Everybody is married and having kids. I'm 28 and am in a PhD program. I wont be graduated until im 32 years old :( I am having nostolagia about past memories. It was only a few years ago that these people were all at the bars dating. I'm shocked that they are all married now. I also reminisce about guys I was in love with in the past and how they've all moved on with their lives too. Isn't the divorce rate very high in the US? Dont people some times get married just because they feel pressured to do so before 30? What is your experience/perspective on this whole situation?

So last tuesday night i got taken to jail for supposed domestic violence. My wifecalled the police on me after i shoved her and she told police that i tried to choke her. But anyway i got taken to jail for two days. And i gotout on a PR bond. With a 7 day protection order against me. The friday when i got out, i had a couple missed calls from my wife and i did not answer. Then my brother in law called me and said that it wasnt my wife trying to get a hold of me but it was my son whos 5 years old trying to call me. So then i answered and it was my son telling me he was hungry and wanted food. Im the lone financial providor for my family of 4 thhe last two years (5year old boy and 20 mo old girl) so i feel like i had to goprovide my son with food regardless of anything else. Then after i hung up, i txted my wife pretty much asking what he wants because hes unable to speak well. He grew up with two languages in his household and was slower on speaking than other kids. So my wife basically told me bring him food and as soon as i pull up, that she would leave so i can give my son his food. That was the only comunication i had with her. Only speaking on sons behalf. Atfter i went home, i found out she also put a restraining order on me for another two weeks but with this one, im unable to have contact with my kids as well. I have not had contact with her even though shes tried calling me like 5 times and messages me like 3 times asking me if i want to see the kids.

My Fiancé is still having ups and downs with his ex wife. They have a 3 year old, and she is constantly texting him excessively regarding their daughter. She'll even harass him asking if he's staying at home with her or if he's at family's visiting etc. My fiancé will talk to me for advise about why she's acting this way (she wanted the divorce & filed - yet is horrible to him and he's an amazing dad). Anyways, today for Father's Day he picked his daughter up and somehow his ex ended up in his truck "talking" for 30 minutes. He said she was asking about my sisters wedding, and their daughters bowel movements...but for 30 minutes?! He ignored all of my texts during this time. I feel so uncomfortable. They're both emotional. What should I do?? **I'd like to add that there have been deleted "I love you" texts from 3 months ago, and some emotional / inappropriate conversations in the past 6 months.

Is there a man anywhere in the world who is married to twins and each twin has her own child from this same man ? Please provide link with picture of this kind of family if it exists.

My husband and I have officially been in love for 7 years on June 16th! Well his cousin also married yesterday and he preferred to go with them instead of spend time with me and celebrate another successful year of us together. Like we have been celebrating our dating anniversary for all of the years together and all of a sudden he tells me it's not that important! Am I wrong for being angry?! Not to mention he works 6 days a week unscheduled hrs so we hardly have time because we also have children! I feel bad for being angry but I'm not because he goes out more than I feel a married man should when I'm the one stuck in the house with kids!

What if you share a common ancestor. From 6 generations ago.

For years she abused me. Threatened me. Broke my belongings in anger. Swore at me. Told me to f...off and f...you. Even routinely got me to take care of her needs in the bedroom before she would make no effort for me. Would just roll over and sleep or play on her phone. Tonight was no exception. She grabbed my phone and started looking through my messages. About 2 weeks ago she got into am argument with her mother and started smashing up the home. She then started hitting her own mother. I was scared for our 2 month old son and called the police. She was charged with assault and an AVO was put in place. She came home and lost it, smashed more played and started punching me. I called the police and she was charged with breaching the AVIO. She started saying she wanted to kill herself. They took here for a psych assessment at hospital. She later told police she wanted me to suffer. When she came home she said we were done and she was leaving with her parents and I could take care of our son on my own. My parents are overseas so I panicked. I called a friend whom my wife has erroneously accused me of having an affair with in the past. That friend is a classmate from my nursing studies. Anyway over the next 4 days she made my life hell. Smashed my mobile phone and on another occasion she pinched my face so hard it broke the skin and bled. Tonight she decided she needed me to help her to finish but then refused sex saying it's too soon after the birth...instead she looked at her phone and went to sleep. Earlier she grabbed my phone and went through it. I thought she was going to smash it again. I booked into counselling but I have my doubts that she will go..I believe she will try to make out I'm the problem and that I need to go alone. Make me feel like I'm being stupid for wanting to talk about things (because talking will achieve nothing unless she participates and recognizes what's wrong). I'm losing hope on ever having a fulfilling relationship. She still talks in terms of herself e.g.. wanting to holiday alone in Europe yet again. I even started to plan my own trips without her. My sister is accusing me of having Aspergers syndrome. How cam I be tested properly for that?

It started when my husband was supposedly supervising our son in his 30 min reading. I said my son needs to restart because he was not wearing his reading glasses. He has difficulty in his comprehension skills that requires he read and understand what his reading. My husband and I have a lot of differences in parenting among other things. My husband argued that he didn't need to restart the reading. I was angry because we were as usual arguing. I said I didn't want to eat the barbecue he made because it was blackened. He called me a ***** in front of our 9-year-old. I apologized to our son and remained calm and left the room. This is not the first time he used this word in front of our child. Its father's day tomorrow and I told him later on that what he did was damaging to our son. We have different values. We have little in common. His ADD doesn't help. He is always forgetting stuff that we talked about when it comes to home life.

We had all these things in common. We are both married and we live far away. I know we probably won't see each other ever again. I liked being around her as she wanted to know about me and she liked to cuddle. I miss that so much, but my wife hasn't been that way since we had kids. We have talked about it before and she said she doesn't like showing affection in front of the kids. We rarely have sex too. I think being with this girl for a couple of days and how she wanted to be with me shows me what I want. However, I keep thinking about her. Before we left on our flights she wanted to hang out and sent me a nice text after we landed. I don't know what to do as it's emotionally messed me up. Thanks for the help.

I lost the password to my old Facebook and since my husband and his psycho parents were stalking and harassing me while we were separated I disabled it. I wanted to make a new account so that I could print coupons from various manufacturers pages. I did not tell my husband because we do not get along because he is so possessive and bossy. He was looking over my shoulder and saw that I made a new FB and did not tell him about it. I know how he is, (he has called or messaged various guys and threatened or forced them to delete me for talking to me). He demanded that I put myself as married to him and blew a gasket at me "deceitful and disrespectful behavior" in "hiding stuff and not getting his permission". Is this normal? I ended up disabling that page too. I did not want him on my account! He's nutty. I never use Messenger at all. I did not talk to anyone. I just wanted to sign up for some random coupons to print and he freaked.

Our agreement says I can move 50 miles away, which is the case with dc.... But how would this work with her schooling, etc, current visitation rights? Do I need to go to court? Will they prevent me from moving?