not romantically or sexually. you see when I was in 6th grade the woman teacher I had once worked with my mom and substituted for her when I was born and one time she put her arm around my shoulder while we were walking and talking and sometimes I'd kind of touch her butt like one time she was bending over and my finger moved on it like my finger tip moved up on it twice and she never said or did anything

Would you engage in romantic sex with a hookup or FWB (friends with benefits)? If you did engage in romantic sex with your FWB, would you be able to keep emotions out of it especially over a prolonged period of time? How do you define romantic sex? Is romantic sex something you only engage in with someone you have feelings for? In this hypothetical situation, we have two friends with benefits, whom engage in sex that they both admittedly say is romantic. One knows they have feelings for the other but does not know how the other feels. What's your opinion?

I just find it weird and what it means, she is married and way older than my boyfriend. Anyways she asked him if he had a girlfriend he said yes then asked him why she hasn't met me then he said because I lived (far) and she was like why does she live far? And he said because she's from there then she asked him how we met and all this. I just found it weird when people ask me if I have a boyfriend I answer yes and that's it or sometimes they will ask a following question if we live together which I answer no.

Went on a few dates with a guy from work. Got the vibe after the 3rd date because his texts became less personal and more like 3 word answers with no intiating by him that he wasn't into me or maybe I was being overbearing on the phone so I backed off. When he questioned me about my texting less I was up front and told him about the vibe I was getting. He became agitated and stopped making plans for outings altogether but still texted back and forth periodically. Fast forward a month later and he try's to give me a birthday card. I nicely told him he didn't have to do that and again he got mad, stomped off, didnt give me the card, and doesn't even respond to my text conversations anymore outside of work. I enjoyed our friendship and outings and have tried to make amends is several different ways, but still he doesn't converse with me outside of work. Should I just let this go and hope time will heal or should I say something to him?

Hi this may seem pretty amateur haha. So I met this girl while on vacation in Arizona who lives a few hours away from my home. We've been talking everyday for the past 3 weeks and this very uncomfortable thing happened along the way (not between me and her don't worry lmao) So she was with one of her guy friends and this guy has been after her for the longest. He noticed that we've been texting and she's mentioned my name to him on some occasions, as she's also done with her girlfriends. He finally asked what she and I were and she told me that she told him that I was "more than just a friend." I didn't know how to take that given I've only had one girlfriend for like a month. I can see myself getting into a serious relationship with her given that were bother eerily similar, but of course I can't be absolutely sure given the length of time I've known her. I just wanted some kind of feedback as I plan to ask here where she sees us going with our current "friendship." Nothing major. But, given I've never really had a gauge on females to the extent that others may have I feel like I should get different perspectives. Thanks!!

Ok, so I am a 15 year old boy. My freshman year of highschool ends this week. I've had a crush on this girl since the beginning of April. I'm friends with her, and I've told her best friends about me liking her. They haven't told her yet, but said they're going to. But here's the problem, she has been in a relationship with this dude for two months now, and they **** on a regular basis. Her friends said it doesn't look like she'll be breaking up with him ANYTIME SOON. I don't know how I should go about this. Should I try to move on? If she's single at the beginning of sophomore year should I just ask her out then? Please give advice.

My girlfriend is 19, I'm 22. We have been dating for 3 months. I don't know how to say this but she's just. Edgy. She used to have a drug problem, and clearly still isn't the most mentally healthy. She's on heavy doses for anti-depressants. Other than her obvious flaws, she looks like a model and is brilliant, probably too smart for her own good, and never fails to make me laugh. And she's just really cuddly. Anyway. She's by far the best sex I've ever had. Early on she told me she was into extreme BDSM, I thought it was hot. It kind of got weirder as we went. She told me her ex put a gun to her head during sex (consensually), and she rape role played a lot but never had a real safe word. I really did enjoy dominating her. Recently I hit her in bed, as she usually likes, and her eyes welled up with tears. I was really confused. I didn't bring it up again and we just watched netflix. Eventually we were talking and it came out that she was molested by family members as a kid, then raped on her first date. I don't think I can be as dominant with her anymore. Is this a dumb mentality? I'm just really sad.

My girlfriend is mute, and she said she's been mute since birth and hasn't suffered any injuries that could have caused it. Although she can't speak, she can giggle, moan and make squeaking noises. She hasn't been to therapy, and once again she was born like this and it's not any social disorders or autism.

I would never rape anyone or pull a knife etc but how the HELL am I going to get laid. I think I look good at this point and I have self esteem issues but I just can't get anyone. I used to be fat for years and I don't get all those stupid mind games like if a woman flips her hair she wants to talk. That is like as stupid and unreasonable if I said I was going to pull a knife etc in parking lot.

I ended up asking him cause it came up in conversation and he felt bad but he answered honestly that he's done it a few times. We graduated high school about 6 years ago and it's proabably been three years since we've seen this girl but it's made me extremely uncomfortable. I'm having trouble even looking at him the same! I don't care if he watches porn or even that he looked at this girls porn! I mean who wouldn't be curious about a high school friend doing porn? But the fact that he got off to it is making me disgusted by him. Other than this we have such an amazing relationship. He's seriously so perfect and treats me so good and I don't want to ruin it by letting this get in the way. Long story short, someone please make me feel better about this!!! Ps were long distance cause he's in the army stationed in Tennessee

So I've known this girl for about a year now, and she's a grade under me (I'm a sophomore, and she's a freshman). We're in a band together and we talk all the time. She's really nice to me and seems to like me as a person and everything. But she has a boyfriend who is also a freshman who she's been with for about a year I think. They seem pretty happy together but sometimes they don't get along well. I haven't told her how I feel, but I really really like her and connect with her, and we're really good friends. So at the moment I'm just good friends with her, wondering if she'd go out with me if she was single. What do y'all think? I don't feel like it would be easy to move on, I see her like everyday.

This guy I was close friends with for 15 years just randomly stopped talking to me for no reason... he always looks at my snap stories-He always reads my messages to him on Facebook (like happy birthday, and I miss you, please let me know what I did to push you away) but still no response what do I do now?

I am a 22 year old man and like to shave my facial hair completely. My girlfriend is picky about my facial hair and tells me she won't give up sex until I grow some facial hair. I am wondering if my girlfriend is the only one that makes me grow facial hair in order for me to have sex with her? I currently have a short trimmed goatee that satisfies her, at times she make me grow a 5 o clock shadow, but if I shave it off, she won't give it up if I ask her for some! Is this normal for her to act this way? I do love her to death.

Let's be honest women do not want the kind of guy that has never hit or cheated on a woman anymore since it seems like the only kind of guys they go with are the Controlling and abusive type. I have spent 41 years trying to find someone to be with and it seems as though now aday's if your a good man with a good heart your not needed and I really don't know what to do anymore but to start to be the kind of guy I feel a woman wants rather than be myself....since being myself don't work anymore....It hurts to even consider being an abusive guy but I really don't know what else to do and I really don't want to spend the rest of my life alone....I grew up wanting to be a Father and a loving Husband to a woman and that dream don't look like its going to come true.

So the grocery stores cashier is like a friend we always chat laugh. today he asked me he said can i ask u something? i said sure he said do u have a bf or gf i said none why he said i heard ppl talking and wanted to ask i said what he said after hesitation that a guy who is wearing scrubs came to him one day after i left the store and asked him if he knows anything about me if i have a bf or gf? he said to him that im only his customer. the thing is i was trained in a hospital and i applied to many jobs and we have a small community everybody knows each other. is it like real interest or is it someone who wants to start a rumor about me?

So is it possible to get a disease from a ******* that you know the person your giving it to doesn't have any diseases? I know I sound dumb I probably do but can you get any?

I used to be a cam girl. Judge me lol. I made a lot of money literally playing with my boobs doing nothing. So basically this dude was supposed to give me $200. He wanted me to be 12, then didn't pay me. This was last year. I found all of his personal information, and keep in mind he knows nothing about me. I didn't use my real phone, barely showed my face, and in general, the guy is very stupid. He's the kind of pedophile that is extremely dumb that likes kids because they're at his intellectual level. I'm considering sending out a mass message, with a fake account obviously that he's a peodphile to every single person he went to high school with. Is this a good idea? I've literally waited a year to get revenge. Does anyone have any other ideas? I'm not going to report him to the authorities, I don't want to be publically known as a cam girl, I have my own life. I also don't want anyone to be like "forgive him" because that isn't my style, obviously.

I met him in England. He always says how much he loves my personality&I'm not like empty girls in his past. We hung out, did romantic stuff, had deep talks. You could say we were friends w/benefits, but there weren't many "benefits" (we only kissed twice). I told him I didn't want to be friends w/benefits & he said if he wanted to be friends w/benefits he would've kissed me more than twice. When I asked where our relationship was going he got scared& We didn't talk for days, but he showed up at my door to apologize & said he didn't want to mess up our relationship. He had a bad long distance relationship & has struggled w/commitment since. We continued to hang& one night after kissing he said he hadn't felt so whole& happy around a woman in years. We saw each other for 3 months before I came back to NYC. He'll be in the US on business all summer& said he'd see me. We didn't talk for 2 weeks then out of the blue he invited me to hang. I got mixed signals. He said stuff like "I wonder where you'll be in 10 yrs..." & "I loved that day when we went to London" and he would tease me about not letting him kiss me when we were in England. He mentioned his distain for me marrying an American/said he'd be proud if I made it back to Europe unmarried. I'm confused about where we stand, so i mentioned I've been going on dates. He kept mentioning how he wants to hang when he has more time in August but until then he's busy with work. We haven't talked since that night. I'm confused!

Me and my girlfriend are minors. And she send me nudes and I have them on my phone. I got my phone stolen and those nudes were posted. We know who did it, but If I tell the attorney about the nudes and about how the guy who stole my phone posted it on social media. will me and/ or my girlfriend get in trouble for the nudes.

Simply put: -Gets angry at me for doing something, does the exact same thing and wonders why I'm mad -Last person/thing on her priority list -Unable to make time for me; however, if I don't make time for her I'm an egomaniac asshole -Change my ways many times for her, she's unwilling to do it for me -I have more free time than her, and some taks, like cooking for two instead of for one take absolutely no extra time; I cook for her, she says I'm building my life around her and do nothing for myself (study, work, gym, but yeah, sure) -I tell her about my day "That's good honey"; tells me about her drama - I'm supportive, guide her through the situation; tell her wether I believe if she's right or wrong, pretty much supportive overall -Her: "What's wrong? You can tell me, I won't get mad"; Me (sulking): "Nothing"; Her: "Great, you ruined my day/night!" -Her: "What's wrong? You can tell me I won't get mad"; Me (serious): "This, this and that"; Her: "Bullshit, that never happens, screw this" -Never says sorry -Never makes time for me, but always can spend some time, that she doesn't have for me, with every single ******* friend of hers; confront her about it "You always ask for my attention; I need time with them; you don't get it; you're being selfish!" -There have been points in my life with her, namely after arguments that she is starting to see that there is no way in Hell she can overturn it or twist my words (also happens, yeah) where she just starts plain crying and saying I love you; I feel like she's trying to emotionally blackmailling me; I don't feel love, hate, jealousy, nothing: I just feel blank -In case you're wondering: happens often enough for me to remember every single time. And you know how guys are remembering this kinda ****. -Breakup or nah?

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My bf and I agreed that I would move in when school started but now I'm hesitant . Which I told him. It's b/c last time I lived with him, we ended up breaking up . He said he wasn't happy with me . I'm still not sure if it was just me as a person or because he was missing his ex and she had contacted him. I felt our break up coming . He was telling me that I was annoying and was and kept talking about breaking up with me . His attitude, I didn't even want to come home to him. We did break up but new we're back together . But I'm still not all the way comfortable with our relationship . It's been a week since I've told him. He's still being distant towards me . He said that it's not b/c of my decision and that he doesn't want to break up ( I told him it felt like it). But I'm thinking otherwise . So idk What also makes me hesitant is that we live an hour away from each other .

While I'm still a fan of Snow White ( her memorable melodies, comforting tone and sound of voice will always have me somewhat in her grip ). I realized that nothing was going to come of this pursuit except for me. --alone and danger. All this sorrow and loneliness must come to an end...

When I was in 6th grade the woman teacher I had one time while we were walking and talking put her arm around my shoulder and sometimes I'd kind of touch her butt like one time she was bending over and my finger tip moved on it like the top of my finger tip moved up on it twice and she never said or did anything. was I that close and personal to her?

I'm 15. Only ever liked guys. Never been on a date. Yesterday I was hanging with friends playing Truth or Dare and one of my truths was that I havent had my first kiss. They started joking that one of them should "claim my lips", but I didn't think they meant it until Tori, the ringleader and outgoing member of our group, volunteered. I changed the subject and everyone forgot about it. I was the last to leave her house, when she talked about kissing me again, like teaching me how. Teasing that she'd wait till I was less tense.I hoped she was kidding, but she's always been forward. Before leaving I couldn't find my jacket. Tori suggested checking the closet, and showed me inside. Then she turned off the light....before I knew it, she had me in her arms and we were making out. It went on for ages and she has a strong grip...but I was kissing her back and I dont even know why. We frenched for ages before Tori started doing more, sliding her hands up under my bra, and then she was touching my boobs. I wanted to make her stop but it felt so nice I could hardly protest. She was soothing me with whispers and starting to kiss my neck, but then my Mom called, she was there to pick me up. Tori texted me later to make sure I was okay with everything. I told her I was, that I just prefer a heads up. And she sent back "Noted ;)" what does that mean? Is she gonna do it again? I've never dated anyone and that was my first hook-up. Does this make me bi? What happens if we're alone again?

IM DEAD SERIOUS I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT YOU

Hello, I've been talking to this girl for 4 months, and we've known each other for 6. She's a great girl but here's the thing. I'm 22, She's 17. We live in MO which 17 is the age of consent (we havnt had sex) anyway at first everything was amazing as usual... Butterflies (etc) But I just started a new career, and she doesn't have a job... she's finished school early but still not working. As the talking progressed, she's told me I'm the one she's going to marry and started bringing that subject up, and I was no where near ready for that and when I told her that she freaked out saying how scared she was to lose me, which I know she's younger.... but honestly turned me off and put a huge amount of pressure on me. I don't think we're on the same page as far as life stages, and I told her let's take a break until she's 18, but now I really think we should just be friends from now on... how do I break this to her? Or handle it? She's very sensitive and says it will be the hardest thing she'll ever deal with...

I love my girlfriend with all my heart and I want to propose to her. I've realized something that makes me a bit un easy about spending the rest of my life with this woman. From the moment I began to date her my life has subjectively gotten much worse. To begin with (which should have been a huge red flag) she hated when I spent time with my friends and hated them for taking my time away from her. She tore me away from them and my friend's tried to tear me away from her and hated me for dating her. As a result of this conflict between her and my friends I no longer have any friends except my girlfriend and I thought that was enough. She has apologized now and says she regrets everything she did. So of course how could I have not forgiven her and love her even more. So we moved in together and I tried to get a good job and make more friends. She threatened to kill herself if I left the house for a job or friends. She started to hit me and scream at me for trivial reasons. One day our neighbors called the police because they heard fighting. The police assumed I was beating her because I am a man and she is a woman. I was nearly charged and put in prison but she confessed her crime in court and told the judge I took no part in any violence and the charges were dropped. She poured her heart out to me and begged for my forgiveness which I granted with love and a promise to always love her no matter how hard things get. As time moved on things had only gotten worse.She has always had a bad relationship with her adoptive parents. Her mom was very abusive and her father stood by and watched. She was not loved as she should have been as a child. So she made a plan behind my back to remedy this bad relationship. She thought if she fabricated a long story of how I am an abusive boyfriend and she gets beaten daily then her mother would hold her in her arms again and love her as she has desired for so many long years. This plan of course back fired on her and her parents were furious that she had made such poor life choices to get stuck with a guy like me. They banned her from their home forever and threatened to have me locked up for life if I ever talked to her again. My girlfriend then went to my parents and told them the story she made up. They and the rest of my family didn't believe her because they know the type of man I am and that it is not in the realm of possibility I could ever do such a thing. So she moved to people at her job telling them all of the horrible things I supposedly did. Her co-workers then vowed to hate me forever. I was forcefully removed from my own home by her brother (who threatened to kill me) so I could not harm her any longer. Eventually she realized her mistake and missed my company so badly she decided to come clean to everyone and reveal she was just making up a story so her parents would love her. My family knew it to be true the whole time, her family didn't care or believe she was lying and still hates her, some of her co-workers still believe it to be true. Now I am a broken man with no friends, no life skills and no idea what to do with my life and sadness so deep I am lost in it. She is the only person other than my parents that love me. We know just everything there is to know about each other. We have a deep connection that we will not let anyone break, but maybe, I wanna break that connection. Maybe I wanna break the promise I made to her that no matter how hard things get I will love her and never leave her side. I don't wanna continue to live this way. Waiting for her to break down and turn against me as she has done so many times before. It is an endless cycle. I wanna live my life with her but she is so broken inside from so many years of abuse. We both agree therapy would be a good idea for her but we can barely pay our rent but on time let alone afford therapy sessions. I am stuck miserably with the love of my life. Quite the paradox if you ask me. Trouble in paradise I suppose. So what do I do. Do I break away from my partner I love so deeply and become even more broken? . I would be alone and constantly craving her love, affection, company and just her presence near me missing her more and more with every passing day, not to mention it may cause the separation our dog and cat that have loved each other their entire lives. They are our family. I really don't wanna break up our family. Or do I just continue to live my life unhappy and hurt? Never knowing when she may turn on me again. Both decisions result in unimaginable pain. I have no clear way to happiness for both me and my girlfriend. I am lost and afraid of the future. I need help. I can't continue alone in this struggle for a life with purpose, meaning, and happiness. What do I do? How do I fix this colossal issue? If you have any positive advice or can relate to my problem and know of a solution please let me know. Also thank you so much for reading this long BS.

When i was 20 I had kids with a man who would eventually end up in and out of jail. I dropped out of school in the 9th grade. Work fast food and weigh... 160 at 5 foot 6. I now have a younger boyfriend who's an auto mechanic. We met at the fast food place. He used to work there. We also have a kid together I'm 34 now.

Alright so just under a year ago I asked a girl out, shot my shot at the last possible moment. The most inopportune moment. I expected failure simply cause of the circumstances, we were both heading to unis miles apart but I couldn't just let my crush on her die without at least asking her out cause I thought **** it why not I'll never see her again. I'll text her see what she says. She rejected for obvious reasons. From time to time I still think about her. I wish I was more confident around her. I was at times but most of the time I'd go into my shell out of nerves, not the real me. Anyway we could end up crossing paths again this summer, both been invited to the same party. We live fairly close to each other when we're back home as well and share a few friends so it's possible we could meet sober too. I don't know if she told them if I asked her out though so it could be awkward. I don't want it to be awkward, most of my feelings for her have gone but I know if I see her in person I'll just end up falling for her again cause I'm an idiot. But this time I'll actually be confident. Will it be awkward? Is there any coming back from this? Should I just be confident and shrug it off? Should I even mention it?

I really like this guy and I asked him what is it like to live in Virginia? He is.so serious... Or i.have no good responses hehe plus my English is poor

A while ago I chatted w/ a guy on the webcam. The rate was supposed to be $200, he ended up not paying me anything. Anyway, the guy had a kink for girls that were younger than 15 and wanted me to say I was 12. I was terrified that he was filming me and ended up just going along with it. I still need to get back at him. I basically found all of his information, and I know everyone in his graduating high school class. I'm considering sending out a mass message to his high school class that he is a pedophile but I'm not sure exactly what to say. Thoughts?

Long story short, my ex started avoiding me and cheated on me with a bouncer. Last time we were out together she said that she wasn't feeling the club we were at and suggested a bar we could go to. Turns out, the bouncer at said bar was the **** boning my then gf. I didn't know this at the time but had strong suspicions. She then stared acting crazy, got in a shouting match with her friend, and then went to cry in the arms of the bouncer. The dude was mean mugging me hardcore the entire time. That same night she yelled at me for not taking her side when she was fighting her friend and changed her Facebook status to single. What in the f##k. Wtf was she trying to accomplish? I didn't do anything to her.

Since we've been together my husband CONSTANTLY compares me physically to his exes. He's compared our boob sizes, the shape of our breasts and weight. I am the smallest woman he's been with. Every other woman he's been with were extremely overweight and wore a 38D cup and up bra sizes. I am 5ft4 and weigh 145 pounds and wear a 36D cup. He said my boobs were small which makes me automatically think he must be trying to say I have no boobs and that they are too little but he said he didn't mean it that way. He said I had the smallest boobs he's ever seen! I asked him why he thinks they are little and he said , "Well compared to my exes yours are the size of cantaloupes shaped like a pear and very perky and that there's were the sizes of watermelons that came together more." So is he comparing me to other women saying they are small because there's were bigger? He says he likes everything on me better and says my body is different and unique. He says they're boobs were too big and got in the way alot and he can actually grab mine. I want to take it as a compliment but I feel insulted and humiliated at the same time. He told me he doesn't know why he said they were small and that they are really not small but just shoes differently than there's?.

So i play baseball in high school, and since it is summer i am supposed to be playing in a summer league with my team. However, i really do not feel like playing, and i told my coach i have a "family emergency" so i cannot play. That was a lie through. So my question is should i feel irresponsible for not playing even though i really do not want to.