I don't think my father knew I could see it, or maybe he did, not sure, but anyways, it was very big, very scary and from what I know about sex,there is no way that would ever go inside me. so how do women do it, will my area get wider soon?

He has 1 friend that he's known his whole life pretty much but now they only see each other like once every few months. He's getring married and my husband says he's "obligated" to go even though he "doesn't want to" I think that's BS. Why would a male not want to go party on Vegas and see strippers and a bunchhh of drunk girls in bikinis?! He's never given me reason to not trust him but the idea of VEGAS FREAKS ME OUT! I keep reading about what happens there online and how much temptation there is and he'll be with 9 guys and I just can't handle the fear!! He never goes out with the guys or stays out late or anything like that but I'm dying inside... I told him and he says he's "obligated" which "obligation" in this world involves strippers!!? The trips in 2 days and I can't handle this anxiety... please don't make me feel worse! :'(

My sister in law is also a great friend but her husband is abusive to her (and her children) she left him for a few months after he grabbed her 9 year olds arm and tossed him into the oven she confronted him and hit him and he locked her to the ground and beat her, blew out her eardrum and landed her in the hospital. In front of all three of her kids, 14, 9 and 4 (the youngest is theirs) . He was later arrested and after he tried to commit suicide by hanging but failed. He was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, she go black together with him shirtly after. I think she feels .sorry for him. I don t and know it will continue. Anyway, since he s back in her life I don t know how I should act around him if i were to see him. What is appropriate? It sounds silly but if he shows up at family events I dont want to cause a scene but i cant support them together, especially now that i have new baby.

As a virgin man Who saved myself for marriage I have every right to expect to marry and demand for a woman who did the same But if I was to expect virginity purity Chastity's and demand such things out of my future spouse when I am not that would make me a sexist hypocrite holding women to a standard I don't hold myself or did not meet which I am not It's a fair trade deal virgin for virgin that is just equal and fair By remaining a virgin I can pursue expect and demand for a virgin wife without shame People can mock and shame me all they want say I'm an insecure a hole jerk have a small penis suck in bed afraid I can't measure up to a woman's previous lovers etc all they want but what they can't call me is a liar hypocrite and a sexist who holds women to a double standard I've had lots of opportunities to lose my virginity and I could sleep around but what if by some chance miracle I come across a woman who is a pure chaste virgin who would only marry a virgin man Without my bargaining chip I would miss out and lose my only chance to marry a virgin forever Do you think I'm stupid :(

My partner is constantly putting me down, lately he has criticised everything I do. Like yesterday we were in a swimming pool and he accused me of not watching my son, he said that if it's up to me my son will be lucky to see the next 20 years. It's everything I do from not cutting his finger nails right to dressing him wrong for the hot weather to cooking the wrong meals for him.. he puts me down constantly.. iv had a few tough weeks and things are hard enough in my head without this. I can't afford to move out and have it just me and my boy. He is a good partner to provide financial ways but after that it's just criticism and nasty comments.

I'm trying to figure out why I'm so screwed up when I came from parents who didn't divorce, had a large loving family with lots of siblings and I went to a Catholic school taught to do things the right way. Never had any huge tragedies and lived middle class. When I was 6 I was jealous when my mom had a baby. I was the 5th child of 7 and before that I was always the baby. In my childhood I was a huge tomboy and struggled to be friends with "girly girls" Later in life i realized my attraction to women. I hid it from everyone. I always felt awkward and gawky, while my older sisters were popular, tiny and lots of friends. I hung around one best friend but she controlled everything but was a super nice person who would do anything for me. I've always felt immature. Later I got married and I raised his kids after his wife died. Then we had kids of our own. I divorced him after "coming out". He was pretty controlling, but in the end he gave me what I wanted in our marriage I just hated when he got jealous. Now I'm finishing raising my college kids with a woman that I married. I don't really love her-- I rushed into it and believed her when she said I would be happier being true to myself. I'm not even sure I'm a lesbian. We bicker constantly and fight more than w my ex husband. She gets jealous all the time. I've pushed all my friends away. I miss my old life with my ex and feel I can't un-do it all even though he would take me. I think I was just all so very confused.

I think it is not healthy. Better one man and one woman so that way they have more free time and it is just better emotionally.

There is a friend from work that recently brought up setting me up with her daughter. To be brief I get along with this woman and work directly under her and her division. I have been with my company for over a year and she has always been incredibly kind to me. She started talking more about her daughter recently and showing me pictures of her. She told me that she had talked to her about me and that she had broke up with her boyfriend a few months ago. It was kind of weird but I got her number from her and I want to call her soon but I'm not sure what to say. I'm not exactly sure what she knows about me or what her mom has told her. What should I say when I call? Is this crossing lines since I work with her mom?

So my wife is graduating bootcamp for the military and im going to see her tomorrow. Im 23 and shes 25 both female. My best friend emily of 12 years contacted me after 3 years of no contact last week saying that she was in town and wanted me to see her new baby boy. I had stopped talking to Emily because her and my wife got into a fight over fb about how my wife treated me. At the time my wife was emotionally and physically abusive, more on the emotional side and at that time, she broke up with me. I didnt think we were getting back together with how she treated me. I called emily and told her everything that happened because i was so upset with what happened. After a few days, my wife messaged me saying she was sorry, and well i believed her so i took her back(it didnt stop shes still emotionally abusive) My wife put a picture of us on fb and emily wrote "😑". My wife messaged emily saying back the **** up and they got into an agrument emily saying im too good for my wife and that she doesnt deserve me. My wife told me its either her or emily, and she asked me to block emily on Facebook and to not talk to her and i said sure, im not sure why i said yes to it but i did. I want to start talking to Emily again, but how do i tell my wife about it without her getting angry at me? I know in a marriage, your spouse is supposed to be #1 but my friends are important to me too. Does it make me a bad wife or person for wanting to talk to emily again? (She did apologize btw 2 years ago) I'm not cheating on my wife with emily. Emily is just my childhood friend and i just want to be able to talk to her again since she did apologize.

My GF wants to get married. I don't. I have been married and had my kids and the previous wife went all looney tunes and wanted out. I would define marriage as an agreement between a man and woman to start a family and raise children. I have already done this...so has she. We are not having more children and the children as grown or basically grown. What is her motivation to get married? It is not about love or commitment or all the other so called things that marriage is supposed to be. It is a LEGAL CONTRACT. The worst contract EVER. Please help.

My husband wants to go to Amsterdam with his single guy friends, but I'm not okay with it because his friends always say that they want to go to the red light district and get wasted. My husband keeps telling me that he will stay in the hotel while his friends do all of that stuff. However, he gives into peer pressure when he's with his friends, so I told him that I don't want to go. I wouldn't mind if he went to a different country to visit his family, but I personally don't think that it's right for him to go with all of his single friends that want to do a bunch of wild things in Amsterdam. Also, I'm not allowed to go because it's supposed to be a guy's trip. Am I in the wrong for not wanting him to go?