Hey guys So this one girl in my class send me nudes on a daily basis. But she wont come over and **** me. She talk dirty and she told me that she will do dirty things to me. But she never do

A devil because I told her it was no need to get my daughter dressed this morning I could do that. My youngest daughter was sleeping in my moms bedroom during the week because I was getting my daughter ready for school. She concurred that I was using her? Since my daughters bus picks her up in the front of the house rather than a 3-5 min walk to the road. I'm in the process of moving in 3-6 months. I wish sooner and my mother wasn't happy about this . Idk why she went on saying she will be glad when I move out - despite I don't bother her anyways in the house. I pay half the rent me and my sister to be exact plus the water bill since my mom doesn't get an income. We always been taking care of her despite she makes it hard on us. I don't plan on giving her any rent money any more since she feels this way and made it clear she doesn't need our money. I moved in with my mother because she is disabled, can't work, and has no income to pay the rent, water, and lights. I've done everything I can to help her. I pay the cable bill and 1/2 of the rent, water, and lights. My sister pays the other half so all thats left is the light bill which isn't much. Ik lol since I am the devil let ger pay her bills next month by herself and I can pocket my money! My mother is 😜 Her doctor ruled her disabled. Social security denied her benefits if my sister and l leave here she would be homeless. My mother needs us in order too keep her home. I don't have to be here- thus moving out when my housing is available in 3-6 months. She is unhappy because she resents me. Nothing going for herself and she's sick. I gave up my apartment to be here not happening again. I have a family of 3 including myself. FN my mother pockets and spends the money we give her while getting assistance here and there from these caseworkers. I have a disabled daughter who gets SSI I know how it works. At the end of day, leaving here and done helping my mother. Doesn't matter how much you do it's never enough for her.

Apart from the fact that my parents were physically and emotionally abusive (now 'only' emotionally) my mom is a manipulative psychopath. The things she does aren't normal. For example I went out yesterday (which she has a problem with for some reason as she cussed me out about it the other day) and came back to find both TV remotes on my bed. I never watch TV, there's absolutely no way I brought them to my room. She then asks me where the remotes are. I asked her why she put them in my room, and she denies it and says it was me. This was with my dad in the room. I'm fully convinced she's mentally ill, and I'm sick of putting up with both of their sh*t. I can't move out for another year, and I can't talk to them as they're not reasonable, or sane, people. How do I deal with these crazy... people?

Our parents enable her, she is a narcissist

Recently I moved out from my parents' place and have officially broken off from them. My mother was physically and emotionally abusive to me and my brother while my dad did nothing about it. I have a lifetime's worth of self-esteem issues and psychological trauma to get over and it's unlikely I'll have kids. But if I do I made it a point that I will not let my parents ever see them. Is it really child abuse/neglect to prevent children from seeing family members who have literally broken the law by neglecting and abusing their children, and who might do the same to their grandchildren?

so my mom is always going through my phone I would say at least twice a month.. she picks random times.. when she says let me see your phone I give it to her and tell her the password I mean why not I don't pay for the phone.. but I'm 18 about to be 19 and every time my mom finds something wrong on my phone she takes my keys and I can't drive anywhere for a long time longest I haven't have my car was probably like 2 months.. nothing bad is not even in my phone I talk about weed and my mom doesn't like weed.. and just personal conversation I have with friends.. if my mom didn't check my phone I would never get in trouble.. i try to ask her why do you go through my phone and she says well I pay for the phone I can do what I want..I just think it's extrely ridiculous like.. I'm in college also I commute this just makes me rethink all my decisions and wish I stayed on campus.. and with my mom checking my phone and me trying me staying on campus probably isn't even an option cause she doesn't trust me.. and I'm struggling getting a job right now and tossing a job and school would be too much.. but I'll be out school soon so I could get a job and save my money to pay for my own phone bill... but i do delete stuff but when I do she' complains and says oh you think you are sneaky deleting stuff trying to get over on me.. I'm just confused right now I don't really know what to do.. I would never get in trouble if my mom didn't go through my phone..I just need some advice thanks

My sisters crazy about her new boyfriend, he's now living at our house. He pays for his own food, washes his clothes at his house etc so I don't mind. But They have only been together 5 months and I think he's lying about a lot. He says he's a business owner but he isn't getting as much business so he sleeps at our house like 8pm - 3pm the next day. After 2 months of this he got a job, kept it for a week. While my sister was in the shower he was speaking to a girl on the phone (she was on loud speaker) and all I heard was her saying "aw come on I know you have the whole week off".

I live in the Bronx with my 3 month old son and boyfriend. Everytime my father needs something done for him (just came out of surgery), my mother always calls me and says that she "needs" someone to do this and that for him, and I end up volunteering to help. Because its like she knows im always going to say yes. I dont mind helping my dad. My thing is that I live two hours away from my parents home, amd my brother lives with them. So why not ask my brother to help out since he lives there and doesnt work in the daytime at all. I feel used, especially yesterday morning when my mom called me at 7:00 in the morning saying my dad needs someone to drive him to long island for his appointment. I was in my bed. My boyfriend was at work. I dont drive, my boyfriend does. So I ask wat happen to my brother? And she says he making excuses. It is very unfair to me. What to do to make her realize Im not a yes woman

I'm a 20-year-old man. My father has a bad attitude, he's rude, disrespectful, controlling, short-tempered, etc. He doesn't support my career choice to be a nurse because he thinks it's for women. He doesn't like that I like to spend more time with my mother and sisters as opposed to him and my brother. I'm a lot closer with my mother and sisters because they don't judge me and they support everything I do. I get the impression that he doesn't like that I'm not a manly man, and he wants me to spend more time with him to try to influence me to become one. I am who I am. I'm my own person with my own beliefs, interests, personality, etc. Why can't he just support me instead of trying to change me? I'm also gay, but still in the closet. He's a big homophobe. Almost every achievement I've accomplished, he has put down in some way, whether it was getting good grades in school, getting my first job, going off to college, etc. I'm in my third year of college. He told me once, "You shouldn't go to school because you're just going to end up being a janitor." That was very hurtful. Even when everyone around me congratulates me when I accomplish something, he just gives me a dirty look and then walks away. It's like everything I do is not good enough for him. Being around him is like walking on eggshells, because he gets violently angry over the smallest things. He has told me once that I'm not good at anything. These things have brought down my self-esteem. What can I do about this?

I just started babysitting a 5 year old and I get him at 7 a.m when I get him I usually have him lay back down for an hour until my girls get up. He went and told his Dad I have him lay down. His Dad said out TV on and I said this is my house and rules. Then he also told Dad I don't let him play Xbox all the time. I'm having him do activities. When I told his Dad he never really talked to me about it in person just walked out the door with his son. Btw his son is 5 years old.

My husband has told her no that she can not but in true spirit she turns on the victim pass and tries to make me a bad guy. Now I'm the kind of person if you cant say it to my face dont say it but she always says it behind my back. I dont want to compete with her and I dont want her to feel like we are pushing her away. However we have set rules and boundaries that everyone but her are willing to follow when it comes to our family. Do I just let her throw her fit or do something else? Ive lived with her once I will not do it again. I just want everyone to be happy.

I am vegan (no hate please, I have no hate against people who eat meat) my mom criticises me for it, she says its not right, people are meant to eat meat. Of course I know shes incorrect, but I don't say anything. but it makes me feel really bad. Shes also very controlling, once she didn't like the socks I was wearing (white plain socks), she made me change to white plain socks 1 inch or so lower than my first choice. I am 15 years old, and she still combs my hair and stuff because "it doesnt look good enough." during dinner I have my arm resting on the table, and she didn't like that. she made me put it down. I said no, it's fine. she started yelling at me that no one would accept me in the world unless I had enough manners to know that I can't put my hands/arms on the table. When my mom criticizes little things about me and says people wont like me because of them, I feel terrible. How can I not feel terrible? Also my dad and aunts, who I am very close with/live with some of the time, have no problem with how I am at all. I have fun with my dad and my aunts, but they are strict as well if they need to be. I feel happy with them, but when I am with my mom I am scared and we barely talk to each other. My aunts (my moms sisters) tell me that I need to stand up to my mom and that she is being ridiculous. They say that my mom doesn't get to decide stuff for me since I am old enough to make some reasonable descisions. What do I do? How do I not feel terrible about myself?

My boyfriend and I have talked about moving in together, but because of how expensive and complicated it can be for us to get an apartment he's suggested (and kind of begged me) to move in with him and his family. He's living with his mom, his moms boyfriend, his 2 younger brothers and 2 female cousins. They're pretty nice and respectful when I'm there. It's only that the cousins have said a couple things about him and I being together which makes me a little uncomfortable. I don't talk much, but I can hold a conversation with his mom and brothers sometimes. I've never lived with another family before and one issue is my parents. My stepdad doesn't even know I'm dating anyone because my mom has been keeping it a secret. My mom keeps me from going out much because my stepdad hates it. If he's home, no one can go anywhere. And if I have to go to the grocery for anything my mom needs, he gives me a certain amount of time to do the errands. Oh, and the only time I can be out later than 6 or 7 is if I have my younger sister with me.

I'm in high school, mostly very advance classes, and most of my time outside of school is used to complete homework assignments, and lately make up work because I have missed a large sum of school due to some medical issues. However, my mom gives me a long list of chores ever night to complete and gets very angry when I don't complete them. I usually get grounded. I would focus more on my chores to avoid conflict with my mother, but poor grades will only upset her more. What do I do? Examples of chores: daily 30 minute walk with my dog, helping to make dinner, cleaning the kitchen after dinner, clean the bathroom, etc.

I hear him talk to himself sometimes I'm just wondering why?

I'm 16 and still live at home with my parents. My dad is always on my *** about school. I don't have the best grades, and he's constantly yelling at me and making my life miserable. He's taken away all my freedom and everything else. He says he wants me to do well in school, but everything he's doing is too much and it only makes thing worse. I try to explain this to him, but he always ends up yelling at me. I honestly want nothing to do with him anymore and that isn't good for a father-son relationship. I need all of this to stop. I wanna find a way to make a statement that I'm not putting up with him anymore. He won't let me use my car, hang out with friends (which is the worst for me, because hanging out with friends is all I wanna do on the weekends, and he doesn't let me), and he always has to get his way and you can't reason with him! I just need help with this, because as a teen, I need at least a little bit of enjoyment in my life. Please help.

I am going to say toxic parent. If you know what that means, then I had to get far away and avoid contact. She's almost desperate to get me back. I left for my own well being.

She just died and trying to figure out if I need to do the funeral or not.

She had a boyfriend and got pregnant. The elders talked to her and were ok for her to get married. My son and his wife were very supportive until she asked them for my granddaughter to be her flower girl. It was a non religious ceremony and reception followed. My daughter supported him on everything when he got married even though she was not in the wedding party. My daughter was very hurt with his brother not attending her wedding. She replied to his text message when he said that he was not going to attend her wedding with no explanation. She replied to him saying I m sorry but fu and I love you. This hurts me a lot because you are not the brother I grew up with. You changed please don t come to my delivery when by baby is born. I love but this hurts a lot. His wife replied and asked me not ask for my grandchildren because she didn t want me spoil my grand children like my daughter. His was a group text. My son has not called or anything after that text message. It has been almost two months.

Ok, before you immediately comment, "you spoiled brat", or, "look from your parents perspective", zip it and listen. Please. Thank you. I always hear friends talking about vacations they've taken, and I just want to cry, I literallyalways hear friends talking about vacations they've taken, and I just want to cry, I literally just want to cry... The friends who haven't "gone on vacations" are the ones who say, " how come I've never really gone on vacation, except that one time 4 years ago, but that wasn't on the plane so it doesn't count", i'm talking I've literally never left my small town in the middle of Iowa. Trust me, I know what you're thinking, and no, my parents are not poor. Not rich, but upper middle class, my dads A farmer, and mom can afford to be a stay at home mom... It just doesn't make sense 😂😂 I've asked for years and every time the answer is no, or, "I'll think about it"... But it never happens... Work isn't a issue, my dad has people up the ying yang willing to help him out for a few days... I'm just narrowing things out in my own head... And it doesn't make sense... I'm just depressed at this point, should I start a go fund me or something? 😂 Jk... But seriously, I haven't gone more than 100 miles south, and that's for doctors appts... Where I'm told terrible things about my future, I just can't take it, why do so people's lives seem so much better...