I have a mental illness and I get upset and depressed really easy and people seem to not understand that fact. They rather make me feel really miserable. I had something that happened yesterday. I bought an dress that was supposed to get delivered to me but it was delivered to the wrong address in the wrong city. It was a backup of my purple qipao dress that is made of velvet. The dress has sequins and beads on it that makes it so hard to wash. The dry cleaners is afraid to send it through as they are afraid that the velvet will burn when they press it. I'm afraid of putting it in the washer because I am afraid the washer is gonna damage it. I got in january and it is already getting dirty. The post office delivered the dress to someone in san francisco while I live in georgia. I am very depressed because the listing has ended and I can't place another order for it on amazon. My friends bash me and said that I deserved it because how much of a thief and jerk that I am. I paid for this with my own birthday money and spent $85 on it and people don't know how devastating this is. My friend hank called my dress junk and said to me, stop buying junk as this is what happens. My dress is not junk and it is something important to me. Why are people so cruel to me ? How come people don't understand how much upset I am and how important that dress is to me ? How come people don't understand how devastating this is ?

I've been talking to this old classmate from high school on Facebook. She said that she doesn't want to talk to me on Facebook anymore until I'm ready to hang out with her in person. I like her and I want to hang out with her but I'm scared. I've been a homebody for the past few years. It's been a while since I've hung out with someone. She said she's not into people who just want to interact on Facebook or solely text.

I accidentally texted my friend a long rant about HER and she said she knows it was an accident and that she didn't 'care' bc we talked about other ppl a lot too. Im really scared our friendship is going to be over because we are part of a big 6 people group and what if our whole group dissolves because of this? I can't tell the truth because I know things are going to be completely different so I have to play it out like it was a prank. I know i should tell the truth but i really can't right now. What should I say to her? She says she doesnt care but i know she does. I have to make it seem natural and I really don't know what to do. Please help.

I met some new friends in college and one was a girl who I thought was nice I was being given attention and I thought we were good friends. long story short in college all she des is spoke weed or harder drugs and she has taken money from me and when I ask for it back she is just rude . she put her stuff in my locker as she knew how to open it but in rush to get high she left it open and my stuff was stolen. a few months ago she took money from me to pay for weed then later on when out drinking and partying snorting that white powder up her nose. I got my money back but apparently I was rude to ask for it back. her behaviour continued and she was one day extremely rude. so later on pulled her aside said you can't speak to me like that did not raise my voice or anything then she said she was stressed because her boyfriend broke up with her again. they break up 8 time this year and she had an exam tomorrow then she stormed off and continued her drug behaviour and told everyone l attacked her. so I blocked her on everything and its been over a month. should l be worried that l would get into any form of trouble? is it also bad that I'm just so angry at what she did but l never took it out on her.

My friend/former neighbor's son and my son have been friends since age 3. Actually I'm good friends with the Mom too. They moved to a more upscale neighborhood years ago because they are quite well off $. We've remained friends, and so have our boys. Our sons, in fact, are very close. Our sons just graduated high school. She had her party first and I gave $100. I had mine and she gave $75. If it were me I'd keep it the same amount---but since she's not me, I thought I'd post on here to get other opinions.

She's such a spoiled, selfish, annoying, self-centered ***** who is willing to throw anyone under the bus just so she can have all the spotlight and attention to herself. She honestly ruined the show for me. And at first, I liked her voice, but now as I am entering season 6, I'm just overall annoyed by her voice and attitude. I always skip the parts in which she opens her mouth to sing. And can we please talk about how ugly her singing faces are. She always looks agitated and constipated while she's singing. And I don't think she's as pretty as everyone else says she is. Her face is very manly and it just annoys the hell out of me when she sings or cries because of the annoying faces she makes. And her lips, ew, she should be called Trouty Mouth instead of Sam. And how did she not blind any of the guys she's kissed before with that giant nose of hers. And when she smiles, her face scares me. Anyways, I hate her character very much. She's annoying, rude, self centered, selfish, and many other things that even words can't describe. I don't know what Finn or Jesse saw in her to even have the guts to put a ring on her finger. She's always playing the victim in situations where she knows she was in the wrong and tries to justify the things she did. She'd willingly throw any of her friends under the bus just so she gets things her way. And when she doesn't, she lashes out and tries to get revenge. She expects to be a huge broadway star when she can't even handle one insult.

So I have two great best friends. I made a plan to tell both of them that I am moving face to face. One of the friends facetimed me and asked me where I was moving since it was the summer and my family and I thought we were moving just to a different area, but we are actually moving to a different state in September. I did not want to lie to her, so I told her the truth and it was terrible. It was awkward and we were on pause. I am so busy this week and can't go anywhere because I'm busy with moving stuff. But the friend I told and the one that I didn't are going to hang out today and I'm scared that the friend I told is going to tell the friend I didn't tell that I am moving. I really want to tell the friend I didn't tell I'm moving so she doesn't find out from the other friend, but I don't want to tell her over the phone because it would be terrible. I also don't want her to find out from the other girl. Question: Should I wait to tell the friend that doesn't know and risk the other friend telling her, or should I call the friend that doesn't know and tell her right now?

She stopped talking to me because of something she did, she's blaming me for that thing,I went to a psychologist,I told him everything about this story between and my friend, and even him told me that it's not my fault.I know that she told to her friends things that are not true about me, I don't know why she did that, I never did that to her and I never will. We stopped talking like 5 months ago,I sent her a SMS in May because I wanted to talk to her about what happened,she didn't answer. At the beginning (5 Months ago) she told that she will never talk to me again,anyway,I made an effort. So she's ignoring me, but I catch her staring at me, trying to do things in order to catch my attention, but I act like I don't care, even if I still care about her a little like a sister. We are in the same high school , one day one of her friends saw that I put a T-shirt that my ex best friend has it too. So her friend texted her to put this T-shirt and she did it. (I herd when her friend was talking about that).She tried again to catch my attention,but I didn't look at her and then she started to make noises.I totally ignored and I know that it hurts her. She blocked me on Instagram and Snapchat long time ago, but not on Facebook. Few weeks ago I decided to delete her on Facebook because I don't want her to see my posts, and I also deleted her friends on everything because they are posting photos with her. Can you answer to my question now that you know all the story ? Thanks a lot 🙏

My cousin lives with us, and I've recently become stressed out because of it. I love her a lot, but she's lonely and it's sad to see. She doesn't work, and she doesn't get out very often either. She's always on the computer, and she doesn't even hang out with outside family very often. She stays up until extremely late hours every night, as late as 2 am sometimes. Sometimes she'll get annoyed or act surprised when I'm going out with friends. Even when I cut conversations short because I have something else to do. I notice that she tends to drag out conversations as well. For example: if I don't end a conversation, I'll end up sitting and talking to her for hours. I want to help her find more friends, but she always has an excuse. How can I help her while also living my life?

This week I've developed 4 big pimples around my chin/mouth. It normally wouldn't be a big deal to me, especially since I can cover it with makeup. But for some reason all 4 of these pimples are very scabby and they won't stop oozing. 2 of them also has small whiteheads, which I'm afraid they might get much larger throughout the day. I can't hangout with someone new looking the way I do... I've tried covering them with makeup, but it won't. They're too dang scabby. What would be a good excuse to cancel on them? By the way, I'm the one who asked them to hangout. Thanks! I really don't want to tell them the truth. It's way too embarrassing.

My oldest friend and I are both 21 but it feels like she's in a completely different stage of life than I am. She has a stable job, a car, and an apartment with her boyfriend. I still live at home, work part time, don't have a license, and almost all of my money goes towards paying for school so I never have anything extra to spend on going out with her. For the past few months I've been avoiding doing things with her because it seems like we can never just hang out. We always have to go out and do something but I can't afford it. If I tell her that, she insists on paying, but I hate feeling like I'm mooching off of her, especially since she's the one who always has to drive. I feel like she thinks I'm avoiding her because I always have to say no to going out together. I'm embarrassed that I'm not as financially stable as her. Sometimes I even feel like we're just on completely different wavelengths now, because she's so stable in her adult life and it's like we're at totally different stages in life even though we're the same age. Is there anything I can do to keep us from drifting apart?

can retorting be a form of bullying? like if you are saying stuff and someone keeps retorting what you say.

My friend got into a car accident and she was scared that the other party might sue for medical bills (she was at fault). I looked up what usually happens in these situations and told her. Is that an offensive thing to do since she could've done that herself? I also checked on her a lot after she broke up with her boyfriend. Should I just leave her be?

As I grow older, I cannot help but realize that everybody is struggling in one way or another. Life has been unfair to everybody. A frail mother constantly annoys her young daughter for assistance. A couple finds out their child has a rare disease and will die soon. A young man is pressured to continue his fathers business when he doesnt at all identify with it. A young woman toils everyday in her work and cant find any love and peace. An old man is seen as a burden by his children and society Someone went to jail Someone divorced Someone lost a ton of money It never stops. What about you? How are you struggling?

We used to work together. I was a temporary employee. She became a manager and tried to convince her manager to hire me. Her manager doesn't like me much offered the worst possible shift that they are struggling to fill because most people are looking for another part time job and this shift timing doesn't give you time to do it. So I said that I appreciate the offer but I would wait for another possible shift. her mager told her that I don't want work there. I never said that. She texted me that I said that I was shocked. I asked a female friend she told me to apologize to her for any misunderstanding and explain myself. I did. She ignored me. Why she did not accept my apology????

my friend knows i love traveling. the other day i told her i was making plans to travel europe for about a month but was in the beginning stages of it. she asked if she could come along. i said yeah i would love to have you along if you could do it. Last night she says she is stressing over it and might not have enough money and that i would go without her. I told her that it was ok to do our separate things sometimes. i am living with my mom and elderly grandmother who might need more rigorous care in the future. i need to do things when i can and have the chance to. i let her know this. so if that means i can go tomorrow or in 3 yrs from now, that is when i will be going. i can't wait for her to come up with the money. by then, i might not be able to do it. She is now ignoring me and i feel bad. but i can't wait for people when I really need to do something. advice on what to say? does she have a right to be angry at me?

So the other day I was at a bbq (I'm only 15) and I'm helping to prepare food and my friend goes to show what was finished to our family friend. I'm don't think there was any other people in the kitchen but I see her dad look up and down my body and then pointed out a piece of onion that was on ny boob (whitch are small.) it was t the type of glance he was looking and not taking g his eyes off. I wasn't dressed inappropriately or Provocatively I was wearing jeans and a t-shirt

First he said yes he would lend me money. Then, in a few minutes said no. He said it will take a long time to repay him back. I asked to lend $800. And that I would start paying him back $100 weekly and even more next month to get over with. Was willing to five recipts too. I am not mad but he shouldnt of said yes then a no. I feel he let me down at my time of need. Then, he said he trust me more than I trust him. Instead of arguing I said relax. My otjet friend is going to help me. Is je a bad friend? I think so.

No one talks to me in that app really, the only messages I get are "streaks" from popular kids and team Snapchat. Most of the people there (I added) are probably gonna cut me offf or never contact me again,, and I'm also planning to cut others off (my toxic friend, weeaboos, thots, homophobes and others) but I also have some people I'm friends but we don't talk

my situation is that my friend (who I play xbox with for over 4 years now) is 13 and has had a problem that began about 2 years ago, what happened was he something bad (we can't remember what it was) however that point his parents said that they were taking away all of his electronics forever no get them next month, nothing so because he has no friends that he actually likes in real life and he sees the people he plays games with as family (for again over 4 years) he decided to become a drug runner in order to get the money he needed to get a new xbox he has even turned to things like drinking BECAUSE he could not talk with anyone he trusted even now the only word I get from him is a maybe once every 2 weeks text just to let me know he hasn't KILLED himself yet and so now we need a solution to get him able to play on his xbox (and before all of you say that "he's addicted to technology" that is like you saying you are addicted to seeing your friends, he couldn't give a **** about the game only the togetherness it brings) WE NEED HELP PLEASE

They are both mid to late 20's. She started planning their wedding 3 months after dating and got engaged after 7 months. They are to be married in 4 months. I am not sure how true this is, but I heard from several people at a church her fiance used to attend that when he was engaged a few years ago, his then fiance called off the wedding because he refused to get counseling and anger management issues she asked him to resolve while dating.