To put it less broad, I dont necessarily mean those committed the worst crimes, those are for another story. I mean those that dont have best traits. I am possibly what you would call lazy or, maybe not selfish but not selfness, and I sometimes wonder if I deserve the kind of happiness my parents have. Someone to call a girlfriend or wife, someone to call son or daughter, I mean the happiness of a good life with a family. I am not the best kind of person which is one reason I dont go out and date, I dont want to bring someone into my crappy life, no job though looking, still live at home. That got me wondering if I do deserve that kind of happiness.

I know this is petty asf to talk about but I'm too anxious. So, I didn't realize that Imessage can't delete messages from both ends. Now I think I spammed my friend. I couldn't do damage control cause well, it was too late. He responded and we just responded back and forth. Do you think he sees me as desperate now?

I was unconscious at a party a few weeks ago. I went upstairs and wanted to shower before I went to bed. I got to my bed and just slept naked. Anyways I woke up because I was about to ***, some random girl was blowing me. Did I cheat. This girl came upstairs while I was asleep and did all this without even asking

I had trouble opening a filing cabinet today (7th day a the job). When I walked by, I overheard my boss saying "She didn't know how to open a FILING CABINET"...... Thus tarnishing my reputation. I am feeling dumb and demotivated. Was it rude for my boss to be sharing my mistake with the other seasoned workers?

Mi ex hace 2 meses rompió conmigo la forma en la que lo hizo fue no adecuada, cuando estaba enfermo y por wattsapp . Después semana tras semana me estuvo enviando mensajes sobre qué esperaba que estuviera recuperándome . Hace dos diAs me escribió un mensaje de felicitación de cumpleaños y con caritas y corazoncitos . Ella es de 23 años , Sin embargo ella nunca me ha dicho que quiera volver conmigo ni nada por el estilo. Yo hoy le escribí esto :" yo estoy bien y deseo que estés bien tu y que sigas adelante en tus proyectos de vida. Se que en forma repentina terminaste conmigo ¿por que? ... no se . Ya no importa , esto me desconcertó pero respete el Haberme dejado, sin embargo el tiempo ya ha pasado y ya me siento con mi corazón sano y no te guardo sentimientos negativos, por lo que te envío mis mejores deseos para que en el futuro seas feliz. Que opinan yo a esta persona la quise mucho pero sentí que me corto de una manera muy fea y no quise hacerla sentir mal al final ella solo respondió : "Gracias" y no dijo más. Que opinan

My former fiance's mother is in town and I have never formally met her. She wants to meet me for the first time now that she is in the country and will be in time for a while. Here's the catch: my former fiance took his own life in the beginning of this year. She is still grieving, as am I, and she would like to meet me still, even though he is no longer with us. The problem for me is that I am not entirely certain I really want to meet her. I am worried it will drag up feelings and stressors I have either gotten over or pushed aside and I don't want to derail my healing progress. BUT I also know she feels like she needs to meet someone who her son was with for over 2.5 years, who had a significant impact on his life. And since she recently discovered his suicide note (entirely addressed to me), I know she still feels like I have some type of connection to her. While I am grieving, her grief is so much worse than mine ever could be. I want to help her as much as I can, but I also don't want to hurt myself. I am at a loss here.

This is a little embarrassing to talk about, but over the years I have been sexually assaulted twice and raped once. The first time I was assaulted was before I even lost my virginity. Since then, I have never gotten any pleasure from sex. My body will naturally be stimulated, like I'll get wet. But I don't feel any pleasure. I have no interest in it or any other physical things other than cuddling. Anything past kissing tends to give me anxiety. I've avoided dating for a long time because of this, since most guys expect sex at some point. But it freaks me out. Now I've met a really amazing guy, and he's being really patient with me. I'm just sick of this and want to know how to get past it. I want to enjoy sex and be able to please my partner. I hate feeling like I'm a freak. What should I do? Has anyone else dealt with similar issues and have advice?

So me and my girlfriend broke up last week but we're still friends because we both still want each other in our lives. We were arguing a lot and the relationship became unhealthy so we decided to end it and just be friends. We were about to move in together in August which is what is really making it hard for me.. I still love her more than anything else in the world and I know that I want to marry her one day. But now it's over and I feel like we won't get back together but how can I be happy again? I've tried hanging out with friends but when I get home at night I feel alone and cry.. I've tried talking to other girls but I don't have any Sparks with them and I only think of her.. and plus I've been noticing her more stressed out lately and struggling so I just want to help her with everything because I hate seeing her struggle.. what should I do?

When I was at the river a few days ago a coulple of my girlfriends were drunk out their ***. Well they started making out with each other and it kinda turned me on. Is that ok/natural? Considering one of them I actually like and wanna date?

He s having a rough time financially, I don t have any Bill s. I ve already taken care of the condo. He s an older guy that I have no interest with, it will just be for a good time. He is 51 I am 34.

I've been with him since 2012. It's been 6 years and we have 2 sons. I'm 32 and he is 35. He has in the past and so have I. Well, I figured he was doing it again because he keeps his phone locked. So he has been texting a girl named Alana. Her number is saved. She has sent him numerous photos of herself. She texts him 'I miss you' and he says 'I miss you too'. He calls this girl pet names like 'babycakes' and 'babes'. He has also told this girl I love you repeatedly. When he finishes his night shift, he goes to her house after work and he spends time with her. That's what the text says. He has kissed her and given her oral sex as well as slept with her. This has been going on for years. I love him. He is good to me and a good father to our sons. He hasn't proposed to me. He told his cousin that he could himself settling down one day but why not with me? He tells me he loves me and cares for me but the girl is shorter than me and looks to weigh more than I do. Whe is not prettier than me by far but why does he care for her so much? What is it about her and why can't she leave my family alone?

If you knew in the future that your friend who is in a relationship with someone else would have a chaotic marriage, would it ever be ethical to encourage breakup the relationship? Consider the case where the relationship turns into a marriage and then the marriage turns into chaos because the much of the population are control-freak males or gold-digger women ... because everyone is selfish to some degree. The majority of the people hate to be alone so they quickly rush into relationships and then get married at a young age. And you can see this because most people over the age of 25 are married before they are settled into their careers. Therefore people in their quest for companionship often hide their true colors before they get married so they can have someone for themselves. Then once the people are married, they can no longer hide that they are control freaks who hit their spouses if they don't get what they want or only there for your money, etc. For instance, the guy may be an attractive alpha male to attract a mate so he's luscious but he knows nothing of compassion so he looks good for her, but he is not a good catch. Or is it that these people are nice people to begin with and then they get corrupted in the marriage? Then several years later your friend is in a chaotic marriage. But at this point getting a divorce is not beneficial because divorces split-up the estate often not in your favor, inconsiderate of how hard you worked for all your resources. continued ... Now your friend may not get to visit his/her children very often and so the children will grow up in a broken household not knowing what love is and the cycle of abuse continues. So since more than 50% of marriages end in divorce does that mean that it may be ethical to encourage the breakup of 50% of your friends relationships. And if you didn't encourage the breakup of the relationship, then now your friend is screwed in the future and you could have stopped it. But love is blind, people don't reveal their true colours till marriage, and you can't know the future. So now it's 20 years in the future and you should have spoken up. But you didn't You could have saved your friends from hardship. Why didn't you? Of course, some marriages are good and wonderful, but it's not a majority case. So if more than 50% of marriages end in divorce does that mean that 50% of the time when lovers say "Till Death Do Us Part" they are lying? *I apologize for any typos, but I think this is a good philosophical discussion*