Question Family: Singles & Dating: Question: Am I ugly0? A girl rejected me i think it was because of my appearance?

Hello Y'all, So I have a situation where I rekindle with my friend from high school. It all started with me helping her tutoring in chemistry. As time went buy I felt like we were actually getting to become good friends she started to invite me to go out and get food, coffee and even invite to hang out with her friends. There was a time where she introduced me to a guy who I believed it was her boyfriend at that time and the reason why I was unsure was because she never brought him up and she introduced him with his first name instead of babe, honey, etc . Either way I got along with my him he was a cool guy. After hanging out with her in a group setting we started to go out one on ones for example drinking at bars and lounges, dinner. Overall I been getting this vive where she seems to like being around me and keeps texting me and reaching out to hang out in settings without her boy friend. We are still at a point where we are not great friends but I feel stupid if I ask her her intentions. I don't want to cross that line since she has a boyfriend and I respect that. Thanks any feedback helps.

Question: Should I move on?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 07:23 PM PDT

So my boyfriend of 4 years finally came clean with me the other night of all his infidelity, that I already knew about, but he denied, he told me that he loved me he wants to be with me and that we will be together for the rest of our lives, he said he was going to tell his daughters mother we are serious like marriage he said he wanted to talk to his dad about the building they own because if he's marrying me he wants to change the building....which yes I love him. I would say it's been my goal to get married. But he told me that not only did he sleep with his ex and at least 4 other women while we were together... he hired a prostitute!!! WTF! This was over 2 years ago....and I mean he did laynit all out there finally all at once, which makes me feel he's remorseful and guilty about what he did... I didn't flip out when he said it, because almost every time along the way I caught him, but he lied or denied it, and I always just moved passed it. I'm having a hard time digesting this. Like I'm happy he's being honest and is serious finally, but do I want this kind of person that can lie to someone they "love" for 4 years. I mean on one hand we weren't married and he was technically free to do what he wanted and we had no legal or spiritual commitment, and now he's come clean and is saying he's ready. I on the other hand have been faithful all along and never doubted my love or if our relationship would work. I'm confused and a little hurt and a little happy.

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Question: I don’t know how to talk to girls and get very awkward and nervous around them. Please help!?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 07:13 PM PDT

Ok so I'm 16 and I have plenty of friends and am not ugly or anything lmao but for some reason I have always had a very hard time talking to girls. Every time I see a girl my first instinct is to walk away and ignore them and even girls who are not considered attractive to most guys make me scared to talk to them. If a girl ever talks to me, I usually become super nervous and sweaty and my mind goes completely blank. Sometimes I even get the courage to talk to an attractive girl but my mind goes blank and I cannot think of a conversation and even if I do have a well thought out conversation I end up stuttering way too much and act awkward af. Please help me, as this is a very big problem right now in my life and it is making me very depressed.

Question: Talking to a younger guy!?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 07:10 PM PDT

I really like this guy and he likes me. He is a little bit younger than me I'm 27 and he is 22 or 23. We met in English class and I start to talk to him because we goes to night school and we are in the same clubs / groups in online college. I thought he was cute and I took a chance to talk to him I was just got of a crazy relationship . Me and him, been talking for almost a month now. We are long distance but like 45 mins or so. And both have things in common like football a lot more. So, yesterday he had FaceTime me and I heard his brother I was like hey he got mad and left the room and give his brother his phone I told his brother give his brother his back. I ask him like what's your problem he the one who gave him his phone. He was mad at me and I told him that he was jealous about it he said yes. We are not dating we just cool we talk all of the time FaceTime everyday like we are boyfriend and girlfriend. I feel like my feelings getting involved to soon.

Question: Does my boss like me?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 07:04 PM PDT

I've been slowly building a friendship with my boss, at work. We have been getting closer and it seems flirtatious. It started with him coming around a lot more and calling me just to say random things, his voice would get a lot softer when he is talking to me. He started making comments when he would see me talking with another guy saying "is that your boyfriend " or teasing me about stuff with guys that I had confessed I was not attracted to. He even texted me asking if a guy I had ran into from a previous job was my boyfriend because he saw us laughing and having conversation. I think he does it to try and gauge my reaction. He does it often! He texts me on my days off, even if it's not important. He comes to work on his days off or early in the am just to help me and he is a salaried manager so he doesn't get paid for it. He spends all day in my department so much so that other coworkers have commented. He will make random comments about how he doesn't want to change anymore diapers or not wanting marriage, as if he is hinting to me to see where I stand? My friends will tease him saying I'm his girl and he will either smile or get quiet. He asked me about him possibly applying to a job outside of our location and when i said I didn't want him to he asked if I was interested in maybe applying. not sure if this was his way of wanting to pursue something and not be conflicted with being my manager. I think that is the reason he has not said anything directly about dating?

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 07:02 PM PDT

If someone goes to the strip club alone and is not spending all this money is it creepy. I'm saying chilling at the bar and tips on stage here and there. Is having a good time talking to the dancers. Just not buying all these lap dances. Let's say this person is a regular there too. Just not spending money on lap dances.

Question: I need help about a girl i had feelings for?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 07:01 PM PDT

Hi, so there is a girl i have feelings for, and she also has kinda feelings, but she wanted to give it more time, to get real feelings. Anyway, we were talking so much everyday, we called etc.. But, a few days ago i argued with her, but i started. I asked her to call, and she couldn't because she was busy, she told me to call later and i was like ' stop lying, lets call ' and after that i cursed, and she got hurt and blocked me everywhere. It was my mistake, i just love her, i contacted her via different account. i apologized and i told her to not make a mistake like this anymore but she doesn't want to talk anymore, and focus on herself. And she cant continue this relation short of thing.. Because it really did hurt her. Does this mean, she will never ever talk to me again or unblock me? I can ofcourse find a way to contact, but i wanna leave her alone, otherwise she will block me again anyway. But i really want her, i don't know what to do, i really hurts me.

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Question: I've heard this girl loves me, but won't follow me back on instagram or have me on Facebook, apparently she's shy?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:53 PM PDT

But why do you think she will have all the other guys on her Facebook and instagram but not me, it's strange, this is why I won't talk to her cus I just feel it's not true cus of that? ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04 She did add me on snap chat but I deleted the app

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:52 PM PDT

Question: Why would he be unable to stay hard during sex?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:50 PM PDT

I've had sex with this guy twice. We've been talking to each other for a month. He'll talk to me for hours. He's 24 and graduated. I'm 21 and a junior in college. We talk about my passions, about school, my future, his job, his family, the things we're doing. And I really like him, I think he's easy to talk to and funny and so sweet. Like after we went out the first time, we insisted on paying for my Uber home and started kissing my hand before he kissed me goodbye on the lips. And the second time he did the same thing but instead of kissing my hand, he caressed my cheek and kissed the top of my forehead. But something is wrong in the sense that when we have sex, he gets hard really easily like just from kissing me but can't stay hard during sex. The first time we had drinks prior so I thought it was alcohol. But after the 2nd time without alcohol, the same thing happened. I'm still being satisfied because he orally pleases me but how are we supposed to date if he can't have sex. I know it bothers him and he said it hadn't happened to him before. He said maybe because he's feeling burned out from work. I don't know what there is to due, I feel like we will have to end it if he doesn't sort this out because I know it bothers him but he thinks I'm amazing and it didn't have anything to do with me.

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:50 PM PDT

Question: Am I ugly? A girl rejected me?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:50 PM PDT

I was talking to a girl and got her number then after a while I asked her out and she said quote "you are a nice guy but I'm not looking for a relationship right now because I'm busey focusing on my career" I respect that later I asked her if she would of if I'm her type and she responded "you're really nice but to be honest you're not my type" then she said shes more into Mexican guys who like Bandas act Mexican and I'm not Mexican enough. I was like what I'm Mexican. I think that was just an excuse and maybe not the real reason. So was it my appearance http://oi64.tinypic.com/15cd3eb.jpg

Question: Should I worry when my boyfriend says “i don’t care”?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:47 PM PDT

I asked my boyfriend if I could come over later tonight for like 5min. He said he didn't care. He then mention how he bought a fight and is watching his son play a game he bought. As soon as I read that my heart dropped and I felt like he really doesn't want me to come over. Am I over thinking it?

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:47 PM PDT

Question: I'm 18 and worried I'll never find another girlfriend?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:46 PM PDT

I'm in my final few months of High school. I broke up with my girlfriend of 1 year about 4 months ago and have felt really lonely ever since. WIhile she was a very caring and loving girlfriend, I broke up with her because of her clingyness, jealousy, and increasingly worsening insecurities... It just sucks because I really loved her, but I knew I couldn't continue our relationship with how it was going in our final couple months together. She was devastated at first, yet somehow has found another guy within about a month of me breaking it off. Problem is, I still find myself missing her and I know she has moved on already, plus it would probably be unhealthy to go back anyways. While things ended pretty badly with us, I still hope she's able to sort out her issues. On my end, I'm starting to think that I just miss being in a relationship. My friends have also kind of drifted off since the breakup (coincidently I guess) so things have been pretty rough lately. I'm really starting to fear the unknown now. I often have girls approaching me (not to sound conceited, but I've always been referred to as an attractive guy), but not any that appeal to me. I can be a bit shy at times (my ex was the only girl I've ever asked out) so I'm usually not putting myself out there much. With high school almost over, I don't have a whole lot of options for girls I find dateable, so I feel kind of stuck. I'll be attending Uni come fall, so will I meet a lot of new people there? Thanks everyone

Question: Relationship advice needed! *trust*?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:42 PM PDT

So me and this girl started talking and it's been absolutely great so far! Like I've never felt this way about another girl. And she is completely head over hills for me!! Which is perfect. We get along great and everything! My thing is... that my last gf would hug and talk to her ex behind my back and face time him so I broke up with her. And ever since I've had I guess you can call it trust issues when it come to my girl and another guy. My current girlfriend has done nothing wrong and I have every reason in the world to trust her. But she has a lot of guy friends. Just like I have a lot of girl friends. I guess I'm just scared to get hurt again. We are both crazy about each other and she even told her friends that she knows it's kinda soon but she feels like I could possibly be the one. So all that is great news. I just always think the worst. Please help cause I don't want this to be a problem. She should be able to have guy friends just like I have girl friends. Please help.

Question: Is this normal? Just curious?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:37 PM PDT

My bf has a set schedule of what nights we see each other/spend time together. Is that normal in a relationship?

Question: How do I get over this?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:34 PM PDT

I had sex with this guy twice he's the third person I ever has sex with and it's like we were going to be friends with benefits but that wasn't my thing , but the weird part is I want to keep having sex with him even though it makes me alittle uncomfortable that he probably won't take me serious . The last message we had between eachother was from him and I didn't respond because I felt guilty for giving my self away so easily but now it's bothering me that he didn't text me again to atleast ask if I'm okay I know he wanted it for sex but I feel like I got alittle attached and I'm wondering should I just delete the convo and never speak to him mind you we go to the same school lol he told me not to make things obvious that we had sex . I kno most of you will say text him back but it's been a whole day I feel weird it's like now I should just cut the communication off

Question: I’m not cheating but....?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:34 PM PDT

Ive been dealing with pretty bad depression. I've been feeling pretty lonely in my relationship lately and things have been rocky. For the past few nights I've been going on an online dating site I used to use and looking at men. I've NEVER spoken to any of them or messaged anyone just looking. Is this wrong?

Question: Opinions ?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:28 PM PDT

This is going to sound pretty dumb but I hooked up with this guy twice and after I left home the second time I felt guilty because having one night stands or having sex just because isn't my thing I felt dirty and like a whore so I told him that I didn't want to have sex and he understood , strangely he's acted way nicer than he has before we had sex sooo I told him I'd talk to him later because he was hanging out with family and he said ofc I didn't respond to that ans nor did he I kind of want to stop talking to him but then I still want to have sex with him but if he doesn't respond should I just delete his number ? I know this is messy I just need opinions I have no one to talk to about this .

Question: How would you get your ex girlfriend or boyfriend back in this situation???????!!!!!?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:25 PM PDT

Me & my girlfriend of 5 yrs came to a mutual break up. She loves me still & ofcourse i love her too. It's been over a month now and I've been talking to someone else but i really miss my ex and i know she misses me because she sends indirect tweets about how she wants to talk but she don't know what to say. Also the girl I've been talking to is younger than me she's 19 and I'm 24. She's good and all but i miss my ex and i don't know what to do. I also know she's willing to fix things with me. I'm trying i figure out a way to cut ties with the one i am talkn into before it goes too far. Any suggestions?! The girl that i talk to Also works at my job.

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:16 PM PDT

Question: I'm done with love??

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:12 PM PDT

I'm done with love. Why you ask? because everytime I try with a girl I always end up hurt. I always end up being the one looking stupid and in pain. Well recently my girlfriend/fiance of year broke up with me, and I am just feeling done with love. Not forever of course, but I wanna take my mind off of it and figure things out. I've always been so focused on relationships my entire life, and I don't wanna keep my focus there anymore because nothing but pain has come from it.

Question: Im trying to control my urges to kill my ex girlfriend!!!!!?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:09 PM PDT

I was with a girl since 2015 up until a few months back, she was cheating on me for the whole time I was with her and eventually I had enough of her, I started a big argument with her went out and completely separately someone stabbed me, she didn't even come to the hospital in fact she said that'll teach me not to argue with her, after that a car which I had bought off of her step dad got taken back and sold for extra money because the paperwork wasn't in my name and he told me I was a retard when I asked for the money back, eventually she told me that she slept with a boy who drives a new bmw and did it because he was a lot better than me and richer and I lost the plot, I haven't had a girlfriend since then because 1) I feel like killing myself and 2) I can never love again, but I have this urge which is unhealthy and will land me in jail and I don't want to be in jail, what can I do, thanks everybody

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:02 PM PDT

Question: Girl looks away as soon as I look at her?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 06:01 PM PDT

There is this girl I see all the time, and I was minding my own business looking around and just so happened to look at her. She then looked at me and we made very brief eye contact. This happened again, but this time, she was looking first. As soon as I made eye contact she immediately looked up as if she wasn't looking at me. I read online that if a girl looks up and around after eye contact she is not interested at all, but what does it mean from anyone here? It's not like she has a distaste, because whenever I walk by her and she is sitting down, she always stares at me the entire time I walk by, as well as from far away.

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 05:43 PM PDT

This man put me through hell, he called me a **** constantly told me to go **** myself when he got mad and would never take responsibility for anything he did. At the end he kicked me out of his place at one AM because I didn't have sex with him, I had to drive 20 minutes home in the dark crying

Question: This girl I have been talking to has seemed very interested in me and she flaked on our date. Why would she do that?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 05:41 PM PDT

For the longest stretch she would express her feelings about me, she wanted me to ask her out, said I was the perfect guy for her, all sorts of stuff. We agreed on a time and place, she never showed up nor did she text/call me to cancel. I'm very hurt by this and I usually don't after being stood up. What should I do?

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 05:38 PM PDT

okay, so back in july my mom caught me and my boyfriend kissing and she is totally against that for some reason and hated him ever since. we've been secretly dating and its 10 months later and she caught us.. again. (just kissing) so, she doesn't trust me anywhere near him. today, i was hanging out with about 7 people and she was pissed and called me and was like come home now because she saw he was there. so i was like its 4:00 legit i have a long time left outside. so, about an hour later we see her in the car at a red light and I'm facing in the other direction and all my friends go "oh my god *my boyfriends name* her mom just gave you the finger. therefore, he goes chasing her car down the road while flipping her off and screaming. how can i fix this she doesn't trust me around him making it really hard to hangout. help?

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 05:25 PM PDT

Question: What to do if my girlfriend is hot but I’m not a very handsome guy?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 05:23 PM PDT

When we go out in public I get a little bothered by men staring at her or checking out her butt. I know I'm a great boyfriend to her and have always been supportive but I feel at least on a sub concious level she likes the attention from other men. I don't tell her this, but I fear losing her one day because I'm not that good looking & if she wanted she can have likely any man.

Question: What she I do with my relationship?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 05:22 PM PDT

So me and this girl, both 17, have liked each other for a while but she was dating this guy that treated her like crap. They broke up almost a week ago and we started hitting it off. I ve been to her house almost every day since and we cuddle a lot and the other day we made out a couple times. I asked what we were and she said she didn t know and that we should stop cause she wasn t ready. I really like her and being away from her hurts. What should I do?

Question: Is this a sign that my boyfriend does not care?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 05:20 PM PDT

My boyfriend and I have been dating going on a year. We are in a long distance relationship, but we communicate openly. He has not met my parents yet, so I allowed my mom to break the ice to text him just to say hello. He texted me and seemed awkward and said that he didn't know rather to respond to her or not. Then he did not say anything to her at all. For some reason, this really upset me because I feel that my boyfriend should have at least responded and said hello. I found it rude and I am a little embarrassed, but I know I may have put him on the spot. Should this be a sign that he doesn't care to meet my family or am I overreacting?

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 05:12 PM PDT

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 05:10 PM PDT

If a guy looks at you while licking the side of his inner lip slowly

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 05:07 PM PDT

A father who gives his son more freedom and is more rigid with his daughter, why do women like father like that?

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 05:06 PM PDT

So me and this one girl who I was dating for a little while just broke up because her parents didn't want her dating. But we dated behind their backs and they found out about it and made us break up. We honestly love each other to death. But she said she has to give up dating until 2019. Is it possible to wait that long? Can 2 lovers wait that long for each other? I really don't want to lose her.

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 05:04 PM PDT

Question: I’m dating a guy but I keep thinking about girls?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 05:03 PM PDT

I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months now and he's the love of my life. Not only that but he's my first love. Although I love him and I can see myself being with him for a long time, my mind keeps drifting off to thoughts of being with another girl. I'm bi and I've dated girls before but I never really felt a connection with any girls that I dated. I just keep imagining kissing my best friend and I've been finding her more attractive recently as well as this girl that I used to have quite the crush on but I haven't even talked to her in months. I'm just confused and I feel incredinly guilty for thinking these thoughts. It also might be relevant that I have a history of commitment issues.

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 04:53 PM PDT

I'm a freshman and my bf is a sophomore. We're in high school. This girl in his class was saying "(my name) and (his name) muah muah muah. Of course he's going for a freshman. Freshman. Stripperman"

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 04:53 PM PDT

Question: The guy I’m dating can’t stay hard during sex?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 04:51 PM PDT

I've had sex with this guy twice. We've been talking to each other for a month. He'll talk to me for hours. He's 24 and graduated. I'm 21 and a junior in college. We talk about my passions, about school, my future, his job, his family, the things we're doing. And I really like him, I think he's easy to talk to and funny and so sweet. Like after we went out the first time, we insisted on paying for my Uber home and started kissing my hand before he kissed me goodbye on the lips. And the second time he did the same thing but instead of kissing my hand, he caressed my cheek and kissed the top of my forehead. But something is wrong in the sense that when we have sex, he gets hard really easily like just from kissing me but can't stay hard during sex. The first time we had drinks prior so I thought it was alcohol. But after the 2nd time without alcohol, the same thing happened. I'm still being satisfied because he orally pleases me but how are we supposed to date if he can't have sex. I know it bothers him and he said it hadn't happened to him before. I don't know what there is to due, I feel like we will have to end it if he doesn't sort this out.

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 04:51 PM PDT

Question: Is there something wrong with me?

Posted: 07 Apr 2018 04:41 PM PDT

I'm 16 and I've never dated anyone. I've never even been called pretty/beautiful except by guy friends one or two times who are more like brothers. All my friends have boyfriends and talk about how guys always check them out and cat call them. I know that not something to be super jealous of but it kinda hurts to always hear about it when it never happens to you. It makes me think something's wrong with me and no boy will ever like me. Sometimes it seems like a guy will look at me longer than usual. I'll think oh maybe he thinks I'm cute but then I doubt it and start to believe he's looking because I'm super ugly and I would never be good enough for him. This stops me from even attempting to talk to him. Even if he stares every day I'll still believe the bad thoughts. I dress nice, I'm kind to everyone, I have plenty of friends. I try so hard to be good enough but it's never enough

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Posted: 07 Apr 2018 04:05 PM PDT

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