What happened if you tell a doctor your suicidal I am 22 years old I want to get better but to a point been like this since I was 16 years old I just don't want to end up in the hospital and since I am married and if they won't to can my husband tell no that's not happening or what rights do I have

My wife and I have been together for 3 years. She never gave me any reason to not trust her except what's been happening as of recently. She got a job working inside a mall and she will call me saying "don't pick me up from work today, I'm meeting up with a girl friend and I'll just Uber home" but this became repetitive. Like every other day. When she came home she seemed distant from me and when I asked her "what'd you guys do?" She would have to think for a minute. The other thing is that she left her phone laying on our bed while she was in the bathroom. I didn't want to snoop but her screen lit up and I saw a message from some guy saying "I can't wait to see you again, we'll both be working Monday" When I asked her she said it was just a co worker who she befriended. So a couple weeks go by and my buddy who works in the mall said he saw my wife with some dude out in the food court and they were flirting with each other. Like play fighting, he was tickling her, was rubbing her back, they were sitting super close to each other and my buddy even saw my wife feed this guy some fruit. When I confronted my wife she got defensive and said it was just a co worker of hers and they weren't doing any of that stuff behinds sitting. I've known my friend for years and he would never lie about something like that. What should I do at this point? My wife is constantly on her phone texting someone and gets mad when I peek to see what she's doing.

they place a po hold on him, so how can i get more info on trying to get the hold lift

So for the past 6 months, my husband (ten years) has been turning on tv during sex w me and has become fond of strippers, and woman twerking. At first, I figured it was just a phase and I went along w it a few times. I never liked him doing this to me during sex, but he would tell me I was being uptight and to go along, and I did. Each time I endured the videos of other woman I voiced that I wasn t into this. So he knows im not okay w this. He always wants me to play along and tells me during sex (pretending vocally we r having a threesome.) May I add he used to b intp JUST me. Idk what has happened but I am so hurt. Each time ive had to watch this crap I have told him I didn t like it. Im so confused. Idk how to think but I do know this makes me feel ugly, fat, and boring. All of which I am not. I have never had any complaints w other guys. I am "5 7" 120 lbs., and 38 Cs, brunette. I know I am not ugly, but damn if he makes me feel otherwise. Im so confused. Is it so bad I want my husband to b turned on by just me. What is he thinking and why does he keep doing this to me? Is it so wrong to feel this way and why does he need more is he cheating?

I do my own things but my husband is so wrapped up in his own head. He's home a lot. I am too. Just not sure how to get him to be like he used to be in the beginning. Or is it natural for a guy to not care if their wife isn't with them? I'm always welcome to be with him but if we have conflicts in schedule, he's fine with the thought of me not joining him in whatever the activity is. Before he'd be missing me and wanting me with him. He tells me he misses me and calls or texts while at work. Every single day. I appreciate this and let him know it. But I miss feeling like he thinks I'm amazing and feels lucky to have me. I miss the feeling like I am on a pedestal to him. I always have told him I loved how he was with me. It didn't go unnoticed or unappreciated. And I gave room for him to be that way too. How do I get it back?! I feel like I never lost those feelings towards him. When we aren't together I miss him. I feel like he can carry on without me. "You talk a lot about how you want him to feel, but you don't say a word about what you've done to make him feel special." Shouldn't it go without saying? I mean really. And I did explain a bit about how I am with him. Makes no sense, and not the point either.

I don't understand. If you just get on with things during the day, then at night have great sex? Work, cook, do housework, keep out of eachothers way, maybe watch TV together but don't chat too much. How can things not be paradise?

My boyfriend when he first seen this photo of me when I was eight. He thought it was cute...then when he found out about it he acted like a pervert! My sister told him that I had my skirt off cause I was over Dad's lap getting a spanking on my panty. He said "that must have been a thrill to sit and spank my cute granny panty" Would you react the same as he did seeing this photo? https://flic.kr/p/25eu1Y3