He's my husband and his brother keep ya trying to get him to do weed and mushrooms and he's never done drugs before but I told him I'm not comfortable with it and he knows I'm not but he keeps getting persuaded and I don't want him to be under that influence, I'm really scared of what he might do and I don't know what to do how do I stop him? Please help me :( I'm afraid this might end our marriage

Why or why not?

My ex husband abandoned me and my 3 children when they were 10, 6, and 4. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to go through in my life. My children are all grow and haven't heard from their father in 20'years. My niece is going through a similar situation now. I can't wrap my head around how anyone can just walk away from their entire family. I still cry to this day about my husband not being a part of our family.

My wife and I have been married for 6 years. Shes 29 I'm 31. We have two children a 1 year old and a 3 year old. We went on vacation in March everything was great we had a great vacation. We came back from vacation and she said she wants a divorce. She won't talk about it, won't discuss anything. We haven't been having any real problems. All she told me was she doesn't love me anymore. She told me she got a new job in California. We live in Texas. I asked her about the kids and she told me "You can have them and ill fly once every other month to see them." I don't know what to do. She's been buying bikinis and working out constantly for the past month which is not like her. I don't know what to do. She wants nothing to do with me or the kids. She won't tell me anything about why she wants this divorce. Any advice?

My husband is accused of a pretty terrible crime. He's been in jail for a week now and he truly believes he is innocent. The evidence says otherwise. I am just trying to get my head around why would he believe he is innocent if he did it? I Right before he was arrested I questioned him and asked him if he had done what they said he did and I told him not to lie or I'd leave him. He said he didn't do it. So either he is lying to me, his wife and knowingly putting the kids and myself at risk or I don't know. I actually just left him over this. I have kids I need to put all my time and effort into caring for and if he's convicted he will be in jail for a very long time. Anyone have an input or suggestions?

We finally decided to get counselling. My wife showed her frustrations with me through the fact that I was complaining. We don't see eye to eye on things. Every year she likes to go back to China for a couple of weeks to be with her friends. Never invites me and chooses to go at the last minute so I cannot catch up. We have a 3 month old child to worry about at the moment. But her father is here helping out so she feels it is ok to go away and relax. I haven't been overseas for 7 years. I have talked many times about us going back to China and travelling together but it never eventuates. It's always the same problem. Today at lunch I suggested we go back to her hometown in 6 months time to visit her family with our son. She sat in silence and refused to answer me. I took that to mean she definitely doesn't want to travel with me. It's to the point where I'm locked in a pattern of feeling powerless and like she needs to have a break from me at least once per year. Like the love is not real and I'm just being purposely neglected. I can't take it anymore. She says my thoughts are wrong and my problem. I honestly feel like I just cannot take this lifestyle any longer. I need a break and I am so desperate to travel with her. I guess that sounds crazy. I'm at the point where I have lost hope after 7 years of never being able to travel overseas with her. I'm only trying now because we have a son together. I'm planning to use my tax cheque to book a flight to China at the end of the year. I hope it will be for 3 people. I feel like it's too hard to keep going because we have no time for each other and I'm always put last. Just leave me at home every year. Never listens. Part of me wants out right now with my son. Part of me is willing to give it 6 more months to see if my feelings can change.

He's my husband and his brother keep ya trying to get him to do weed and mushrooms and he's never done drugs before but I told him I'm not comfortable with it and he knows I'm not but he keeps getting persuaded and I don't want him to be under that influence, I'm really scared of what he might do and I don't know what to do how do I stop him? Please help me :( I'm afraid this might end our marriage

Why or why not?

My ex husband abandoned me and my 3 children when they were 10, 6, and 4. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to go through in my life. My children are all grow and haven't heard from their father in 20'years. My niece is going through a similar situation now. I can't wrap my head around how anyone can just walk away from their entire family. I still cry to this day about my husband not being a part of our family.

My wife and I have been married for 6 years. Shes 29 I'm 31. We have two children a 1 year old and a 3 year old. We went on vacation in March everything was great we had a great vacation. We came back from vacation and she said she wants a divorce. She won't talk about it, won't discuss anything. We haven't been having any real problems. All she told me was she doesn't love me anymore. She told me she got a new job in California. We live in Texas. I asked her about the kids and she told me "You can have them and ill fly once every other month to see them." I don't know what to do. She's been buying bikinis and working out constantly for the past month which is not like her. I don't know what to do. She wants nothing to do with me or the kids. She won't tell me anything about why she wants this divorce. Any advice?

My husband is accused of a pretty terrible crime. He's been in jail for a week now and he truly believes he is innocent. The evidence says otherwise. I am just trying to get my head around why would he believe he is innocent if he did it? I Right before he was arrested I questioned him and asked him if he had done what they said he did and I told him not to lie or I'd leave him. He said he didn't do it. So either he is lying to me, his wife and knowingly putting the kids and myself at risk or I don't know. I actually just left him over this. I have kids I need to put all my time and effort into caring for and if he's convicted he will be in jail for a very long time. Anyone have an input or suggestions?

We finally decided to get counselling. My wife showed her frustrations with me through the fact that I was complaining. We don't see eye to eye on things. Every year she likes to go back to China for a couple of weeks to be with her friends. Never invites me and chooses to go at the last minute so I cannot catch up. We have a 3 month old child to worry about at the moment. But her father is here helping out so she feels it is ok to go away and relax. I haven't been overseas for 7 years. I have talked many times about us going back to China and travelling together but it never eventuates. It's always the same problem. Today at lunch I suggested we go back to her hometown in 6 months time to visit her family with our son. She sat in silence and refused to answer me. I took that to mean she definitely doesn't want to travel with me. It's to the point where I'm locked in a pattern of feeling powerless and like she needs to have a break from me at least once per year. Like the love is not real and I'm just being purposely neglected. I can't take it anymore. She says my thoughts are wrong and my problem. I honestly feel like I just cannot take this lifestyle any longer. I need a break and I am so desperate to travel with her. I guess that sounds crazy. I'm at the point where I have lost hope after 7 years of never being able to travel overseas with her. I'm only trying now because we have a son together. I'm planning to use my tax cheque to book a flight to China at the end of the year. I hope it will be for 3 people. I feel like it's too hard to keep going because we have no time for each other and I'm always put last. Just leave me at home every year. Never listens. Part of me wants out right now with my son. Part of me is willing to give it 6 more months to see if my feelings can change.