if you want to still have respect for your husband, never catch him doing that, I never knew for sure if he masturbated, but when I found him doing it last night, I got sick. it looks so abnormal. I did lose respect for him, even though people say its normal, its not.

Before the mid 20th century, it was very common for young people to get married and have kids right away. Young women would begin having kids at ages 18 to 20. Today in the 21st century, this is no longer the case. Young people are holding off on marriage and having kids. Why is this?

Im female, 34 and have never married. I was a tomboy until my mid twenties guys wernt interested and i didnt socialise much, i didnt go out to pubs etc i had no one to go with. On frieday nights i was in the gym ive always liked keeping fit, sport and even climbing trees. Though ive not climbed a tree for several years lol. Anyway My grandmother says that im probably too old for marriage now and that she thinks i'l stay single. Do grandmothers usually know best? They have lived a long time.

Hi so I was on a business trip and my husband was taking about how he's gonna be rough with me when I get back and how he misses my boobs so I bought some lingerie and some sexy stuff for him and now it's been 4 days and nothing do u think it's possible he's cheating

The house was purchased after marriage. Its in the husband name only. My name not on the deed. I'm in the process of filing for divorce. I already talked to a lawyer. My husband doesnt want to divorce now. He's trying to sell the house before the divorce. Can he sell it without my consent? If so, can the court reverse the sale? or order the sale money be divided? I'm filing to have the sole custody for my daughter and I work, but I also need a sum of money to stay on my feet. When we decided to split, I moved out to my parents temporary and he told me we'll split the house money after sale. But I guess it was all lies. Now he's been talking to his brother trying to get a buyer as soon as possible. His brother even called me threatening to burn my stuff that left in the house if I dont go and get them. I live in Michigan and I know its a equitable distribution state. But I need something to keep my hopes up.

So I'm driving upstate with my girlfriend to meet her parents on Sunday. Some of her extended family is going to be there and we're having dinner out just her parents, her, and I. I'm nervous because I'm meeting a lot of her family at once and because of the dinner out that follows. I feel like I'm going to have to talk about myself and there really isn't a lot of good things to say, pretty much all my background might scare them off. I come from a broken home, I grew up poor, my parents stayed together in a very messy marriage, my only brother is in prison, and I moved away for college and my contact with them all has been limited. I can go on and on about this, and I've actually told my girlfriend most all of it. I'm not refined or anything, and I feel like they're going to see through me. I'm not a bad person, but I'm as "other side of the tracks" as can be. Is it possible for me to just not talk a lot without seeming weird? And should I bring a gift when I go see them? Thanks in advance, I know it's a lot.

So my exgirlfriend and I are having a baby and we can't move out until we get married because her parents are very religious, and I would marry her the only problem is she wants to stop working for 5 years after the baby is born I don't think I can support us 3 for that long under 13.50 so she's leaving me and putting me on child support.

My ex husband left 15 month ago and during Still live together he married a chinese Masseuse. I found out four months later when he left, he told me to take care of our daughter and the house, he will make money for the family. However, he cheated on me all the time.. At one point I was really mad I post some adult ads on CL, he found out and threaten me if I didn't sign for a quick divorce he will post all the ads. He also force me lie to say I committed adulteary so he could get the insurance money quicker( he got car accident during st I'll married) I had to lie under the oath and this record stays forever. when he filed divorce, he never filed the custody or property division. Now he threaten me will stop pay morgage( under his name, but the house was me solely invested) honestly I can't afford the mortgage, I I want to sell, he refuse to cooperate because he wanted use the house to file his other debt, and he wanted file full bankruptcy. Divorce isnt the worse part, he threaten me, abuse me and insulted even this morning called me is a whore. Also let his chinese wife insult me say I slept with 16 men! I want to move on but we have financial tie, he threaten me will take my kid and file bankruptcy and let the bank take the house etc. I work 50 hours overnight to support his mortgage and paid everything for my daughter for last 15 month, he never contributed any dime. I'm so depressed and scared because of my daughter's well being, I can't barely stand and work now.

My husband and i like girls. He and i have two kids and he has two others that he doesn't see. Our new girl friend has two kids and we all just moved in her house. She's 21 and I'm 22 my husband is turning 31 in May. She seems more into my husband than me and i want to know how to make this work. My husband doesn't work and I'm looking for a job. We don't want her to kick us out because of this so how can we make her happy. I'm a Aries, she's a cancer and he's a Virgo if that means anything.

According to Quran 4:24 Muslim men have Allah swt given right to take right hand possession regardless they don't desire one. Even Allah's apostle promised his wives not to take another exotic girls like Maria the coptic but angel ascend from heaven to tell Muhammad he doesn't have to avoid right hand possession. Quran 66:1