I'm a 13 years old girl. Mom wants me to be well-liked and included at school. The popular girls don't like me. They're the most social people in our grade, but unless you're one of them, you don't exist in their eyes. Basically, my mom wants me to go to parties, to the mall, and have friends come over sometimes. She doesn't really like seeing me walk alone from school everyday. She doesn't say that but I can tell.

My mom and dad have been married for a while. I'm 16. when I was 15 my dad caressed my breast over the shirt twice. He came into my room at night twice in a row and messaged my back and stomach under the shirt and said "does that feel good?" While messaging he also lightly glided his hand over my crotch over the pants (without pressing). He would glance over at my breasts while I talked to him. I told all of this to my mom, she's religious so she thinks the devil possesed him to do this. Important: to those who say "get out of there ASAP", my dad never again touched me, I'm safe, but still, I don't love him anymore and I believe he's a sick, perverted man. My parents never got divorced. I have expressed to my mom I don't want him in the house anymore. Instead, she makes my dad go upstairs every time I'm downstairs, basically my father is avoiding me and I'm avoiding him. This whole thing saddens me, my family is broken apart, and I told my mom that and she thinks time will heal everything. I love my mom, but sometimes her thinking is messed up. Am I right?

my grandpa gets mad at every little thing i do. i constantly work around the house and use my own money for food and clean up his stuff and i do my homework and everything i'm suppose to do, but the little things he screams at me for and tells me i ruin his life and i'm worthless. example: i held a bag for his trash in the car and i was sitting in the backseat so i couldnt reach fat and i said "just drop it" the trash in the bag to make it easier and he screamed and said i treat him like a dog and said to go live somewhere else. literally he does this stuff all the time. it's only to me and no one else. and when i cry and be depressed he yells at me for not talking to him about stuff but when i do i say it's because i don't want to fight wit him but he yells at me and says "DONT BLAME ME FOR EVERYTHING" so i say okay and tell him that i'm not but he puts words in my mouth and lies and tells other family members how terrible i am, which caused my uncle to beat me not long ago. i can't do bud anymore please someone help me.

Aria McKinley or Clara Violet

I received an inheritance and I would like to save it and make it grow for my kids college if I ever have any kids or my retirement if I don't. It is not big enough to pay someone to manage it so I am trying to decide how to best invest it. My husband wants to invest it but he does not know ANYTHING about investing. He can not even balance our check book. I have a friend that is a financial wizard. He has a proven track record of great results from his investments. His honesty and integrity are well known to me. He will manage my inheritance and make it grow and not charge me anything. He is the person I would like to have help me with my investments but there is a problem. He is my ex husband that I am still on friendly terms with. It will be a blow to my current husbands ego if I have my ex husband help me with my investments. I would like to tell my current husband that this is strictly a business relation (as it is) and it has nothing to do with our relationship. I don't think he will buy that. I don't want to hurt my husband's feeling but I think this is too important to not maximize my investment returns. ANY ADVICE WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED.

I told my mother she was lazy. Then her friend said "She's not lazy. If she's lazy, then you're lazy."

My family and I will be going on a trip to my aunt's graduation this weekend and it will be a 10 hour drive and I don't know what to do during the ride. Using my phone is not an option because the battery dies really quickly and I cannot use it while it is charging and everyone else will he doing their own thing so what can I do?

used to think it was temporary, or she'd go back to how fun she was our first year together. Uos and downs, but it brings me down even when I constantly cheer her up daily. I cant live like strangers either. Her appearance is almost revolting now. She gets angry mood swings, or is a tag along. What shpuld I do because we both are home with each other a lot now. We are borh semi-retired She also says and does things that wpuld be known as a buzz kill. She keeps bringing up her failed marriage lately or health issues nagging. When shes home she talks to herself cusses, slams doors, oland if I talk to her she snaps,at me or her voice is so low it depresses me too. She can't afford a doctor and wont see a psychiatrist. She refuses to exercise or eat less. Sge nervous snacks 24/7 and got very fat. Shes done so many nice things for me though so this is hard b/c I do love her. No she can't have kids anymore

My boyfriend (age 41) got in a fight with his parents over something stupid. And his mom is mad and want a to kick him out of one of the houses her and his dad own. He has no where else to go if he gets kicked out.

So occasionally I smoke weed (like once a month). In a hidden spot I have a pipe and about 2 grams. Well yesterday my mom was cleaning my room and she found it. She waited until I got back from my friends. She showed me it and asked if it was mine. I said no. She drove off and got a drug test and came back. I thought I would pass since its been like a month but it came back positive. She freaked out at me and sent me to my room. A few hours later she asked me to come downstairs. She gave me my punishment: No computer except for 1 hour a day for school. No cell phone/xbox/TV for a year, cleaning house every week for a year, drug test once a month for a year, on house lockdown (can only go to church and see family) for whole summer, no seeing friends all summer, and if I dont get a 90 gpa for senior year she will kick me out when I graduate. I'm on my computer doing "homework". Don't you think that this is too far of a punishment?

I went to his brother house with my bf and his brother wife and mom was there too..and when we had starting eating they started talking..so i had lived with my bfs mom house for 8 months and we had moved out because i couldnt stand her complainng and i gave birth so we didnt have any room for him..so we moved out and my mom told me i can move in since it was bigger and safer city then i had lived.. Well my bf brother and including his wife had told me i shouldnt live with my mom and live in a apartment but before they never said that when i lived with his mom..and i got mad because why after moving in with my mom they are saying this? And so my bf sister in law told me if it was because no money..i thought that was a dumb question to ask because before i gave birth i was working and me and my bf had money but after i gave birth i had stopped working does she not know? I mean i feel like she does and his brother and sister in law keeps telling me what to do and cant mind their own business so i got mad and i told my bf im leaving and i had told my bf i am never going back to his family house with my our baby who is 2 months old because everytime i go his family always complains about something..did i go too far or is it not something i should be angry about? after birth i went thru depression and for his family telling me what to do makes me angry...what should i do??

I didn't know my biological father at all as he left when I was a baby, about January February 2018 I contacted him, we have been seeing each other a lot were getting on great it's still early days, it's Father's Day next month should I get him anything or is it too soon? Thanks in advance ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04

When my mom wants to be, she can be a very nasty person. Lately, she has been an absolute drag to be around. I know she has been going through a lot lately with her younger niece dying and the increased pressure from her job but there is no excuse. When she came home from the funeral, she wanted me to clean the kitchen after having watched her kids all day and I told her I would get to it. Usually she leaves me be because I usually do it. She said I had to do it now and I said "Looks who wants be a mother now?" She was like, "Don't play with me today!" I didn't give no ***** so I walked to my room and of course, she followed me and menacingly stood over me. Then she started to hit me and I pushed her off me. She started calling me a lesbian and a fat ***. I wanted her to go away so bad that I threw stuff at my wall and tried to push both my mother and the door. When I finally got her out, she started saying more hateful things to me through the door, like calling me a dike and stuff of that nature. This was on the night before my bday! It really made me sad all day. She didn't even bother to say happy bday. She said that my bday was practically her bday since she gave birth to me and said she didn't want to celebrate.

When I graduate college and have to move out of state to pursue my career I don't want to leave my mom in the house alone. The issue is that she's not willing to give up and sell her home because she had it for 19 years. She's getting old and I have to take care of her. Should I just stay in this state and look for any job I can find after I graduate?

We broke up and when I tried going back(6 months ago) he said he wouldn't forgive me for saying something about his mom when he said something to mine first(idiotic).I didn't chase him. We ran into eachother one day i expected him to ignore but he smiled and said hi.Now he keeps looking at me, making eye contact and i caught him looking at me sneakily through the door crack. He's started coming out about the same time as I do and he said hi hesitantly and smiling. Few Sundays ago I was going down the stairs and he was behind me. He was "on the phone" saying he was leaving church and would call back which wasn't necessary since church was already over. I feel like he did it so I'd know he was behind me. We walked next to eachother he smiled and said how are you. We had a few exchanges and I asked him about his sick brother. The following week he didnt show himself inside church(he's a deacon) as I was leaving he was behind me going down the stairs. I turned around just saw a glimpse of him and turned back around didn't say hi. We've kept locking eyes every sunday and he smiled but today he didn't do that, almost cold. If he was interested would he act like this? But why not making a move?

My mom was getting married with this *** hole a few weeks ago, but the night before their wedding I decided to go put for a while, met up with a couple of friends and we had a few drinks. I don't remember anything else, only remember waking up next to a naked girl, somewhere in a room. I was also naked but had bruises all over my fore arms, Then everything went black again and when I woke up my friend was there laughing, I tried getting up but everything went black for me again. I woke up in the hospital room with my mom dressed with her wedding dress, her make up all smeared up and her boyfriend was there along with my sister and step siblings. I apparently drank too much and mixed it with some other drug. It wasn't my intention, but they thought it was a suicide attempt. Now she won't even speak to me. I'm 16 and I know It got out of hands. But why is it so hard for her to talk to me? She haven't even said a word to me in two weeks.

I must express a little confusion. We were at the water park, just the other day, due to a family trip. My thirteen year old nephew has been complaining to be because apparently, my seven year old daughter had been shoving him down water slides that he didn't wish to go in, as well as attempting to physically force him down other slides, as well. I don't know exactly how to address the complaints because for one, how can a seven year old even be that much of a struggle for a thirteen year old boy?

I like her, I have nothing against her, but sometimes I miss my father, she goes to work, and almost does not stay at home, we do not talk or anything and on his day off he has to stay with her and if he does not stay, I think she gets angry because sometimes we leave my brother and he and he has to give satisfaction I think it's not cool at this point I like him I wanted to talk to him spend more time with him after all it's my father, Nothing, I feel that there is a great deal of family alienation.

I'm a 10th grade girl and they've talked to me about my future, but don't want me to visit. Unless my school requires it, which they don't, they don't want me to go. Are there possible reasons why?

so basically my mate has offered £500 a week to be building in south London, my parents will freak out. What should I tell them? Should I leave them a note? If so what should it say? I wanna do this

Even when she was arrested our parents bailed her out and kept it a secret.

Recently about a month ago, my grandmother went to the hospital for a heart issue (it is a condition where the heart contracts when it reacts to stress, etc.) She went back home and has been resting for about a month. My dad wants me to visit her but I haven't visited my family because my dad and I are estranged (he is massively controlling). The last time I was at a family gathering was about five years ago and the last time I spoke to my grandmother over the phone was about two years ago for her birthday. When I talked with her, she told me I could call anytime but didn't say anything about visiting her. I tried calling today and one of my cousins answered but I lost my nerve. I feel like my cousin and the rest of my family is going to be mad at me for not being in touch for years. I even feel like my grandmother will be mad at me. This is my biggest fear. What should I do about this situation?

I've been living with my dad since for ever after my mom left. They have joint custody but my dad has a little more(?) I'm currently 17 I'll be 18 in 5ish months. I graduate this June then hopefully I'll be going to college in fall. My thing is my dad married this woman and for the past 10 years her and her children have made my life hell. She's basically a drug addict and all her kids are adults (ages 18-29. They're irresponsible and mean. They borrowed so much money from my dad that we cant afford anything, we never have food, the power and things get shut off constantly and they all live in our house. One has a kid that he doesnt pay attention too because he's too busy buying sneakers and the one is pregnant and dating a felon (who lives in our house and eats all our food) im a very anxious and quiet person. Im struggling with my depression, ED, and anxiety and I feel like i dont matter. My dad threatens me with suicides and says my mom didnt do anything for me when I was younger so I shouldn't live with her, i feel so bad. I don't know what to do.

1. Your parents to live for as long as you live, but you stay single for the rest of your life. 2. You meet the love of your life and spend the rest of your days with them, but your parents die next year.

so what's wrong with spending my money on a high end desktop computer if i'm not going anywhere for holiday ?