My best friend is mad at me I got a new # and texted her as prank and scared her she told her mom she was getting threats and her mom was going to report to the school so I told my friend it was me and she replied "f**k you" & "I'm done" I didn't think she was serious cause she said those things before and we were friends anyways I apologized to her but all she said back was "Just be glad your number wasn't reported" now I dont know what to do.

Night after I go out when I wake up I feel like I did something wrong. usually I don't do anything terrible but I still feel guilty. sometimes I will act a little out of character and grab a girls butt, *always my friends butt they don't care, its not like sexual harassment* and maybe try to kiss one of them or something and I always feel guilty about this. why and how do I feel better? none of the girls care, they like me and always invite me out

I used to hang out with two girls quite often, but now they are engaged in some common activities and have become closer together. I feel a bit left out since they go out without me and we don't talk often.. maybe they forget to invite me? or something else is going on. I have always been a bit insecure about our friendship. Even when things were going well between us, i felt like i had to work to keep it that way... e.g by not rejecting their offers or by reminding them my precence. Now, they invited me to go somewhere with them after many days of no contact. Should I give it a go or reject their offer?

I made a new friend a few months ago. We have hung out a few times and have talked about things like friendships, guys, and other randomness. I am really struggling with something and want to talk to her about it. It is something that I have not really been able to talk to any of my friends about - mainly because I do not fully trust them. This new friend is different, I feel a real connection with her. Most importantly, I am comfortable with her. With that said, I know she enjoys my friendship but in my head I have made up rules where you can only talk about "deep" things after you've known the person for a certain amount of time. Is it ok to reach out to her about the thing I'm struggling with?

A close friend of mine is very vocal about their opinion and they speak in such a confident way it's hard for me to tell them they're being narrow minded on a subject. I think they are uneducated and only regurgitate information or other people's opinions but I don't know how to tell them that without them thinking I'm a bad person.

Keeps on asking me to meet up with him for catch up ? We were university friends and I have a boyfriend. He keeps on asking me to meet up

Everyone is either too busy with work and school or doesn't want to be friends with me. I'm really lonely and I'm wondering if something is wrong with me

Bueno me he enamorado de mi mejor amigo hetero....el sabe q soy gay pero no sabe q me gusta.....bueno hace 3 meses me enamore sin querer de el....y lo estoy pasando mal . Mi amigo es una persona un poco homofoba( lo hace de broma,creo) y muy mujeriego.....presume a todo el mundo de sus conquistas ( menos conmigo) yo soy el típico empollon que le ayuda y se preocupa de él....bueno hace una semana , el se me quedo mirando a los ojos como 2 o 3 veces como unos 5 segundos, cada vez q me río me mira y se preocupa mucho por mi.....y encima prove en poner mi pierna al lado de la suya y no se ha apartado(a el no le gusta nada q un hombre le toque) y eso me dejo intrigado.....finalmente ayer le dije q he haba de menos a mi exnovio( q me hizo mucho daño y lo sabe) y dejo en voz baja algo , q no lo escuche del todo, y cambio del tema....PORFAVOR AYÚDENME SE QUE ES SOLO UN AMIGO PERO ESTAS COSAS ME CONFUNDE....alomejor soy yo q me ilusiono.....SALUDOS DESDE COLOMBIA

He and I are just friends and we've been trying to hangout for awhile. But I've been so busy with school. And he's busy with work. Recently he asked me to go with him to the Opera.

She get very mad when i have self confidence and she always tries to put me down and remind me that i am ugly

Teenagers hate being unpopular people because people treat them like crap and devalue them. Even as adults, some people still have this attitude? I only think their worrying becomes a problem when they choose popularity over education (because you go to school to learn). I understand exactly where they are coming from and their insecurities about how they are perceived by their peers. I will admit that although I was shunned, I'm not a complete saint because I feel I was acting weird and I made myself a target for bullies and hateful people. I messed up in a lot of things and I do regret acting weird, because I'm pretty sure I would have a nice group of girl friends if I wasn't acting retarded and awkward in hs/college.

Ive been dishing this out for a bit of time.on a phone conversation but my current gf. Wants me to break off with two of my friends who are twins. After i tried to get them to be friends with my gf. which didnt have good results. ive known for a very long time. I keep telling her i cannot do that. its wrong. Those two same friends gave a gift to me for chrismas. my gf wanted me to return it to them . again i told her i cannot do that. she hangs up. She doesn't seem to like it i stick to my principles. she doesn't seem to understand the repercussions of my actions if i was to do what she wanted. How bad it can be. It doesn't seem right that because someone doesn't like your friends you gotta drop them because of that. Then again, who is my gf to decide who i can and cannot be friends with.

A long distance move is like death. When especially a friend moves away, the ones left behind normally never see that friend for the rest of their lives, as if the long distance moving friend had already died. And to the friends that are being left behind, a going away party is essentially a sort of "funeral" for that friend. A relocation of as little as even 75 miles can kill a friendship dead in it's tracks, and as the average long distance move is often more than 500 miles, sometimes even 3,000 miles, no friendship can stand that kind of distance. Even if you do keep in touch via Facebook, it will easily take as long as 35, even 60 years to actually plan a get together to go out for lunch or dinner and a movie with a long distance friend, and the scary thing is, to many, even 90 years of no face-to-face contact is no big deal. And that is why long distance friends immediately lose touch with one another. They know it's not worth waiting 40 and even 70 years for a successful get together. I seem to notice these days that far fewer people have going away parties when they move long distance. And to friends and non-family people, a going away party is usually the only way to say goodbye to a moving away friend, just like saying goodbye to a deceased loved one at a funeral. So why do so few people these days have going away parties?

Really long story of all the awful things said "friend" has done to me but essentially she is narcissistic, reckless, manipulative, malicious, and always negative and wishing the worst on me and other people. I couldn't cut her out a while ago due to the fact that we worked together and had multiple classes together where we sat next to each other. A few times when she's done really awful things to me I've been forced to forgive her even after weeks of not speaking because she either was impossible to avoid or she texted me and made me feel bad and I ended up forgiving her thinking she'd change. She does for awhile but then ends up being awful again. I can't confront her cause she says really hurtful things to me when I try to and I can't handle it. I've wanted to just stop talking to her but we still have a class together. School ends in a couple weeks and I won't have to see her but we've been "best friends" for years and when I don't reply to her she freaks out. We already have schedules made for next semester so I need to figure out how to cut her out of my life without giving her an explanation. Any advice?

A friend and I were close for nearly a year, but due to myself being under a lot of stress and they going through difficult life situations, we started to become distant and angry with each other which caused both of us to get in an argument in my room and being provoked by them, which made me retaliate against them and we separated. Since we are in the same major, attended some classes, and live in the same dorm, they come around my suitemates a lot and within my space. They would try to text me asking questions and try to make conversations or look at snapchat, but I rarely don't respond or keep it going, because I don't fully trust them anymore and our argument caused me to act out of character. Should I cut them off or keep them at a distance?

One of my really close friends invited me to this party and I really want to go. The party will have alcohol which I know my parents won't allow of. But I feel like my life's so boring. It's on a constant repeated cycle and overall I just want to try something new. What do you suggest I do?

She tells everyone she has no friends and says that to my face, lies about her accomplishments to make us feel worse about ourselves, it's a one sided friendship, she says I stole all her friends away and that the reason she has "no friends" is because I took them all away and I am a horrible person. Is this a fair friendship?

I've known this guy for 2 years. We met through my best friend who met him through another mutual friend of ours. Him, my best friend, her daughter and I all went to the zoo 2 years ago, but at the time I had a boyfriend (who was unable to go with us for some reason). My friend ended up moving back to another state to be with his son's mother and we lost touch because she was controlling. They broke up and he moved back in with his mom, in yet ANOTHER state. He added me back on FB and we became friends again. A couple weeks ago, he confessed to have a big crush on me since we met 2 years ago. We started flirting and he kept telling me he WILL make me "his" one day and that I inspire him everyday to be a better man. He even told me he's falling for me. He had a different girlfriend before he confessed his crush on me and they broke up because he claims she was making him miserable and then he found out she cheated. He didn't start flirting with me or anything until after they broke up. Last night, he posted a cute photo of him so I said "looking good babe" (we always call each other pet names). His ex-girlfriend commented and implied something about IF she saw him "more", she'd get used to him not having facial hair. She said "I don't wanna step on anyone's toes" and I noticed he deleted my photo comment after she said that. Today, I saw earlier that he's now in a relationship. I deleted him off FB and blocked messages from him and blocked him on IG. Am I stupid or wrong for feeling hurt? Yes I know we live in two different states and it would be maybe a couple years before we'd get a chance to be together, but he told me he was falling for me and then randomly gets into a relationship with somebody else. He was going to visit this summer and go to church with me and take me on a date, but I guess not now. I'm 27, he's 28.

I've known this girl for a few months and she didn't do much to talk to me. At the most she'd playfully tease me didn't talk to me much just small talk and her friend asked me to chase her around like were little kids as a joke. We are in an elective Well I'm 14 my body has changed a little bit but I got a haircut and my shoulders have broaden and she noticed that I'm six feet tall. Since I got the haircut she started getting red and avoiding eye contact while talking to me. She started trying to talk to me on a regular basis, complimenting me a lot, getting in my personal space. She wants pictures with me and talks to her friends and family about me. I've seen her stare at me in my peripheral vision a few times. ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04

(Sorry, Im asking again with updated info cause I talked with Friend 1) So, I have a freind group of 11 people, including me. And I know this isnt the biggest problem, but Friend 1 is holding a pre-prom getting ready and taking picture party. But she didnt invite Friend 10 and 11. They are part of the friend group however and they know about it. Everyone just assumed that we were all going to Friend 1 s house. I feel bad because I dont want to leave my friends out of the fun. And I also dont want friend 10 to go alone, (only friend 11 has a date). I know we are all going to be together at prom, but Idk. I want to stay with friend 10. I am really close with both friend 1 and 10 and I dont want to hurt eithers feelings. Also Ive talked about it with Friend 1 about it and she says her Mom won't let her invite any more. I understand becuase we are a big friend group. I was thinking I could get ready with Freind 10 and 11, and join Friend 1 for Pictures at her house. I know at least one other friend would join me. The problem is the after party, and having so many of us is stressful. But Being invited to the before party and not the afterparty is rude. Idk. What do you think I should do? any suggestions?

All of my friendships come to an end. I've come to the realization that all of my friendships have one common factor; me. Am I the problem? Examples: 1) I was 17 years old & I was friends w/ these girls who were louder &more outspoken than I was. I thought that it was cool that they sometimes spoke before thinking about what they were going to say as I overthink about what I want to say before I say something. As the friendship went on, I grew tired of their obnoxiousness. I'd end up feeling embarrassed by how loud they were and the things they would say would be uneducated. The topic of conversation would always be gossip about the same things. The cons outweighed the pros and the things we had in common were lacking. I kind of just seamlessly faded away from the friendship. 2) I'm currently 19 y/o. In the beginning of this friendship, I thought that the girls who I've befriended were closely similar to me. "Similar to me" meaning we had lots of things in common. They were sort of judgmental but I disregarded it as maybe their standards were high. Now, they are still judgmental but it's overwhelming now. They are really negative. When I bring up a new idea or opportunity, they only bring up the cons. They also don't really invite me to do things now and they blamed it on me when I brought it up by saying that they didn't know if I'm busy or not. I want to leave this friendship but I can't because I signed an apartment lease with them next year.

So, I have a freidn group of 11 people, including me. And I know this isn t the biggest problem, but Friend 1 is holding a pre-prom getting ready and taking picture party. But she didnt invite Friend 10 and 11. They are part of the friend group however and they now about it. Everyoen just assumed that we were all going to Friend 1 s house. I feel bad because I dont want to leave my friends out of the fun. And I also dont want friend 10 to go alone, (only friend 11 has a date). I know we are all goint o be together at prom, but Idk. I want to stay with friend 10. I am really close with both friend 1 and 10 and I dont want to hurt either s feelings. What do you think I should do? any suggestions? Mistakes in my paragraph: 1. Friend 2. Know 3. Going 4. To 5.