So I'm a freaking goody goody. As much as I try to act all big and bad, I am. And since it's 420 my friend got edibles from her sister. We planned on getting together tomorrow and eating them, but I'm scared. I know it's not a big deal to most, but Ive never done anything like this before, and I'm only 15. I really want to but if my parents found out I'd be dead, and if my coaches found out I'd be kicked off my softball team. I'm just conflicted, and scared because I don't know what to expect, but I'm tired of being so innocent and just wanna live a little. I don't know what I'm really looking for here, just advice I guess? Thanks lol

I recently made a very big choice to join colorguard. It was a big choice because I am new to my school and have anxiety so it's hard for me to socialize and whatnot. There is a colorguard sleepover tonight, there will be like 30 people there. I have not made any friends in Colorguard yet and I don't know if I should go. I really really really want to my my mind is telling me no. It's telling me that I couldn't handle a friendship and with 10 people so how could I handle this. I really make myself angry because I know I will regret it. I just don't want to end up in a corner alone trying not to breakdown. What would you do if you were in this situation? Instead of "I couldn't handle a friendship and with 10 people" friendship should be changed to "party"

I ruined an older girl's prom in 7th grade, disloyal to all my friends in 9th, and made the situations worse when they go through hard times. One person threatened that she will call people that can take me to foster care if I don't stop until my parents make me stop. I'm getting threats that they'll kill me and beat me up by random people. It's NOT illegal to be disloyal,all people ever say is that I won't have good friends. Fine with me. Just like it's not illegal to steal other girl's boyfriends and cheat on them. Will my parents be forced to give me away if they actually receive multiple calls from kids? Cause an entire group of girls are feeling angry

Okay so me and my best friend have been close for 7 years. This was my 16th birthday and she didn't even do anything for me. No I didn't want her to buy me something but she could've at least wrote me something special or made something sentimental. After all, it's the thought that counts. I asked her why and she said she was "too lazy. Birthdays aren't my priority anymore and I don't care about them since I've gotten older" (she's 15 not 25 wtf is she talking about) then she said "not to he harsh but your birthday wasn't a main priority of mine. Spending time with people you care about is more important." Im so annoyed. Just because she doesn't care about birthdays doesn't mean I don't ? Am i over reacting or not?

He looks at your eyes at first while talking then He shift his eye away from you and he start to walk around the room and talk instead of standing in front of me and talk and I have to follow where he walk?you can tell he is avoiding looking at your eyes while talking?

I was dating this girl from work for 2 months, we were both really interested in eachother. She did warn me in the beginning that she was dealing with personal problems in her life and wanted us to take our relationship slow. So everything was going great but 1 week ago she ended everything between us. She told me she was stressed out and doesn't want to keep my hopes up since she needs space from everyone and needs to focus on her life. On Wednesday I gave her roses to her house, and later she messaged me and told that she's lucky to have me in her life but she felt a little upset because she thought I was not respecting her decision. She thanked me for everything I did for her and she even apologized. I understand she has other things to worry about but I'm in love with her, and In willing to give her space but I don't want to let her GO......can I get advice please?????

Please read if you're going to answer. I was friends with him for 3 years going on to 4 now. We used to always hang out at school, talk online, I've went to his house a couple times. His family are all cool with me. So a few months ago he made another friend and I noticed he doesn't ever come up to me. I brought this up to him and he says he does but even when the other guy isn't there he still won't come up to me like he used to. He stopped texting me as much and I thought maybe we just needed space so I stayed back. And still another rmonth of being ignored he only says hi here and there but that's it. I'd walk up to him when he's talking to his other friend and he would just ignore me or say I'm annoying. Now recently I asked him what's did I do and he told me I'm being emotional and sensitive and I should just go hang out with my other friends and stop bothering him. So I feel like I'm thrown under the bus when I've did nothing but be a good friend. We used to buy each other stuff, I'd help him nd he did the same so I never see how this new guy could just make him do that. Then his new friend says that I'm jealous and my friend agreed with that and I just feel like I'm jjust trying to be a good friend and talk about it and figure things out but he says like I should just go away out of no where. What should I do

My friend's just keep on telling me that my friend who's 23, used me for sex and money. (Which I don't think he did because we weren't together.) One day After my 18th birthday, I had texted him "could I get my birthday D". And he was like, "o.k get somebody to drop you off because I'm not driving. So, I convinced my mom to drop me off instead! Then, 2 days later, after we had sex, he started asking me for money. ( knowing well I have a child!) But Being nice, I took my last for my child's diapers to give to him. plus, I was getting paid the next day anyway. Now we're not talking and he still owes me. Am I stupid for believing he didn't use me?

My friend currerntly is taking things she doesn't need, and I feel its very wrong. Perfect example is that she stop at a little micro pantry and she took to large boxes of tampons. She doesn't need them, but she took them. She also took a large thing of laundry soap. (She doesn't currently need it) Her excuse is she is moving in 2 months, and will only have 1200 for the month to live off of. She said out of that she has to pay for rent, her phone, bills, gas, food, personal things, and she also has to go the laubdry Matt, and pay for anything her child may need. Do you think its wrong she is stocking up on things for the future ? She claims later it will help her, and she doesn't take just anything just because only things she can use

When I walk in, from out home, a shadow I think, is chasin, taut me, am I right? Do I have a jealous person aside, for me? How many percents? That I go and confront the person and revenge it, cause I am too good but I don,t know that i,d if a looker on!

Ive been getting really irritated lately because my friends mom talks to her on the phone ALL THE TIME and is constantly helping my friend with her homework and editing all of her essays which i think is ridiculous for a college student. Do you think its my place to say something?

I was talking to a man on a dating site but we were talking as friends. In my profile I state that I am looking for friends and see where it goes..so we were talking with just friendship in mind. ..and we had some nice ideas of friend activities that we were going to do together. Anyway, I was out of town for a few weeks and owed him a message..so when I got back I finally got back to him and he responded back to let me know that he met someone that he likes alot and that he is deleting his acct (which he did) because he wants to concentrate on her..he said he is not sure where things will wind up with her and him but he would like very much to be my friend if the situation allows for it and he left his phone number. Somehow I feel rejected now. I am not sure if he was just giving me a line and just wants to get rid of me. ..so my question is...did he reject me? or does he really want to be my friend? Thanks in advance for any thoughts on it...and I will choose a best answer

I've noticed it since my old elementary school days. The most popular children seem to get the most bad attention. The first time, the parent of a well-known boy on the basketball team complained to our school that young girls were saying sexual things to him. It resulted in him being teased at school. In about 10th grade, there was an issue with people trying to attend prom too young and early. The school policy doesn't allow 15-16 year olds to go yet. The MOST harassed senior girls were also mostly the social, popular ones that most underclassmen looked up to so much. Sure enough, they suffered the most unwanted attention during prom season, including by underclassmen boys trying to get them.

I tend to be very touchy with people, but not very. I like tickling others and poking them in the neck, but thats just about it. Hugging makes me uncomfortable when I'm being hugged and people touching my arms/legs are also uncomfortable. Anyway, I don't mind it when friends of mine rest their head on my shoulder or lap because they're genuinely tired while on a bus ride home from a field trip. So I was on this field trip and a friend next to me said he was tired and put his head on my lap, to which I didn't really mind because I saw nothing really that uncomfortable. At least until he turned his head to the other side where my crotch was. I thought he was asleep for a moment until he took his hand and started stroking my arm, reaaalllly close to my breast. And at the end he started grabbing my thigh. I would've slapped him or something if so many friends weren't nearby, but generally I'm not the type to resist or cause ruckus. After we got off the bus he hugged me really tight and said, " Im going to miss you," since we're graduating and I no longer will go to school after that day. I feel like throwing up, but the worst part is I can't even register if that was sexual harassment or not.

I am the owner of the house and I took in a roommate who was a good high school friend of mine. As far as our friendship it's ok. Out of his character he is much more distant and I am. Anyway things are for the most part ok. Basically he's helping me out by doing maintenance and I help him out by giving him very cheap rent. He met this girl on the job. I mostly here how wonderful the sex is which is cool. but what seems to be bothering me is she is here every night it's almost like she can't live without him and he's mostly in it for the sex. But he also can't live without her. She is a nice girl and she doesn't bother me. But when my friends 10 year old son is hear she's here (I mean) they only know each other for about a month or two. it strictly fast with no boundaries. why would this bother me so much? She stays in his room she's not out taking up my space or anything but at the same time I can't stand it can someone help me with this.

A close friend gifted me something worth close to $700. They knew I'd been wanting a version of the item for years. So that they were willing spend so much on me to make me happy is about the sweetest thing ever. However, I do feel very bad that the version gifted was not quite the one that I'd been lusting after. Id used a different size of the item before as it suits my workstyle a lot better, however it does cost double price! Since Im not enjoying the gifted version and know that the larger one would be a better fit and make me happier, am I wrong to sell such an expensive and thoughtful gift and use the proceeds to go towards the one I really want? If I enjoyed using the one given Id happily keep it, but as it stands I cannot comfortably use it, so I feel its otherwise a waste to NOT sell it, as it will be largely gathering dust. I just cant seem to get rid of the feeling of guilt about it. Am I being ungrateful? What would you do and why?

Personally, I am.

Sje is always rude to me and gets my older brothers to call me autistic and side with her spoiled *** on everything and i am sick of it! After the fight I will ignore her. And then she will say "Alpine I'm so so so soooo sorry I will NEVER do it again!!!" FIVE MINUTES LATER SHE WILL SAY SOME STUPID **** LIKE "Alpine I hate you!!" Or ''Alpine you're the worst person ever!'' and I hate her so much, she makes me miserable

So recently my friend and I got in a fight, and now he doesn't want to be friends with me anymore. All because I couldn't come to his house because of a storm. What do I do?

Hi to all, I have been now 10 years with out a any friends. I do have some friends abroad at my home country but since where I moved 10 years a go I have not able to make any friends. Only an acquaintance here and there. I miss all those things in social life, going out, discussing, hanging out but also having somebody close that I confide with or help in case of need and vice-versa. I don't want to make it 20 years. I am shy, lacking in confidence, protective- cautious (this is because people tend to take advantage of me sometimes) , somewhat naive, and introverted. Any suggestions will be appreciated. Thank you.

There's a girl who I really like a lot, we were both attracted to eachother. But she doesn't want to get into a relationship anymore because she needs to focus on her life. She's been dealing with some personal issues at the moment. She even got distant with a lot of people, but I really like this girl but is it weird to ask her if we could be friends with benefits?????

So this is kinda dumb, but I'm kind of sad about the fact that my best friend won't ask me to prom. I know it's not important, but just the fact that he knows I love promposals, and I'd really like one, but won't do it...yet when we were going to homecoming, he asked another one of our friends with a super cute card. Yesterday, he found out that something was bothering me. He asked what it was and I just told him to figure it out, because if I tell him it basically defeats the purpose right? So he texted me like: -Him: "So we're going to prom together or what?" Me: "What?" -Him: "That was your promposal I'm no idiot. Also, not extra there :)" Me: "What??" -Him: "You're annoyed I didn't ask you to prom right?" Me: "lol I'll just let you figure it out" I know I might just be being bitter or annoying, but him and I have been best friends for about 8 years, and I mean it's obvious that we're going together anyway, but the lack of effort he's putting in is what's making me sad....especially since I've made it so obvious. And like I said, he actually made a cute card for our other friend and didn't complain that it was "extra". He obviously knows that's what I want, because that was the first thing he asked when he found out I was upset. Anyway, if anyone has any tips on how to deal with that or what I should do, please let me know. I'd really appreciate it. Sorry for the rant, and thank you for your time!!

I'm 14, and never even been on a date. Yesterday I was hanging with my best friend Hannah, and her boyfriend Tom. (Fake names.) He's older than us, he's 16. He and I have always gotten along great, even I've noticed him checking me out before. I just ignored it. Hannah got picked up from my house rather than Tom giving her a ride cause her parents don't know she's dating him. Tom and I were alone for a bit and he started talking hypothetically, like what if he had asked me out instead of Hannah. He was getting really sweet n tender but I didn't want to think anything of it. I changed the subject. When he was about to head out, he asked me to help find his jacket. I followed him into my closet to look for it, but then he turned off the light. Next thing I knew he had me in his arms and we were making out. I felt confused and guilty. I wanted it to stop but I'd never kissed anymore before and basically followed his lead. Once we were frenching he got touchy, rubbing my hips and squeezing my butt. I couldn't help starting to moan. It was scary how intense it got, like he was starting to kiss my neck, but then my Mom got home and he pulled away. I told her he was my tutor and I think she bought it (I dont usually lie to her) What the hell do I do? I never meant to cheat with Hannah's bf but that's what happened right? I've never hooked up with anyone before either so idk what this means? Does he want to be with me instead? How can I face Hannah now?