So my parents are divorcing after my a police officer caught my mom doing heroin and encouraging my 15yo brother to do it as well (he refused, thank God). My dad went berserk when he found out - he immediately threw my mom out and filed for sole custody w/o visitation, which was granted (and I agree with his decisions). However, my mom's got a lawyer to work out the divorce and to attempt to get my brother back in her custody (I moved about about a year ago, I'm 21). Out of the blue, she is asking me to help her pay for her lawyer. I have a job but am also finishing up college, paying rent & bills for my apartment, and am currently a volunteer firefighter. I do not want to pay for her layer (I don't believe anyone in their right mind would support her fight to get my brother back). I also cannot afford it. She is harassing me constantly - leaving messages, showing up at my apartment, etc. She's not in jail or prison as the judge told her she could either go to prison or go to rehab. The reason I post this here is as follows: 1. I'm curious as to what your take on the matter is 2. I'm interested in why you think my mom would ask me to do something like this, given I've told her outright I don't support her cause 3. What would you do if something similar happened to your family?

They say no just as i get my clothes off my daughter in law saids she has to go pee i told her i asked if anyone had to go to the bathroom before i get showered.it annoys me when she does that she does it all the time.do you have someone do that to you let me know and if it annoys you.

If you divorce for whatever reason and remarry, and you stay with your second wife while your first wife is still living, are you living in adultery from then on? Thus, making you hell bound?

My husband came home at 11:30 AM after taking our son to swim class. I had gone back to sleep when they left at 10:15. When they came home I was still asleep. My husband might not have known I was still asleep but he checked and woke me at 12:35. We have an appointment at 1pm. I got upset that he didn t wake me up at 11:30 when they first arrived. I know that I could have just set an alarm clock, but guess what, I didn t. I overslept on a Sunday morning. This leads me to the dependability we have for each other as spouses. If it was me, I would have woken him up earlier, given him enough time to get ready. The appointment was at 1pm to 3pm. It takes 25 at least to get there. If he checked on me when they first arrived home at 11:30, that would have been enough time to get ready and arrive at the meeting on time, at 1pm. He ended up notifying the head of our group that we won t make be able to make it.

I am an outsider in this situation, just trying to understand how this all works. My husband has a 6-year-old from a previous relationship. They have 50/50 custody, 50/50 placement, as well as court ordered to split all costs evenly. There is a designated, fixed amount that he pays every month for child support. We are at peace with that. My husband is the sole supporter of our family; we have a 2-year-old together and own our home. I work part-time to pay my personal bills and watch my son and step-daughter when we have her. She lives in a house that is owned by her parents, rent-free, with her boyfriend. She had a well-paying job until recently, when she let us know she decided to go down to part-time and make about $12,000/year. Also ok with that, as a SAHM myself I completely understand wanting to stay home more with your child. What I don t understand, however, is now she is taking him back to court to get more child support. Court is expensive and time consuming, and this will be the second time that he gets served meaning we will probably be woken up at 4am by loud knocking on our door to get served papers. (The first time this happened, our son was a newborn, and I was NOT happy!) Not to mention, our family is relying on his income, so we are spending money in court that could be used for our family. How does Wisconsin determine child support? Is it always the husband that pays, no matter what? Simply trying to understand the system.

For Better or Worse ? Plus couldn't you just think of all the benefits and fun of his silly hobby ?

He was recently deployed to Greece for 3 months. While he was there, he had an affair, and I found out about it two weeks after he returned. Now, he wants a divorce, which I guess I can understand. Our marriage hasn't been the best, but this is the most horrible thing that has happened. He pretty much told me that the kids and I have to leave by June and that there's no point in reconciling. But he had a change of heart and we were "going to work through it". After that convo, I found that he was/is still talking to her. He's telling her that he is working on the divorce papers and that I'm pretty much non-existent. And that it will be over by summer. That he loves and misses her and wishes she was here with him (she's in Greece). I found out she could possibly start school here and he's making plans like I'm gone. But tells me it's nothing. Idk what to do at this point. I left my job before the deployment so I could be with the kids and was going back. He deploys in June and I figured I could use that time to work and save more money and leave early next year. Which is something we talked about. At this point, leaving now vs then is better. I was advised to talk to the First Shirt, but I feel like that could get him into trouble and I don't want to do that. If I leave now, I'm leaving behind my car and a lot of things that will be very beneficial and helpful to take care of myself and the kids. What to do? What can the First Shirt help me with? Can he get into trouble?

sorry, i meant to say, 'if her boyfriend' lol

So my husband and I have a virus. Very early in the morning he took Tylenol (I was sleeping) so later that day he kept getting fevers so I gave him tylenol not knowing that he took some that morning. So after he takes the medicine he asks me "do you think I took too many?" Then I said "no you only took 5 today" (Your allowed 6 a day) Then he says he took 9! And he blames me that I'm not taking care of him and it's my fault he took too many pills because he had a fever and didn't know what he was doing. But I was sleeping I had no idea. He keeps telling me I dont di things right and I dont take care of him, but I do! I cook, I clean and serve on him, what else could I do? Was I supposed to hide the tylenol like he was child? Please tell me if It was my fault or hes just being stupid.

My husband and i have been married for about 6 months and together for three years. When our relationship shattered he wasn't really sure if he wanted to be with me because he was still in love with the mother of his kids and they'd been together for 10 years. We met during a brief break up. I got pregnant and he ran back to her. When i was 9 months she left him and he finally came to me! Once she decided she wanted nothing to do with him. He stayed with me and we lived somewhat happy it was very rocky and he told me he wanted to have threesomes, he felt it would make the relationship work since he felt like something was missing. So i agree since i like girls. He started cheating with the girls we were sleeping with so in return i asked him to allow us To have a threesome with another man. He asked his best friend and he agreed, i began sleeping with his best friend behind his back and ran away with him for a few months. My hisbakd took me back and we got married once we discovered we were pregnant with baby number two It seems happier now but he now asked to have a girlfriend. We met a girl online that i knew through mutual friends and she wanted us to move in, so we took our two kids and moved inwith her. She also has two young kids. I have a 2 year old, she has a two year old, we have a 4 month old and she has a 5 year old. Things seem a bit rocky right now and I'm not sure if we can make this last. I need advice on how to keep her happy so she doesn't put us out

It all started about 10 months ago. She started to get weired out anytime she came across hdmi cables or chargers anything electronic. She would put them somewhere and id end up buying new ones. Then outnof the blue she freaks iut thinking ive set up hidden cameras and any tech she found ANY she would just go off on me. This passed and she started thinking i was up to something she just knew it. I was either cheating or won the lottery and kept it to myself but i was up to no good? Two weeks ago she told me she knows im on herion and sharted checking me for track marks? Help!! Im not on drugs never cheated or hid cameras i dont understand why or what i did? What should i do??

my wife wants me to c.um in her coffee every morning...