I came home early the other day and my wife had my friends penis in her mouth. I got mad and thought she was cheating. But then she told me he had been bitten by a snake and she was just trying to get the poison out. Now I feel like a jerk since she was just trying to be helpful. Should I get her flowers or chocolate to say I'm sorry?

So my husband works with this woman who is always telling him how wonderful he is and how attractive he is, she also always hugs him when she sees him, all this even though she knows he is taken. They don't text or talk on the phone or meet outside of work, but still.... The only reason I even know this is because I use to work with my husband and so I talk to some of the people from his work and they've told me about this woman there otherwise he doesn't tell me about her. So, how do I tell her to back off my man ?

First off I'm not proud of this, but it's just the way it is for me... I've been married to my husband 8 years, we're both 34 and Christian Iraqi. I care so deeply for him, and he has always been the most amazing friend a person can have. But lately I've been asking myself if I'm really in love with him, due to something going on for a while that I try to ignore, but it's eating me inside these days. So way before we were married I had a relationship with a guy I knew from my family's old neighborhood in Detroit when they first came from Iraq. He was black and fit with an attitude. He's the type I'm most attracted to, but I couldn't stay with him after my family found out and flipped! They are strict in culture and don't allow blacks to marry us. Me and him were on and off for almost two years, and let me tell you it was the most mind blowing, amazing, painful (temporarily) and pleasurable sex I ever had, and he was huge. I miss that. I dont get excited with my husband anymore, the attraction is gone. It's just hard to be with him when I'm not satisfied and want something else. We barely have sex because of me, it takes a toll on him too. I still love him but I want to venture out and find my old flame, or a black man with the same features and date him. I can't get these fantasies out of my head and I cant stop wanting to live them. I can't go on like this! Why me? How can I live a normal happily married life with my husband? Please has anyone gone through something similar?

So the point is that my husband is a good man. he is very beloved and takes care of me. he wants to promise him obnoxious obedience but this is to say that his opinion about our future and important issues is decisive, Of course he has to respect my opinion - I m afraid that if he promises me he will not respect me - it is bad for me to listen to me does he look after me and support me?what do you think about such an oath?

Hello All, I was in a frustrating marriage for more than 6yrs where no sex was involved and other issues. Finally decided to part ways. Now the application is in court and hopefully in couple of months all should be done and dusted. My Question is - When you are in a relationship you are so use to the convenience and habits around the other person and kind of miss that person sometimes and feels very lonely no matter how many friends you have etc. Still going to bed alone at night sometime hurts. How do one deal with such stage of life post separation/divorce? Any experienced ones?

Please someone explain.

I've been shortly married to this woman and the other night she tricked me into going to buy something; and when i got home she left me. Im not too impressed about her; after marriage i realized how wicked, selfish, immature and irrisponsible she is. She cant do basic house chore task nor does she put any effort; she lies often and everything she touches turns into a mess. So now she is asking to come back; what for ? By tricking me and leaving me she betrayed the very basic foundation of matrimony. She even hang up on me all night when i told her that if she came right back this minute i'd forget about it - she said ok and didnt show up. I told her this house is not a hotel or that she is staying on holiday at my expense without ever doing anything useful for us; incl cooking. How should i behave ? Should i divorce ? I dont see this going anywhere fruitful.

We split after 9 years, saw other people & were drawn back to each other. Things are great, much better but we don't seem to have any friends we can socialise with. They all settled or moved away & I fear the same problems will arise again. Is it me?

I get why you have to give notice of marriage but I don't get why they want money for it. We're the ones getting married so surely if any money is involved THEY should give us money as a wedding gift?

We are married for 17years. My wife is still hot.? And i like to watch my wife with someone...watch her getting satisfied. Told her once some time back and she got shocked. But after some more times, she just smiles naughtily now. And in night when we cuddle each other she asks jokingly about that proposal... What do you suggest

Okay I been with my fiancé for 5 years we are getting married next month. Problem is I never met his family and this is why since day 1 they got so jealous and envious when my fiancé started spending all his time with me and found happiness his sister is controlling and tried to break us up numerous of times. She even called me racist words not just her but three other people in his family did too. When he moved in with me his mom got mad and upset because she said her son was abandoning her by moving out with me like what? How does that make sense because of their drama racist words hatred it made me never want to meet them or be around them we are getting married in a month and not sure wat to do since I really don't want to invite any of them advice please