her and going on and on about her appearance. And the few times we talk about me and my life it is quickly dismissed by her stories that top mine. I think she is used to people bonding over problems. I have a husband. If I have issues in life I talk to him. I don't want to talk smack about my husband like she does about her bf. I don't know. My husband suggested that maybe I try to be open to her and tell her how I feel or we would slowly lose touch. But how do you talk about these things? Especially when they are one sided? Maybe it's just a normal phase in life?

My mom and step-dad went away for their one year anniversary last night so, me and my younger brother had the house to ourselves for the weekend. My brother invited a lot of his friends over like ... 9 guys. I stayed in my room for the most part last night. I'm honestly scared in all honesty, My bed faces the door ( a day bed ) so right when someone opens it I can see them. My door was opended super wide and I guess he did not notice me opening my eyes... he was rubbing his dick in pants looking at me while I was sleep. I was frozen. I kept my eyes low squinting to see exactly who it was they had their hood on. I yawned and turned around and he slowly shut my door close. I still don't know what friend it was... it looked like a rec hoodie. I also do not remember leaving my door unlocked last night.... I never do. I never leave my door unlocked. Esoecially with a house full of boys. The key to my door is above my parents door to their room. It's the key to unlock all the doors in the house. I'm thinking he knew that somehow abd used it to unlock my door. What should I do? Do I confront him about it? Maybe he was drunk? Do I tell my brother? It could of been worse. I'm really scared because I sleep so hard at night something bad could of happended. If I do confront him about it what do I say? I do not know him well at all I just see him wjen he comes in and out my house. I'm 22. My brothers friend is 21.

I have a best friend, we have a very special bond. We have been best friends for 2 years, we have shared many life experiences together, share tons in common, we are kindred spirits.. We are both women, we have huge age differences. I am 20, she is 56, although we just get a long so greatly. It is like we have known each other for a veryyyy long time. We talk on the phone every day, even multiple times a day. She always calls me in the morning at 7 am while shes driving to work, during her breaks she will call, whether we are having good or bad days we always talk. Why do you think she calls and talks to me every day?

My friend is 21 and doesn't have a car or her license and I'm tired of driving her around everywhere. She asked me to take her to the mall today for her birthday outfits and I said yes but I just really don't feel like it am I being mean?

I had a roommate college when we were both 18 and she was like a skeleton. She wasn't naturally thin because I saw what and how much she'd eat and she told me that she doesn't eat much because she doesn't get hungry. She'd eat like dry toast for breakfast, a grilled chicken breast for lunch then dry pitta and an apple for dinner. She looked anorexic but I don't think she was mentally. Anyway, 5 years later I caught up with beer on Facebook and saw her recent pics and she's still very skeletal but appears to be living a normal life. She has a boyfriend, she goes on holidays, she works. What gives? I thought people who make themselves unhealthily then get seriously ill?

I have a crush on this girl from a place I go to a lot. I've been talking to her a lot and almost every time we see each other there. She's a bookworm kind of girl that's older than me. I act so clumsy around her and she always says my acts make her laugh. She saw me carry a book and asked if she could read it and would give it to me sometime later. I lent it to her. I thought about her and went to the bookstore to buy her a book. I went up to her and told her I thought about her and I was so embarrassed after saying that. I explained that I saw a rose on a book and thought about her. She smiled and still was as I rambled on about why i got her a book. I told her I could erase the note I wrote on the book and she started giggling. She took it and said I was sweet.

29 woman here. I don't know if this is a crisis or something, but I need HELP. I was never the one to have many friends or be the life of the party. Recently I also realized I have no real friends to count on, with my current ones, I'm always the one to initiate things, and nobody's first choice for anything. My high school best friend is quite similar to me, but life is unfolding so much differently for him. We both are hard workers, but his job takes him to exotic places around the world while mine takes me to mental breakdowns. He has such a generous company, that he doesn't even use his salary when he's on business trips. I have to fight for every payment to pay rent and have a decent life. His family is healthy, financially secure and supportive, and they have so much fun together. My family is falling apart, my mom is sick and my dad has a drinking problem, so we rarely can do anything together... To top all that, I m single - I seem to not get any attention from the opposite sex, apart from nasty strangers on the street or horny teens that get angry when I reject them. Meanwhile my high school friend, he has tons of friends and girls begging when they are going to see him next in X country, tumbling over eachother to post a picture with him. So here I am, asking myself what the F am I supposed to do to turn my life around, I hate how insecure I am and I always have to fight tooth and nail for EVERYTHING. I just can't stop comparing, I am miserable, help :(

Okay so this is serious question, so basically I have been a dancer all my life ( I'm 15 and I'm a freshmen in highschool ) and I have all this time becoming a pretty good dancer I would say, I'm known at school for being super flexible and pretty talented at it but I'm getting kinda bored at dance and I'm not rlly improving because it's just not what it used to be. It might be due to the fact that no one at my studio rlly likes me that much because I have a dorky personality and I don't respond well to people trying to boss me around and a lot kids there try to boss me around and I always have a snarky comeback so I guess it's kinda my fault. The reason I want to join cheer is because my best friend is on the team and the coach apparently talks about me in practice as like inspiration to get more flexible so I know she already likes me but I don't wanna give up all my experience at dance but it's rlly something I wanna do but I know if I quit dance my parents will be super disappointed in me and I would talk to them about this but my parents aren't rlly open to discussing feelings n such. I would join best year so 10th grade and I feel like highschool is about trying things out and I kinda just wanna try something new.

So, yesterday, my online friend admitted to an eating disorder in a group chat we re in with me, another friend and his boyfriend. I am very worried and don t want to say the wrong thing. I just really want to help him. What can I do?

Everyone on my friends list gets at least a dozen birthday wishes by mid morning. I got 4 for the entire day. Will people judge me because hardly anyone cares about me enough to take 2 seconds to type something?

She called me ugly, she said no guy would ever like me, she said I had no friends. She made me really insecure with that I mean I was insecure before but since I met her I used to be happy and then I looked in their mirror and though about how everyone thought I was ugly and I cried. Also she made me take nude pictures when I told her I didn't want to cause she made me feel bad cause they guy she was sending them to would have gotten mad at her if I didn't. We were at a party today for a friend and she didn't have service so she took my phone and wouldn't give it back cause she wanted to be on Snapchat. The whole entire time I was like can I have my phone back and she said you don't need it it's not like you have any friends. I was talking to my mom to pick me up and she was like when should I pick you up and I said before the party ended but I was driving my friend home but for some reason she kept changing her mind from hen make your mother wait for me to I want to leave. So I texted my mom she's annoying me so much rn so if she doesn't come in the car then we will leave her there. Which by the way she's said and done to me. Since she had my phone she read my messages and she took a photo of it and late at night posted it on instragram saying fake friend. I was honestly just telling my friend how I was going to stop being friends with her and know I'm crying cause we have same friends and I'm afraid she will make me lose my friends. So was I wrong was I fake and horrible???

up the phone when I call or does not read my texts nor return my texts as quickly as he used to? 2. He suggests we go to counseling to improve our relationship, but then makes little effort to find a counselor? I have even told him we are in a crisis situation. or 3. He tells me I am brilliant at financial / real estate advice, but when he asks for advice and I give it to him, he very rarely takes the advice. So which ones, if any, would be considered emotional abuse, AND WHY or WHY NOT?

This is a question that has been asked a lot I know. But me and this group of friends have actually become quite close. We've talked and have heard each others voices and it's just nice. They are above my age so I said I was two years older then I really am. I'm not sure if I should just leave the chats at this point because they were talking about have age limits. I really don't wanna lie and I have a lot of fun but everything's all messy and I'm not sure if I should just go. I know I shouldn't of lied but I also knew I wouldn't be accepted if I didn't. Thanks for answering. Have a good day.

should i call my friend tomorrow, i have a little crush on her but ive been nervous about calling her i wanna ask her to hang out sometime soon cause i havnt hanged with her in a few weeks when we went hiking with a friend. i told her i would call her the other day but never did cause i got nervous i dont know why. but yeah she never texts me first but when plans are made with me she wants to come so idk. shes been wanting to hang with me this summer. plus she shows signs of liking me. but yeah should i call her

i was at my friends pool party and my friends sister made several comments like "wow you should cover up there are boys around". it was a one piece bathing suit that wasn't even that revealing, i just have a big chest so my boobs will always be noticeable no matter what i wear, especially in a bathing suit. (i know this wasn't out of jealously bc she's a 30 year old masculine lesbian btw.) i feel like this was an inappropriate thing for her to say, let alone loudly as a joke in front of 10+ people i barely know. i was beyond embarrassed especially because i'm 16 and already uncomfortable with my body most of the time. my friend and i both stayed in bathing suits because it was a pool party and we were probably going to swim again! it would have been weird for me to get out of the pool and go get dressed right away when my friend stayed in hers. her sister literally had the same thing on (different bathing suit but very similar, would've had just as much cleavage as me if she had a bigger chest.) so i was very annoyed when she said "if my sister was wearing that i would tell her to go inside and put on a shirt". i tried to laugh it off in the moment but it made me feel really insecure and embarrassed. i felt like it wasn't her place at all. she is always putting people on the spot and tries to intimidate everyone. i feel like i don't know her well enough to comment on her behavior, so how can i react next time she embarrasses me? because i'm positive it will happen again.

She said I clean up really nice and she's interested in hanging out with me. She said I should come to a casino with her when there isn't many people around, she likes it quiet. On Facebook, she said she wants a boyfriend who can buy her a motorcycle. Although she never asked me to buy her one and I told her I couldn't. I'm attracted to her physically. I'd consider going out with her. She asked me if I found a job in my college major.

I always had mixed feelings about this since I had people who did care and help me but they mainly just wanted to be hi-bye acquaintances. I always felt the lack of intimacy when sharing my heart with them, especially of the opposite sex so I normally do not connect with women that do not want to connect with me. I understand the issue of men and women being friends, but I just do not feel comfortable sharing my heart with someone normally that does not want anything to do with me since it involves a connection. What are your thoughts?