I feel like marriage and parenthood are both a lot tougher now these days. I just don't have these kinds of feelings about settling down or becoming a parent like other people do. Is it okay to feel this way?

So my wife and I are relatively young, 20 & 21, and we have a little 3 year old girl. We do pretty good for ourself, both work, bills never late, just good work ethic and habits. Well her sister who is 13 is just the one to get in trouble, her parents at this point don't really want to put up with it any more, and I repeat the words that my mother in law said, "At this point I want her to run away so the cops will arrest her"...so she isn't getting the attention my wife says and just explains that she knows how to feels to not get the attention when you really need it so she has this idea to have her with us while she was on summer break. She says it would save us on day care, things would be locked up..etc. I mean what could be some upsides, or downsides..

my wife laid an egg, should i let her set on it until it hatched, or call the police to open an investigation?

My guy friend is married. We go to the same church (he invited me and I've been going ever since, almost a year now). We used to attend the service together with another friend (his wife stays downstairs in the kids ministry most of the time), then the other friend was unable to go due to health issues and going to visit family about an hour away. My married friend and I would sit together at church, but there would be a spot between us and he wouldn't really talk to me much. I started getting my mom to go to church with me and for a while there, he'd come say hello to us and ask how we're doing and all that. Lately, unless his wife is with him, he won't chat with me. Today, he was sitting literally 2 rows in front of us and it would've been easy to come over to us to say hello. However, when they said to go around and say hi to some people, he said hello to a few others nearby and before he went to sit back down, he waved to me and I waved to him and he smiled and sat down. After service was over, he left without saying goodbye. Is it weird that he doesn't really chat at church anymore if his wife isn't at the service with him? Last time she was there with him was Easter and they sat behind us and he tapped me on the back and said Happy Easter and asked how we were doing and stuff. Is he just afraid of what people will think? It's not like I'm alone, I'd be with my mom so it wouldn't look suspicious. I'm 27, he's 38.

I have to leave at 10 PM to go pick up my husband at work. Since it is warm out and I am not getting out of my car I am just going to drive in my bare feet and not bring my shoes.

I married a man who I met at the psych hospital. I know he really cares about me.... I feel unsatisfied in our sex and financial situation though and I'm not sure if I should just give up on him, us or me. I mean suicide is deffinatly the quickest and easiest rout to feeling better... it is a little harsh though. I don't believe I can have everything I want in this lifetime and nothing feels like it's ever good enough to me. I was thinking about trying a juice fast and meditating everyday before I decide to buy myself a living tree urn. I feel called to start giving stuff away. At least my husband will still have our dog. If I cheat on him he said he would kill me and if I killed myself I wonder if he would kill himself too.

So my sister asked for my permission if she could "hangout" with my fiance' to get to know him better. I of course allowed it and they setup to meet up. She basically was asking him his intentions with me and basically implied that I was a "trophy wife" and if he were to divorce me he would take all my possessions. She also said that this marriage is very opportunistic of him and many things of that nature Now, I am a hard worker and based on both of our incomes I do make about 6 times he does. but im pretty sure he's not like that. My husband came to me very upset and I feel like I should confront her. Should I? Or is my sister just looking out for me? I feel like things like this makes your husband question even getting into any marriage :( you know what i mean he's still my fiance

I'm 29 and my husband is 32. We have young kids and I'm a SAHM. I'm biracial and he's an annoying typical white man. He works long hours and when he comes home he messes up the house leaving doors open and he wants attention. I'm tired all day taking care of the house and kids while he works. I am so bored these days. Just being at home not meeting people except my husband is a shame. Am tired all the time as well. I have really been thinking about a divorce because he annoys me so much but we have young kids and I'm pregnant again. This pregnancy has been really bad, I have been stressed and feeling ill all the time. What do I do?

Its in our DNA.

My husbands parents have always hated me and have begun sharing a screenshot of inappropriate joking between myself a male acquaintance that my husband took off my phone and shared with them. I saw Facebook messages where my mother in law accused me of physically cheating (never happened) and told my husband he better get checked for STD and HIV. She's also spread these lies and others to anyone dumb enough to believe the filth from her mouth. His entire family hates me now because of her lies and the screenshots he's sent her without my permission. They got mad because my husband spent a night in jail for a domestic disturbance and they had to post his bail. They claim its all my fault he went to jail when he pushed me a little. What can I do? His mother also "turned on the waterworks" and tried to guilt him into believing their lies and constant "digging up of old bones"(bringing up the past) by saying "we already lost another child when your infant sister died 20 years ago and we are worried we will lose you", so he was guilted and in a roundabout way blamed about his premature sister dying when he was a child.

Back in 2009 my husband and I moved to a resort town in South Carolina. (Myrtle Beach.) I loved it at the time. I wasn't working from 2009-2013 when we lived there as we had two small children. At the time my husband had a good job. In 2013 we moved to a larger city so I could find work. My husband has always wanted to move back to Myrtle Beach. Last May when his parents passed away I quit my job and we decided to move back to Myrtle Beach and live at his parents house. I'm MISERABLE!! We are struggling so badly. Both of us are working 2 jobs making $8 per hour. We have no time with our children, there are NO good paying jobs here. At this point I feel like we are STUCK here. We can't afford to move or purchase another home. Between the two of us we are only making $37,000 per year working 2 jobs a piece. We have 2 children aged 8 and 11. I'm becoming depressed. I've thought about suicide. I feel like I'm failing my kids. I want to leave Myrtle Beach but my husband doesn't want to leave. He loves the area. Any advice? I'm at my breaking point.

I accompanied her over to her elderly aunts house, I asked to use the bathroom and they pointed me in the direction dowmstairs. There was no lock on the door. So all of a sudden her cousin bust thru the door trying to use the bathroom and eyes my johnson. She would not leave me alone. The family was upstairs handing out when I excused myself to defacate.Her cousin was still downstairs, this time with some inmentionables on. I never finished the job and I accidently slid the tip of my member inside her crevice. I didnt even get no pump in when someone else was trying to come downstairs. Now that person saw her prancing aroud in undies and went n told my wife. What should I do.

then she left first nite she left she took 3 bags and travel box...i didnot know still 2nd nite helping daughter pack for trip i was think wife had pack the nite before. how do i stop her from being able to come back in the house law told me over the phone could not stop her from enter the house!!!!????? have not spoke to wife for two days has been gone for 5 days no calls nothing.