So, basically I am almost 19 years old, entering sophomore year in college and may (hopefully) be at a point where I can finally relieve myself from many years of divorce-related issues soon, one of which has recently been my mom's ownership of my car, a 2010 Toyota FJ Cruiser. She bought me this car over 2 years ago, and I have driven it but she is VERY manipulative and controlling and has used it as a way to place guilt and pressure on me and my parents to get herself out of doing/paying for other things in the divorce; threatening to take it away, etc. I like this car, but recently have had mixed feelings on whether or not if I can have my car's financial control switched over to my dad (if this is possible- due to child support money my mom will owe him for me choosing to no longer live with her over the past 14 months by attorney), if I should keep this car or look for something else if I ever get the option. I have had struggles with anger in the past and unfortunately took some of these out on the car recently (broke the key remote, interior clock and couple other things), but other than that this car has 95,000 miles and seems to be in good shape, some days I like it but honestly others I feel like I don't which maybe can be attributed to resentment to my mom and all she has done in the 9-year advancement of this divorce. Any advice?

I'm a woman- approaching mid 30's. Never married and no kids. I naturally get comments (especially from woman at work feigning sympathy- probably jealous ones for whatever reason but that's besides the point) What do ppl really think about me. Do they think I'm damaged goods or something? A spinster? Just curious.

I've been with my husband for 6 years and married for 3. I regret ever getting married. Since getting married his drinking has gotten out of control along with issues w su oxone that I didn't knos about before. We didn't live together before getting married. We have a 2 year old together and he doesn't help at all. Won't even watch him so i can shower. I have him all day everyday- work from home and go to college online. I feel like a single parent and alone in our marriage. He's either always drinking using or playing video games. I just don't want to regret walking away.

I'm not sure where to ask this but: The father of my child and I were living together in a rented house. I found out he was cheating and instead of throwing him out, I left and told him he was in charge of caring for him full time. I am in a fortunate situation in that I'm 28 and have money so I was able to get a new place a few days after leaving. I want to pay him child support and have him care for our son full time. as a mother I love him dearly but cannot teach him to be man, plus he cheated in the first place so why should I have the full responsibility of a child while he gets to run free. He is a good father, but I didn't want to deal with the b.s. of him trying to use our child as an excuse to stay together. I threatened to have his rights stripped if he refused to care for him full time.

my wife and I were so excited , we turned car around, parked car, picked up the bank bag, felt kind of heavy, I then drove to a secluded area, wife was shaking, trembling and talking all the wonderful things we were going to do. We opened bag, it was full of bloody tampons and 14 dollars in rolled pennies. Do you think someone did this on purpose? Why would there be over 100 bloody tampons with some rolls of pennies, I was really down, wife is still depressed. the smell was bad too. I cashed in the pennies and played lottery, I lost. what's it mean? Well, I wish you would believe me, but I can understand. My wife is still visibly shook up, I feel a lump in my stomach. I was just looking for some sympathy , I guess.

I am pregnant and am trying to keep my stress level down. My husband wants to go out with his mom for dinner with is a okay but I try to avoid such interaction. She always has sometging rude to say about what we want to do with our family. Or she insults my family.I feel like she tries to buy my love but I just can't. Often rude and the victim I have been told not to stand up for myself because she makes it worse. I just am trying to distance myself until after my daughter is born. How do I politely tell me husband I do not want to go, but id love if he did? I just dont want to feel like all my happy got sucked out by the know it all machine.

I've read about people marrying inanimate objects. Can a person marry a concept?

I've heard you can go the route of separation for two years prior to the divorce, but what comes after that? Who files for divorce, what's the cost, how long does it take, etc? Those in question were married for ten years and have a four year old child, husband owns the home and wife is settled in another town (wife has custody of the child and visits, child support, etc. have already been established), neither wants to get back together and have lived separate lives since the separation.

Me and my wife were watching a movie about Jim Jones it was really sad when they showed the dead bodies of his followers in Jonestown. I'm 4 months pregnant with a boy I'm naming him after him I think he's hot also my wife likes him too. He grew up not far from us were in Ohio he was from Indiana my wife has family in Indiana. It really upset me when they said they found dead bodies of the children underneath their families that was very sad. That really hurt me. I'm not only crying because of the children but also because I have a little crush on the guy he was so young and cute. My wife hopes she's related to him he could be one of her cousins. She's not sure if he's related to her or not. Is it ok to cry in front of her ? Also should I name my son after him ?

What about widowed or separated? I don't know all the details ...

My wife's mother doesnt seem to want me or my kids to have a close relationship with my father as well. (My dad cant help it he's awesome)

A bit of a background, we are both 30 with no kids and married for over 6 years. My husband is very active on social media, and we have a lot of mutual friends and family there; since we don't live near our friends and family it is a good way that we keep in touch. He is more active than I am on social media and he loves to share pics we take of different places we go. I don't mind him sharing pics of places but I do mind him sharing pics of me. I weigh more than him and have a stomach pooch and my skin tone is uneven on my face and I dislike makeup. I basically hate the way I look in pictures and don't like taking them. So if we take selfies or couples pictures I either make him take them over and over again until I think I look at least semi decent or I ask him not to share them at all. On facebook I already have it to where he can't share or tag any picture of me to my page without my permission. Now let me say this, my husband is AWESOME and if I ask him not to share a picture or refuse to take them with him, he doesn't really argue about it, but he has said that he likes the way I look and there is nothing wrong with me, and says I need to stop getting so emotional about it. So now he's pretty much stopped sharing pictures of us altogether and doesn't really try to take them with me, of me, or at all anymore except for the rare occasion when I ask him to. I'm worried that he no longer cares about pictures of us...was I selfish to ask him to stop sharing them?

I have a bf we are coming up on 1 year of dating this month. He is 32 and I'm 30. In the beginning of our relationship things were perfect. Lately, we've been talking marriage. There are so many things that he does that make me feel like s*hit. He's a VERY selfish person and puts me last to his hobbies, his family, and his home. I often think if I marry him I'll be miserable and we would be divorced within a year. Yet, I love him and there are TIMES I do see myself marrying him. I don't know how to explain it. I keep thinking if things went back to the way they were the first 2/3 months of our relationship things would be perfect. I keep thinking he's going to change and that maybe marriage would change him for the better. Any advice? I'm just so confused.