All three of them are friends already but they're really nice to me but I'm kinda quiet and shy and I never really know what to say to them, but I do interact with them when they do. They're kinda popular but that's okay I just really like them and idk if they think I'm weird for being shy but I hope not

So this one girl sends me a message acting like she wants to talk but when I reply she leaves me on read. Also this other girl who I like, my friends all say she likes me but i dont think she does. Please WHAT DO I DO!

I am a female who is close with a male friend of mine. We have always have a close but strictly mutual platonic friendship. Also he is gay. I don't want to suggest that he sexuality isn't valid or that he is lying, but he has been acting very strange towards me as of late. We always sit next to each other when we eat lunch with our friends, and usually because space is limited our knees touch, but he has taken to pressing the side of his body completely against mine and running his hand along my thighs under the table. He also likes to pull me into a side hug quite a few times throughout lunch, often as he is laughing so her buries his face against me. He's been doing this a lot and his face is wandering further south than it should. And finally when we get up to leave I typically hug my friends and we go to class, but recently when I hug him he pulls me in tighter than normal and pulls me completely against him. There have been a couple of other instances where he leaned behind me while i was in my chair, forcing me to move forward as his body was flush against my back. And the final thing that got me was a couple of days ago one friend was joking that with my outfit I look like someone's perfect hipster girlfriend. He laughed and then said quietly "I think that all the time. That you'd be the perfect girlfriend." I honestly don't know what to think or what to do because I'm not interested in him in the least but i can't turn him down if he hasn't explicitly said anything

There is this new girl at my school. She seems rather shy, but she keeps starring at me in the halls. I asked my friends, and she doesn't look at anybody else, she looks at the ground. When she looks at me she also smiles. However, we never have talked to each other. She'll also look at me in the lunchroom sometimes. She had to come into my class for some testing, and she sat right behind me, when there were open seats in other places. When I looked back to look at the teacher (who was also behind me) or get up to do something, she'll look up and look at me, but not other people in the area when they get up. I'm so confused, I just want to know what this possibly means.

the first is polite, endearing? Or in essence no nuance just cultural.

Well bascially I had a crush on this girl at work. To make a long story short she decided that she prefer we stay friends. She works in the clothing department and I am a cashier.a The clothing section is right next to the registers. although she saids she wants to stay friends. She does things that make me think otherwise. Like for example the other I was working self check out. I was helping this college girl with something and she was staring at me the whole time. Normally she waits for her ride up front which is by the registers. before that she would look and look away over and over again but when I was helping the college teen she stared the whole time. she didn't look away. Also another time I caught her spying on me through he clothes racks when a group of girls were checking out at the self check. What do you think of this behavior

My new girlfriend and I have been together almost a month now. When we re together she acts like she loves me so much she holds my hand and tells me she loves me and kisses me cuddles me etc. We flirt all the time. On the flip side when we re. It together she completely ignores my texts and smalltalks me when she actually answers me with litterly one or two words. Shes amazing in person but boring asf when texting smalltalks me and acts uninterested and it s me initiating the Conversation on texts. She doesn t ever reply immediately either sometimes she takes hours to reply. What the hell is going on ?? Im so confused

Me and my friend are planning to drink tomorrow and I've never drank except for a little sip. I've been told you can't stop telling the truth. I'm not planning to get hammered or anything a little tipsy at most. But what is it like? I'm just nervous I'll say something I'll regret.

So I have planned a Disney trip with the kids next week. My bf knows how important it is for me to take the boys to this trip. He just pretty much going along with it. He tells me all the time "I can't wait for this trip" "I'm looking sooo forward to it" blah blah. But then today I saw one of his texts and he's telling his friend exaxtly "I don't wanna go on this damn trip" I felt so hurt! I think that's so wrong that he's being fake about wanting to go. Should I confront him?

He is 30 years older than me.. But after a 2 year relationship he still is denying his relationship with me. He claims im his daughter and he is been fighting with me about every thing he can find should o just end it

I just broke up with a person I have dated for about a year. I have loved this person for many years, and I was delighted when she said yes after I asked her out for dinner about 13 months ago. We had a mutual amicable split about a week ago. It was the most painful thing I have ever felt because this was my first committed relationship. We have decided to not to see each other for a while until we recover. (Blocked her cell number and social media). I still cannot get over her. Every time, I always see her in my brain and I still have photos of us. It is really painful and has a taken a tremendous emotional toll on me. I doubt we will ever remain friends. It did not seem painful at first, until I realized she was gone for real.

U know that feeling that we're different from evedybody else like we live for ourselves what r the factors ?...

First of all, we were in a long distance, we lasted about 10 months. Of course we met, the reason she broke up with me was basically she gave up on me, she got tired and bored of just texting everyday. I loved her a lot and she loved me a lot too. I was so clingy to her. She seems shes ignoring my messages now. She doesn't wanna talk to me anymore. I know the best thing is to move on but I have feeling she would look for me again :( what should I do ? :(

Me a bed person and do you think I should be honest and just tell her what i did

I get very afraid that the next time I get in a relationship the man is going to think I'm open since I can see my hole. BTW , out of the whole year I had sex once which was two months ago ... so essentially my question is when will it get closed, like the first time I was a virgin?

A few guys do it because they get nervous about being seen by them and I wonder what goes through the girl's head.

There is a bully i work with who wont leave me alone. He will come in on his days off and make fun of me while im working and will follow me around while I work. He often will come in with his friends, and he will ask me a question and they will all laugh when i answer, they also laugh when i say nothing. He is constantly saying that he is going to bring a gun to work one day and kill me. And whenever we work together he says i better not piss him off because he has a gun out in his car. I Hate going to work because i am scared that he will be there. But i am more scared that he will actually kill me if I tell my boss or call the police. I have been working here for 6 years and dont want to quit because of this, but i cant deal with this anymore. What should i do?

This is for my friend SO DON'T JUDGE

i've known him since 3-4 months and now we are dating for two. He wants me to send a letter to him to see my hand writing or something like that but my friends tell me I shouldn't since I don't really know who he is and how he can use fake checks, scams etc. He is a really sweet guy and I know he won't do that but i'm not sure what to do? He is from Spain and i'm from America.

Long story short, two years ago, I met this kid in class and we clicked instantly as friends. We developed feelings for each other and after our confessions, two weeks later, it all went to ****. We weren't technically dating but we had something. He was my only guy friend I have ever been this close to. At first, I was broken for a good year or so and yeah, some feelings linger as I do consider him as my first love but I just want to reconcile (our friendship). If anything, I miss him being my guy best friend more than a love interest, however, I don't know how I'll react if sending a message will just stir up negativity. We said horrible things to each other before we parted and it kinda scarred me but I did say one thing to him about a year ago and he reacted calmly. He is a good person though. Slightly religious, level headed, funny... I actually havent thought of him again until this year. I've been having on and off dreams of us reconciling and hanging out and when I wake up, I get sick to my stomach because I'm stressed about how horribly we turned out. Anyway, my point is...should I just tough it out and send a mature message? I don't expect him to reply and tbh it'd be better if he didn't but should I just send one? I don't think my mind or heart will be at ease if I don't find out if we can be friends again or not. On the other hand, it's been two years guys...nearly three. How can I get over him once and for all? Nothing has seemed to work for me :(

Am Tall, Handsome face, nice hair & muscular. Dress well I also have a nice car & I have good grades without being a nerd. Socially, I'm ok. I'm not either too extroverted or too introverted. Girls at don't seem to notice me. Don't know what's going on. I've even seen them notice guys who are super short/fat and just play video games all day. I'm no demeaning those guys it's just something I noticed.

Guys or gals you can answer to but have ever felt like you missed too many opprtunities to have sex? I mean all my life i was never a "cool" guy. In fact i didnt experience anything sexual wirh a girl until i left highschool and yet i had so many opportunities to do it. Now that look back girls chased after me but i never gave them the time of day. Females i worked with, sat next to in class, and got high with all were into me but i was too scared to make a move. Ill name two instances in which i could of had sex but was chicken ****. At age 17 i invited this chick to my moms and when she came over i got overwhelmed. I decide to give her a tour because i had no idea what else to do and before you know it we made it to my room. She sits on the bed lays back and pats the spot by her for me to sit and i did, but i grew neverous and suggested we watch a movie nothing happened and she made an excuse to leave soon after. Another time i was 18 same predicament except at the time i was heavy into coke alcohol and weed abuse. She said she was lonely and i said "lets be lonely together" and she came over shortly after. We were smoking and before she came i was already drunk (bad idead), and again grew super nervous after a couple hits of weed. Anyway we start watching a movie and she ask if i have chap stick. Like really why was i that dumb to not make a move??? uhhhh 3 years later and havent had any enteraction with women. Should i just stop trying? 21 now and started school recently

i have told her that i think she is cute and that i like her and i am always happily willing to listen to any problem she is having anything i have tried that is mentioned in the answers below will be added here(if i can still edit this after posting)i would upload a picture but she doesn't like taking pictures and would definitely not like one posted on here

So I've recently started university and over the last two months become extremely close with a guy who is a year above me at uni and is good friends with my roommates, both guys. We spend a lot of time together and over the last two weeks we've spent almost everyday together alone as well as additional time together with my roommates. We get along so well, it is as if we are the same person. I feel super attracted to him and would want something to happen between us but I've been hurt by guys that I've seen before and have major trust issues in opening up and sharing the slightest of feelings towards guys. The problem is that he tells me some stuff about his recently ex girlfriend (as of Dec 2017) that cheated on him and he always points out girls that he finds attractive and talks about his tinder matches etc. but he has never hooked up with a girl in front of me but has spoken about dating a girl from the same university but she apparently 'friendzoned him'. I want an opinion from people as to if this guy sees me as one of his mates or maybe he just has a weird way of liking me? I want to know if it is worth it making a move to become something more or to become one of his best girl mates? If we didn't get together I would be very happy as being his good friend because of the fact that we have similar interests and we get along so well. It's just that at the moment I'm still kind of entertaining the fact that I could be with him and haven't completely friend zoned him yet

i was having sex with her and i texted my friend "porky made cûm twice". my gf saw that and got really upset why? she stopped having sex with me too. wtf. it was hilarious

We broke up and when I tried going back(6 months ago) he said he wouldn't forgive me for saying something about his mom when he said something to mine first(idiotic).I didn't chase him. We ran into eachother one day i expected him to ignore but he smiled and said hi.Now he keeps looking at me, making eye contact and i caught him looking at me sneakily through the door crack. He's started coming out about the same time as I do and he said hi hesitantly and smiling. Few Sundays ago I was going down the stairs and he was behind me. He was "on the phone" saying he was leaving church and would call back which wasn't necessary since church was already over. I feel like he did it so I'd know he was behind me. We walked next to eachother he smiled and said how are you. We had a few exchanges and I asked him about his sick brother. The following week he didnt show himself inside church(he's a deacon) as I was leaving he was behind me going down the stairs. I turned around just saw a glimpse of him and turned back around didn't say hi.THis past Sunday he was looking at me again, then he smiled and I smiled back.What does all this mean? Why isn't he making a move? He's also on a dating site.

my friend keeps messing with me calling me a pushover and it really pisses me off. Then this once scenario we were getting mc donalds and this guy got out of his car and told me I blocked him or something and told me to move so I didn't hesitate and I moved then my friends started teasing me again saying your such a pushover I would have done this or I would have done that... It really pisses me off and I am starting to feel really insecure about myself. I want to be tough mentally.

Okay so my bf, his brother and me where all talking and the conversation got to what kind of women he's brother was attracted to. Just for note, I recognize myself as a black female since I'm majority African American. Okay anyways, when he was describing the body type of the woman he prefered, he exaplained a body type which was completely identical to my body type, with details, except for one thing. He said 'white', three times when explaining, he started it off with, 'White.',then continued to talk, then said 'she has to be white' and continued talking again and then he's like last sentence contained, 'I'm attracted to white girls.....'. And this was all separately in short sentences and two of the white phrases were said louder than the other words (not much louder but you could hear the difference). It sounded like either he was trying to convince me something or my bf something or himself, Idk but I'm curious. Thanks.

Acting desperate never works, I have to be rich right and tall?

My golden retriever?

so I messaged three friends of mine (all guys) separately if they wanted to go see a movie on Tuesday, I made sure I mentioned that I was asking so and so also to go to each of them so that they wouldn t think it was a date. And they all agreed to go and so the next day one of them (mick) messaged me and was and here s how it went. Mick: who s all going? Me: me, Daniel (my brother) carter, and Cole. Mick: did you guys buy tickets yet? Me: no we usually buy them when we get there. Mick: okay well I m going to buy the tickets while I m in town (he works up the road from the movie theater) so don t buy them when you get here lol. Me: oh okay thanks. We ll pay you back lol Him: that s okay, you don t need to pay me back. That s so weird for him to do that since I invited him and he s about to start a new job because his old job he didnt make enough money, and it s out of character for him, like we ve seen movies before as a group and he never payed before. Like its the normal thing to do, everyone buys their own ticket when a group goes to see a movie. Did he do it to impress me since I was the only girl? Does he like me?!

My ex is recently single his ex left him for an older man. Even if we don't get back together he is so good in bed and the sex is so worth it. How do i appeal to him with out turning him off or pushing him away or leading him on in the wrong way? What's a good way to show i am available with out seeming desperate?

I love my friend she has been there for me when I didn't have any friends and cares about me but I think I'm jealous.She attracts everyone, it's not just crushe's, I recently lost a couple friends and needed new ones somehow she attracted me and drew me to be her friend. She's nice, fun, and is herself whoever she's around. I hate that I'm jealous of her and part of me wants to be her. But no matter how hard I tried to be friendly or confident, it doesn't add up because I'm insecure and don't know who I am. I don't try to compete with her, I just want to get the same attention she does. Every time I like someone they run the opposite way, everytime she likes someone they always end up liking her back. How?

We've been together alittle over 2 years our daughter is 5 months old. I got pregnant pretty fast after we started dating but he was happy and we both wanted the baby. He has a very opinionated personality. It's always his way or no way because of this my parents and him don't get along at all. He won't even attempt to suck it up around them for me. I had to go to Easter alone with just my daughter because he refused to go. He wanted me to quit my job to raise our kid so I did. Now whenever we fight he brings up how everything is his because he pays for it and I'm lucky to get to sit home and "do nothing". We just got into a fight today because of his attitude and now we're ignoring eachother like usually because he's impossible to talk to. I don't feel like he loves me. I wish we could make this work for our child's sake but I'm feeling emotionally drained from this. What should I do?

My couples therapist and girlfriend agree that obligatory sex is rational in a monogamous relationship.

Well bascially I had a crush on this girl at work. To make a long story short she decided that she prefer we stay friends. She works in the clothing department and I am a cashier.a The clothing section is right next to the registers. although she saids she wants to stay friends. She does things that make me think otherwise. Like for example the other I was working self check out. I was helping this college girl with something and she was staring at me the whole time. Normally she waits for her ride up front which is by the registers. before that she would look and look away over and over again but when I was helping the college teen she stared the whole time. she didn't look away. Also another time I caught her spying on me through he clothes racks when a group of girls were checking out at the self check. What do you think of this behavior ??/

I am in 9th grade and I have just moved to a new school at the beginning of the year and I haven't actually liked someone yet until recently. There's a guy I talk to alittle and we smile at eachother all the time! And sometimes I catch him staring at me. At lunch our tables are right next to eachother and sometimes we smile at eachother. And in the hallway he even looked back and saw I was behind him and slowed down and when I finally got right next to him he started talking right away. He even rated me a nine on scale 1-10 on Snapchat. It's been going on, on and off for a month now and I just don't know what to do now because I'm really starting to like him. The main thing is sometimes we have great days and talk and smile a lot. But others we are busy with work and don't talk AT all. But he hasn't had any girlfriends yet or anything so he doesn't have that much experience with girls. So I dont know if that is the reason why.. The main questions I want to ask are, what should I do next to make us talk everyday or should I do nothing at all and just wait. Also does it sound like he likes me?

on my 14 birthday a very 40 something man came up to me from a store and he touched my butt,two monthsgo by and a boy does it to me again at school,iam terrified everywhere now because iam afraid it happen again,everywhere I go,there is always a boy who says something innapropriate and iam sick of it.I have anxiety and depression,the rude comments and actions people do is not helping,should I tell someone? forget about,i shouldn't tell anyone because it doesn't matter,sorry for burdening anybody who might have seen this,iam an idiot

Say you liked her at first and showed her by texting,calling sending cute pictures, going out etc.. Then one day you just stop texting and calling as much and when you do it is very brief. What are some reasons you lost interest in a woman your were once interested in?

I walked past a girl in the hallway. When I looked behind me she was just staring at me

Gimme your number.

I take him lunch often to work or coffee. I get him little gifts..like a cap..anytime I go anywhere on a trip I get him something. Any favors I do them. I give his brother rides to a from places. He rarely does this for me. Any of this. I have told him I feel he needs to try harder and put more effort...he gets offended and says i dont appreciate him and that I make him feel like he is not enough. Then I once told him to man up when we were in an argument. He got super offended. I also constantly have to beg to see him when we are arguing because I just want a hug..he always says no. so I told him id go get a hug from another male person and get advice from them.. He is super upset at me and is making me pay. The thing is I love him so much. I have really tried so hard..but I dont feel he does enough. I just think he doesnt care. Was I wrong? Should i apologize again? He has done stuff to me too.

So, there's this ghetto boy at my school and he looks at me a lot and I kind of like him but I'm not really sure what to do and if he really does like me. He hasn't made a move but his friends keep telling him whenever they pass by me to make a move so I assume they are talking about me and him and his friends keep looking and talking about me. Recentley, at lunch he made a joke and I laughed I wasn't really sure if that was indicating a move or not but yeah I really don't know what to do.

So I went on two really nice dates with this girl I have a real connection with. She seemed super keen until today where she told me she wasn't ready to date. I offered to take things slow but she just told me its not the right time for her to date. I'm really devastated as she is the sort of girl I was looking for, and I don't want to give up. We agreed to be friends, but there is little opportunity for me to see her outside organized dates. How can I "get he ready to date?"

Ok, ok. I know this sounds totally stupidly weird, but I kinda sorta maybe want to feel a giraffe's tongue on my face, lips, and mouth. I've seen videos of it, and read descriptions, and people describe giraffes tongues as long and super slimy. I also read something where a guy found it quite pleasant. Let's say I would go to the Giraffe Center. What would a giraffe tongue kiss feel like? You think I would enjoy it? P.s. I would be fine with the slimy part.

I'm 14. Only ever wanted guys. Never even been on a date. But yesterday i was hanging with friends playing Truth or Dare and one of my truths was that I havent had my first kiss. They started joking that one of them should kiss me, but I didn't think they were serious until Elsa (fake name) was dared to do it. I got upset and they took it back before she responded. Elsa's been my friend since 6th grade. Shes 14. Always been a little weird but I like her. Later she was the last one to leave my house. She brought up kissing me again, talking about teaching me how and stuff. Kinda got uncomfortable, but she dropped it so I did too. Before she left, she asked me to help find her jacket. i followed her into the closet to look for it, but then she turned off the light. Next thing I knew she had me in her arms and we were making out. Idk how long we were in there, maybe 10 min, and I was just very confused. i wanted it to stop but her tongue kinda overwhelmed me. Then she started getting handsy, rubbing my hips and squeezing my butt. I tried to push her away but she just cupped my hands on her butt. It was scary how intense it got, like she was starting to kiss my neck, but then my parents got home so she let me go. She texted me later and apologized for getting carried away, but then asked me if I enjoyed it. Like idk what her deal is, what do I do now? I've never dated anyone and that was my first hook-up. Is she bi or something? Does this make ME bi? How can I face her now? i mean i think so? Like I was kinda kissing her back but I didn't really know how and I guess I didn't know what else to do. okay the short answer is yeah, I kinda enjoyed it. But like, did i enjoy it just cause kissing is supposed to feel good? Or does that mean I'm bi? Um idk like ive never kissed anyone before and I guess it was nice, like it felt good and tbh I was wet afterword. But idek what happened and we havent really talked (im afraid to face her) i wasn't even thinking about being turned on I was thinking "wtf is happening why are we kissing" and stuff. The more I think about it the more it kinda seems like she wanted to go further, too... i mean i didn't really know what to say. I wanted her to stop but I didn't have the words. Tbh I dunno how far it mighta gone before I found my voice cause we frenched a LOT and to be fair I was participating n all but she was feeling me up n kissing my neck and idk I just felt very dazed i guess. I was just so surprised but the lights were out and I sorta lost myself in it. Like it was still my first kiss and first instance of second base too I guess and it was all pretty overwhelming She spent most of her time there but also like my waist and she rubbed my boobs for a bit as well. idk were both pretty small I think she was more interested in my butt.

Tomorrow my friend and I are going to hang out and we are planning on drinking. Now she has gotten drunk multiple times but I've never drank. I'm not going to drink a lot just a little, but I'm worried that I'll say something stupid, get caught, or get super wasted. How can I drink responsibly? Also don't try to tell me not to do it, I'm just looking for advice.

I asked a guy I like out but I didn't know he was seeing someone. When I asked him out for a drink he said to me, "I don't know as I am actually seeing someone". Does he mean that if he wasn't seeing someone then he would go out with me?