During my class facilitation, whenever someone contributes something or asks a question and I answer it, that person would look at the prof rather than continuing the conversation to what I've said. Why is this?

so i talk to this guy not everyday but sometimes. he talks to me all sweet and stuff but wont make me as his girlfriend. I tried to move on and talk to other guys but he get extremely jealous when he sees me giving other guys attention. That is the only time he takes me serious.

Why do some girls catch a little attitude and roll their eyes at you. I was walking in front 10 ft away and I didn't even look at her it was 2 sec I look up 2 sec and she did this. WHY ????!!!! Is it me or is it her ? I notice it especially with Asian girls.

They say they are my "friends" but they never have time to text me, but have time to text eachother wow,

We've had some really great moments and eve though he never directly tol me I washis best friend he always opnd up to me, told me things, and my friends told me that he talked about me to them when I wasnt around sying I was like a brother to him or asking whether or not theyd heard from me, and once he even pretended to be hot so he could give me his jacket.but hes not openly sensitive and he's kindof cold in that way so it's hard to know for sure. The thing that especially makes me doubt everything is that he has another best friend (He never said they were best friends but it's as if they were)who he's known a little longer and who he talks about and who he sees every saturday. This guy also comes to his beach house (I was invited too, but im talking about before we were friends) and his whole family knows him. I'm really ealouse of that friend and he knows it and always playfully makes me jealouse saying how he wa going out with him the thing is everyone says that him and his friend don't really talk about real important things, and when I'm with him, I just feel like theres an amazing feeling becuase we have so much fun together that I feel like it would be impossible for me not to be his best friend. Please help me, this thing really makes me hurt and I want to hear what you think about this, if I'm his rreal best friend, and if there arre any ways to find out. oh and btw I asked him allot of months ago who his best friend was and he said that he didnt have just one bff but that I was definitaly one of them. But I know thats not humanly possible and now Im not even sure since so much time has passed since I asked him. Oh and another problem is that this other friend I'm jealous of might go to his school next year and I am so jealous, and scared, it's crazy.

My best friend tried to commit suicide and is currently in a psychiatric hospital. I took the day off work and spent the whole day there. His family live in a different town so they can't be there all hours of the day, whereas I live 10 minutes away from the hospital. Is it acceptable for me to take another day off work to be there tomorrow? He's very lonely and he was so happy to have company for the whole day. It's also very fresh and I don't want him to be on his own.

We have been neighbors for about 5 years but they have always kept their distance. I am not real sure what, but there is something unusual about the husband who makes it clear he doesn't want to be on friendly terms. A couple times I asked if I could give the kids some things while outside and the wife seemed very appreciative. She's nice, but he won't make eye contact. Last year he torched a piece of furniture which made a terrible stench and black smoke that filled the air while we were all outdoors trying to enjoy the evening. I messaged and kindly told them they could have put it out with our trash instead of burning it. I sensed an attitude from him and that was the end of that. This week I got a message from the wife asking if they could put their old mattress out with our trash...she said her husband would appreciate it. My first thought was no big deal, since I offered the chair last year, but now I am wondering If I should have just kept quiet about helping. I get this weird feeling he is a moocher who doesn't want to pay his own trash and there have been times they don't get it picked up, making me wonder if they pay their bill. I guess if he took the time to say hello or something I might think differently of him. My next thought is wondering what else he may ask if we allow this. Would you allow this or tell them sorry?

I used to be friends with this girl--best friends, in fact. I won't go into a ton of detail for time's sake, but in short, over time I realized that she had been using me as a doormat and that I had been in a very toxic friendship with her. I broke it off by cutting off all contact with her; I didn't answer messages, I unfriended, unfollowed, and blocked her on all social medias we were connected on, etc. so that I wouldn't have to think about her and how she had treated me. I don't know how healthy this is, but it's the current and only coping mechanism I know and it's at least kept me away from her toxicity. Anyways, we happen to go to the same college so we cross paths sometimes; in the cafe, in the library, maybe while walking to classes, and the like. I find myself terrified when I'm in the same place as her because I'm worried that if she comes up and tries to talk to me and asking me "what's wrong?" or "what happened" I'll panic and tell her "oh nothing!" or something like that. Basically, I panic easily when I feel cornered and I don't want to brush off the fact that she hurt me deeply, but I also don't want to act unprofessionally and yell at and berate her in public, either. If I see her, I find myself immediately turning around and hightailing it in the other direction, even if it means taking a route to my class that's 3x longer just to avoid coming into contact with her. How would you handle situations like these? Are there better ways?

We were talking about people thinking we are boyfriend/girlfriend because they saw us hanging out together, and he said "I don't know. We've spent a lot of time together. Should we classify ourselves as that?" He is such a good guy. Never drank, never smoked, never had sex. I know my life would always be good with him, that I would always be safe and that I could depend on him. But I just don't feel any attraction to him. He told me all of the things I want someone I'm in love with to say to me, but I just can't see myself ever falling in love with him. And those moments when my eyes looked at his, I never gave him the look I gave to someone I was in love with. He would text me during the day and ask me how my day was and talk about his family, cartoons, video games, food. He's not like those guys who texts only at night about only one topic. He would say "People do stuff to get appraise from others, I'm different from other guys, I avoid all of that. Settle your life first, before you settle down, that's what I'm going to do." He would tell me "Did anyone do anything bad to you? I'll hunt them down, make them pay for whatever they did to you. I will protect you from harm," We talked about a topic and I asked him if he would resist in a situation. He said "Yes, I would resist, if I have a girlfriend, why would I want another, I'll just make my girl hotter than that girl." He said "I want to be everything for you. I thought I can change your mind. I wish it was different."

I met my friend when we were 4 years old in preschool. We were BEST friends for about 10 years. She moved away and we still talked but the friendship slowed down. When we entered our teenage years, she took a completely different turn than I did. We are completely opposite.. not my type of friend anymore. She has also grown into a compulsive liar and I can t physically stand talking to her. We are now 23 years old and she still lives far away from me but messages me from time to time and it pains me to reply because I hate her now. She doesn t even realize. She still calls me her BEST friend. I would be so happy if I never talked to her again but it feels wrong because I ve known her for SO long. What should I do? Every time she talks to me it s one lie after another and she thinks I am completely clueless. Help!!

I'm already super stuffed but my mom asked me if I want pizza and I'm not going to pass that up but I don't want it to be obvious that I already ate

I asked a NEW friend to hang out and she took a while to respond. She was like sure but you dont even live around me and that weekend or happy hour work so I said cool. She then replied and said she would like to go and even proposed the day and activity but that she needs to check her schedule and get back to me tomorrow...which has passed. Was that a polite way of saying no? I wanted to get to know her more (i am also a female). Now I fear I shouldn't have asked her to hang out. She is usually direct and straight to the point, which is why this response is confusing me...

I'm having a small ceremony. There are 3 friends that I don't know if I should invite. All are nice, fun girls. 1) A childhood friend I talk to once a year about trivial things. I haven't seen her in about 2 years but she invited me to her upcoming graduation party. She is expecting to be invited to my wedding. I haven't said yes or no. She also has a +1 I barely know. 2) A girl I've known since HS. I see her about twice a year now. She threw me off by asking in front of a group of other girls (at her birthday party) if she's going to be a bridesmaid. On the spot, I said yes because I didn't want to hurt or embarrass her. (No, you may not even be invited. Happy birthday!) 3) Best friend for the past 4 years. We hung out frequently, constantly in contact. Since around December she slowly stopped contacting me, initiating convo, or asking to hang out. When I told her I was engaged, one word answer. When I ask to hang, doesn't feel up to it. I asked her straight if we're still friends and she says of course, we're best friends. She's made new friends. Not the best influences and since meeting them she's followed their lifestyle. I've attributed her lack of contact to finding different interests and paths in life. So while it hurts, I've chosen to let it go. I'm afraid if I misunderstood, not inviting her would REALLY cause her to drop me and hurt her feelings. Though my gut feeling is rarely wrong and I don't believe I've misunderstood. Should I invite them?

Unfortunately, someone at the job started a false, damaging rumor about me that has escalated beyond control. This rumor quickly spread like wildfire at the site affecting not only my emotional status but job performance as well. According to the rumor, 1. I talk to myself in the main lobby of the building and 2. I have been stalking a female messenger that I have strong feelings for, my crush. She has been hiding from me at the job, going as far as switching her indoor messenger route to avoid our paths from ever crossing again. This is all based on the rumor. I have not seen her since March 28. I don't believe in coincidences. This rumor is absolutely untrue, a lie fabricated in hell. I strongly believe that the rumor was started by someone who wanted me out of the site. Maybe, just maybe, the individual who initiated the rumor about me is also interested in the same female messenger and planned to get me out of the site by any means necessary. I am now temporarily unemployed until the company finds me a new site. What do you say?

He went to a party without inviting me

Is there a way of politely introducing oneself using a pseudonym while making sure they know that you are using a fake name? I think it'd be interesting to be known by another name to certain people at some point. But I wouldn't want is to be in a way that tricks them or gives me any advantage over them.

My gr and I are so good together but recently she's been having lots of sleepovers with my best friend (female). They say there playing Mario kart but I think something suspicious is going on because they haven't even unlocked the star cup yet and it's the 2nd week they've spent the night!!

Can tackling someone down to the ground be counted as a takedown?

I'm a female sophomore in college. I used to be best friends with this guy, he is gay there is no romantic tension. We had a lot of friendly banter, we mocked each other a lot but never about anything serious. Almost two months ago now I started hooking up with a mutual friends of ours. He was annoyed by it because he thought it would start drama, it hasn't, anyway later on he says he's no longer annoyed because no drama came of it. Ever since then though he's just gotten consistently meaner and meaner. I decided to talk to him about it last night and he told me he has noticed he's been meaner to me. He said he's not sure why it's happening, but that he just feels really annoyed with me a lot of the time, he said it might be because he's stressed about work but I don't believe that because he only treats me this way. Then he said we should take a break from being friends. Sometimes I think it might be that he feels jealous of me, because we share a lot of mutual friends and I tend to get along better with them. I moved into his house at the beginning of this semester and I'm really close with all my other housemates. I feel like maybe he used to be closer with them but is now not as close and maybe blames me? There's been no clear reason for this falling out so should I just give up on the friendship? Is it just him being toxic? Do I bother to fix it? Anyone have anything similar happen and what turned out to be the cause of the problem?