I feel really low right now. Nine months ago I lost my mum after a year long battle with cancer. Three months after my partner and I decided to have a termination of pregnancy (please don't judge) and I have regretted my decision ever since and will for life. Fast forward three months, on a weekend that marked my mums 6 months anniversary I broke down, I had a huge argument with my partner and I ended up self-harming. I felt awful after and have sought counselling as a result. Then my best friend moved away and my bf left me five days after he left because he didn't feel the same about me since that argument. There was other rows following that argument about moving in together but my bf said he tried for "2 weeks" to try get the "in love" feeling back but couldn't. Two weeks. He said he felt that love feeling coming and going during that time but subsequently ended it two months ago because he felt it was the right thing to do and severed all ties with me. I am so hurt. My dad also has cancer but we aren't close. I have friends but again im not that close to anyone, only the people I have lost. I miss my mum so much and feel my grief process is beginning now. Tomorrow I receive my final year results and feel so lonely that I don't have my mum to share it with. I would really like to hear some advice or words of hope tonight as I feel really low thanks

My bf [23] has two younger sisters [18 and 16], his family lives about an hour away and we visit them once a month or so for a day or two. We have been together for a year. I am much closer to my family, especially siblings, than he is with his. Not that it matters much, but generally I don't snuggle/cuddle with either of my brothers. I guess what bothers me is I am not used to this behavior with siblings.. So if him and I are sitting closely on the couch together, his sister will put her legs over his lap, or when we are watching a movie together, his sister will cuddle up to him and put her arms around him. I find it a bit annoying because if I am not completely on top of him, they will come over and get on top of him, even if he is leaning on me or snuggling on me. I just find it weird, and I really like his sisters despite this aspect of them. I just wonder if I will have to live with this? Or if its odd and possessive of them because I am there maybe? Or maybe they will soon grow out of this when they get their own boyfriends?

He only has a mom and I live with my grandparents and brother. I ve met his mother and really talked to her once when we went to the movies. He and I are both in 8th grade when school starts back up again. He is 13 amd i am 14. When I met his mom, she took us to get food, to see a movie, and to get ice cream. I liked her and she seemed to like me and my grandma got her number to call her if she needed. They get along pretty nicely. He has come over to my house to do a project but I also had another friend over. He has been skating with me, some friends, and my grandparents. He and I have went to the movies last week joined by a friend and my brother. I want to ask him to go camping with my grandparents, brother, and me. We would all be in one camper. My grandparents in the room at the top of the camper, my brother on the air mattress, me on the couch/bed, and he would sleep on the bed/table.

My SO and I just had our first baby and we're engaged. But since I got pregnant it's like a new side of him showed up that I dont necessarily like. He doesnt seem to think about other people when deciding to do things or say. And ever since our baby was born he doesnt seem to care about me that much. He comes over (we dont live together) to my house so much now but it feels like it's not to see me it's just to see the baby that he sometimes holds. Shes only a month old so theres not much he can do besides hold her, but he only holds her a couple hours in a day. And one night our baby had to eat just as dinner was coming out, he asked if I wanted him to get me something and I declined because I wouldnt be able to eat and breastfeed at the same time anyway, but after I was done feeding her i had to comfort her and he didnt offer to take her at all, just continued watching a movie. He never asked me again if I needed him to take her at all. In fact he got more food for himself after looking at me. I didnt eat that day at all. I was too depressed. The days when hes not in my house, i feel, are the better days. When hes home I feel severely depressed. I know he loves our baby and I really dont want to take her away from him at all. I just dont think I can be with him anymore and I feel awful because that means she'll have to grow up in separate households. But I dont know if I can bring myself to tell him this, hes very emotional and not necessarily in ways I can handle.

This started about 9 months ago when I heard from numerous coworkers that she had a crush on me. From there it's progressed from her asking me to coffee, to asking me to grab beers. She asked me out for beers like 6-7 times over 3 months . I always said no but then I finally caved thinking I would use the opportunity to kill her hopes. After drinks she's like "I want another date" and I said "That was not a date, that was coworkers grabbing beers. I don't want anything with you besides being coworkers, and I am not interested in going out for drinks again." For a few weeks she went silent but she slowly came back to being chatty and assertive. She also hangs out at places near where I live, hoping she'll bump into me, even though she lives far from here. The latest is...I found out through a coworker she plans on expressing her love to me. Almost everyone in the office of 150 people knows she wants me, and almost everyone knows I'm not interested. How can I get her to back off without reporting her to HR?

Hi! so my boyfriend is turning 15 in about 10 days and I have no idea what to get him, I would get him a video game but I honestly have no idea what game he would even want. He loves music, football, food, video games and he can also play the bass and guitar. My budget is 50 dollars or less, I do want to get him something really nice. We have been together for 6 months almost 7. I would prefer to buy him something in person instead of ordering it. thanks xx

How do I tell my strict religious parents that I want to be a man? That I feel uncomfortable in dresses and like guys and girls, but I want to have facial hair and short hair, I am not depressed, just want to be happy living the way I want and not how mum and dad want I am Not Muslim

What do you call A guy who is 37, good looking, makes 20 and hour, 30 hours a weekkk and has n o wife or kids ever and is straight? he a weirdo or what? Doesny own his own home but rents instead. Just started making 20 bucks an hour too. He works out. This guy lives across the street from me. If someone hasn't had any kids or a wife by his age there must be something wrong with them. He isn't normal Also 20 bucks an hour at 37? Total loser. Only brining home maybe 400.lol. I also think he moved back with his mother. Me on the other hand am 23 and a nurse who's married and having a kid. My husband is a firefighter and makes more than him lmao.

Earlier this evening I've had a co-worker who I barely know tell me that I'm a really nice guy, I've thanked her for the compliment, then she tells me that I really am because I'm always nice, friendly and helpful when she needs my assistance with something, I've told her I feel everyone should be really nice to others.

Since Di won't wear what I dictate to her, I have given in to my true sexuality. I WANT Vim, what shall I do?

My friends doesnt give a damn if I'm sad about my close friends death. She passed away from pneumonia 3 months ago and my friends are accusing me of making myself the victim of grieving. My best guy friend, "It's been three weeks?! Get over it!! He said this to me on Facebook. "He would not want you to be sad so suck it up and be a woman!" My sister said to him, "Excuse me! My little sister just lost her close friend. Do you have any idea how hard if is for her? You are nothing but a selfish, insensitive jerk!" I scolded at him that he is my friend and why is he being such an *** all of a sudden and friends are suppose to understand and back off don't ever speak to me again! Then he fired back at her and said, "MY Facebook, so I can say the hell I want to say! I don't have to feel sorry for her! She is being weak!" Then at me, "I'm just telling you the truth! Fine if you're going to be this way, then stay the hell away from me! You selfish jerk!" Then he blocked me and cut all contact with me. My best friend was blunt and said, "Look I know it's been 3 months but you have got to move on! Your friend would want you to be happy right? So you CAN'T be sad all the time. It's going to effect your life and she would want you to move on and live life. Be happy." I didn't answer. Then she said, "I'm just telling you the truth." My other friends make him a about her death and made fun of me for being a crybaby. This shocked me because they're my friends. Why are friends so blunt? @Lindsey: I don't believe this? You AGREED with her? I'm very depressed and sad and she had the right to say that? People are so cruel in the world. I miss my close friend so much. I'm not sad all the time but I'm depressed. My other friends are starting to fade away from me because of my sadness. My dad said, "Well your best friend is right. If you're sad all the time then it's going to bring others down and people won't wanna be around you. It's good to have a best friend that is blunt." Then my dad said, "Look it's okay to be sad sometimes but not all the time and she is right about it. I know that wasn't want you wanna hear but it's the truth. You NEEDED to hear it. As for your guy friends and others cut them out of your lives. They're being jerks. Your best friend on the other hand don't cut her off. She is being a true friend stating tne facts. It's better to have a blunt best friend than one that will sugarcoat ****. Just saying." @Lindsey: So you're also saying that my guy friend had the right to say those awful things to me?