I'm trying to help a friend he is having problems he recently got a divorce she is now with another woman and he is dating someone new he is 33 his ex is in her 30s and the new girlfriend is 18 well they have a court order for visits and custody and all that stuff the ex has been fine but the last 2 weeks she has been saying she is gonna take the 2 children ages 4 &6 away and not let him have them as long as he is with her she has been saying the new f is immature and talking bad about him but the children love the new gf and has spent every weekend with him and the new gf even when it isn't his weekend they have tried to sit down and talk to the ex but she refuses to speak to them when he picks up and drops off the children she won't come outside I was just wondering can she legally take the children and not let them see the children or what can he do to stop her from causing so much problems.

Is he a weirdo or what?

My wife cries when we have sex. Why does she do this ? How can I help her feel better ?

seems many don't think or rush into it likes its a game. Especially having kids. Many have them after a year or two of being with each other. Pathetic.

I took out two car loans on my salary. One of which I gave to my husband to operate as a taxi since that is his occupation for many years before me but he has never owned a vehicle for himself. It's been two years and I have to be paying back my car loan and paying financing for the insurance every month and do the same for my personal vehicle as well… all from my salary. I cannot fathom why the taxi is unable to pay for itself up to this point. Now it needs a new transmission among other minor fixing up and my salary is maxed and I have no savings left. I am worst off than when I started. My alternatives are 1. Continue struggling to pay the bills and hope I make the money for the new transmission before this one fails completely or 2. Take the taxi off the road and sell it now which will leave my husband without a car or sell my car instead and fix the taxi. I have to depend on the expected revenue from the taxi to pay bills which is sometimes short. But I am afraid of taking the car from my Husband as I know this will affect my marriage as he feels he will be stooping low as to go and get another car to drive. But ultimately the taxi will become worst and will eventually stop on its own so he will still be in the very same position but at least I will not be blamed. What do you suggest I do?

When I was at the last few months of my college (12th grade), My girlfriend came to me and expressed that she liked me and wants to get in a relationship with me . As I was a shy guy , I never had a girlfriend until then . So I was like , "finally ! I have got someone ". And after 1 year and 10 months , I suddenly found out that she is 3 years older than me and was married and have 2 children. One girl 7 years old and a boy 4 years old . I was shattered . She told me that her ender sister had died in a car crash and they were her children so they called my gf mom as they had no mom.. I knew the guy as his brother in law and her daugter and son as her niece and nephew . I wanted to kill her so bad . I still want to I think. I never had someone in my life whom i cared about this much . I really loved her . But now , I can not stop think about the big guy (her former husband ) having sex with her and I feel so humiliated .I really don't know What should I do .Nowadays I can not even masturbate as I could only imagin her when I do . Whenever I try to masturbate , I see her huge husband fu**ink her and it drives me mad .(i am only 5'8 and her husband is 6 feet 3 and she is 5 feet 5) Someone please tell me what should I do . The story is so fu**ing humiliating that i can not share it with anyone . Sometimes I want to Kill myself.

and I'll see some hideous things. * blonde hair on her face *wrinkles I cant see inside house *a few moles or skin tag or whatever It gets me down , I mean really depresses me, I thought I married a woman. Why would my life who should love me want to hurt me?

My wife always seems to find something negative to say about my friends, no matter what. Some she bashes worse than others but they all get talked about bad. She told two of them to their face "I don't like talking to you 2. You 2 annoy me"

at men's crotches? --are they that hard up for love? I'm serious, single girls don't. It's ALWAYS married women who's eyes go right to the man's crotch.

Without going into too much here, when I discuss our marriage problems with my husband he has made this statement to me a couple of times, "Don't get upset, but I quit talking because it's either your way or no way." I told him I need to ponder on that a while, so I'm pondering. I haven't asked him yet to give me some examples so I can understand what he really means. My question is; what does it mean when your husband believes things aren't worth talking about because "It's either your way or no way"? Please only serious answer's only, thank you.

This question may sound a little weird, but I really need a different perspective, an external perspective because I am going crazy right now. Please, don't judge, I know he is married but I have to understand what it's happening and I need an opinion from you all. So I met this guy last summer, we always see each other in group: me, my family, some friends, he and his wife, sometimes other people, he also invited us into his house twice. I felt so good with him because he's so charming, he makes you feel comfortable, he's that type of guy who makes you feel confident and, I don't know, just good and I have to admit that no one has been able to make me feel this way before! So everything was ok, he was really flirtatious with me, he did questions to me to know me better, he touched me a lot, he seems to be attracted to me and I noticed he often checked my body and we joked a lot, like just really good friends and I liked the relationship we had a lot. Something changed an afternoon, we invited some friends and there was him too, he was particularly flirtatious that day, we joked and he touched me a lot again, he hugged me a lot, but it was even more than usual (yes there was his wife there but I have to tell you something you don't know about her, later) and at a certain moment, when we were alone, (TO BE CONTINUED) after he hugged me once again, he told me that I am a really good friend like sort of a sister or something like that (yes this may sound like terrible friendzone!) but then he did something strange: he stroked my lower back, I would consider that stroke really sensual, at the point that I felt a little aroused. That time something changed for me, beacuse I started to feel more than simple friendship towards him... I don't know, that "evil" stroke changed everything, I started to daydream about him, I started to think of him more than before, even if I was already attracted to him, that day maybe I "fell in love" and I don't expect nothing from him, but I will be honest with you: I wish I could have sex with him, I feel there is a strong connection between us and I can't deny it anymore. I don't expect nothing more, I don't want to destroy a family I just feel there is something I don't know, like a strong sexual tension between us and yes, my way to fall in love with a man is simply have sex with him in any way, I express passion, I am not that type of girl who dreams about marriage and children, at all. After that we met only twice and I noticed it was like he was keeping it down, he was cute with me as usual but he was containing himself, so I thought his wife told him to stay away from me. At the end of that penultimate encounter, he greeted me with a "Bye honey" so I wasn't expecting he was cooler with me at all. Last encounter, a few hours ago (I live in Europe) for a party with my family and lots of people: I went to say hello to him, he was holding his baby (yes, he has a child, don't judge me please!), he seemed nice but also embarassed at the same time he asked me how are you but he seemed different, well unrecognizable! He is not that type of guy I would consider shy, at all, also considering how many times he wash flirtatious with me! That was red flag number one; then red flag number two, everytime I went into a room or a space where he was, he went away, I felt he was avoiding me, my presence all the freaking time and this sudden change really hurt me, a lot. So I started walking around, talkind with other people but I also noticed that if I was not so far from him he was looking at me, so he wasn't completely ignoring me! I felt sad so I started drink beer, because when I feel sad I tend to drink, yes it's wrong but I AM WRONG, so what else can you expect from me? That worked, I started to feel fine and I laughed a little, surprisingly drunk gave me clarity and that's a contradiction, I know, but I thought you know what? If he is avoiding me, I will stay at the balcony, if he wants to talk to me he can come here and say something, if he avoids the balcony he is really he is really avoiding me. So I stayed there, sad and so lonely, I was losing my hopes, also because I heard that he and his wife were leaving and I thought to not go to say goodbye to him, if he missed me he had to come to me, then he came to the balcony and I felt a hand stroking my back and I turned around and I said that I was drunk, just to keep things light, he said to go on just joking, I don't remember how he said goodbye to me, if he kissed my cheeks or not, because I was too drunk. During the hours following I laughed a lot, just because I was drunk but I wanted to die inside. Now that I am at home I am crying and I don't know what to do, I don't know what's wrong with me, I don't know if I just misinterpreted his past behavior, but something inside my heart says absolutely not, because there was something between us. Yesterday he wasn't so cold, but he wasn't the guy I met the other times either! I don't know what happened to him, maybe I did something wrong, but I am not stupid: he was looking at me sometimes, for example when I had my back to him, I didn't imagine anything. I feel dead inside because probably I won't see him again for a long time and things will get worse and worse, I think, especially if I won't see him so often. Yeah I know that you will judge me and maybe I deserve it but I think that when it comes to love and sex there are no rules, sorry to say but that's what I think, attraction is attraction, chemistry is chemistry and I don't believe in monogamy. What I had to say about his wife is that i know for sure, she cheated on him a few days before the wedding, so I find it funny that she might have blamed him for his flirt with me, that's what I suspect.. But that's another story.. I don't know what will happen tomorrow but that's not how i dreamed to see him again, I am so sad, I feel emptiness and loneliness without him, he was my Sun. Un update: @ ? thanks for your smart reply, this is exactly what I think, regret is the worst thing you could ever experience and I personally know it, you got the point and you understood what I was talking about :) if something will happen, I will never expect more, I don't want him to leave his unfaithful (I remember this!) wife, I just wish the best, I would never hurt or destroy what he built during these years!! Thanks to the ones who gave me kind replies, I appreciate it :) @lala: ahahah you are one of those terribly jealous women, so sad!! Yes maybe I am a selfish sl*** in a world full of hypocrisy, fake people and fake marriages, fake feelings, in this world I am the honest one, trust, because I don't hide myself behind a mask! You didn't read all the text because I informed you that his wife had sex with a guy a few days before the wedding and I am pretty sure she will do it again! So, I don't accept fake moralizing anymore, sometimes happens to meet ..some kind of soul mate, even if this person is married, life isn't a maths problem, you can't control everything, sometimes happens to fall in love with engaged people, that's the beautiful side of life, life is full of emotions out of control, without them we would be soulless empty robots! One last thing: stop with these sexist comments, 2018 guys and if a girl loves sex must be a sl*** yeah I had no idea I got catapulted back to the Dark Ages!!